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post 1657869523 03-13-2022, 01:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Disagree with this

If he doesn’t want to do something sexually then he shouldn’t, don’t role play stuff that you don’t enjoy or you will get trapped.

women get off on their fella getting overcome with lust, no man fakes that well enough

He’s repressed probably from upbringing
I get it. Personally I don't role play much.

I had a girl that was into fire play. I said no I can't go there.

I had another girl ask for DVP and again I had to just say no.


You think if you once in a while role play something eventually you will get trapped into having to try it for real?

Personally I haven't run into that.

BTW OP I am saying that if it became a hard line deal breaker that she wanted me to do something then I would walk.

I wouldn't walk at the simple mention of desires.
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post 1657869533 03-13-2022, 01:04 PM
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If she just likes playing around it's fine, but a sloot who actually likes being seriously abused is a no go for me
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post 1657869583 03-13-2022, 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
at the core of relationships, they're supposed to be special right?

that would be why you spend your time there and whatever else.

what is special about someone who's shared it with everybody else?

i think that's the core of the problem
Either it matters for both partners or it’s actually something you’ve been taught in terms of the “value” of the other sex.

What is special is someone who now only belongs to you. If you aren’t able to cope with past relationships then really you should be ultra religious and virginal yourself
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
at the core of relationships, they're supposed to be special right?

that would be why you spend your time there and whatever else.

what is special about someone who's shared it with everybody else?

i think that's the core of the problem
Sex and love are two completely different things.

What's special about relationships isn't the sex. Sex is half the equation but not what makes you commit for life.
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post 1657869613 03-13-2022, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Lol it's a fantasy. It doesn't mean you have to do it.

Why does it bother you that much?
How the **** do you sleep at night knowing your girl likes getting shat on or getting trains ran on.

You say Im the one with problems what does it say about you if you hang around people like that.

If I even find out a guy is into weird **** like pegging or whatever, I'm avoiding them too. You sound like an apologist for the mentally deranged. **** outta here. There are lines when it comes to sex, some things cross them. Pissing is one of them, ****ting is another. Threesomes are another. (2 males), rimming is pretty degenerate, pegging for a guy is unthinkable, cuckolding etc

The list goes on. I don't give a **** if you think that **** is normal. Go suck a **** covered dick since you're all about having no standards when it comes to sex
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Sex and love are two completely different things.

What's special about relationships isn't the sex. Sex is half the equation but not what makes you commit for life.
right. which is why you're after just sex its fine.

but if you're actually considering a relationship. nah
post 1657869693 03-13-2022, 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Either it matters for both partners or it’s actually something you’ve been taught in terms of the “value” of the other sex.

What is special is someone who now only belongs to you. If you aren’t able to cope with past relationships then really you should be ultra religious and virginal yourself
i do agree lots of guys are ****s out there. i do think it would be wrong for a massive manwhore to expect a virgin

but at the same time, biologically speaking chit is different

men create millions of sperm per day and women create on avg. one egg per month

i guess id still see why men are attracted to lower count, but again, if they've been manwhores i dont think they should expect it
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson
How the **** do you sleep at night knowing your girl likes getting shat on or getting trains ran on.

You say Im the one with problems what does it say about you if you hang around people like that.

If I even find out a guy is into weird **** like pegging or whatever, I'm avoiding them too. You sound like an apologist for the mentally deranged. **** outta here. There are lines when it comes to sex, some things cross them. Pissing is one of them, ****ting is another. Threesomes are another. (2 males), rimming is pretty degenerate, pegging for a guy is unthinkable, cuckolding etc

The list goes on. I don't give a **** if you think that **** is normal. Go suck a **** covered dick since you're all about having no standards when it comes to sex
Lol you are so repressed.

FTR I'm not into water sports, scat, fire, pegging.


Is an FMF threesome ok?
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post 1657869793 03-13-2022, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
right. which is why you're after just sex its fine.

but if you're actually considering a relationship. nah
Lol the sex in a one night stand or a marriage really shouldn't be any different.
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post 1657869863 03-13-2022, 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Lol the sex in a one night stand or a marriage really shouldn't be any different.
lets pretend you go to a dinner party. and you've invested your time and energy into this girl. you think what you got is really special

and you sit at a table with 10 dudes who've all had your woman.

how do you feel?

genuinely curious.

i can see how you might rationalize with yourself that it was just sex, and that's not the issue.

but would you not feel at least a little bit like a fool for having devoted your time and resources into this when it was so easily shared with the 10 other guys at the table?
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Lol you are so repressed.

FTR I'm not into water sports, scat, fire, pegging.


Is an FMF threesome ok?
I'm asking a serious question. Sex says a lot about someone. What someone does in the bedroom doesn't just stay in the bedroom. When you get up to weird ass ****, you best believe I'm judging you for that as a person.

A woman who likes getting choked is a red flag. A guy who likes getting pegged or ****ed is not a man. I'm dead serious. This isn't about repression, this is about logic and determining ones character through their actions.

FFM threesomes are interesting. If you don't know either girl, it's not as damaging to themselves. If you know either girl, then good luck. It's just a game of humiliation at that point. I personally think that threesomes are one step removed from orgies, which are pretty degenerate. If I know a girl has been in an orgy, im walking instantly

Why are we normalising girls with daddy issues now and guys who should be ashamed of having a penis
post 1657869943 03-13-2022, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
lets pretend you go to a dinner party. and you've invested your time and energy into this girl. you think what you got is really special

and you sit at a table with 10 dudes who've all had your woman.

how do you feel?

genuinely curious.

i can see how you might rationalize with yourself that it was just sex, and that's not the issue.

but would you not feel at least a little bit like a fool for having devoted your time and resources into this when it was so easily shared with the 10 other guys at the table?
Lol not a bit. I don't give a schit what they've done before me. I've done so much stuff with so many women why would I care?
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post 1657869993 03-13-2022, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
lets pretend you go to a dinner party. and you've invested your time and energy into this girl. you think what you got is really special

and you sit at a table with 10 dudes who've all had your woman.

how do you feel?

genuinely curious.

i can see how you might rationalize with yourself that it was just sex, and that's not the issue.

but would you not feel at least a little bit like a fool for having devoted your time and resources into this when it was so easily shared with the 10 other guys at the table?
Is this strawmanning, how likely is this in reality?

Assuming you’re talking about an actual relationship with someone you actually like.

Seriously You’ve never bumped into an ex? Dammit we’ve had exes over for supper with zero animosity because there’s a difference between before times
post 1657870003 03-13-2022, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Lol not a bit. I don't give a schit what they've done before me. I've done so much stuff with so many women why would I care?
again, i dont think it matters what you've previously done.

the issue at hand is youre putting more into it than it's worth

does it matter that you've driven a used car before when youre out looking for another that's had 10 owners and 150k miles?

i know how you can delude yourself, but those are the mechanisms that are actually happening

but fair enough
post 1657870073 03-13-2022, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Is this strawmanning, how likely is this in reality?
exactly, it's not. but that's how people delude themselves. i think it's apt because that's you actually being confronted with the situation
Assuming you’re talking about an actual relationship with someone you actually like.

Seriously You’ve never bumped into an ex? Dammit we’ve had exes over for supper with zero animosity because there’s a difference between before times
yea, i agree chit is different when you hit it off with a girl.

but so far in my life, i've actually stuck to my laurels. i really, really, really, lose interest at the prospect of devoting my time and making it "special" when it's not
post 1657870133 03-13-2022, 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson
I'm asking a serious question. Sex says a lot about someone. What someone does in the bedroom doesn't just stay in the bedroom. When you get up to weird ass ****, you best believe I'm judging you for that as a person.

A woman who likes getting choked is a red flag. A guy who likes getting pegged or ****ed is not a man. I'm dead serious. This isn't about repression, this is about logic and determining ones character through their actions.

FFM threesomes are interesting. If you don't know either girl, it's not as damaging to themselves. If you know either girl, then good luck. It's just a game of humiliation at that point. I personally think that threesomes are one step removed from orgies, which are pretty degenerate. If I know a girl has been in an orgy, im walking instantly

Why are we normalising girls with daddy issues now and guys who should be ashamed of having a penis
Lol you are so mentally weak.


There are lot's of guys into pegging. I've heard plenty of stories.
Spec ops guys, leaders of large criminal organizations.

I could never do it but that's my choice.

Sex is just sex and really it doesn't effect day to day behavior.

And if you are so judgemental about people that says more about you than them.

Sex is not some special sacred thing. It's a basic human function like eating or sleeping.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Lol you are so mentally weak.


There are lot's of guys into pegging. I've heard plenty of stories.
Spec ops guys, leaders of large criminal organizations.

I could never do it but that's my choice.

Sex is just sex and really it doesn't effect day to day behavior.

And if you are so judgemental about people that says more about you than them.

Sex is not some special sacred thing. It's a basic human function like eating or sleeping.
Lmao so now you're justifying STRAIGHT guys having dicks in their ass

All logic goes out the window when it comes to sex for you
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson
Lmao so now you're justifying STRAIGHT guys having dicks in their ass

All logic goes out the window when it comes to sex for you
I'm just saying they do it. And pegging with a dick would be sex with a man and not pegging. A sex toy isn't a dick.

Why would it bother me?

Have you never had a gay acquaintance?
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Originally Posted By topperstyle
Madonna-whore complex

Look it up
sucks huh


i like cute innocent girls for relationships but also get bored with them in bed.

Id be better off with a freaky whore but then I would feel like a cuck.


I know i dont want a virgin though who has no idea how to do anything, it would be terrible, idk why guys want that
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Lol you are so mentally weak.


There are lot's of guys into pegging. I've heard plenty of stories.
Spec ops guys, leaders of large criminal organizations.

I could never do it but that's my choice.

Sex is just sex and really it doesn't effect day to day behavior.

And if you are so judgemental about people that says more about you than them.

Sex is not some special sacred thing. It's a basic human function like eating or sleeping.
pegging is so lame

a lot of guys like it. idk it either hurts or its too small to feel anything. what is the point.
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Every girl I've known that was into choking was damaged goods in one way or another.

Hand on throat is chill
Choked until face is going blue is sketch
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Doesn’t matter.

If she’s into rough sex then it’s likely everything you do to her has been done before.

If she isn’t into it then she’s probably been absolutely destroyed in the past, now you’re the fgt giving her soft vanilla sex, but just think…..there was a time she was getting absolutely fkn rekt, choked, spat on, slapped, fukd in the ass then straight in her mouth to receive the coom shot…..now all you give her is love.

IMO I’d rather have a girl who’s into it, least that way I’m not the little fgt who’s giving her soft love after she’s done being treated like a piece of meat.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I’m super vanilla in bed and prefer just basic sex like missionary and cowgirl. I’m just not into anything crazy.

Vanilla sex with someone you are highly attracted to is the best man. Why would you need anything else.
sounds gay. Lol
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson
You can choose what you do with her. If she's into that stuff and you don't provide it, like the other guy said, you risk her cheating on you because you look like a pussy.

What would you do
as long as she doesnt want me to shyt, piss on her, or draw any blood, that's fine.
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson
Imagine the scenario, you think about getting into a relationship with a girl.

You find out in the past with her ex's she likes getting abused in bed. Choking, facials, domination etc. How do you feel about it?

This seems to be one of the greatest issues of our generation as men. Where do you cross the line? What if she's into rimming?
Is this one of those, "asking for a friend" threads? You dont have to hide it. If you like getting facialed and/or choked thats on you.
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Its alright but there is a limit obviously... at one point it starts to get a bit too extreme..
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this one 7.5 or 8/10 use to make me choke her until i can hear who bones in her neck grinding
i hated it and got rid of her
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I don't cross the line into chocking



throat ****ing and some serious contortions are always appreciated
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Nasty. Period.

It’s one thing to turn her unto it slowly in a relationship where u know she wasn’t there before but if she just up and says she likes to be choked it’s a hoar u shouldn’t take past a fuk pal.
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with a girl likes to be choked crew

the onus is on you to not choke her too hard so she can live to fuk another day. its a big responsibility semi srs

on the other hand, sometimes you just wanna fukk her softly like a ******* - and she always wants it harder which is annoying

im such a ******* i guess
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