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post 1602734981 04-17-2020, 03:13 AM
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Originally Posted By maori-rap
'Get a hooker' seems to be a common response when speaking to 25+ virgins, as if it is THE answer to A problem.

It really isn't that simple. I have never even felt tempted to pay for the services of a sex worker/hooker/escort girls or whatever job title you may use. That is the not the kind of sex I want to experience, as it is literally just "f**king" with no emotion, mutual respect, attraction or feelings exchanged. You are paying a woman to spread her legs as part of a meat on meat business transaction. You are experiencing sex in a pathetic and shameful way. The escort girl wouldn't even care if you got hit by a bus the moment you walked out of the third rate 'by the hour' motel as at least she had enough money for her next fix.

Paying a stranger for sex is often the result of what could be classed as negative emotions; lust, desperation, loneliness, frustration amongst possible others. It is not so much 'satisfying' those negative emotions as offering a temporary respite.

It is NOT a path I want to take. Being a virgin isn't so painful that abandoning what honour I do have feels necessary.
just do it, honestly. Every sentient species in the world ****s one way or the other.

no it won't fix the fact you will never be loved etc. but it will stop making you think of sex as something unattainable or a heavenly "reward" from a woman.

Think of all the men in the world who have sex with his wife because society told him to marry someone and have kids, and they're only in it because it's an escape from the reality that without societal expectations or economic pressure they'd never in a thousand years share a bed. And even in loving relationships, the sex itself can be horrible because the man and/or the women are not experienced or just suck at it.

Sex with a decent prostitute is mid-tier as far as the ****ing hierarchy is concerned, she's in the business of pleasing you and having you return for repeated business.
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post 1602735131 04-17-2020, 03:20 AM
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Originally Posted By SteinerSteve
That is some terrible advice srs .. I mean for your mental state of mind if you have to pay to get laid you’re even more degenerate. It’s not about getting laid it’s about not paying for it srs

Also fuking after 20 suks anyways. Girls went sloots and glow is gone in 90 percent of the time. Having a beautiful girl during Highschool is the GOAT. Wonder how many guys missed out that srs
That's what people always say, but my friend and I went to a brothel in Europe and fukked some sloots for 90 euros each, and it didn't do anything to our mental state. It was a fun time, we laughed about it on our walk back to the hotel and it's still a fun memory that we joke about to each other. Sex isn't that big of a deal, and whether or not you "had to pay for it" doesn't matter to anyone but you. I don't know why some people are so concerned with whether or not it "counts" (i.e. you paid for it so it doesn't count, she was fat so it doesn't count etc...). What does that even mean? If you enjoyed yourself then who gives a fuk? Some of these guys are 30+ year old kissless virgins so it's never gonna happen any other way.
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Originally Posted By A-GAME
I been fukkin since I was 14 srs. Life is simple. If you're not getting enough pussy, or the quality of pussy you would like, then you don't earn enough, are too ugly, too fat, or have shyt social skills. Work on these four areas until you achieve the level of pussy you would like, end of story. Don't complicate it, just use your success/failure as your gauge and follow my plan, and NEVER make excuses, end of story.
Cope. If you are born ugly or short and introverted/autistic theres nothing you can do. You just cant compete.
post 1602735281 04-17-2020, 03:29 AM
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Originally Posted By mandarin163
Theres more virgins on the misc now than ever lmao, we're called incels now though

27 y.o hugless virgin and its cause im ugly and autistic
dat you WelshAutist?
post 1602735361 04-17-2020, 03:32 AM
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Originally Posted By x420SwagScopex
That's what people always say, but my friend and I went to a brothel in Europe and fukked some sloots for 90 euros each, and it didn't do anything to our mental state. It was a fun time, we laughed about it on our walk back to the hotel and it's still a fun memory that we joke about to each other. Sex isn't that big of a deal, and whether or not you "had to pay for it" doesn't matter to anyone but you. I don't know why some people are so concerned with whether or not it "counts" (i.e. you paid for it so it doesn't count, she was fat so it doesn't count etc...). What does that even mean? If you enjoyed yourself then who gives a fuk? Some of these guys are 30+ year old kissless virgins so it's never gonna happen any other way.
Because being a virgin is not the actual problem.
Being unable to get girls is.

I would recommend those miscers to take some good pics, downloading some dating apps going on dates. Even if they fail to get laid, they go out on dates and get better at socializing with girls.
post 1602735371 04-17-2020, 03:33 AM
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Originally Posted By damlurker550
Considering the number of scoops of celltek hardcore proseries I take per week, yeah.. lmao.






Why do you say that? I live in Melbourne though it doesn't really matter I don't go outside much apart from work, gym and groceries lol

I lived in the United States for 12 years as well.





Depends on how far back you go. But circumstances change from period to period.

I have an uncle (my dad's youngest brother) who is in his late 50's and a virgin.

The myth of the "good old days" is just that, a myth.

Also consider the fact that both Isaac Newton and Nikola Tesla were virgins, plus the fact that characters like Sherlock Holmes exist.
I lived in Melbourne for one year. I would've helped you lose your virginity if I still lived in Melbourne (srs). I helped a ton of my buddies pick up girls when I was back in melb.
post 1602735381 04-17-2020, 03:34 AM
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Originally Posted By VTheKing
just do it, honestly. Every sentient species in the world ****s one way or the other.

no it won't fix the fact you will never be loved etc. but it will stop making you think of sex as something unattainable or a heavenly "reward" from a woman.

Think of all the men in the world who have sex with his wife because society told him to marry someone and have kids, and they're only in it because it's an escape from the reality that without societal expectations or economic pressure they'd never in a thousand years share a bed. And even in loving relationships, the sex itself can be horrible because the man and/or the women are not experienced or just suck at it.

Sex with a decent prostitute is mid-tier as far as the ****ing hierarchy is concerned, she's in the business of pleasing you and having you return for repeated business.
I've seen ugly fukers with girlfriends. You just have to speak with women and NOT be a depressed kunt all the time.
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Ironically if I wasn't a virgin I would be more inclined to go to prostitutes just for fun.

I don't have any moral misgivings about it whatsoever although I do think I won't be able to do anything since I'd be too nervous to get an erection lol.


Being comfortable around a girl to be intimate with them without first getting to know them is also a trait I think most 20-30yr+ virgins lack.

Plus most of us fap so much I don't even think our dinks would recognise a real female anymore.
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post 1602735781 04-17-2020, 03:54 AM
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Originally Posted By I3igAl
Because being a virgin is not the actual problem.
Being unable to get girls is.

I would recommend those miscers to take some good pics, downloading some dating apps going on dates. Even if they fail to get laid, they go out on dates and get better at socializing with girls.
I would recommend these too. Get in shape, practice social skills, get out of your comfort zone etc... I didn't say fukking a prostitute is the solution to any problem, I just get irritated at people who seem to think paying for sex is going to fukk you up mentally somehow, or people who act like sex is some weird competition with an imaginary scoreboard.
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post 1602735861 04-17-2020, 03:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Fang2
I've seen ugly fukers with girlfriends. You just have to speak with women and NOT be a depressed kunt all the time.
Women dont even know how to talk now days. They are autistic just like the incel males. I swear 40-50% of men are incels. It's just too hard to date these days unless you are a social good looking male.
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post 1602735901 04-17-2020, 04:01 AM
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Also, I'd bet good money that the people who get on their moral high horse about prostitution have jerked off thousands of times to videos of people having emotionless, transactional sex. That's like someone who buys meat from a grocery store criticizing hunters for killing animals.
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post 1602735971 04-17-2020, 04:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Stephen109
Before I went for the first time all my m8's were saying 'make sure you have a wank beforehand so you last more than 5 seconds'
lol.. i always laugh when I hear this.

Maybe that would be true if you are in 18 and never fapped to porn. But by the time you're 35 there's no way I could get hard with around a real girl. Way too desensitised.

Also add to that being nervous and having to be naked around another person.


I think the only way I would be comfortable would be if I've known the girl for awhile.

Some escorts here in Australia do offer actual escorting services.. as in they will accompany you and go on fake dates etc. It's cheaper than their normal price but still expensive.
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Originally Posted By maori-rap
'Get a hooker' seems to be a common response when speaking to 25+ virgins, as if it is THE answer to A problem.

It really isn't that simple. I have never even felt tempted to pay for the services of a sex worker/hooker/escort girls or whatever job title you may use. That is the not the kind of sex I want to experience, as it is literally just "f**king" with no emotion, mutual respect, attraction or feelings exchanged. You are paying a woman to spread her legs as part of a meat on meat business transaction. You are experiencing sex in a pathetic and shameful way. The escort girl wouldn't even care if you got hit by a bus the moment you walked out of the third rate 'by the hour' motel as at least she had enough money for her next fix.

Paying a stranger for sex is often the result of what could be classed as negative emotions; lust, desperation, loneliness, frustration amongst possible others. It is not so much 'satisfying' those negative emotions as offering a temporary respite.

It is NOT a path I want to take. Being a virgin isn't so painful that abandoning what honour I do have feels necessary.
This is a negatively biased assessment, as opposed to a fair assessment.

Whenever you talk on the subject, you’re very good at cherry picking the less-than-ideal aspects of seeing a hooker, and fail to mention any of the positives.

Like i’ve said to you before, if you frame seeing a hooker in a similar light to sexual surrogacy (which is a therapy that exists PRECISELY to help people in your predicament), then you can see a whole host of positive outcomes.

The problem I have with your perspective is that you childishly cling to an ideal solution, which in all fairness you probably would have achieved by now were you capable of it. The mature approach would be to take step-by-step actions that in the long run may help you towards developing improved relations with women.

You seem to think that seeing a hooker as the ultimate failure and a fate worse than death (which once again signifies your immaturity), when the reality is it could prove a very useful stepping stone toward helping you get what you want out of life.
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Originally Posted By Xgamer791
I remember back in the day there were tons of FA virgins hanging around the misc, are there still any virgins here? If so, why haven’t you gotten any yet?
I haven't had sex with a woman ever.
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mid 30s virgin here.

i've accepted that it's over for me. No hymen no diamond crew anyway
go no contact NOW
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Originally Posted By damlurker550
Misc virgin since 2006. srs.

I remember when I was like 23rs old posting about being a virgin.

Now I'm 35..

And still a virgin lol
Lol you must be trolling
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Originally Posted By ****inator
Lol you must be trolling
look at join date brah.

and I was lurking the misc earlier for a while too
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yes

don't worry though

no one dies a virgin since life ****s us all in the end
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Originally Posted By damlurker550
Wanting something and being able to obtain it are two different matters.

I want to be able to set foot on Mars, but I know that that is impossible for me.


Having a relationship with a girl or having sex with a someone not a prostitute is the same deal.

I know I have nothing to offer women. I'm not funny or interesting, and I'm not White. I have hobbies and interests that women find boring. My skin color is dark brown and I speak with a South Asian accent.

edit:
Also a bit russled u put Tesla above Newton. Tesla was a genius but Newton literally created the basis of all modern technology as far as I'm concerned.
If i didn’t know you were a virgin, based on your ‘edit’, I would of assumed (rightly as it turns out) that you were a virgin.

Mind blown.
Talking about not being able to get a woman and then saying you’re rustled over online ‘scientist semantics’...

If you do that sort of stuff in real life man (which you obviously do), you are destined to die a virgin (which you obviously will).
I actually feel sorry for you man. I hope that what ever you do in life brings you a modicum of happiness.
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Originally Posted By aleeboy
Do you have a job, or any assets like a home?

I know a guy who got his first GF in his mid 30's. He married her immediately and had a baby... yup, a daughter.

This could be you.
Work a bottom tier job and have nil assets.

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It's not. It's because you isolate yourself and dont communicate with anyone. If you had ONE normal friend, you would be introduced to women.

Stop crying and try to make social connections. It's not hard unless you are retarded. The fact you want to better yourself immediately puts you above the train obsessed autistic kids.

Even they ****. so quit being a little bitch dude. make some friends.
Had friends before but they just never talked about or brought women around me as if it wasn't even an option for me.

Not crying about it, its just what it is at this stage.
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Originally Posted By damlurker550
lol my parents have been bugging me about it for years.

I actually asked my mom about a few months ago (just before this covid thing happened) how it'd work.

Turns out even arranged marraiges aren't the same anymore.

She said she'd find a suitable girl, talk to her parents etc. and then send me her ******** profile. Then I'd have to talk to her online and take her out etc. See if we like each other.

I was like fuk that.

I don't know how to talk to girl and highly doubt a girl would be interested in an arragned marriage after going out with me. lol
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Originally Posted By damlurker550
lol my parents have been bugging me about it for years.

I actually asked my mom about a few months ago (just before this covid thing happened) how it'd work.

Turns out even arranged marraiges aren't the same anymore.

She said she'd find a suitable girl, talk to her parents etc. and then send me her ******** profile. Then I'd have to talk to her online and take her out etc. See if we like each other.

I was like fuk that.

I don't know how to talk to girl and highly doubt a girl would be interested in an arragned marriage after going out with me. lol
Savage even arranged marriage maxxing doesn't work anymore although I'm sure if you really want the gril your parents can pressure the other family, isn't that how it goes? So even if you're an ugly autist, you still have more chance than contemporary dating in the west.
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Originally Posted By coolbones
I literally can't wrap my head around how much you must suck at life to not even be able to bag an average drunk sloot at a club or party. Getting laid is borderline inevitable if you have at least average looks, a normal libidoand no autism.
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Originally Posted By ****inator
Savage even arranged marriage maxxing doesn't work anymore although I'm sure if you really want the gril your parents can pressure the other family, isn't that how it goes? So even if you're an ugly autist, you still have more chance than contemporary dating in the west.
Its over everywhere in the world unless you are a social Chad with heaps of popular friends. I think the world has gotten to a point that nature just wants the best looking social guys to get women and its going that way.
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Originally Posted By damlurker550
Ironically if I wasn't a virgin I would be more inclined to go to prostitutes just for fun.

I don't have any moral misgivings about it whatsoever although I do think I won't be able to do anything since I'd be too nervous to get an erection lol.


Being comfortable around a girl to be intimate with them without first getting to know them is also a trait I think most 20-30yr+ virgins lack.

Plus most of us fap so much I don't even think our dinks would recognise a real female anymore.
The problem is you putting pussy on a pedestal. She's your whore for however long you paid for, her opinion/comfort or w/e is irrelevant. When you drill that into your head then the nerves will go. Don't cheap out, go for a quality agency whore so you get a good experience. It's their job to make you comfortable and to make sure you have a good time.

This is why I recommend asian agency sloots srs. They usually get them fresh from Asia so they're mostly untainted by western feminism and bishy attitude. Very service oriented and submissive type not to mention slim and tight joocy vagoos hhnnggg. I recommend Korean srs. As for erection, just go on nofap/noporn for like a week or 2 and you should be fine. Or you could just pop a dick pill.
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23. There are tons of reasons why I haven't gotten around to it. The biggest one is definitely not trying though.

some other ones:
-late bloomer
-focus on me. whether it was school or work



I know for sure I could if I wanted to. I had multiple girls interested, no lie, but the timing was off or they just b too crazy and I want to do it with someone I trust and having a mutual understanding with.
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Originally Posted By maori-rap
'Get a hooker' seems to be a common response when speaking to 25+ virgins, as if it is THE answer to A problem.

It really isn't that simple. I have never even felt tempted to pay for the services of a sex worker/hooker/escort girls or whatever job title you may use. That is the not the kind of sex I want to experience, as it is literally just "f**king" with no emotion, mutual respect, attraction or feelings exchanged. You are paying a woman to spread her legs as part of a meat on meat business transaction. You are experiencing sex in a pathetic and shameful way. The escort girl wouldn't even care if you got hit by a bus the moment you walked out of the third rate 'by the hour' motel as at least she had enough money for her next fix.

Paying a stranger for sex is often the result of what could be classed as negative emotions; lust, desperation, loneliness, frustration amongst possible others. It is not so much 'satisfying' those negative emotions as offering a temporary respite.

It is NOT a path I want to take. Being a virgin isn't so painful that abandoning what honour I do have feels necessary.
That is some ghey ass chit. Just do it man. All sex is just meat moving around or whatever. I was a virgin until 28 and am married now with a kid. I used to post here lamenting about a virgin too (join date 2011) and posting sob stories and chit. Once you are getting it regularly, sex isn't that great.
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