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Holy Chit, The Dating Market is BRUTAL for Men Nowadays
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08-25-2020, 08:00 PM
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Women have always chose the most attractive, wealthy, in shape men they could obtain.
What happens when their options become unlimited? You have an overweight, jaded, and slutty group of females. I've seen too many females who are souless. We have all met these females that only have male friends because they can't deal with their own gender. They have no hobbies no real interests. All they think about is finding the right guy, in reality they are getting pumped and dumped like cum rags.
What happens when their options become unlimited? You have an overweight, jaded, and slutty group of females. I've seen too many females who are souless. We have all met these females that only have male friends because they can't deal with their own gender. They have no hobbies no real interests. All they think about is finding the right guy, in reality they are getting pumped and dumped like cum rags.
08-25-2020, 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted By TimeTravelerBro⏩
this.Women have always chose the most attractive, wealthy, in shape men they could obtain.
What happens when their options become unlimited? You have an overweight, jaded, and slutty group of females. I've seen too many females who are souless. We have all met these females that only have male friends because they can't deal with their own gender. They have no hobbies no real interests. All they think about is finding the right guy, in reality they are getting pumped and dumped like cum rags.
What happens when their options become unlimited? You have an overweight, jaded, and slutty group of females. I've seen too many females who are souless. We have all met these females that only have male friends because they can't deal with their own gender. They have no hobbies no real interests. All they think about is finding the right guy, in reality they are getting pumped and dumped like cum rags.
people on here are delusional. Women have a tonne of options and men dming them on instagram
they end up gettinf ****ed over because they are forever single refusing to settle and always chasing chad then blaming men for the reason they are single
its actually sad.
08-25-2020, 08:49 PM
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Originally Posted By newbuck⏩
anyone feel like this is simply not true?Honestly I wonder if some of you neckbeards ever leave your houses or go places then with threads like these I realize many don't get out much.
You can go to malls, parks, movies, boardwalk etc etc. and see average,short,bald, or fat men with good looking or decent women. Sure online dating isn't the best but there are plenty of fat and or ugly men just doing fine IRL.
You can go to malls, parks, movies, boardwalk etc etc. and see average,short,bald, or fat men with good looking or decent women. Sure online dating isn't the best but there are plenty of fat and or ugly men just doing fine IRL.
the only times i see an average or below average guy with a hot gf is its clear he has money/beta provider
or its a looksmatched couple e.g. two 5/10s
but most decent girls have tall tattoo bfs where i live.
08-25-2020, 08:53 PM
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women need to get it through their heads that just because chad talks to you and fuks you.. doesnt mean he would be with you.
thats whats fukn up the dating market right now.
what if non chads want casual sex? we cant get it cuz of that now.
these women end up unhappy, yet still ignore guys actually in their league and going for the same guys above them and non chads are unhappy and alone too.
we could solve the problem right there
thats whats fukn up the dating market right now.
what if non chads want casual sex? we cant get it cuz of that now.
these women end up unhappy, yet still ignore guys actually in their league and going for the same guys above them and non chads are unhappy and alone too.
we could solve the problem right there
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
Amen to this. Women have far exceeded what a man can do. The men who were dogs worked hard to chase and maintain multiple women. Despite what miscers say most "chads" are 7-8/10 guys who have game they had to develop. Which is why they were respected. Women don't have to do anything to hit the same numbers as a guy. It's mindblowing that they think its a competition when all they have to do is open their legs.it's not that the sloots are hard to get. they aren't and never will be. just don't waste your time on the one's seeking attention only. most however simply are not worth more than a pump and dump
sloots created the hook up culture with feminism. sloots have emulated the extreme end of what men used to be. when men were called dogs. little did these sloots realize not all men back in the day were like this. many men were decent (still like today), and many men didn't sleep around or use women. now however, because women have dropped their standards and becomes wh0res, more men echo it. they aren't worth dating 99% of the time
why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free
sloots created the hook up culture with feminism. sloots have emulated the extreme end of what men used to be. when men were called dogs. little did these sloots realize not all men back in the day were like this. many men were decent (still like today), and many men didn't sleep around or use women. now however, because women have dropped their standards and becomes wh0res, more men echo it. they aren't worth dating 99% of the time
why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free
So they convince themselves that they've beat us at our own game when really they're devaluing themselves. They've female logic'd themselves into being pumped and dumped for their whole life. Effectively making them unwife-able.
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08-25-2020, 09:24 PM
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the problem is that 7's/10 guys think they should have 8+... fyck @ your own level and get real
i take every 7+ or 6.5 with 9+ personality--and its easypeezy
i take every 7+ or 6.5 with 9+ personality--and its easypeezy
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08-25-2020, 09:36 PM
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blame all the chads for getting with the 5-7's with no intention of dating. leaves girls thinking they deserve the 8+ chad
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I can smash hot chicks, but keeping them is a whole different story when you aren't a rich/status-cel in LA, and those are the guys taking them out. I've been getting used for sex lately and it feels bad (srs)
I think I need to just accept it or move.
note: I'm talking 7.5+/10
I think I need to just accept it or move.
note: I'm talking 7.5+/10
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Almost close to giving up entirely, just seems to stressful and not even worth it. Let alone the fact that everyone wears masks and how do you smile or talk to a girl when neither can see their faces? Thinking about just going escorts/strippers or moving to another country.
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08-26-2020, 10:46 AM
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didn't read thread. but how many of you are talking solely about your experience online?
and how many of y'all's experience solely regards to online?
and how many of y'all's experience solely regards to online?
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
Online dating should be a supplement, not the main course. Misc brahs need to get this through their headsdidn't read thread. but how many of you are talking solely about your experience online?
and how many of y'all's experience solely regards to online?
and how many of y'all's experience solely regards to online?
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Online dating isn't the one if your not rich/tall/looks.
It isn't that hard if you have a social circle who go out to restaurants/bars....
It isn't that hard if you have a social circle who go out to restaurants/bars....
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signed up for tinder yesterday... wtf is this tinder gold chit, i got twenty something likes in less than a day but i can't see any until i pay. fuk that
i think the key is still put yourself in situations where there's a lot of women hanging about. harder to do now cuz of covid, ppl are staying inside and chit. back in college with near unlimited 18-22 year old pucci walking around was the goat, but its hard to find places that can replicate that.
tempted to sign up for classes at my local community college just to meet chicks but honestly don't have the time for that
slayers who are older and don't do online, what're the hotspots?
i think the key is still put yourself in situations where there's a lot of women hanging about. harder to do now cuz of covid, ppl are staying inside and chit. back in college with near unlimited 18-22 year old pucci walking around was the goat, but its hard to find places that can replicate that.
tempted to sign up for classes at my local community college just to meet chicks but honestly don't have the time for that
slayers who are older and don't do online, what're the hotspots?
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Originally Posted By Hicksbrah⏩
Do Not say, "Holy #$@!" or anything like that. It's disrespectful to GOD/CHRIST/HOLY SPIRIT.Wouldn't even bother if you are sub 8.5/10. Straight out BRUTAL. I don't think there ever existed a time in history where it was both this hard to get ANY woman and where also women in general offered as little as they do today. Of course if you are 8+/10 you can bang a bunch of damaged women (which can be fun) but phuck this is BRUTAL.
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Originally Posted By strawbrerry1⏩
when you sign up youre on highlight aka lot more girls and see you. and only 20 likes? michael jordan.gifsigned up for tinder yesterday... wtf is this tinder gold chit, i got twenty something likes in less than a day but i can't see any until i pay. fuk that
i think the key is still put yourself in situations where there's a lot of women hanging about. harder to do now cuz of covid, ppl are staying inside and chit. back in college with near unlimited 18-22 year old pucci walking around was the goat, but its hard to find places that can replicate that.
tempted to sign up for classes at my local community college just to meet chicks but honestly don't have the time for that
slayers who are older and don't do online, what're the hotspots?
i think the key is still put yourself in situations where there's a lot of women hanging about. harder to do now cuz of covid, ppl are staying inside and chit. back in college with near unlimited 18-22 year old pucci walking around was the goat, but its hard to find places that can replicate that.
tempted to sign up for classes at my local community college just to meet chicks but honestly don't have the time for that
slayers who are older and don't do online, what're the hotspots?
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Never used Tinder (and similar apps) myself but from what I’ve heard from friends is that it‘s much better here in Europe. If you want a LTR, serious dating websites that charge you are much better though. You can easily date in your category or even date up as a man there.
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Unemployed 3/10 autist living in her parents house demands a "rich, muscular, tall, 8-pack" chad. lmao
That was during filming too, imagine now with the social media followers she has after being on TV, requirement is probably a 12 pack now.
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Originally Posted By ShakeBrah⏩
brah I hate to break it to you but dating someone a month nowadays is meaningless. Esp if they still have dating apps active.I got pretty lucky and found a decent, successful woman on Hinge. Been dating for a bit over a month.
Been there done that. Everything is going swimmingly until 3-4 months in and suddenly bish gets cold with you. You can be the greatest guy but How the hell are you going to prevent someone from texting someone else theyre interesting in...you can't.
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It's not hard, fellas. Some tips:
Get a decent haircut
Wear decent, neat clothes
Be (at least semi-) confident
Be charming
Ask open-ended questions (Do: So, what do you like about where you work/go to school? Don't: Where do you work/go to school?)
Maintain eye contact
Learn to read body language a little
If you meet her for the first time IRL, invite her and her friends to hang out with you and your boys. Shows you are interested in her and getting to know her and her friend and to let her into your life as well. (Hey, me and the guys are going to O'Halligan's for a drink after work. Do you and your friends want to meet us over there?)
Be funny, but not crude.
STOP WATCHING PORN: it's not real life! Sure, some girls may do some of the stuff in the video. Eventually. Keep in mind, in a great majority of the porn, the girls are getting paid to act that way and do that stuff.
If meeting online, you set up the date. In a public place. (Hey, I'm free this Thursday, let's meet over at [restaurant] and grab a burger or something.) or (Heading to the park for a jog tomorrow. Come join me. Just please let me keep up...)
Look, you don't have to be a mastermind.
Be at least a little clever
Say kind things (non-sexy things) about her, her stuff, her friends. (I like your outfit tonight. That little steering wheel cover you have is kinda cute. Your pal Jenny, she seems cool, like you; no wonder you're friends)
Be at least a little funny (again, not crude)
Set it up so she talks about herself
And listen. (If she brings up something you don't know about, like a band, put it int he back of yur mind and look it up when you get home. And you bring it up the next time you see her. Remember that band you say you liked? I put them on my Spotify and they're pretty cool, thanks for that hookup -or- listened to them and not really my style, but I can see how other people can think it's cool.)
There's tons more, and I have to get back to work.
Hope this helps at least one of ya's.
Remember, meeting and dating girls is simple. Note I did not say it was easy.
Get a decent haircut
Wear decent, neat clothes
Be (at least semi-) confident
Be charming
Ask open-ended questions (Do: So, what do you like about where you work/go to school? Don't: Where do you work/go to school?)
Maintain eye contact
Learn to read body language a little
If you meet her for the first time IRL, invite her and her friends to hang out with you and your boys. Shows you are interested in her and getting to know her and her friend and to let her into your life as well. (Hey, me and the guys are going to O'Halligan's for a drink after work. Do you and your friends want to meet us over there?)
Be funny, but not crude.
STOP WATCHING PORN: it's not real life! Sure, some girls may do some of the stuff in the video. Eventually. Keep in mind, in a great majority of the porn, the girls are getting paid to act that way and do that stuff.
If meeting online, you set up the date. In a public place. (Hey, I'm free this Thursday, let's meet over at [restaurant] and grab a burger or something.) or (Heading to the park for a jog tomorrow. Come join me. Just please let me keep up...)
Look, you don't have to be a mastermind.
Be at least a little clever
Say kind things (non-sexy things) about her, her stuff, her friends. (I like your outfit tonight. That little steering wheel cover you have is kinda cute. Your pal Jenny, she seems cool, like you; no wonder you're friends)
Be at least a little funny (again, not crude)
Set it up so she talks about herself
And listen. (If she brings up something you don't know about, like a band, put it int he back of yur mind and look it up when you get home. And you bring it up the next time you see her. Remember that band you say you liked? I put them on my Spotify and they're pretty cool, thanks for that hookup -or- listened to them and not really my style, but I can see how other people can think it's cool.)
There's tons more, and I have to get back to work.
Hope this helps at least one of ya's.
Remember, meeting and dating girls is simple. Note I did not say it was easy.
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Originally Posted By BG5150⏩
This is what you really needIt's not hard, fellas. Some tips:
Get a decent haircut
Wear decent, neat clothes
Be (at least semi-) confident
Be charming
Ask open-ended questions (Do: So, what do you like about where you work/go to school? Don't: Where do you work/go to school?)
Maintain eye contact
Learn to read body language a little
If you meet her for the first time IRL, invite her and her friends to hang out with you and your boys. Shows you are interested in her and getting to know her and her friend and to let her into your life as well. (Hey, me and the guys are going to O'Halligan's for a drink after work. Do you and your friends want to meet us over there?)
Be funny, but not crude.
STOP WATCHING PORN: it's not real life! Sure, some girls may do some of the stuff in the video. Eventually. Keep in mind, in a great majority of the porn, the girls are getting paid to act that way and do that stuff.
If meeting online, you set up the date. In a public place. (Hey, I'm free this Thursday, let's meet over at [restaurant] and grab a burger or something.) or (Heading to the park for a jog tomorrow. Come join me. Just please let me keep up...)
Look, you don't have to be a mastermind.
Be at least a little clever
Say kind things (non-sexy things) about her, her stuff, her friends. (I like your outfit tonight. That little steering wheel cover you have is kinda cute. Your pal Jenny, she seems cool, like you; no wonder you're friends)
Be at least a little funny (again, not crude)
Set it up so she talks about herself
And listen. (If she brings up something you don't know about, like a band, put it int he back of yur mind and look it up when you get home. And you bring it up the next time you see her. Remember that band you say you liked? I put them on my Spotify and they're pretty cool, thanks for that hookup -or- listened to them and not really my style, but I can see how other people can think it's cool.)
There's tons more, and I have to get back to work.
Hope this helps at least one of ya's.
Remember, meeting and dating girls is simple. Note I did not say it was easy.
Get a decent haircut
Wear decent, neat clothes
Be (at least semi-) confident
Be charming
Ask open-ended questions (Do: So, what do you like about where you work/go to school? Don't: Where do you work/go to school?)
Maintain eye contact
Learn to read body language a little
If you meet her for the first time IRL, invite her and her friends to hang out with you and your boys. Shows you are interested in her and getting to know her and her friend and to let her into your life as well. (Hey, me and the guys are going to O'Halligan's for a drink after work. Do you and your friends want to meet us over there?)
Be funny, but not crude.
STOP WATCHING PORN: it's not real life! Sure, some girls may do some of the stuff in the video. Eventually. Keep in mind, in a great majority of the porn, the girls are getting paid to act that way and do that stuff.
If meeting online, you set up the date. In a public place. (Hey, I'm free this Thursday, let's meet over at [restaurant] and grab a burger or something.) or (Heading to the park for a jog tomorrow. Come join me. Just please let me keep up...)
Look, you don't have to be a mastermind.
Be at least a little clever
Say kind things (non-sexy things) about her, her stuff, her friends. (I like your outfit tonight. That little steering wheel cover you have is kinda cute. Your pal Jenny, she seems cool, like you; no wonder you're friends)
Be at least a little funny (again, not crude)
Set it up so she talks about herself
And listen. (If she brings up something you don't know about, like a band, put it int he back of yur mind and look it up when you get home. And you bring it up the next time you see her. Remember that band you say you liked? I put them on my Spotify and they're pretty cool, thanks for that hookup -or- listened to them and not really my style, but I can see how other people can think it's cool.)
There's tons more, and I have to get back to work.
Hope this helps at least one of ya's.
Remember, meeting and dating girls is simple. Note I did not say it was easy.
Be good looking white guy (ie lean & attractive face and good hair)
6ft+ lean or 5'10+ and ripped
Have instagram with at least 1000+ followers and tons of HIGH QUALITY pictures with your large social circle of attractive men and women
Go out every weekend with your friends
Have good job
Drive a good car
That's basically it.
This is what women are looking for.
Of course if you have this you don't need online dating apps at all anyway.
It actually easier just to message women on instagram or meet them in person or through friends
Most people on here don't have the social life women want even if they have the body or even the face.
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08-26-2020, 01:11 PM
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#88
- WoofieNugget
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Originally Posted By BG5150⏩
This is bang on. Some additions:It's not hard, fellas. Some tips:
Get a decent haircut
Wear decent, neat clothes
Be (at least semi-) confident
Be charming
Ask open-ended questions (Do: So, what do you like about where you work/go to school? Don't: Where do you work/go to school?)
Maintain eye contact
Learn to read body language a little
If you meet her for the first time IRL, invite her and her friends to hang out with you and your boys. Shows you are interested in her and getting to know her and her friend and to let her into your life as well. (Hey, me and the guys are going to O'Halligan's for a drink after work. Do you and your friends want to meet us over there?)
Be funny, but not crude.
STOP WATCHING PORN: it's not real life! Sure, some girls may do some of the stuff in the video. Eventually. Keep in mind, in a great majority of the porn, the girls are getting paid to act that way and do that stuff.
If meeting online, you set up the date. In a public place. (Hey, I'm free this Thursday, let's meet over at [restaurant] and grab a burger or something.) or (Heading to the park for a jog tomorrow. Come join me. Just please let me keep up...)
Look, you don't have to be a mastermind.
Be at least a little clever
Say kind things (non-sexy things) about her, her stuff, her friends. (I like your outfit tonight. That little steering wheel cover you have is kinda cute. Your pal Jenny, she seems cool, like you; no wonder you're friends)
Be at least a little funny (again, not crude)
Set it up so she talks about herself
And listen. (If she brings up something you don't know about, like a band, put it int he back of yur mind and look it up when you get home. And you bring it up the next time you see her. Remember that band you say you liked? I put them on my Spotify and they're pretty cool, thanks for that hookup -or- listened to them and not really my style, but I can see how other people can think it's cool.)
There's tons more, and I have to get back to work.
Hope this helps at least one of ya's.
Remember, meeting and dating girls is simple. Note I did not say it was easy.
Get a decent haircut
Wear decent, neat clothes
Be (at least semi-) confident
Be charming
Ask open-ended questions (Do: So, what do you like about where you work/go to school? Don't: Where do you work/go to school?)
Maintain eye contact
Learn to read body language a little
If you meet her for the first time IRL, invite her and her friends to hang out with you and your boys. Shows you are interested in her and getting to know her and her friend and to let her into your life as well. (Hey, me and the guys are going to O'Halligan's for a drink after work. Do you and your friends want to meet us over there?)
Be funny, but not crude.
STOP WATCHING PORN: it's not real life! Sure, some girls may do some of the stuff in the video. Eventually. Keep in mind, in a great majority of the porn, the girls are getting paid to act that way and do that stuff.
If meeting online, you set up the date. In a public place. (Hey, I'm free this Thursday, let's meet over at [restaurant] and grab a burger or something.) or (Heading to the park for a jog tomorrow. Come join me. Just please let me keep up...)
Look, you don't have to be a mastermind.
Be at least a little clever
Say kind things (non-sexy things) about her, her stuff, her friends. (I like your outfit tonight. That little steering wheel cover you have is kinda cute. Your pal Jenny, she seems cool, like you; no wonder you're friends)
Be at least a little funny (again, not crude)
Set it up so she talks about herself
And listen. (If she brings up something you don't know about, like a band, put it int he back of yur mind and look it up when you get home. And you bring it up the next time you see her. Remember that band you say you liked? I put them on my Spotify and they're pretty cool, thanks for that hookup -or- listened to them and not really my style, but I can see how other people can think it's cool.)
There's tons more, and I have to get back to work.
Hope this helps at least one of ya's.
Remember, meeting and dating girls is simple. Note I did not say it was easy.
Have fun with it. Expect that some women are going to be stupid, flaky, gross, weird, etc. Use it to gain experience so that when you do meet women you're really interested in, you're bulletproof. Train yourself to be able to get women to sleep with you, even if you don't want them to.
Set your expectations low. You never know when that slightly homely girl is going to be a total freak and really cool. It's why I don't rate women on looks alone. Sexual compatibility, emotional maturity and like mindedness are equally important.
This past weekend I uploaded Bumble just for fun and by today I had dozens of matches and could have gotten laid easily with women at or just below my pay grade. The dating market is fine, it's you that isn't.
08-26-2020, 01:55 PM
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#89
- JungleJenetics
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- JungleJenetics
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Originally Posted By Hector002⏩
I say this every time I get on here lmaoWhy do I get the feeling none of you guys talk to girls.
Sig line can't be a novel
08-26-2020, 02:11 PM
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#90
- Jms89
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- Jms89
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