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post 1667340933 09-05-2022, 05:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Sinan09400⏩
Not even in mountains of Afghanistan you can find a sloot like that at this age
I found one at yonge and Ellington, Toronto.


I wifed her...
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post 1667341033 09-05-2022, 05:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
That you car salesman?
Nah he got an arranged marriage with his fat cousin and was stressing on how can he make his cow of a wife lose weight
Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
I found one at yonge and Ellington, Toronto.


I wifed her...
Congratz I guess. You got lucky.

For women it s real hard to avoid all the potential attention she can get.
post 1667341873 09-05-2022, 05:52 AM
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Big pussies. Too scared to talk to women IRL.
post 1667341903 09-05-2022, 05:53 AM
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Women move to big cities.
Women have inflated standards.
80/20 pareto principle
Cultural differences in what men and women value
Men lifting for big muscles more than being lean

Is that it?
post 1667342403 09-05-2022, 06:19 AM
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have you tried having a conversation without talking about daggers or complaining?
post 1667342513 09-05-2022, 06:23 AM
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Originally Posted By PimpinisEasy⏩
Women move to big cities.
Women have inflated standards.
80/20 pareto principle
Cultural differences in what men and women value
Men lifting for big muscles more than being lean

Is that it?
chicks dig big guys, but it's better to be big with a slight bloat than big and lean
post 1667342553 09-05-2022, 06:26 AM
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They're not. Only people who have issues are legit autistic or mentally ill ones.
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post 1667342583 09-05-2022, 06:28 AM
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Good luck with most of these chicks nowadays. I agree 100%. Even the holiest of chicks can get tempted. All it takes is one doctor or athlete to peak their curiosity.

The other part though is men are such cucks these days they just let their chicks do whatever they want and they don't respect them because of it.
and then you do try to reign them in and you’re labeled insecure. It’s a lose/lose situation for dudes in the west nowadays. Just be single and bang hookers/hoochies
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post 1667342623 09-05-2022, 06:28 AM
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Originally Posted By DuracellBunny⏩
Lack of game.

It's 50% getting noticed and 50% what you doafteryou get noticed.

They can't close.
game is giga cope and I say that as a master jester ded srs

a girl is either interested or not in the first few second she sees you. you can only blow it by being autistic but you can never win a girl over. to win you ONLY need looks. to not fail after that you need some additional minor things (like basic social skills, etc.)

JFL at manmore ****gits "mah game". ded
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post 1667346903 09-05-2022, 08:37 AM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
how do you meet girls rockclimbing? I went with my sugarbaby and every hot girl was with her bf. I can see dogpark working since people walk their dogs alone.

also you're hot as **** bro. If tinder isn't working for you,something is wrong with society.
Weird you calling me hot
.. Anyway you gotta put yourself out there and just talk to people. Ie rock climbing, see somebody doing a route you can't do ask about it. Waiting to climb make a joke and talk to the people around you. People are scared to make a fool of themselves and it's holding them back.
post 1667347023 09-05-2022, 08:39 AM
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Because guys who spend most of their waking moments looking at themselves in the mirror don't tend to make womenmoist.

InAfter "derp money derp jestermaxx" cope.
post 1667347033 09-05-2022, 08:39 AM
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A lot of them started lifting to help them get laid, but it turns out muscle is easier to build than healthy self esteem.
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game is giga cope and I say that as a master jester ded srs

a girl is either interested or not in the first few second she sees you. you can only blow it by being autistic but you can never win a girl over. to win you ONLY need looks. to not fail after that you need some additional minor things (like basic social skills, etc.)

JFL at manmore ****gits "mah game". ded
Game was always the name of the game, and has only been called cope in recent years by guys with absolutely none of it.
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post 1667347593 09-05-2022, 08:47 AM
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cuz they are mentalcels but dont realize it
post 1667347743 09-05-2022, 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
They're not. Only people who have issues are legit autistic or mentally ill ones.
i guess 30% of men are autistic then
post 1667347773 09-05-2022, 08:52 AM
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Women need to stop having sex outside of marriage so they can get men to marry them.
This way they won't find themselves scrambling at 31 years old to find a man so they can have a family.
post 1667347873 09-05-2022, 08:53 AM
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idk man. but i certainly cant get laid. but at this point i have no friends so i dont go out at all and feel too old when i do go out.

cant get a single date off tinder or hinge. the gym seems the only place i could talk to a girl but how. doesnt seem like theyre into me anyway.
post 1667347913 09-05-2022, 08:53 AM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
i guess 30% of men are autistic then
that sounds a little low actually
post 1667347963 09-05-2022, 08:54 AM
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Yea but most guys just don't want to deal with these women anymore. I don't want to bang sloots like that even if it is easy sex. Females don't realize they are deluding their own value that way. I would say most of these guys want a relationship and to get married eventually, and dealing with cheating sloots isn't worth it to them. Men are being more careful these days.

As another miscer pointed out too is that a large portion of women don't take care of themselves anymore. The one's that do are entertaining and focusing on the top guys. You think a fit guy is going to settle for a lazy overweight chick that is annoying?
This is true along with your ealier post. I think the trouble is, you can no longer just be "fit, healthy, decent looking" to get the top tier girls anymore. I actually dont think that ever were the case. Where things changed is the fit healthy looking guys used to be able to go to bars and pick up the sloots. Now the sloots have it too easy per your other posts.

At the top tiers....i dont believe too much has changed. You pretty much have to have it all from a well rounded standpoint. Healthy, fit, decent looking, good family, strong values, money, social status, etc. But the similar is true on the flip side. I wouldnt marry some sloot with a broke family just because she was sexy.
post 1667348173 09-05-2022, 08:58 AM
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i get girls to agree to date me and then ghost an hour before constantly. IDK what the problem is. I'm not even ugly. srs
post 1667348323 09-05-2022, 09:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
A lot of them started lifting to help them get laid, but it turns out muscle is easier to build than healthy self esteem.

Game was always the name of the game, and has only been called cope in recent years by guys with absolutely none of it.
finna keep it a stack u lowkey haven't dated since ongod the 60s ngl giga boomer opinion m8 legit invalid and vibe cheugy af fr nocap we outchea u aint yfm
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post 1667348383 09-05-2022, 09:02 AM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
i guess 30% of men are autistic then
No, but 100% of miscers are
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post 1667348593 09-05-2022, 09:05 AM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
i get girls to agree to date me and then ghost an hour before constantly. IDK what the problem is. I'm not even ugly. srs
you are just plan b... or more like plan B-351. The reason they flake is because someone taller and better looking than you is finally giving the sloot attention. You are just placeholder and backup dink to make her feel better about chad leaving her on read and phucking her bestie
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
This is true along with your ealier post. I think the trouble is, you can no longer just be "fit, healthy, decent looking" to get the top tier girls anymore. I actually dont think that ever were the case. Where things changed is the fit healthy looking guys used to be able to go to bars and pick up the sloots. Now the sloots have it too easy per your other posts.

At the top tiers....i dont believe too much has changed. You pretty much have to have it all from a well rounded standpoint. Healthy, fit, decent looking, good family, strong values, money, social status, etc. But the similar is true on the flip side. I wouldnt marry some sloot with a broke family just because she was sexy.
Thing is most guys aren't top tier. Physically perhaps, but all around? Nah. Hell, I'm not.

Shouldn't come as a surprise that it's hard to get the hottest girl when you're an average looking guy. I think the problem is everyone wants what they can't have because of all the conditioning from hours spent online looking at unrealistically perfect people at the right angles, right amount of makeup, and right filters. Average looking men and women should be going for each other.

Now I'm not saying don't shoot your shot with someone "out of your league", just don't expect to have great success there compared to shooting your shot with someone on your level.
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Originally Posted By Strawng⏩
It's a solid mix of higher female standards due to social media & autism. Srs.
finally someone who gets it . in addition to that females dont like sex as much as men... i mean they enjoy it but they can live without it for 100 years ... they are just wired stupid ...their brain cares more about hair,nails,money,travel,body image ,attention wh0ring.... once all the mention or most of it is aquired .... sex comes in.... for female aka sluts..... sex is at the bottom of the ladder..... age range 15/16 till 32/33
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Originally Posted By MEDITATE⏩
in addition to that females dont like sex as much as men... i mean they enjoy it but they can live without it for 100 years .
Sounds like you suck in bed, which is a YOU problem.

JFL if your woman isn't permanently sopping wet. JFL.
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Originally Posted By MEDITATE⏩
finally someone who gets it . in addition to that females dont like sex as much as men... i mean they enjoy it but they can live without it for 100 years ... they are just wired stupid ...their brain cares more about hair,nails,money,travel,body image ,attention wh0ring.... once all the mention or most of it is aquired .... sex comes in.... for female aka sluts..... sex is at the bottom of the ladder..... age range 15/16 till 32/33
Unsexed women get very angry and neurotic srs
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Too jacked is a turn off to most women. I remember a poll where the showed a jacked guy, a ripped guy, a guy with a decent amount of muscle but not big or cut and a semi dad bod guy.

The jacked guy came in last, ripped guy second to last, semi dad bod guy second place and the decent amount of muscle guy won. Women generally don't want to have to try to live up to standards of someone that spends too much time training.

They pretty much all said face>body within reason.

That was a poll though, lol. All I know is when I was single and buffed it was non stop fun.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Thing is most guys aren't top tier. Physically perhaps, but all around? Nah. Hell, I'm not.

Shouldn't come as a surprise that it's hard to get the hottest girl when you're an average looking guy. I think the problem is everyone wants what they can't have because of all the conditioning from hours spent online looking at unrealistically perfect people at the right angles, right amount of makeup, and right filters. Average looking men and women should be going for each other.

Now I'm not saying don't shoot your shot with someone "out of your league", just don't expect to have great success there compared to shooting your shot with someone on your level.
it's 2022. men date down 3 points.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Thing is most guys aren't top tier. Physically perhaps, but all around? Nah. Hell, I'm not.

Shouldn't come as a surprise that it's hard to get the hottest girl when you're an average looking guy. I think the problem is everyone wants what they can't have because of all the conditioning from hours spent online looking at unrealistically perfect people at the right angles, right amount of makeup, and right filters. Average looking men and women should be going for each other.

Now I'm not saying don't shoot your shot with someone "out of your league", just don't expect to have great success there compared to shooting your shot with someone on your level.
100% this.....problem is most people cant think logically like you are here.

"Most guys arent top tier" - Agreed. Most women aren't either.
I was in vegas this weekend hanging with friends of friends that were literally betting $10k a hand and the women they were hanging out with were straight up sloots. Just because you have big money doesnt mean you land a top tier woman. At that level its more about family history/pedigree.
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