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post 1663064303 06-18-2022, 09:17 AM
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Originally Posted By swolefnatic
After a heated argument and she calling the cops I sobered up real quick. Plus I’m Asian and cops treat me easily + good at handling situations w cops. She didn’t even know I was drunk
This you op?



post 1663065013 06-18-2022, 09:36 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
I don't get the part about freaking out over a usb c cable.

the whole things is pathetic tbh,
from her going on a date before your date
to you getting drunk and waiting 30 min past the start of the concert for her getting ready
to giving her a vape on your second date
to demanding the vape back, and freaking out about the wrong $5 cable

the police part is just icing on the cake


good work bro, and by bro I mean never my bro
Lmao exactly this. And let's add to that list

Taking her out on 3 dates and only going as far as kissing
3 dates and OP can't see any red flags

You got a lot to learn OP, clearly you are inexperienced dating women.
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post 1663065343 06-18-2022, 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted By sf813
Lol at paying for a girl's concert ticket like a beta simp

She's getting dinner with Chad or someone higher priority than you

I'd ghost her or tell her to fuk off
Entirely this

It doesn't matter if it's a guy or a girl
She is fobbing you off either way

Even if a friend did this to me, not a girl, I'd tell him to fuk off srs
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post 1663065523 06-18-2022, 09:48 AM
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Lmao OP clearly what’s done is done but yeah, when she decided to bail on dinner with u for a coworker instead, after u hit her with the “oh ok,” u should’ve just ghosted her

Do NOT fight for the attention or affection of any sloot because I promise you…. u won’t have to for the right one dead fkin SRS because they won’t pull chit like this. They’ll make u a priority and show it and anyone in here that disagrees clearly don’t know wtf it’s like to truly have a chick be legit into u and that’s just facts

Don’t be some simp. I would’ve just ghosted and if u had a back up chick, I would’ve hit up someone else about the concert. Or just go to a bar and start chatting someone up and see if u could find someone that would’ve been down to spontaneously hit it up with you…. or go by yourself or hell, even another bro to hit it up with you

Nowadays, with the way sloots are, do NOT give these chicks second chances
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post 1663065643 06-18-2022, 09:51 AM
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Damn you can’t even kill her now cause you made this thread
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post 1663065683 06-18-2022, 09:52 AM
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- ****g0t OP asks misc for advice
- Misc gives him solid advice
- ****g0t OP does the exact opposite of what chad miscers recommend him
- Situations blows up in his face

Classic misc thread.
post 1663065793 06-18-2022, 09:54 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
I don't get the part about freaking out over a usb c cable.

the whole things is pathetic tbh,
from her going on a date before your date
to you getting drunk and waiting 30 min past the start of the concert for her getting ready
to giving her a vape on your second date
to demanding the vape back, and freaking out about the wrong $5 cable

the police part is just icing on the cake
This. While you did dodge a bullet OP you behaved like a twit letting something minor escalate to the point you have police.
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post 1663065803 06-18-2022, 09:54 AM
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at least you avoided a long term investment in crazy. Grab yourself a beer OP..


Makes you wonder how "abusive" her ex really is.
post 1663066163 06-18-2022, 10:04 AM
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Go no-contact. She's getting dicked down.
post 1663066463 06-18-2022, 10:13 AM
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post 1663066473 06-18-2022, 10:13 AM
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The miscers with experience all said go NC, you didn't listen.

Also, you continue to demonstrate your lack of experience by believing she was "abused" by an ex. She was not. She is a mentally unstable slut and you were a chump to be used in her eyes.

You dodged a bullet, as a few have said. Learn from this.
post 1663066543 06-18-2022, 10:14 AM
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should neg for still meeting her

but repped for knowing she gave you old tech cable that is of no use in 2022

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post 1663066623 06-18-2022, 10:17 AM
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Lol, strong Autism in OP.

I learned this the hard way too, but girls nowadays are always going to react terribly from a guy trying to control them(or call them out). So many defense mechanisms go into play. You had to know she'd react poorly to this, especially after only 3 dates. Did you expect to call her out, then move past it and have a super happy evening at the concert?

As TomWanks said, you never show anger or angst with women nowadays, as it always turns into a mess. Once you know she lied, it was time to make mental notes and begin to distance yourself mentally. Then cut off contact later once you're a comfortable distance.
post 1663066693 06-18-2022, 10:19 AM
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When you listen to Ratfish dating advice, you get the cops.


Let this be a lesson
post 1663066723 06-18-2022, 10:20 AM
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She probably won't go to the concert either

Her date with the other dude will be too enjoyable for her to cut short
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post 1663066763 06-18-2022, 10:22 AM
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Holy crap man get your life together lmfao you’re insanely lucky you didn’t end up in jail
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post 1663066793 06-18-2022, 10:23 AM
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Miscers, when will they learn….
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post 1663067043 06-18-2022, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
When you listen to Ratfish dating advice, you get the cops.


Let this be a lesson
Out here squeaky clean but something tells me your family has more records than a 1970s music store

Based on the limited info, my advice was sound
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post 1663067093 06-18-2022, 10:34 AM
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Well that was a weird twist to this story
lold at OP getting the cops called on him, she sounds crazy tho
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post 1663067173 06-18-2022, 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
When you listen to Ratfish dating advice, you get the cops.


Let this be a lesson
This.

As soon as she said "I'm going to dinner with a colleague" It's over. No contact, delete number, block.

Women are so easy to read OP it isn't even funny. First of all you owe her nothing since you're not exclusive and only "dating." So her doing that to you means two things. She doesn't respect you and she isn't in to you. If a chick was actually in to you and wanted to be with you, she'd be at dinner with you.

The dating game has changed. Women are crazier than ever in general. The world is built against men at this point in terms of relationships. Never take any bullchit or disrespect. If you ever do then she has you by the balls.

This is a lesson learned OP. Also stop vaping like a ****. Never date a chick that vapes. Wtf is wrong with people nowadays.
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She sounds nuts

Prolly missing out on a good smash but idk if it worth the investment especially if she already has the cops on you
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Originally Posted By AgentSkyhawk
No Contact

Non-existence her. She didn't even bother to re-schedule also? fcuk her, delete/ block the number and move on to the next chick that's down to follow up on her word
this. disrespect is unacceptable
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This can’t be be real. This was a broke, flakey, suspect girl with abusive ex drama that you hadn’t even slept with. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

- Use of term “colleague” by a girl is always code for dude. Same goes for “friend”. It’s purposefully vague.

- Flaking on dinner (or plans in general) via text, and not a phone call.

- Still taking her out after flaking on dinner.

- The odd / suspect dinner IG stories.

- You freaking out over a cable. Honestly girls are morons when it comes to tech. She may have just grabbed the wrong cable.

All of which could have been avoided if you had an ounce of self respect. Two super easy and recommended options for the future:

1. Total indifference, make plans without her, and make her chase you. Shift the power balance. When she flaked, the correct move would have been a text back of “No worries, hit me up next week if you free up”. Puts the ball in her court, and make other plans for the entire weekend without her.

2. Go NC.
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You guys sound perfect for each other

Getting drunk to get confidence to confront
Calling her broke but you’re bitching for the cable back

Probably was just shaving her pussy after work

For either you or Chad

Now we know it was for Chad

Also lol at believing anything anyone says about their ex without the other person there to defend themselves.
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker
This.

As soon as she said "I'm going to dinner with a colleague" It's over. No contact, delete number, block.

Women are so easy to read OP it isn't even funny. First of all you owe her nothing since you're not exclusive and only "dating." So her doing that to you means two things. She doesn't respect you and she isn't in to you. If a chick was actually in to you and wanted to be with you, she'd be at dinner with you.

The dating game has changed. Women are crazier than ever in general. The world is built against men at this point in terms of relationships. Never take any bullchit or disrespect. If you ever do then she has you by the balls.

This is a lesson learned OP. Also stop vaping like a ****. Never date a chick that vapes. Wtf is wrong with people nowadays.
This

All of this

except for the vaping part but that’s just me, idgaf about that chit so i don’t care either way lol but the rest of the advice is A1 OP

Srs why is it such a rampant thing nowadays for men to become simps over pu55y?

LMAO i will never understand this

Dudes out here in 2022 acting like pu55y is some ultra rare commodity
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
I don't get the part about freaking out over a usb c cable.

the whole things is pathetic tbh,
from her going on a date before your date
to you getting drunk and waiting 30 min past the start of the concert for her getting ready
to giving her a vape on your second date
to demanding the vape back, and freaking out about the wrong $5 cable

the police part is just icing on the cake


good work bro, and by bro I mean never my bro
Yeah. Plus one i would of never went to pick her up, after she canceled on me like that. it's not like it was a sudden thing that happened. she probably knew weeks in advance. but than made you wait 30 minutes when the concert started at 9pm. by 8:30-40 ish i would of been at the concert already. than you freaked out over stupid cable.
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Shes fkn nuts. But whatever she did to flake on dinner isnt your business.

She canceled plans, turned down 50 simps, shaved her monkey, put makeup for 3hrs, and you tell her to gtfo over a fkn cable and act all surprised she freaked out lmfao
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker
This.

As soon as she said "I'm going to dinner with a colleague" It's over. No contact, delete number, block.

Women are so easy to read OP it isn't even funny. First of all you owe her nothing since you're not exclusive and only "dating." So her doing that to you means two things. She doesn't respect you and she isn't in to you. If a chick was actually in to you and wanted to be with you, she'd be at dinner with you.

The dating game has changed. Women are crazier than ever in general. The world is built against men at this point in terms of relationships. Never take any bullchit or disrespect. If you ever do then she has you by the balls.

This is a lesson learned OP. Also stop vaping like a ****. Never date a chick that vapes. Wtf is wrong with people nowadays.
i can tell you're powerless with women if you actually block their numbers lol

most of the responses in this thread are miscers trying to lash out vicariously as a result of getting nuked by gals in their own lives

show me on the doll where they hurt you lmao

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Originally Posted By swolefnatic
wow crazy fking night boyos LMAO

-was still pissed and got drunk b4 i went to pick her up
-the concert was scheduled to start at 9 and she wasn't ready til 9:30
-when she came into the car we talked a bit and i was probing her questions regarding this "colleague"
-somthing seemed off and i'm usually pretty good at telling when people are lying, she was looking down the whole time talking about this colleague, said they were celebrating a colleague leaving for his last day of work today but she seemed pretty uncomfortable and kept rushing me to drive
-then i said "give me my cable back" (for a vape that I 'gave' to her last week after our last date)
-she went back into the house and when she came back she gave me a micro-USB cable instead of the usb-c cable i gave her. which is funny cause we even tested the usb-c cable i gave her back at my place cause she really needed a cord for her vape and it worked for her vape, yet she somehow forgets and gives me a micro-usb cable instead? (she's broke, but I knew immediately she was stealing my chit. and I am a huge gamer/gaming pc person so I know my phucking cables)
-immediately caught her lying and told her to GTFO the car, said very very calmly "please get out"
-she wouldn't GTFO the car and starts throwing a hissy fit and was in denial i was lying to her, she called the cops while in my car, trapping me in
-lied to the cops saying I threatened to kill her and "I" was the one holding her hostage in the car
-cops came, I told the truth, de-escalated the situation and we both went home. obv I didn't do anything illegal and she was frantically trying so hard to convince the cops i was some psychopath/sociopath that was trying to kill her. (thank jeeeesus the cops were men and understood my situation immediately and could tell she was bat chit crazy)

It all happened SO FAST but my initial plan was to probe her questions and see if she was lying about the 'dinner with colleague' in the first place. When I asked her she kept looking down and wouldn't give me eye contact, almost as if she was shameful (probably lying). My next immediate plan was to see if she was even faithful about the vape cord I gave her, so I kindly asked for it back. And when she came back into the car with the wrong cable I knew she was lying about everything.

During her tirade / mental breakdown on the phone w/ the cop (she was half talking chit to me/half talking to the cops) she admitted to me that the ex that physically assaulted to her recently apologized to her (idk why she said that or what led to her saying that). So what I think is really going on was she's been secretly seeing her ex that used to abuse the phuck out of her (and they're currently in court too). her IG stories have been a lot of 'dinner' pics with no people in it so I'm assuming she's been re-dating her ex cause girls have clingy issues with guys that used to abuse them is my guess. explains why she was looking down in the car and uncomfortable/shameful when I asked her about "colleague" cause she knows it's wrong to date an abusive ex and doesn't know wtf to do with her life.
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Was it a work thing? Sometimes you can’t get out of those in fairness.

EDIT: Yeah lol you handled that terribly, Ratfish had the most normal advice on here. Really shocking how insecure and autistic some of you are. Although in fairness, the girl also seems like a wacko.
I originally thought so too but while in a retarded manner, op batchit tested her and she failed. He may have saved himself a few years and a house.
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Wait so you drove drunk and the police got called but they couldn’t smell the alcohol or realize you were drunk? Wot
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