Dating really has very little to do with age and is moreso about your life situation.

I’m 36 and my dating life is utterly dire, but i’m a low status underachieving male. Meanwhile, there will be other 36 year old men who have done pretty well for themselves and will have countless dating prospects.

It’s all relative.

This. If you're a low value male you can't expect decent women to want to hang with you, or any woman at all if you don't even have the basics.

It's why I'm always astounded that guys who are a 4 because they are fat, terrible/boring jobs and have no social skills expect Instagram models who are 7/8s to date them and then get upset when they can't find attractive women. It's because you're not on the same level at all. Women rarely date down, they are always trying to date up.

for me its a greener on the other side of the mo fukin fence thing B.. i see plenty of relationships and been in plenty in the last couple years to no that things arent always what they seem.. when u see a couple in public or on social media u are seein them put on their best show usually.. and the brain compares urself, ur life to their life but ur brain is makin up some story about how great their lives are based on u seein a little chunk of the iceberg.
dont get me wrong i aint black pilled neither i believe in true love 2 i seen some shiet, i think there really is someone out there perfect for everyone but lots of mo fukas aint lookin in the right place or seein shiet fuked up or aint where they suppose 2 be with they hearts and souls and lost hope.

Have you ever considered a career as a motivational speaker OP?

Same age as you and mine just keeps getting better. Maybe you did well in your 20's though?

i prefer it.. especially since i always date younger.. ex was 8 years younger.. im 35

Feel bad for you, son. I'm over here happily raising my 2 year old with my 26 year old wife (2nd one even) who I snatched up when she was 21, working remotely at my dream job in a low cost of living city.

If you're not happy I suggest you figure out your **** or go get medication if its a mental issue, you only get one life don't waste it being an ldar ****ggot.

Count your blessings. You likely made certain decisions/choices in your younger years that are paying dividends now, plus you’re likely a more skilful dater nowadays.

I’m probably a more skilful dater now than I ever was, but my prospects are dire due to my overall life situation.

And no my dating life has always been sub par.

Brootal Agepill
"just wait til you are in your Prime bro". "men age like Wine" "women dont want boys they want men"

You're alone because your ex fooled you into thinking he was one person when he was someone completely different.

There are plenty of people in happy marriages. Yours failed, but that doesn't mean everyone else's will.


Get over it.

This. I did lots of couch surfing and saw how unhappy many marriages are. At least half of the happy looking ones are not really happy. The only ones who agreed on anything agreed on the drug they were addicted to.