So if your wife got fingered by some random Chad you’d rather not know about right

Phuckin’ lol at this nerd.

Try creampieing your gf’s (ex) best friend then hanging out together while she’s full of your cum. Brutal.

Phuckin’ lol at this nerd.

Try creampieing your gf’s (ex) best friend then hanging out together while she’s full of your cum. Brutal.

Fuark thats goals bro srs

That's a rather extreme scenario. I cheated on a few women, never one I was with for long-term though. A chick I was dating for about 2 months was passed out drunk and I fuked a woman I was friends with just a few feet away. I'd had a dozen drinks so not my A game. The three of us went to IHOP the next morning with my friend rubbing her leg in between mine most of the meal. I definitely felt bad about it afterward. My friend was DTF again any time of day but I didn't until the girl and I broke up a few months later.

Only cheated once in my life, in high school on my first boyfriend. I confessed immediately the next day.

Still feel terrible about it to this day and never cheated ever again.

In a week or two when he hasn't been caught he'll be fine.

No.

You basically don't gain anything out of this and it will ruin the relationship.

Also your friend is a retard, he got a handjob which is no biggie.
Any by the way he sounds he will end up crying if he confesses which will make him look like a wimp. After that GG on him getting dump for acting like a poosay.

The chick might even think ''WTF, why is this ph3gget crying like that? He looks so dependent on me. I'm mad about it but it just some drunken handjob''

Some people consider a handjob cheating, that is why. He is disappointed in himself for succumbing to this sort of temptation.

Remember: there are plenty of men out here who have never and will never pay for sex. Period.

All men pay for sex one way or another, boyo. It takes balls to go through the Escort process...

Eh, there are degrees to these things. Not condoning cheating.

Finding someone that you fit together with well enough to make a marriage? Not something to take for granted.

Someone wrote this up for less common/introverted people.

^^^
Less than 1 in 300.

As you get older the number of people who are just available [not in a relationship or haven't given up any desire for a relationship] gets smaller too.

If you have a good relationship then best appreciate it and maintain it.

Lmao no offense Legz but that’s fukking retarded advice.

I can see why you might assume that. And I know I mostly heard just my mom's side. Her story was she loved sex- big fan. And she wished they had sex more, but he was usually seeing at least 2 other women.




Different POVs.

Sure it would be better if it were something they agreed about previously, or if it never happened, but I don't see this as rising to the same level as a premeditated ongoing outside relationship.

I'm generally all about honesty, even when it is painful. Sometimes it isn't the kindest choice though. Broken trust is seldom mended. IMO to tell her of this, which I agree was wrong of him, would be to punish her for his actions.

I happen to be visiting my in-laws ATM. They were going to drive up and then decided they would rather we drive down. Didn't exactly want to, but they aren't in a good way.

MIL's sister who is a drinker and physically disabled has an aged incontinent cat which is a big problem for everyone, but mainly MIL as she is the one constantly having to clean up and she is not physically fit to be dealing with it. She and her husband and her brother all agree that the cat needs to be euthanized. Sister is in a facility temporarily [needs permanent, but they can't find an opening]. I agree too.

MIL was thinking of doing this now, however they are wanting to send her sister home within a few days so she is nervous about pulling the trigger. I would totally take the poor kitty to a vet myself and say the cat got out and we can't find it.

A big fat whopper of a lie. Because saying "hey nutty old alkie lady, we had to kill your kitty because caring for it is unbearable and you can't take it to a nursing home" would just hurt and upset the woman to no good purpose.

Happen to have been acquainted with a couple previously. One cheated, told the other. Other one cheated to "even the score". Ended up in divorce. They had a young son at the time.

I've been cheated on. Definitely by the high school BF as already posted here. Not verified physical cheating with the ex husband, though there was definitely a relationship. Saw a picture of them together at a social event looking very cozy which someone else had posted to FB and tagged him on. Maybe 2 weeks after I moved out she was staying there over the weekend...not spying, lived nearby and saw the vehicle there. I wish I would have known about the former, not sure it would have made any difference with the latter.

OTOH I was never bothered about occasional minor stuff like visiting a strip club w/friends or finding some porn on his computer history. This guy crossed the line. To *me* this doesn't hit the "blow up a 4 year marriage" threshold. Been through 2 divorces and I don't see divorce [or marriage] as something to take lightly.

Yes, I've had many pets. Could be the kitty escaped, or the kitty expired. Given the present health of said pet I can't imagine wondering about it for too long.

Auntie can't care for herself, not even basic things like making her own meals, taking medications, and bathing. She likes to drink and boss other around. Uses a walker. Went outside about a week ago without anyone knowing and fell [again]. Got awful burns from the paving. It's sad. She should have good professional care, however it doesn't seem to be available as all the area homes have waiting lists to be admitted.

The in-laws are poorly themselves. FIL has to have help getting up and down regularly. MIL is frail and trying to clean up, feed everyone, and is the one dealing with the cat going all over the place.

I have been cheated on as well. I'm not ok with being lied to, so I would want to know. I also know I can't forgive and forget. I learned that with my high school bf who cheated on me. I tried to get over it and stay with him cause young and stupid. I couldn't do it then and I wouldn't even try it now. The relationship would be over. I also can't imagine cheating on someone that you took vows with and then lying to them for the rest of your lives and being able to look yourself in the eye or live with yourself.

Yes, I agree the cat needs to be put down or rehomed, but I still don't think it's good to tell someone that they got out and leave them to worry/wonder if it's ok and whether it sufferred. I'd rather know that the pet was put down peacefully and painlessly in someones arms.

Answer the question

He should tell her. Maybe she is the type to not care, but if she is someone who would care she should know that he cheated so she can make the choice to end it.



To the bolded, cheating and being deceitful is taking your relationship for granted. He should have maintained his relationship by not cheating on his wife.

The actual number of humans who are capable of a truly monogamous relationship when beset with options at all times is probably around 20%. And that's being generous.

Fking geeks, she probably closed her legs for good and he had to get action somehow



Korean Wh0rehouse? Out of all things, only low t incels are into these women

No. Never divulge the cheating, it will irreparably change the relationship for the worse.
I'm not advocating the cheating but what's done is done. Coming clean will just further hurt both parties.

It's not easy, especially after a few drinks. I had a hot neighbor that my first wife and I were friends with, who would stop by all the time, but usually when my wife wasn't around. Her body was unreal and she made it clear constantly that she wanted my dick. A few times I almost pulled the trigger under the most tempting scenarios I ever had in my life but I kept my dick in my pants. I nearly always had a hard on around her, so a few times she'd hug me goodbye and feel the steel in my pants against her leg. "Are you sure you have to go?" Ugggh. I even pushed her onto my best friend as a substitute one night. He was desperately flirting with her, she was just somewhat interested back, and when he went to the bathroom I told her she should fuk him. Because it was me telling her, she didn't second guess it and had sex with him.

And of course when she told her husband their marriage was over my first wife told her she could live with us for awhile. So 6 months of the temptation very up close. She didn't stop with the offers. I had to fap just to keep my sex drive down. It didn't help that my own marriage was unhappy (which ended a couple years later) but I somehow stayed faithful, even after my first wife poured bleach on a large pile of my clothes and other dramatic stuff. Pile of destroyed clothes on the stairs, a woman I want to fuk but I'm not supposed to 10 feet away who's ready any time I was. It wasn't easy being faithful.

After my marriage was over I dated women and for the first time in my life I cheated on women. I'm pretty sure my first wife cheated on me (strong evidence but she denied it) and the irony was she deserved to be cheated on the most out of any woman I was ever with, but I was faithful. I'd been faithful in every relationship before her too, so it was my default.