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Thread: Can you turn around being 29 , no kids , no gf/ crush ? Life alone ?

post 1688821033 08-23-2023, 09:41 AM
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Originally Posted By SmartzAsianGuy⏩
I filmed it. But I think I gotta ask the girl's permission before posting them online or else... they find out and they get mad and... yeah.

Online maxing is a very inefficient method because first, any decent girl would get bombarded by messages/likes from a huge number of guys online.
Yeah that's why you always get 3 or 4 messages from them then they just ghost the convo

The competition online for anything decent is just ridiculous lol

Gonna say fk it and start cold approaching I got nothing to lose
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I've told you before, dude. At 29, you want to be looking for a decent mid-20's girl to hopefully settle down with at some point. Get any ideas of trying to wife up some early 20's broad out of your head now, because you're already starting to get a bit on the old side to pull any of them for a real relationship, and you won't even know who the hell they really are as a person until they get to their mid-20's at least.

Whatever you do, don't buy into the miscer cope that men are prime dating age at 40. That's complete and utter bs unless you're loaded with cash, AND willing to spend it on some gold digging chick in her 20's.
post 1688821093 08-23-2023, 09:42 AM
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Originally Posted By koreannoodles77⏩
Same boat. But i dont really want a relationship rn. Trying to get to the $200k/yr mark before Im 35, leave canada, then find some nice foreign sloot to settle down with. The west is done
Where you going next?

Feels that way lol
post 1688821183 08-23-2023, 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted By SmartzAsianGuy⏩
Korean
I had the worst 4 dates with a Korean girl this summer

I was sick of her after the 3rd date..because she kept trying to get me to buy her food and did absolutely nothing for me

She asked for a 4th ..and said let's go check out a festival at the water front .


I said sure ...and tried to give her the benefit of the doubt.

I went to pick her up and the first thing that came out of her mouth was " I'm hungry can we go to a resteraunt "

Should have ended the date right then and there because I knew I was done with her...but I went along with it just to avoid a awkward moment and then never spoke to her again
post 1688821263 08-23-2023, 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted By OzzyDio⏩
I've told you before, dude. At 29, you want to be looking for a decent mid-20's girl to hopefully settle down with at some point. Get any ideas of trying to wife up some early 20's broad out of your head now, because you're already starting to get a bit on the old side to pull any of them for a real relationship, and you won't even know who the hell they really are as a person until they get to their mid-20's at least.

Whatever you do, don't buy into the miscer cope that men are prime dating age at 40. That's complete and utter bs unless you're loaded with cash, AND willing to spend it on some gold digging chick in her 20's.
I'll be 30 in September

Mid 20s would be the sweet spot for me rn

Early 20s too young. And a girl like...5 years older then me wouldn't be ideal .
post 1688821373 08-23-2023, 09:48 AM
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I became an expat at 30, met my wife at 32. Of course there is always time. Put yourself into a position to be with women you want to be with.
post 1688821413 08-23-2023, 09:49 AM
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lol You crap on Vascularmanlet all the time while he's happy getting laid and you're bummed out.
post 1688821433 08-23-2023, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted By OzzyDio⏩
I've told you before, dude. At 29, you want to be looking for a decent mid-20's girl to hopefully settle down with at some point. Get any ideas of trying to wife up some early 20's broad out of your head now, because you're already starting to get a bit on the old side to pull any of them for a real relationship, and you won't even know who the hell they really are as a person until they get to their mid-20's at least.

Whatever you do, don't buy into the miscer cope that men are prime dating age at 40. That's complete and utter bs unless you're loaded with cash, AND willing to spend it on some gold digging chick in her 20's.
mid-20 is a bit too old. In a few years, they'll already have a bit of wrinkles or middle aged woman look. Go for early 20s girls.
post 1688821483 08-23-2023, 09:50 AM
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It's over for you, your only choice left is to try men (ded fkn srs) you have the potential to become a desirable power bottom
post 1688821493 08-23-2023, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted By kingofstory⏩
lol You crap on Vascularmanlet all the time while he's happy getting laid and you're bummed out.
But the thing is whores will never fix this issue

I could go buy a whore rn..it won't fix my issues .


When ibby hits a point where he wants more out of a female than just a 30 minute paid sex session with a used up whore...then he will realize all that amounted to 0


We are talking about 2 different things entirely
post 1688821553 08-23-2023, 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted By suave2000⏩
It's over for you, your only choice left is to try men (ded fkn srs) you have the potential to become a desirable power bottom
Not ready to the throw the towel in yet boyo

Hope and faith is all I can cling to

My sisters are 31 and both have kids and got married
post 1688821583 08-23-2023, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By sowilson⏩
I became an expat at 30, met my wife at 32. Of course there is always time. Put yourself into a position to be with women you want to be with.
Never too late man

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post 1688821593 08-23-2023, 09:53 AM
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post 1688821663 08-23-2023, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By SmartzAsianGuy⏩
mid-20 is a bit too old. In a few years, they'll already have a bit of wrinkles or middle aged woman look. Go for early 20s girls.
How old are you then?
post 1688821673 08-23-2023, 09:54 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
I'll be 30 in September

Mid 20s would be the sweet spot for me rn

Early 20s too young. And a girl like...5 years older then me wouldn't be ideal .
Yeah it sucks when you start getting old enough for 40+ year old birds to consider you a legitimate potential target for a serious relationship.

The good news for you is, you've still got a decent amount of time to get this sorted out for yourself. Just don't piss away the next 5+ years only to ask yourself what the hell happened with the time.
post 1688821723 08-23-2023, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted By JaymzJ⏩
Tour is not over, you still have lots of time to turn things around and get a girl... if thatโ€™s what you want, remember you wonโ€™t have as much freedom as you do now with a girlfriend.
I'm ready to settle down if I could just find something decent and worth while again

Like a girl that you meet and instantly you're all in
post 1688821793 08-23-2023, 09:56 AM
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Originally Posted By OzzyDio⏩
Yeah it sucks when you start getting old enough for 40+ year old birds to consider you a legitimate potential target for a serious relationship.
Yeah man
It's scary when that happens

Men who constantly play the field into there 30s or 40s and claim to be that by choice are just copeing

It's just that they never meet anyone worth while
post 1688822023 08-23-2023, 10:01 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Not ready to the throw the towel in yet boyo

Hope and faith is all I can cling to

My sisters are 31 and both have kids and got married
I was joking and now I will be srs. You're still young, I've always had older friends and I have various friends both male and female that have gotten into serious relantionships/married into their late 30s early 40s so theres plenty of time left. Specially with current societal dinamycs people can stay "young" until later on in life, I have friends who are single (either separated or never married) who live happy and peaceful lives in their 40s. A friend who is 46 just got married to a 37 year old woman and they're both very happy so don't get your outlook on life get too jaded because of the miscs influence remember that this place is a cesspool of negativity and it does not represent real life.
post 1688822073 08-23-2023, 10:02 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Yeah man
It's scary when that happens

Men who constantly play the field into there 30s or 40s and claim to be that by choice are just copeing

It's just that they never meet anyone worth while
}Nah brah life is not just black and white, there is no definitive path to follow and everyones life story is different. Plenty of people are single in their 40s either by choice or by fate, just as everything else in life some of them will be happy some will not, s ame goes for married people not everything is black and white
post 1688822263 08-23-2023, 10:06 AM
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Originally Posted By suave2000⏩
}Nah brah life is not just black and white, there is no definitive path to follow and everyones life story is different. Plenty of people are single in their 40s either by choice or by fate, just as everything else in life some of them will be happy some will not, s ame goes for married people not everything is black and white
Exactly

I mean

Atleast I'm not stuck in an unhappy marriage right now with 3 kids or something

2023 has just been an up and down year for me so far


If I look back to December 2022 ...I was dating a girl I liked. That went bad In January. My ex gf I lived with for 3 years was even coming over checking out my new place etc

She ghosted me too

I've tried dating a few girls since but nothing clicking . Feels like I just got took advantage of for free meals LOL
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Exactly

I mean

Atleast I'm not stuck in an unhappy marriage right now with 3 kids or something

2023 has just been an up and down year for me so far


If I look back to December 2022 ...I was dating a girl I liked. That went bad In January. My ex gf I lived with for 3 years was even coming over checking out my new place etc

She ghosted me too

I've tried dating a few girls since but nothing clicking . Feels like I just got took advantage of for free meals LOL
Just relax m8 and try to enjoy what is good in life, no use worrying too much and what the future might be the key to enjoying life is to appreciate whats good in your life. You could be broke, you could be disabled or mentally ill, you have lots of things to be grateful for don't lose perspective on that and enjoy your present.
post 1688822733 08-23-2023, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted By suave2000⏩
Just relax m8 and try to enjoy what is good in life, no use worrying too much and what the future might be the key to enjoying life is to appreciate whats good in your life. You could be broke, you could be disabled or mentally ill, you have lots of things to be grateful for don't lose perspective on that and enjoy your present.
Thanks brother

Thanks for the remainder srs


Can't afford to lose sight of that ^^
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
How can I fix my attitude?
As dumb as this sounds, move on. Stop looking at ex related stuff, and live your life. Almost just play dumb to it. Be properly self-reflective on what you could've done better and focus on THAT. Things you can change. At a certain point you almost have to just play dumb and be positive.
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Originally Posted By twovalvekid⏩
As dumb as this sounds, move on. Stop looking at ex related stuff, and live your life. Almost just play dumb to it. Be properly self-reflective on what you could've done better and focus on THAT. Things you can change. At a certain point you almost have to just play dumb and be positive.
Exactly . Kinda touches on what sauve2000 said above.

There's more to life than dwelling over the past and being anxious about the future.


Just got to get back to basics and take things simple.


There's no going back in time and changing decisions. So I just need to learn from it and move on and vow never to make that mistake again .


I'll be 30 next month...I have my health , I have my independence, things could be worse.

I'm sure a legit partner will come in due time.

Just got to continue to put myself out there


Thanks
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Exactly . Kinda touches on what sauve2000 said above.

There's more to life than dwelling over the past and being anxious about the future.


Just got to get back to basics and take things simple.


There's no going back in time and changing decisions. So I just need to learn from it and move on and vow never to make that mistake again .


I'll be 30 next month...I have my health , I have my independence, things could be worse.

I'm sure a legit partner will come in due time.

Just got to continue to put myself out there


Thanks
Nothing you can do will change the past. Ive made plenty of mistakes in my own life, and the only thing you can do is turn it INWARD and go "how can i make myself better."

Go out. meet people. hang with friends. enjoy life. take care of yourself. get a haircut. exercise more. get some new clothes. etc.

Even if you have to fake it til you make it for a little while, it's what you have to do.
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Originally Posted By Rajc⏩
sucks being a ugly incel with a materialistic doomer mindset plus a nonlifting poor dyel
Thanks for this valuable peice of info
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have you considered DMing Ibby and going halfsies on a house together?

half the cost, bills. between you could get some free shags
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Originally Posted By twovalvekid⏩
Nothing you can do will change the past. Ive made plenty of mistakes in my own life, and the only thing you can do is turn it INWARD and go "how can i make myself better."

Go out. meet people. hang with friends. enjoy life. take care of yourself. get a haircut. exercise more. get some new clothes. etc.

Even if you have to fake it til you make it for a little while, it's what you have to do.
That's the game plan bro

Glad I made this thread got some legit advice this time


You just gotta continue to move forward and try your luck . Improve everyday...shot your shoot when you get the chance.

Forget about the shortcomings of the past. 5 years from now I don't wanna be sitting around dwelling over the same girls or events of the past.


Time to make new chit happen.

Got the perfect set up too ...I should be able to make something happen
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
have you considered DMing Ibby and going halfsies on a house together?

half the cost, bills. between you could get some free shags
I already own a condo bro

Logistics are already in my favor

Wish ibby the best lol
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