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post 1578220931 04-16-2019, 06:43 PM
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You should be less of an absolutely pathetic ******* and you should also dump her for being a toxic kunt.

These are not unrelated actions.
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post 1578220941 04-16-2019, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA
. I tried being alpha and said "text me if u wanna meet tomorrow, take care" so will see what happens now lul.
Lmaoooooooooo @ thinking that beta bitch chit is Alpha.
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post 1578220961 04-16-2019, 06:44 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA
Srsly why is everyone saying to dump her? Is there no other way I can get her to respect me more ? Other than her outbursts on text shes very sweet in person and we hardly argue over things.
Most women... actually most people, are replaceable. You're 22 and this girl isn't your future wife nor is she the love of your life. Why put up with this at all? Part of the reason why she's having these outbursts is that she knows you won't leave her even if she's being a bitch to you.

In the end, just do what you want, which is what you will do anyways. There are women out there who stay with men who flat-out beat them. There are men out there who take back women who sucked off some guy on a drunken night out. So you're far from being the biggest sad sack in world. The smart thing to do would be to leave now. However, the reality is that even if you do leave her now, you'll instantly regret it because of your feels, and will likely crawl back to her. Probably better to let things go their course.
post 1578221221 04-16-2019, 06:48 PM
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post 1578221311 04-16-2019, 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains
Most women... actually most people, are replaceable. You're 22 and this girl isn't your future wife nor is she the love of your life. Why put up with this at all? Part of the reason why she's having these outbursts is that she knows you won't leave her even if she's being a bitch to you.

In the end, just do what you want, which is what you will do anyways. There are women out there who stay with men who flat-out beat them. There are men out there who take back women who sucked off some guy on a drunken night out. So you're far from being the biggest sad sack in world. The smart thing to do would be to leave now. However, the reality is that even if you do leave her now, you'll instantly regret it because of your feels, and will likely crawl back to her. Probably better to let things go their course.
facts..OP should just use her as a fwb until he gets experience and learns how to escalate with women
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post 1578221861 04-16-2019, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Lmaoooooooooo @ thinking that beta bitch chit is Alpha.
OP dun goofed. Typical. Taking all the wrong advice and continuing to TEXT
post 1578222001 04-16-2019, 07:02 PM
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I also guarantee OP responded to her outbursts at him with "im sorry, I'll do better" Im sorry, Im sorry, Im sorry. She knows you're weak but might not realize she knows it. Her biology is telling her to rip you apart before she cheats and leaves. Let the hurt of it sink in so you can learn for next time
post 1578222061 04-16-2019, 07:03 PM
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How long have you guys been "together"? If it's not LTR then 100% she's sucking you deeper into the hole by causing this emotional guilt that you have no reason to have. Once she gets you there you'll let her get away with all sorts of **** and it'll end up depleting your energy till you're one of those sad fat dudes in a recliner taking care of the kids while she's out doing coke with Chad and Tyrone at "work".

In all srs women are toxic, find one that didn't grow up with instagram they can be emotional and mental wrecks.
post 1578222141 04-16-2019, 07:04 PM
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Misc brethren, can we please accelerate the gas lighting and eventual Stockholm syndrome for OP?
Pls, it's my birthday and OP didn't get me a card so I could use a laugh
post 1578222211 04-16-2019, 07:06 PM
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These anxiety-ridden bipolar bitches are becoming so common. Definitely society-driven factors. Being with a bipolar woman is inherently abuse.
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post 1578222441 04-16-2019, 07:09 PM
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Its her birthday today, maybe she wants you to be with her on her birthday not just tomorrow?
post 1578222481 04-16-2019, 07:10 PM
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Originally Posted By cncman
These anxiety-ridden bipolar bitches are becoming so common. Definitely society-driven factors. Being with a bipolar woman is inherently abuse.
A lot of that is just drug abuse. Always lolsy when somebody who abuses the living **** out of chill pills/alcohol/everything else is surprised that they feel a bit uneven and seek additional help from psychiatrists. lolol
post 1578222591 04-16-2019, 07:12 PM
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Originally Posted By MosesPower
I also guarantee OP responded to her outbursts at him with "im sorry, I'll do better" Im sorry, Im sorry, Im sorry. She knows you're weak but might not realize she knows it. Her biology is telling her to rip you apart before she cheats and leaves. Let the hurt of it sink in so you can learn for next time
nah i didnt say sorry because I hardly made a mistake I'm not apologising for chit. I told her she's misinterpreting my words. Why can't she just be normal and not be such a bch? Every brah is saying all hope is lost.. is there no way to save this
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post 1578222711 04-16-2019, 07:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Saviorself
How long have you guys been "together"? If it's not LTR then 100% she's sucking you deeper into the hole by causing this emotional guilt that you have no reason to have. Once she gets you there you'll let her get away with all sorts of **** and it'll end up depleting your energy till you're one of those sad fat dudes in a recliner taking care of the kids while she's out doing coke with Chad and Tyrone at "work".

In all srs women are toxic, find one that didn't grow up with instagram they can be emotional and mental wrecks.
About 8 months, she was real nice in the start we didnt argue at all, idk why she is getting so bchy lately.
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post 1578222741 04-16-2019, 07:15 PM
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Originally Posted By cncman
These anxiety-ridden bipolar bitches are becoming so common. Definitely society-driven factors. Being with a bipolar woman is inherently abuse.
Divorces, raised by nannies/daycare, single mothers.
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post 1578222771 04-16-2019, 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA
About 8 months, she was real nice in the start we didnt argue at all, idk why she is getting so bchy lately.
Sounds like it's about that time for new cawk
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post 1578222821 04-16-2019, 07:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
Divorces, raised by nannies/daycare, single mothers.
Yup she comes from a broken home. Really I'm trying my best to make it work she doesnt appreciate my efforts and just continues to whine and moan about chit
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post 1578223231 04-16-2019, 07:26 PM
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Girls be like that.
Just find the ones who aren't.
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post 1578223441 04-16-2019, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA
Yup she comes from a broken home. Really I'm trying my best to make it work she doesnt appreciate my efforts and just continues to whine and moan about chit
Ye, probably never felt loved as a child. That will result in deep insecurities and low esteem, and a consistent need for you to validate her.

Any wrong word or step may be interpreted as you not caring enough or not prioritizing her, and result in outbursts and dramatic behavior. i.e you’ll be walking on eggshells.
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post 1578223591 04-16-2019, 07:35 PM
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If she’s getting all bitchy she probably is seeing just how much of her chit you’ll take. I’d just get too busy for her. She probably knows you have feels now because you got her the card now you see her true self and the bull**** that entails bc she knows she has control of you. Does she even make you happy regularly or are you just .. there with her
post 1578223641 04-16-2019, 07:36 PM
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Tbh brahs she mentioned to me multiple times that she wants me to kiss her and hug her more in public ect. That's one of the issues she wants solved , how do not be beta and not be anxious to kiss her for 5-10 mins in public and hug for long too
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post 1578223751 04-16-2019, 07:38 PM
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Originally Posted By farmergainsbrah
If she’s getting all bitchy she probably is seeing just how much of her chit you’ll take. I’d just get too busy for her. She probably knows you have feels now because you got her the card now you see her true self and the bull**** that entails bc she knows she has control of you. Does she even make you happy regularly or are you just .. there with her
I really like her shes actually a really sweet girl and not a sloot, soft spoken, doesn't to on her phone when with me, doesnt post on social media, listens to my stories with intent, she just wants more physical hugging and chit I think
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post 1578224511 04-16-2019, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA
Srsly why is everyone saying to dump her? Is there no other way I can get her to respect me more ? Other than her outbursts on text shes very sweet in person and we hardly argue over things.
Because I was in a similar relationship and I can promise you the rollercoaster never stops. Once I ended it and I got over my ex in two months I’m a million times more happy srs.

Just leave now for your mental sake. And her family making it out to be like you’re the villain is toxic too.
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lol

you're acting too beta. You need to become more disagreeable with hoes, it turns them on. The hotter they are, the higher the level you'll have to turn it.

But you need to do it at the right times, ie, when she's being a dumbass
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post 1578225501 04-16-2019, 08:14 PM
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sounds like you need to get a bf to balance out the crazy
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women are insane dont try to think about it logically.
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Originally Posted By DanSDA
I love her tho so I put up with her chit, usually I'm very dominant but with her I try to be nice.
1. You’re being a beta bitch.
2. She isn’t just a “sweet girl” - people aren’t that simple. A “sweet girl” doesn’t lash out at you for an hour and make you feel like chit for doing nothing wrong.

She’s manipulating you.
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Originally Posted By DanSDA
I really like her shes actually a really sweet girl andnot a sloot, soft spoken, doesn't to on her phone when with me, doesnt post on social media, listens to my stories with intent, she just wants more physical hugging and chit I think
I like how miscers always list these as a defense, as if the only requirements for a good relationship are that she isn't some instawhore and isn't getting railed by some other man every time you have your back to her. Those should be a given.
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains
I like how miscers always list these as a defense, as if the only requirements for a good relationship are that she isn't some instawhore and isn't getting railed by some other man every time you have your back to her. Those should be a given.
Just let OP learn the hard way. This girl is gonna run over him and leave a tormented mess behind.
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