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Thread: Chad chaser keeps coming back even after being fully honest about my intentions(srs)

post 1657501093 03-07-2022, 11:57 AM
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post 1657501463 03-07-2022, 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted By wildchild11⏩
OP is the most melodramatic poster on misc. His life is Very Lonely. You need to understand his High Value Problems, which only Chads can appreciate, by the way, he is A Chad (TM).
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
But why did you title it Chad chaser
Chad chaser is a very popular term used in current media.


"Chad Chaser"

A woman who continually chases top-tier men who are clearly out of her league throughout most of her life, but refuses to settle for anything less because she has a delusional sense of high sexual marketplace value, usually due to an inflated ego

" Becky is 40 years old and still single, but she keeps swiping right on guys who are only 6 feet tall and make six-figures"

" That's because Becky is a Chad Chaser"




Its an online meme/term like "alpha widow", "SIMP", "Karen" etc. I didnt say it to name myself a Chad but to describe what this girl was doing. The reason why so many decent/attractive women today are frustrated and lonely is because they are perpetuallychasing Chads, because they cant differentiate a man that wants to fuk them from a man that actually wants to commit to them, that or they think they can change him.
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Ultimately this is all a kind of game theory dilemma.

The solution is that Odysseus needs to be tied to the mast when the sirens arrive or he’ll just succumb to the temptation.

Historically religion provided strong social norms that largely solved this problem, but we got secular and that solution isn’t available anymore. Not easy to see a solution tbh, in the long run we will probably end up in a situation where most men are porn addicts who opt out of society and a small minority of the population are having most of the sex.

No point blaming Odysseus, it is what it is
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Why do you keep her around if you won’t go out in public with her? Just for easy poosay?

I’ve was on the receiving end of Chads who just want FWB 5-10+ years ago and it sucks, and I’m still alone.
Yes? It's not OP's fault she's not listening. I feel bad for her but whatever. She'll learn.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Lold.



Chad chaser is a very popular term used in current media.


"Chad Chaser"

A woman who continually chases top-tier men who are clearly out of her league throughout most of her life, but refuses to settle for anything less because she has a delusional sense of high sexual marketplace value, usually due to an inflated ego

" Becky is 40 years old and still single, but she keeps swiping right on guys who are only 6 feet tall and make six-figures"

" That's because Becky is a Chad Chaser"




Its an online meme/term like "alpha widow", "SIMP", "Karen" etc. I didnt say it to name myself a Chad but to describe what this girl was doing. The reason why so many decent/attractive women today are frustrated and lonely is because they are perpetuallychasing Chads, because they cant differentiate a man that wants to fuk them from a man that actually wants to commit to them, that or they think they can change him.
I originally heard the term as "Cleat chaser". Usually refers to women going after athletes

"Chad chaser" seems like some gay online fabrication from some online community

Just more narcissistic and ego aggrandizing because the insinuation is "genetics" - "chad" in pure form
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Majority of women have a bastard complex and a bastard in their lives who they bend over backwards to please

They learn, given time

Congrats it’s you
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Yes? It's not OP's fault she's not listening. I feel bad for her but whatever. She'll learn.
They're both lying . Op will continually find himself in this situation. As I said, it's a deluded way of thinking. It's a very "social" thought; rooted in popularity, as opposed to the way things actually work

Reactions of like don't happen; e.g. positive charge + positive charge

In other words, in order for an exchange to occur something needs to be gained. That's the "exchange". A positive and positive have nothing to exchange

If you don't get my point. "Fwb" doesn't work
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Whats a good guy supposed to do here? Cut contact or what ? She’s a fwb that Ive given her the “i don’t want anything serious with you” talk twice, she distances herself for a few weeks then comes back baiting me with sexy pics (srs).


Why do girls waste time with guys that won’t date them? This isn’t bragging, I actually feel sad and frustrated thinking how many women out there are Chad chasing only to end up lonely in the future.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I think you said it purposely to call yourself a Chad and to say you are a “top-tier man who is clearly out of her league.”

Which is fine but then own up to it don’t deny it.
No, literally this girl by definition is a Chad Chaser. Fits the term perfectly, which is a term that has gotten very popular these last couple of years. This "dont settle for less" type of girls.

If you think im bragging then thats cool you can believe it.
Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
I originally heard the term as "Cleat chaser"

"Chad chaser" seems like some gay online fabrication from some online community

Just more narcissistic and ego aggrandizing because the insinuation is "genetics" - "chad" in pure form
It is an online term. Its not a narcissistic and ego aggrandizing term because the guys that came up with it are actually the guys that mostly are struggling with women. The repdill/blackpill/manosphere community that has gotten really strong lately.

Girl in particular that is being discussed ITT is the perfect definition of the term "Chad chaser".

Its the 80-20 rule, or actually the 90-10 rule that has been proven to be true by many different studies. 10% of men have control of 90% of women.
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
They're both lying . Op will continually find himself in this situation. As I said, it's a deluded way of thinking. It's a very "social" thought; rooted in popularity, as opposed to the way things actually work

Reactions of like don't happen; e.g. positive charge + positive charge

In other words, in order for an exchange to occur something needs to be gained. That's the "exchange". A positive and positive have nothing to exchange

If you don't get my point. "Fwb" doesn't work
FWB is a thing ****gits who wants all the relationship stuff without the title use. Your either just banging or you are dating.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
It is an online term. Its not a narcissistic and ego aggrandizing term because the guys that came up with it are guys that mostly are struggling with women.
How did I know?

Its a conundrum

It's still an ego thing. Incel wants to be chad
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
How did I know?

Its a conundrum

It's still an ego thing. Incel wants to be chad
Of course they do. Its proven that women dont make rules for Chads, nor play games with them. They just do them.
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brb "halp, chad chaser keeps pestering me with sex"
brb "no it's not a brag thread"

Hope you realize you're just doing a "stringing along my orbiter" shtick. Oh the plight of the good guy who keeps saying one thing and doing another.

You know what you want, you know what she wants and you know that the two are completely different. Blowing her off after letting her blow you but then repeatedly letting her back in is not it. I mean you do you, but you know that a "good guy" would just go North Carolina.
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i thought you were getting srs with some girl a couple months ago? and were worried about her going on vacation or something
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OP gonna end up on r/FDS or worse lol. protect yourself and text her what you're saying to us in plain english. make sure that you have something in writing that everything that's happened was consensual.

chicks like that can go nuts and next thing you know, cops will be knocking on your door.
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I know that even though chad have infinite time to lock some young virgin hbb to be his wife, I just see you both wasting your time tbs. She gets attention, validation and sex, and you get pics and sex. Maybe think about your own life.

and I only say that because of what OP says he wants.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Majority of women have a bastard complex and a bastard in their lives who they bend over backwards to please

They learn, given time

Congrats it’s you
Hard lesson she'll learn one day.
Originally Posted By menseks⏩
OP gonna end up on r/FDS or worse lol. protect yourself and text her what you're saying to us in plain english. make sure that you have something in writing that everything that's happened was consensual.

chicks like that can go nuts and next thing you know, cops will be knocking on your door.
She can try to roast a scrote all she wants - he told her his expectations and she refused to listen. OP isn't the good guy here either, but I have very little sympathy for women who have feeeeeeeelings over this.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
she has a banging body and she waits for the perfect natural light to take them lol
Fukin lies around here are getting out of control.
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Her alternatives are just not there. She's not nearly as attracted to any other men she deals with. She probably goes on a date, thinks she has other options, isn't interested, then sends you nudes.

The whole situation isn't fixable until men can make it clear to women again that they don't have options and that they have to stay with one man. Until that point they will keep shopping around until they are too used up and old to get any of them.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Whats a good guy supposed to do here? Cut contact or what ? She’s a fwb that Ive given her the “i don’t want anything serious with you” talk twice, she distances herself for a few weeks then comes back baiting me with sexy pics (srs).


Why do girls waste time with guys that won’t date them? This isn’t bragging, I actually feel sad and frustrated thinking how many women out there are Chad chasing only to end up lonely in the future.
Wait, I"m confused. Has she asked you for a relationship? Has she asked you to go out and do things with her in public? Besides her coming back for sex how has she indicated she thinks you two are in a relationship?
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OP if you truly wanted to make the most ethical decision here, you’d either:
- Stop responding / meeting up with her.
- Tell her to her face that you’re merely using her for sex, and you have zero future intention of anything beyond using her for sex.

The latter is optional, but the additional brutal honestly may help her in the long run.

I don’t think you’ll do either of these things tbh. Most men wouldn’t sacrifice anything in this situation.

I get the sense your conscience is eating at you a little, but these threads are also a bit self aggrandizing and you have zero intention to really take action.
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Originally Posted By wildchild11⏩
OP is the most melodramatic poster on misc. His life is Very Lonely. You need to understand his High Value Problems, which only Chads can appreciate, by the way, he is A Chad (TM).
Repped lol.

OP is definitely a weirdo.

Cringe @ this thread.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
OP if you truly wanted to make the most ethical decision here, you’d either:
- Stop responding / meeting up with her.
- Tell her to her face that you’re merely using her for sex, and you have zero future intention of anything beyond using her for sex.

The latter is optional, but the additional brutal honestly may help her in the long run.

I don’t think you’ll do either of these things tbh. Most men wouldn’t sacrifice anything in this situation.

I get the sense your conscience is eating at you a little, but these threads are also a bit self aggrandizing and you have zero intention to really take action.
I do that and i end up being the bad guy in this. There’s no winning lol, I go nc I’m a douche. I’m honest I’m a douche. I keep seeing her I’m a douche.

Basically it’s all on me, as if I was dealing with a little kid. She’s 26…
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
I do that and i end up being the bad guy in this. There’s no winning lol, I go nc I’m a douche. I’m honest I’m a douche. I keep seeing her I’m a douche.

Basically it’s all on me, as if I was dealing with a little kid. She’s 26…
Oh no poor you

Was on team you until you decided to make yourself a victim here
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Wait, I"m confused. Has she asked you for a relationship? Has she asked you to go out and do things with her in public? Besides her coming back for sex how has she indicated she thinks you two are in a relationship?
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Oh no poor you

Was on team you until you decided to make yourself a victim here
Cringe @ you for taking this weirdo seriously LOL.

Dude has to be trolling.

Cliffs

> OP is banging some ugly butter faced chick that is most likely mentally ill.
> OP feels regret he bangs an ugly girl
> OP thinks he's a king because ugly girls insecurities start eating her alive, because she knows she's ugly
> OP a weirdo
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Originally Posted By OPGenesis⏩
Cringe @ you for taking this weirdo seriously LOL.

Dude has to be trolling.

Cliffs

> OP is banging some ugly butter faced chick that is most likely mentally ill.
> OP feels regret he bangs an ugly girl
> OP thinks he's a king because ugly girls insecurities start eating her alive, because she knows she's ugly
> OP a weirdo
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Still waiting on your PM!
Still working on it
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