02-10-2024, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
I’d like to discuss this with you were it not for the fact my reply obviously touched a nerve. As such it’s pointless. That’s not an insult btw I am just being honest; we won’t reach any sort of mutual understanding with your defensive posturing.Yeah you're not really making a whole lot of sense here; it sounds like you're plugging your fingers in your ears and rejecting any possible counter-argument no matter what. It's easy to assume you're wrong when you can't really articulate yourself.
Yes I think we all see "unexplainable" (the word is inexplicable) and random pairings quite often; and it isn't always purely accounted for by the man. Although I'm sure we both have different views on what is inexplicable or random.
I'd love to hear any possible explanation why I or any other man would be getting a lot of taken women coming our way, and that explanation says it's 100% the man's fault and says nothing at all about women's capacity to be toxic and ****ty. I'm sure you'll side-step it in some way, though.
Yes I think we all see "unexplainable" (the word is inexplicable) and random pairings quite often; and it isn't always purely accounted for by the man. Although I'm sure we both have different views on what is inexplicable or random.
I'd love to hear any possible explanation why I or any other man would be getting a lot of taken women coming our way, and that explanation says it's 100% the man's fault and says nothing at all about women's capacity to be toxic and ****ty. I'm sure you'll side-step it in some way, though.
But at least you answered my question, which is to say you personally see lots of unexplainable pairings. I did not expect you to give that answer, truth be told.
02-10-2024, 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
Curious if you just have a lot of women coming your way in general (single or otherwise), and tend to notice the instances when they're in a relationship more.I'd love to hear any possible explanation why I or any other man would be getting a lot of taken women coming our way
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02-10-2024, 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
“Most women are already in a relationship”…If a man attract lots of women that are in a relationship, the logical explanation isnt that they have some weird toxic pull that brings unfaithful women to their life, the logical explanation is simply that they are attractive men and that most women are already in a relationship (but still looking to trade up).
Really? That’s the “logical” explanation you’re gonna go with? Christ…
Look, if you’re attracting a lot of taken women, let’s say, a disproportionate amount relative to the amount of single women you attract, then you probably want to reflect a little bit on why that is happening. It might be something as simple as you put out some kinda fukboy vibe, I dunno. Maybe it’s the circles you hang out in. There’s a lot of possible explanations, but what I would ultimately say is thatif you attract a lot of a certain type of women, it is probably worthwhile to reflect a little bit on why that is the case. As I said, it COULD be coincidence (not sure why you and Dolphin ignored the fact I said this? But anyway…), but if it’s a fairly consistent pattern I’d wager there’s more going on than you realise.
Furthermore, why are you guys so deathly opposed to even CONSIDER that it may be something to do with yourselves? Why is that so upsetting to you?
Food for thought.
02-10-2024, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
I dont notice that pattern, i tend to attract both single and taken women. However, for dolphin's case, i can conclude that since the majority of attractive women(at least in the western world) are in some form of relationship (as women cant be by themselves for long and always have a line of men willing to be with them), thats why he could notice that pattern. Its just numbers.“Most women are already in a relationship”…
Really? That’s the “logical” explanation you’re gonna go with? Christ…
Look, if you’re attracting a lot of taken women, let’s say, a disproportionate amount relative to the amount of single women you attract, then you probably want to reflect a little bit on why that is happening. It might be something as simple as you put out some kinda fukboy vibe, I dunno. Maybe it’s the circles you hang out in. There’s a lot of possible explanations, but what I would ultimately say is thatif you attract a lot of a certain type of women, it is probably worthwhile to reflect a little bit on why that is the case. As I said, it COULD be coincidence (not sure why you and Dolphin ignored the fact I said this? But anyway…), but if it’s a fairly consistent pattern I’d wager there’s more going on than you realise.
Furthermore, why are you guys so deathly opposed to even CONSIDER that it may be something to do with yourselves? Why is that so upsetting to you?
Food for thought.
Really? That’s the “logical” explanation you’re gonna go with? Christ…
Look, if you’re attracting a lot of taken women, let’s say, a disproportionate amount relative to the amount of single women you attract, then you probably want to reflect a little bit on why that is happening. It might be something as simple as you put out some kinda fukboy vibe, I dunno. Maybe it’s the circles you hang out in. There’s a lot of possible explanations, but what I would ultimately say is thatif you attract a lot of a certain type of women, it is probably worthwhile to reflect a little bit on why that is the case. As I said, it COULD be coincidence (not sure why you and Dolphin ignored the fact I said this? But anyway…), but if it’s a fairly consistent pattern I’d wager there’s more going on than you realise.
Furthermore, why are you guys so deathly opposed to even CONSIDER that it may be something to do with yourselves? Why is that so upsetting to you?
Food for thought.
Honestly for every 10 actually attractive women you see, at least where i live, probably 2 or 3 at the very most will be single, and they will just be "dating" or in a "situationship", hardly ever 100% single. Women dont like being single, they would rather be with someone "meh", but not single.
I dont think you touch a nerve, its just that some people dont like to be diagnosed by cereal box-like psychology lol
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02-10-2024, 01:22 PM
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I’m 30 brah don’t want to marry till 35+
How young can I marry?
Can I marry someone who’s 25 at 35
How young can I marry?
Can I marry someone who’s 25 at 35
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Okay fair enough regarding yourself.I dont notice that pattern, i tend to attract both single and taken women. However, for dolphin's case, i can conclude that since the majority of attractive women(at least in the western world) are in some form of relationship (as women cant be by themselves for long and always have a line of men willing to be with them), thats why he could notice that pattern. Its just numbers.
Honestly for every 10 actually attractive women you see, at least where i live, probably 2 or 3 will be single. Women dont like being single, they would rather be with someone "meh", but not single.
I dont think you touch a nerve, its just that some people dont like to be diagnosed by cereal box-like psychology lol
Honestly for every 10 actually attractive women you see, at least where i live, probably 2 or 3 will be single. Women dont like being single, they would rather be with someone "meh", but not single.
I dont think you touch a nerve, its just that some people dont like to be diagnosed by cereal box-like psychology lol
But what do you think the difference is between you and Dolphin? Why do you attract a mix of single and taken whilst he attracts predominantly taken women?
If what you say is true of the western world, how come a certain pattern affects him but not yourself? Assuming you both live in the West that is.
02-10-2024, 01:53 PM
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Damn, where can you meet them? 0 action over here for this guy,
02-10-2024, 01:55 PM
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I don’t know that feel I only date women age 19-22
02-10-2024, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Brommando⏩
I'm 36 later this year. Just now starting to think about settling down, the idea of kids doesn't even cross my mind.I want to know which stage do males go crazy if they haven't fathered children?
I think it depends a lot on how people age, I legit had some lady asking if I was in the workforce or still in school last year, so for me I "feel" like I'm not too old to have kids.
30+ women will literally throw themselves at a guy they find attractive though. If you're her "type" she will make it extremely easy..
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Originally Posted By GYMPsycho⏩
this guy fksDoubt it. From what I've seen - women in general have a very strong defense mechanism of delusion. They would blame everyone and everything for the bad situation that they're in.
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02-10-2024, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace⏩
This is how I’ll be 36+ for me to marryI'm 36 later this year. Just now starting to think about settling down, the idea of kids doesn't even cross my mind.
I think it depends a lot on how people age, I legit had some lady asking if I was in the workforce or still in school last year, so for me I "feel" like I'm not too old to have kids.
30+ women will literally throw themselves at a guy they find attractive though. If you're her "type" she will make it extremely easy..
I think it depends a lot on how people age, I legit had some lady asking if I was in the workforce or still in school last year, so for me I "feel" like I'm not too old to have kids.
30+ women will literally throw themselves at a guy they find attractive though. If you're her "type" she will make it extremely easy..
But how young will u marry
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02-10-2024, 02:29 PM
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Originally Posted By conics⏩
I wouldn't mind 10 years younger. I might go looking overseas, women there have strong family values and they can be quite beautiful.This is how I’ll be 36+ for me to marry
But how young will u marry
But how young will u marry
Why do you want to wait? For me it was financial issues when I was younger and also covid took away 2-3 years.. if I could've done it at 30 I probably would've.
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02-10-2024, 02:45 PM
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Originally Posted By suave2000⏩
There are always outliers, I agree with you. Nothing in black and white on topics like this.In general yes, however there are outliers too. I have two ver good close frineds who happen to be female, one is 35 the other is 37. They're both unmarried and single, they are like this by choice and neither one of them wants to have children. They're both as happy as one can be with their lives as its possible in this clown world, both of them are introverted and slightly asexual too.
But at the same time it isn't a random distribution spectrum. It's obvious that we survived to reproduce, the entire point of sex drive is to reproduce. Hormones to produce offspring rage inside most women at this age.
Your friendsmaybe exceptions. Homosexual genetic predispositions, for example, are also difficult to explain in evolutionary terms.
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02-10-2024, 03:09 PM
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace⏩
U already know I’ve posted this multiple timesI wouldn't mind 10 years younger. I might go looking overseas, women there have strong family values and they can be quite beautiful.
Why do you want to wait? For me it was financial issues when I was younger and also covid took away 2-3 years.. if I could've done it at 30 I probably would've.
Why do you want to wait? For me it was financial issues when I was younger and also covid took away 2-3 years.. if I could've done it at 30 I probably would've.
I wasted my 20s doing nothing and in school played video games
Never had friends or a social life or anything never went out so csnt just marry now I want to have a social life now
Also how do u expect me to find a girl? I’ve never even approached so that will take some time anyways
Also covid also took away
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02-10-2024, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace⏩
Yeah, I don't know if relationship material exists here anymore.I wouldn't mind 10 years younger. I might go looking overseas, women there have strong family values and they can be quite beautiful.
You date these girls in their 30s, and they have the same selfish, entitled personality. Guy who said they have a very strong defense mechanism of delusion is spot on. They have their cats, and drink wine every night and bang randoms off dating apps and they're basically good. Most are too self involved to want kids.
02-12-2024, 05:29 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Well women play games and men can play games as well...This. Knowing that you don't want to marry and have kids with someone nearing 30 and keeping them around is kind of cruel.
02-13-2024, 03:41 AM
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Originally Posted By Brommando⏩
What does his girl have to do with some bad women out in the world? This is the same as women saying all men are bad. He is with a good woman from all he has said in the past. Why does she deserve to have her prime baby making years wasted when he has known for years that he doesn't want to marry her? Maybe he has been clear about not wanting to marry her and she's decided to stay, that would be a different story. I don't think that is the case, though.Well women play games and men can play games as well...
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02-13-2024, 03:49 AM
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Having been deep inside 75-80 chicks from all over the world..... I can confirm that most are crazy/fun but not worth giving your life/wallet to (dfs)
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02-13-2024, 03:50 AM
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02-13-2024, 04:03 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Well, my point is women aren't held accountable and neither should men...What does his girl have to do with some bad women out in the world? This is the same as women saying all men are bad. He is with a good woman from all he has said in the past. Why does she deserve to have her prime baby making years wasted when he has known for years that he doesn't want to marry her? Maybe he has been clear about not wanting to marry her and she's decided to stay, that would be a different story. I don't think that is the case, though.
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