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post 1649466003 10-23-2021, 12:19 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Mind blown at all the degens ITT that sleep with a literal stranger the first time upon meeting
Just lol


Imagine a woman you just met and are attracted to yourself is looking at you, biting her lip, maybe twirling her hair, and craving you inside her and you hit her with “welp, see ya later!” and go home just cause it’s the first date


Imagine never knowing the feels of absolutely fuking her brains out in the back of your Camry as you make her call you “daddy” even though she’s 20 years older than you
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post 1649466313 10-23-2021, 12:38 AM
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Situation: me and classy shy girl who's relationship material like each other and she'll be dumping her boyfriend soon who doesn't treat her good.. Should I avoid it first date or if it's there for the taking should I go for it otherwise wait and for how long?
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For whatever it’s worth, every time I set up a first date at my pad the bish flaked…..even after several messages pointing to not flaking.
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post 1649466513 10-23-2021, 12:48 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Like unless you explicitly work out with the girls on Tinder or text whatever that you’re implying having a ONS.

Aside from the obvious Sloots gon’ sloot how actually common is it that two random people on a first date have sex on the first date itself.

Curious to know your personal experiences misc
If you take them on a nice date and do not act like a betaloser a simple invite to come hang out at your place means you will most likely smash.
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Originally Posted By Lord_Lemon
Situation: me and classy shy girl who's relationship material like each other and she'll be dumping her boyfriend soon who doesn't treat her good.. Should I avoid it first date or if it's there for the taking should I go for it otherwise wait and for how long?
hard to say

I'd say you subtle try to go for it
that way she can turn you down but it you dont come across as a **** boy

but she still respects you cause she doesnt think you're a beta cuck who's too scared to
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post 1649467653 10-23-2021, 02:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Lord_Lemon
Situation: me and classy shy girl who's relationship material like each other and she'll be dumping her boyfriend soon who doesn't treat her good.. Should I avoid it first date or if it's there for the taking should I go for it otherwise wait and for how long?
my boy had a chick lie to him and say she broke up with her dude and she talked all this chit and was saying she was done with him and he saw her post pics of them to and how she was in love and he was like thats phucked up and sent the dude the screenshots between them and he dumped her. lol.
post 1649467843 10-23-2021, 02:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Lord_Lemon
Situation: me and classy shy girl who's relationship material like each other and she'll be dumping her boyfriend soon who doesn't treat her good.. Should I avoid it first date or if it's there for the taking should I go for it otherwise wait and for how long?
Lol'd smash on first date and don't relationship.

You think you won't be next boyo?
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post 1649468113 10-23-2021, 02:22 AM
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It's all about how the communication went before the date. If you go on a random date with someone you barely know, and you've never sexted, etc, it's quite rare for that date to end with sex.

If you put in a bunch of effort into chatting with her for days/weeks beforehand, and especially if you sext a bit, the chances are much higher.

People sleep with each other all the time on a first date, but I think that most women really need to feel some kind of connection and like they "know you". If you're a stranger to them, good luck buddy.
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post 1649468203 10-23-2021, 02:28 AM
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My context for dating is almost exclusively in America and I would say about 99% of the time if I didn't phuck on the first date, the sloot would flake and then ghost on subsequent dates.

There is no second date in modern American dating.
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First time meeting or date is actually really common.

Last tinder date i got a blowjob fwiw
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common, but sometimes i make them wait till second or third
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post 1649469533 10-23-2021, 04:17 AM
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If you meet for drinks in the evening then sex is pretty likely if you get on and find eachother attractive. If you meet during the daytime and do something like play mini golf, have a picnic etc then it’s much less likely. My and my ex met for a picnic during the middle of the day on our first date and kissed and made out but no sex. Second date I invited her to mine and we watched a film got a pizza and banged afterwards
post 1649469573 10-23-2021, 04:19 AM
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Originally Posted By TomWanks
My context for dating is almost exclusively in America and I would say about 99% of the time if I didn't phuck on the first date, the sloot would flake and then ghost on subsequent dates.

There is no second date in modern American dating.
This is kinda true Tbf, went in a few first dates recently and just got ghosted after all of them, but then if I bang them they’re usually keen to bang again but the irony is I don’t reallt taking them seriously or view them as gf material if this happened. Me and my ex didn’t bang on our first date, but we were both clearly attracted to eachother and I think that’s the important thing to establish but then hold off for sex if you want the girl to take you more seriously
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Originally Posted By wd0694820
This is kinda true Tbf, went in a few first dates recently and just got ghosted after all of them, but then if I bang them they’re usually keen to bang again but the irony is I don’t reallt taking them seriously or view them as gf material if this happened. Me and my ex didn’t bang on our first date, but we were both clearly attracted to eachother and I think that’s the important thing to establish but then hold off for sex if you want the girl to take you more seriously
Yep exactly. Sloots demand that you phuck them like whores and then get angry at you for never elevating them above hole status.
post 1649471163 10-23-2021, 05:49 AM
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Absolutely more often than not.
Tis a slippery slope if you meet a sloot, go on a date, feel mutual attraction, but don't bang...50/50 you might setup another date and she might end up gf material, or she might go smash the next in her Tinder.

I realized most will def smash after setting up a Tinder date first girl that seemed interesting and hot, tacos then back to hers to fk. After she was like... "ok two issues, one we can fix and one we can't" - i'm like sht...she's not on the pill. Then goes and says "I don't usually do this" (lol?) 1. without a condom, and 2. without knowing your real name.
Stay safe brahs.
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post 1649471323 10-23-2021, 05:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Komisch
. Then goes and says "I don't usually do this" (lol?)
It's always the ones who do it all the time that say this. I don't know why they even bother anymore.
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
For OP its extremely uncommon ie never

No I’m not being a jerk OP i remember your thread with that fitness milf

She handed it to you on a plate and you fumbled it somehow
that was one of the saddest threads.

i still remember the “wanna hang????”

there is no saving this ****get

also sex on first date 50% of the time minimum, if you get none try men
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post 1649471523 10-23-2021, 06:09 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
In my area most guys under 30 don’t have their own places so it’s not as common for me. It’s awkward to get a hotel room with a stranger.

Once after a second date he had to get something and told the lady at the front desk that I was his aunt lol.
Most guys under 30 don’t live with their parents your just an absolute whore banging losers lmao
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Social skills, I have none
That's a load of bullshyt man.

I wanted to see you make it, and I'm starting to see that you don't actually care to.
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Thinking about it (met me wife in college) I’ve never been on an actual first date. Just hooked up with girls at parties and such. So usually would bang girls after meeting them a few hours earlier srs.
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post 1649472423 10-23-2021, 06:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
That's a load of bullshyt man.

I wanted to see you make it, and I'm starting to see that you don't actually care to.
That’s not true, I’ve been trying. I went out on two dates fairly recently.
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I guess it's pretty common now especially with hook up apps. Speaking of which, there is a flesh-eating STD that causes "beefy red sores" that is now spreading the UK (donovanosis)
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Originally Posted By TomWanks
Yep exactly. Sloots demand that you phuck them like whores and then get angry at you for never elevating them above hole status.
I don’t at all? I try avoid sex on the first date even if he’s 20 and I’m almost 50. I try to talk and get to know them and they just want to have sex lol.
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Originally Posted By criminal_manne
Most guys under 30 don’t live with their parents your just an absolute whore banging losers lmao
They do in an area where the average home is $2 million and rent is like $4,000 a month minimum.

Young guys can’t afford to move out of the house in my area.

Or they have roommates and some were cool and introduced me to their roommates but some don’t.

I personally would rather talk and get to know the guy more and then build up the tension for sex on a second or third date.
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
That’s not true, I’ve been trying. I went out on two dates fairly recently.
So I've heard. You should've kissed the inkie.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
They do in an area where the average home is $2 million and rent is like $4,000 a month minimum.

Young guys can’t afford to move out of the house in my area.

Or they have roommates and some were cool and introduced me to their roommates but some don’t.

I personally would rather talk and get to know the guy more and then build up the tension for sex on a second or third date.
where on earth is rent 4k a month minimum?
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
I don’t at all? I try avoid sex on the first date even if he’s 20 and I’m almost 50. I try to talk and get to know them and they just want to have sex lol.
Oh well that settles it then.

The delusional geriatric on an unlisted gay Indian bodybuilding forum larping that she dates men under half her age has spoken boyos, sloots are not gonna sloot.

Pack it up we were wrong this whole time.
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Originally Posted By wd0694820
where on earth is rent 4k a month minimum?
San Francisco Bay Area and I live in a more expensive area within there.
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Originally Posted By TomWanks
Oh well that settles it then.

The delusional geriatric on an unlisted gay Indian bodybuilding forum larping that she dates men under half her age has spoken boyos, sloots are not gonna sloot.

Pack it up we were wrong this whole time.
Yeah I’m probably just making it up that every guy under 30 is a match and I only swipe on the good looking ones. I am probably just catfishing them with older pics.
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