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post 1612439871 08-03-2020, 08:25 AM
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She looks average. Stop talking like she's some type of model.
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post 1612439951 08-03-2020, 08:27 AM
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Originally Posted By savageoldman
shes pretty hot mate

shes def getting hit up by a new chad every week

these girls are hard to lock down mate don't off ya self because of some broad lol thats pussy ****
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post 1612441151 08-03-2020, 08:43 AM
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post 1612441171 08-03-2020, 08:43 AM
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post 1612442001 08-03-2020, 08:54 AM
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Have you smashed her?

Is she a known sloot?
post 1612442141 08-03-2020, 08:57 AM
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i thought you were a chad op? move on and find another girl
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post 1612443251 08-03-2020, 09:12 AM
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once you gain the ability to smash and talk to a girl without getting attached, your life will improve tenfold (fully srs)

call it psychopathic, sociopathic, whatever - it's literally almost necessary for a man in 2020 to be able to not get attached to women, at least for a very long time. if you get attached initially, the feel it and will bail srs

im still not quite there yet but im getting better. and the thing which helped me most is knowing for sure she is talking to, meeting up with, and probably fukking other dudes behind your back. i've met many a cheating sloot in my day, as have so many other guys on this forum. and those are girls IN A RELATIONSHIP. so l m f a o at any guy who thinks that a girl he is just casually seeing isn't taking dick other than yours. of course she is - she has no obligations not to.

once you realise that, her value plummets in your eyes (as it should, because as a man you don't want your girl fukking other dudes, whether shes 'your' girl or not) and as such you begin to see her just as a source of a good time and nothing more

this helps you and it also makes her more into you as she feels you aren't outcome independent. it's really hard to do this as women naturally try and bait you into commitment. she might start arguments about how you 're not texting much, who are you with blah blah but she can't say anything as you aren't official - her arguments have no basis.

the key is to basically keep them teetering on the edge of thinking whether you're into her or not. don't do this by being a dick, as all the redpill *******s will have you believe.
do it by just not investing much most of the time, and then sporadically, do something really nice or thoughtful.

another thing to note is the more you text a girl, the more you're 'investing'. it doesnt sound like a lot, but when you text a girl day in day out all day, you're mind is constantly thinking about her. stop texting her so much. stop wanting to share every little detail with her. it's hard at first, i've been there but force yourself. when you stop investing so much, you become less invested. text your friends instead, or just stop feeling the need to share parts of your day with some girl (or even your friends) and just live for yourself. This is a massive problem for guys and it becomes a downward spiral because the more they invest by texting, the more they actually become invested.

text her less and you'll actually care about her less, and the bonus is she'll care about you more. weird isn't it
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post 1612445981 08-03-2020, 09:46 AM
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Well im pretty much jaded as fuk so i dont feel that feel op, sure you'll get there eventually lol. I dont really feel anything anymore, ive been ghosted and randomly left by so many at this point.
post 1612446311 08-03-2020, 09:48 AM
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Give me her number op I'll help u out
post 1612446831 08-03-2020, 09:54 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
Don't care what you think about how she looks.

She was beautiful in my eyes and now she's probably sucking another man's dink while I fap myself to sleep using my tears as lube.
I can hear her now...... "Did he really give up that fkn easily?"
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post 1612447261 08-03-2020, 09:58 AM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10
once you gain the ability to smash and talk to a girl without getting attached, your life will improve tenfold (fully srs)

call it psychopathic, sociopathic, whatever - it's literally almost necessary for a man in 2020 to be able to not get attached to women, at least for a very long time. if you get attached initially, the feel it and will bail srs

im still not quite there yet but im getting better. and the thing which helped me most is knowing for sure she is talking to, meeting up with, and probably fukking other dudes behind your back. i've met many a cheating sloot in my day, as have so many other guys on this forum. and those are girls IN A RELATIONSHIP. so l m f a o at any guy who thinks that a girl he is just casually seeing isn't taking dick other than yours. of course she is - she has no obligations not to.

once you realise that, her value plummets in your eyes (as it should, because as a man you don't want your girl fukking other dudes, whether shes 'your' girl or not) and as such you begin to see her just as a source of a good time and nothing more

this helps you and it also makes her more into you as she feels you aren't outcome independent. it's really hard to do this as women naturally try and bait you into commitment. she might start arguments about how you 're not texting much, who are you with blah blah but she can't say anything as you aren't official - her arguments have no basis.

the key is to basically keep them teetering on the edge of thinking whether you're into her or not. don't do this by being a dick, as all the redpill *******s will have you believe.
do it by just not investing much most of the time, and then sporadically, do something really nice or thoughtful.

another thing to note is the more you text a girl, the more you're 'investing'. it doesnt sound like a lot, but when you text a girl day in day out all day, you're mind is constantly thinking about her. stop texting her so much. stop wanting to share every little detail with her. it's hard at first, i've been there but force yourself. when you stop investing so much, you become less invested. text your friends instead, or just stop feeling the need to share parts of your day with some girl (or even your friends) and just live for yourself. This is a massive problem for guys and it becomes a downward spiral because the more they invest by texting, the more they actually become invested.

text her less and you'll actually care about her less, and the bonus is she'll care about you more. weird isn't it
all bs. u're just trying to make us hate women.
post 1612447381 08-03-2020, 09:59 AM
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Lol we have all been there.

Chances are high you wont even remember her face later.
post 1612447611 08-03-2020, 10:02 AM
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Originally Posted By Fang2
That broad is ugly as fuk. It's ok
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post 1612448681 08-03-2020, 10:14 AM
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That's what happens when you ignore red flags.

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post 1612448791 08-03-2020, 10:15 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
After I invested so much emotionnally into this girl.

Everytime I see a girl I go in with the full conviction that she might be the one,I let her the benefit of the doubt even if she begins to show red flags.Only to be let down and rejected.

I'm tired brahs, I'm tired of running after meaningless sex and hookups : I need to love, feel loved and establish a connection.

Time to join the incel crew and LDAR, that's one time too many : Thought about offing myself last night and these dark clouds just won't leave me alone.

No I Don't want to move on to the next one for fuark sake.

Picture of said girl :

Time to go back to escorts and booze until the next one rejects me.
Sounds like deep down you already knew this wouldn't work out. You just haven't accepted it yet.

Also why do you need to feel loved? Think about what ressource you have that will make you feel better and accepted. Maybe you could hang out with your parents or grandparents for a weekend and do something cool with them. Maybe go hiking with some old buddies. If you build some cool memories next weekend that girl problem will be a distant haze in my experience.
Enjoy the following days and treat yourself in whatever way you want. (Just not with booze or drugs if you are still mentally unstable.)
post 1612449441 08-03-2020, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted By 3basic5me
all bs. u're just trying to make us hate women.
no, no im not. i dont hate women, i'm just aware of their tendencies and how to avoid getting burnt

you can stay ignorant if you want
Originally Posted By Kev1972
Spot on my dude. Excellent advice here my friend.

I've been single single November and probably hooked up with 15 women in that time. Almost all of them fell for me immediately and wanted a relationship. I ended up ghosting all but 2.

There's been 2 I've been head over heels for. Gorgeous, good careers, wifey types. They both ditched me after a week because I was beta and trying too hard.

All the girls I blew off? Still contact me for hookups.

The two girls I was beta with? One still contacts me for hookups and the other still keeps in touch and probably will hook up with me again. Because I flipped the script on them went NC and took the ball back into my court. Now I have less respect for them and see them as regular sloots, not some princess on a pedestal.
thanks man.

the truth is, im not against getting in a relationship - but if you commit yourself too fast to a girl, i.e. at the first moment they suggest it, they lose interest. it's better to stand your ground and either flat out say you're not interested in anything serious (right now) or say it feels too soon at the moment, or something along those lines. you have to really mean it though.

by doing what you did your value skyrocketed in their eyes so no wonder they're hitting you up to hookup still, even though they didn't get what they wanted from you
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post 1612449501 08-03-2020, 10:24 AM
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Sheโ€™s just not that into you
post 1612449611 08-03-2020, 10:24 AM
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lmao @ OP getting ethered in the thread
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post 1612449781 08-03-2020, 10:26 AM
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Still emotionally investing in girls. You are soft af. Woman respect guys who aren't soft, simps, put them in their place when needed and don't fall into their mind games. How do we as men fall into those traps? When we invest feelings, we become blind and fall into a scarcity mindset. Don't invest feelings into women or too much and you shall prosper. If you put yourself above everyone you'll never fall into that pathetic mindset. Grow up OP and get some self respect. You're crying over a female you barely even dated. Let that sink in on how much you need to change yourself mentally.
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post 1612450201 08-03-2020, 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
Yeah that's my number one issue : I always end up thinking that the one girl I'm seeing at the moment is the right one, my soulmate so I jump from one failure to another but this thought is still deeply rooted to my core.

I was projecting myself with her, I can't help it and this is why it hurts so much because once she says she's not interested she shatters everything.
Bruh when I first started trying to "date" and "get girls" I had the same mentality as you. I could overlook fukking anything because I wanted it so bad. I'm sure they could all tell and probably thought it was off putting.

The best luck I ever had was when I was put myself into "I am going to college DO NOT get anything serious" mode and suddenly girls seemed to be vibing with the amount of attention I was giving them and wanted more. Perhaps that would be helpful to you OP. Make up some sort of scenario in your head that you are moving somewhere for work or something in 3-6 months and talk to girls as if you don't have the intent to make anything super serious.
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post 1612450601 08-03-2020, 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted By RobParks2M
Bruh when I first started trying to "date" and "get girls" I had the same mentality as you. I could overlook fukking anything because I wanted it so bad. I'm sure they could all tell and probably thought it was off putting.

The best luck I ever had was when I was put myself into "I am going to college DO NOT get anything serious" mode and suddenly girls seemed to be vibing with the amount of attention I was giving them and wanted more. Perhaps that would be helpful to you OP. Make up some sort of scenario in your head that you are moving somewhere for work or something in 3-6 months and talk to girls as if you don't have the intent to make anything super serious.
Lol
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Why don't you try to gf a black girl? Most non black girls don't want no black bf.
post 1612453791 08-03-2020, 11:07 AM
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The best advice I can give you is that men hate women who are physically slutty, women hate men who are emotionally slutty.


You're a fuking emotional whore dude. Stop NOW.Think of yourself being the equivalent as a woman fuking everything that moves. That's gross. You are doing the same chit but mentally.

Stop falling in love with the idea of these women. They know you aren't falling for who they are because you don't even know them well enough.
post 1612454231 08-03-2020, 11:12 AM
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man tf up
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Originally Posted By drvillain
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Iโ€˜ve never experienced one from my wife. Of course it depends on what you call a s**t test. E.g. asking for a decision is not a s**t test, its just the female need for a masculine lead.
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