This right here. ^

Think long term. If you have children with her, will they be glued to an iPad so mommy can get her social media fix? Or will your kid have to pose or be perfect all the time so she can upload pics and posts about them for attention?
Might want to factor that in.

Not to rain on your parade, but you’re living a pretty toxic relationship. Having passcodes, deleting social media, controlling your girlfriend, etc., is more insecure than the OP. Your girlfriend is volunteering to do this for you leading you on and giving you a false sense of security. Cheaters are good at this. Good luck with your future breakup.

Would any of you put up with this? I’m not lying when I say her phone is never down for more than a minute and 30 seconds. Probably sends over 500 texts per day to all of her friends (8-9 girls), from what I know there are no guys in the picture but I’m just getting suspicious lately. When her phone is not exploding with texts she is absolutely glue to social media. Will flip between Insta/Vsco/Snapchat/FB to now end watching every story available until there are none left.


Would any of you brahs put up with this? I’m about to bring it up with her but don’t want to come of as insecure. I just have a hunch she is hiding something but can’t make an accusation. How to bring up with her?