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How many of you would self-identify as incels?
How many of you would self-identify as incels?
02-12-2022, 01:08 PM
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Originally Posted By legbroke⏩
Better than sitting around while jerking off and miscing, that's for sure. Let me know how it goes.Yeah, in srsness, I have found them to be awkward sausagefests in the past, but I will look at them again.
One thing she tossed out was book clubs. I kinda like the idea. Been wanting a reason to get back into reading, and sounds like it could have a decent gender ratio. It's been a frustration of mine that with these meetups, it feels like I either have to go for some super womanly activity (e.g. salsa dancing) that I'm not interested in or something I'm interested in but is a sausagefest, but I'm hoping a book club is maybe a happy medium.
One thing she tossed out was book clubs. I kinda like the idea. Been wanting a reason to get back into reading, and sounds like it could have a decent gender ratio. It's been a frustration of mine that with these meetups, it feels like I either have to go for some super womanly activity (e.g. salsa dancing) that I'm not interested in or something I'm interested in but is a sausagefest, but I'm hoping a book club is maybe a happy medium.
Originally Posted By DJKhaled⏩
I think I can socialize with other people all right. I can sit at a bar and talk to randos through 4 quarters of a football game, especially when I'm drunk. I've had several people say "you seem cool" and ask to get my number after golf rounds. Here's kind of the problem... they never contact me again, and when I call those dudes back to follow up with them, I get an "ehhh, yeah, maybe later" response where they don't reciprocate. I sort of get it... when you've only someone for 4 hours on a golf course you're like a 5th string friends tops... but it's becoming a pattern after happening like 10 fukking times in a row. Maybe that's just the attitude in Socal. I really don't know.Not sure how your looks are....but I have a friend who is early 30s, 5'7", bald, pasty white who has no problem dating women. He has confidence, a good sense of a humor and a good personality though. He does have commitment issues, so still hasn't found a long-term relationship but regularly scores dates and casual flings.
There's a guy in our kickball group who is 5'5", a bit chubby, not very good looking, and a teacher (doesn't make much money) and he just met a cute girl and they are dating. But he is outgoing with a good personality.
I assume you you make really good money, so that's a major plus.
Your height isn't a big deal. You don't have to be really good looking. Spending too much time on the Misc will fuk you up because of all the memes and stuff about needing to have good genetics, or be 6'3", or have a perfectly defined jawline and all that bullchit. Looks help but its not the end all be all with women. Its mostly confidence and personality.
Do you live in an area where there's a lot of younger people (30s and under)?
I don't mean this in a mean way, but I think its a combination of the vibes you give off and your personality and lack of confidence. Do you smile and laugh a lot? I've had some friends like this back in my 20s, some who were really good looking and tall, and couldn't get a girl because they were too desperate, thought too hard about it, lacked confidence, etc.
I'd recommend doing stuff to improve your confidence and personality and just focus on that. Do you lift? Go out and buy some nice clothes and stuff. Also try meeting more friends that aren't autistic types.
There's a guy in our kickball group who is 5'5", a bit chubby, not very good looking, and a teacher (doesn't make much money) and he just met a cute girl and they are dating. But he is outgoing with a good personality.
I assume you you make really good money, so that's a major plus.
Your height isn't a big deal. You don't have to be really good looking. Spending too much time on the Misc will fuk you up because of all the memes and stuff about needing to have good genetics, or be 6'3", or have a perfectly defined jawline and all that bullchit. Looks help but its not the end all be all with women. Its mostly confidence and personality.
Do you live in an area where there's a lot of younger people (30s and under)?
I don't mean this in a mean way, but I think its a combination of the vibes you give off and your personality and lack of confidence. Do you smile and laugh a lot? I've had some friends like this back in my 20s, some who were really good looking and tall, and couldn't get a girl because they were too desperate, thought too hard about it, lacked confidence, etc.
I'd recommend doing stuff to improve your confidence and personality and just focus on that. Do you lift? Go out and buy some nice clothes and stuff. Also try meeting more friends that aren't autistic types.
I've heard the vibe I give off is like "Mormon missionary" or "gay boy scout". Mostly it's because I look really young and very low testosterone / non-masculine. I've had a few people mention it out of surprise when I start knocking back Captain Morgan shooters on the golf course... hell, I had one guy act surprised that I was drinking because apparently I didn't even look 21. I'll go outside and send a pic to you in a minute, you can see what you think.
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02-12-2022, 01:16 PM
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More and more men are starting to identify as it. Don’t think all incels are your typical angry, women-hating, video game nerds.
For these normal men, while it may seem counter-intuitive, I think they need to refrain from self-identifying as an incel. Just continue to do your thing; hobbies, work, school, etc. put yourself out there, and that’s all you can really do. Don’t beat yourself up if you’re making an effort, srs. And don’t overthink.
For these normal men, while it may seem counter-intuitive, I think they need to refrain from self-identifying as an incel. Just continue to do your thing; hobbies, work, school, etc. put yourself out there, and that’s all you can really do. Don’t beat yourself up if you’re making an effort, srs. And don’t overthink.
02-12-2022, 01:38 PM
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I'm an incel, if I never had sex with prostitutes/escorts I would be a virgin at 32. But I don't care anymore. I gave up on girls and dating. Some guys can get girls with ease and others can't, that's just the way it is and you can't change it.
02-12-2022, 01:58 PM
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Well I aint a Chad who fuks different girls weekly, but I do hook up occasionally. The problem is I don't go out as much as I used to and I don't use Tinder or other dating apps because I just don't care that much anymore. But girls are pretty easy and are just looking for a good time when they go out too, so as long as you have some game and not up against a lot of Chad competition you should be able to pull one. My ratio of pulling girls whenever I go out is pretty good I'd say. Maybe like 25%
I usually just pay an escort if I'm feeling horny instead of putting in the effort trying to pick up sloots nowadays anyway
I usually just pay an escort if I'm feeling horny instead of putting in the effort trying to pick up sloots nowadays anyway
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