it seems like things were the best when she didnt know you had $ bro

how long were you together for?

could have sworn you had made a thread about this girl only a couple of months ago? i think she had told you to ensure to wear a condom if you were smashing another chick lol? maybe it was another miscer

wasn't this chick a coom dumpster approaching the walll anyway? good riddance.

Lol, yes. That is the same girl. She arrived back from the Mexico trip and she told me that if I fuk anybody that I should wear a condom so we can keep rawdogging.

Right after this, we were planning a trip and at the last minute she switched the location and told me I needed to pay 100%. This is likely right after she picked up a phone full of beta providers and figured she could start making these types of outrageous demands. I should have cut things off right at this point, but I was a little fuked up in the head from things she did at the end of the previous trip and wasn't prepared to bail.

So what I ended up doing was pulling a bunch of manipulative tests on her over the next few weeks until I had enough evidence that she was a crappy person who was using me, and I was mentally prepared to cut bait.

I met her right after NYE this year, so really not that long. We spent a total of like 30 days traveling together, and had another 10-14 planned before I cancelled this week.

All good oliver brah srs. Happens to the best of men. plus you got out easy could be a lot worser (married her, got her preggo etc).

It also sounds like you need a trip to Miami or another vacation. I am hoping I can head to Medellin this summer srs. But my boy who I usually travel with just got in a relationship feels man.

Damn I hope you didn’t buy that bish jewelry she’s using your dumb azz up..

You sound like a fukin puzzy OP. I don’t care how ugly you are grow some balls and be a man. Move on to the next one.

BTW I only read like six lines out of the multiple paragraphs.

Been here for almost 7 years and yet no pics and no cliffs

Have seen you post about her before. Seems like you blatantly ignored red flags.

Since you asked for it on p. 1, my advice would be to be more judgmental in the future and hold your partner to higher standards.
Sounds like you just coalesced with whatever for the poon. Whether she left things out to manipulate you or not, if leaving things
out bothers you, do/say something about it (e.g. don't commit, don't fund vacations, don't expect to gf a chick like that, etc.).

You also say you should just have a hard rule in the future of "don't disclose money," but I think you're simplifying your missteps.
Obvs don't roll up to a date with a bank statement, but also don't stick around with chicks who aren't loyal, who don't respect you,
who use you for money, who don't have life goals/solid enough careers.

she was totally trying to sucker you bro

some of these sloots are gross for real

at least you picked up on it

do you think it was simply because she found out you had $?

Yeah, and maybe I was just being dumb as well. The first time we hung out she described herself as a "Champagne Socialist" and a "Life Enjoyer" who doesn't want to work. Sometime between there and the second trip I caught feels like an idiot, when I clearly should have kept her as a FWB.

Realistically was something that never had a high chance of success, but she was a girl I met while traveling in Rio de Janeiro and it would have been a really good story if it did work.

Spent two weeks together at the beginning and everything was great just traveling as friends/backpacker types, and then also traveled to Mexico few weeks later, and this was when things went off the rails. She's the type of girl who has been in a lot of relationships in the past, and ended up turning into a much different (and much worse) person when she viewed us as being in some type of relationship(and finding out I had money) than when traveling as friend where she didn't know my financial capabilities(likely as some type of defense mechanism to keep things from getting too close?). She would do odd things like getting all kinds of different guys Instagram while we were out(when these guys were clearly hitting on her), and she started wanting me to pay for everything without giving any type of real commitment in return. In contrast, the first couple weeks I spent with her were awesome, and she presented herself as like the perfect proper girl who would make a 10/10 girlfriend(but also liked to party and was super fun but respectful to be out with).

Was a terrible communicator, and although I don't believe she was actually fuking other guys or anything, she would tell stories about partying in all these sexual situations and obviously leave out many details or be vague about a lot of things which would mess with my head a lot. I couldn't tell if this was her being intentionally manipulative or what, but I've personally never been close with a girl who acted like this. We were actually supposed to travel again this week, but I could tell she kept trying to change things around to position the situation where I would be paying for her things. She kept saying she had her own money, but still wanted me to pay for things 100% after a while. Although she would say she loved me at the end, she didn't seem to have any interest in me unless it could result in her gaining some type of financial benefit. Basically if I wanted any type of love from her it came with a price.

Looking back, it almost seems like she follows a certain pattern and has done this a lot of times in order to use guys for a short amount of time while gradually turning into a crappier and crappier person. Yesterday, she had gone on a trip and I was planning to meet her there, and she told me I needed to stop and buy her some jewelry before leaving as a gift(because there was something I had done a couple days before that had upset her) and this is when I laughed and told her to fuk off. She quickly said I was no longer welcome to come visit her.

I'd like to know the end game with a girl like this, like if a guy doesn't have the balls to leave and just sticks around. Financial ruin?

Rule #1: Unless you are with a girl who has her own career and makes like $100k+ with a legit job, never ever talk about how much money you have or even take a girl to lavish places. Even if it feels good to spend cash on a person you like, money ruins relationships before they reach a certain point. This girl presented herself as a high class girl who had experienced a high class lifestyle in the past so I thought I could get away with it, but as soon as she found out the depth of my financial resources she started treating me as nothing more than a walking ATM machine and any semblance of a real relationship went out the window.

Live and learn, I really wanted to keep this girl around as a FWB or travel buddy for the future(and this is where I should have kept her to begin with and should have never tried an actual relationship), but the relationship was too toxic to keep in any fashion.

Yep, I fuked her every day we were together except the first. Best sex of my life. Did all kinds of freaky things with her that I will likely never do again. She would have uncontrollable screaming orgasms every time.

It's good that I haven't actually seen her for a month, because this will make things much easier to get over. If I went on the trip with her this week and fuked her for another 10 days, I would be hooked on that pussy for a while longer.

I don't know how to tell you this...but you didn't break up with your girlfriend--you just stopped seeing your sugar baby. I honestly think you just didn't pick up on the obvious signs or hints she was putting down without actually calling your "relationship" what it is.


Either way, she clearly doesn't see you as anything valuable beyond just a wallet and gifts. Time to just move on, nothing else to do.




And learn to provide cliffs and pics. NEGGED

You sound like the typical dude who got played. Its obvious this girl was only using you for your wallet, every single thing you posted was a red flag. The fact that she had been in so many relationships and you thought you would be the chosen one that she would commit too.

Live live and learn

Why would you manipulate her? And say it like that is a good thing?

Manipulation is not right. Once you find out that someone is manipulative, the appropriate response is to end the relationship, not to manipulate them back.

Why would you manipulate her? And say it like that is a good thing?

Manipulation is not right. Once you find out that someone is manipulative, the appropriate response is to end the relationship, not to manipulate them back.

actually, its really satisfying to do this srs. a vengeance of sorts

obviously not forever, but short term.

you never really get that fuk you feeling out of your system by ending it amicably. its too mature