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» Crazy how many women trick themselves into thinking an FWB is boyfriend
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post 1636019963 04-12-2021, 10:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972
What turns them into a fwb after dating?
Normally something about their personality - too preppy in the morning, not good with money, for whatever reason I don't want to commit time/money to date them anymore but if the sex is good and they're willing to come over and fuk why not.
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post 1636020063 04-12-2021, 10:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Better than being celibate for a decade.
Its really not.
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post 1636020373 04-12-2021, 10:57 AM
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Originally Posted By AgRyan
Normally something about their personality - too preppy in the morning, not good with money, for whatever reason I don't want to commit time/money to date them anymore but if the sex is good and they're willing to come over and fuk why not.
I get it. Start dating and find out they're neurotic or worse, anxiety ridden, broke, slutty. Lots of disqualifiers. It's a shame too when the sex is really good.
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post 1636021463 04-12-2021, 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972
What turns them into a fwb after dating?
Originally Posted By AgRyan
Normally something about their personality - too preppy in the morning, not good with money, for whatever reason I don't want to commit time/money to date them anymore but if the sex is good and they're willing to come over and fuk why not.
So you actually have a conversation where you tell them that you don't want to date them anymore/not interested? IDK, maybe they weren't looking for anything serious to begin with.

Or I'm the odd one for thinking it is strange to continue smashing someone that dumped you.

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post 1636021893 04-12-2021, 11:17 AM
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Originally Posted By katya422
So you actually have a conversation where you tell them that you don't want to date them anymore/not interested? IDK, maybe they weren't looking for anything serious to begin with.

Or I'm the odd one for thinking it is strange to continue smashing someone that dumped you.

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It depends. If the girl is looking for something serious and I can tell, then I'm more direct with them and keep the ball in their court if they still want to get together.

Sometimes the "relationship" just slowly turns into a FWB situation. Stop going on dates, stop texting during the week, then literally just "Hey wanna come over tonight? Be home at like 10pm then got work in the morning" type deal.
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post 1636022143 04-12-2021, 11:20 AM
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Originally Posted By katya422
So you actually have a conversation where you tell them that you don't want to date them anymore/not interested? IDK, maybe they weren't looking for anything serious to begin with.

Or I'm the odd one for thinking it is strange to continue smashing someone that dumped you.

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I don't think you ever officially dump them, you just invest less time and resources into them than when you saw them as a potential long term relationship. Some just catch on faster than others as to what's going on.
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post 1636022363 04-12-2021, 11:22 AM
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post 1636022663 04-12-2021, 11:26 AM
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did OP use a condom?
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post 1636025193 04-12-2021, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Toker095
And I still haven't tricked a sloot into thinking she's my bf

Feels bad mane
there is no tricking if they are dumb

criteria for actual relationships need certain activators

-asking to be exclusive
-asking the actual damn question 'want to be my girlfriend'
-using the L word
-moving in together
-marriage
-having a kid together *should be an auto halt to everything till can figure out*

if hanging out together / food/ fun games / sex / social physical fun settings....and she wants to play make believe in her head that is her fault
post 1636025453 04-12-2021, 12:00 PM
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Women cant be alone.

When their friends are in a RS, and they go out with their boyfriends/husbands, and she's single, do you think shes just going to stay miserable by herself watching Netflix on a saturday/friday/sunday night?

Nope. Shes going to have someone there next to her, guaranteed. Worst thing that can happen to a woman is being lonely, also being ignored lol.

They trick themselves into thinking they are trying out things with this guy etc just to not think of themselves as sluts or whatever.

tl;dr: fuk them bishes brah
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post 1636026183 04-12-2021, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted By jn677
Probably was her bf but you managed to cast enough doubt to get it done, congrats.
he didn't even cast doubt
he just gave her an excuse

highly doubt a chick can't distinguish between bf and fwb
Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
I think this is generally how relationships will go moving forward. Not much actual commitment, everyone fuking other people.

You might get company and sex out of a girl, but she's not only going to be fuking only you. And you're not going to be fuking only her.
harsh but yeah
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