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Thread: Gonna ask out kurdish chad at my gym on Monday (no pics)

post 1544112301 02-17-2018, 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted By EoR⏩
Depends how far apart the dates are. If it's like over a 3-4 week period then if there is any true sexual attraction most people will sleep together. Otherwise, you could be wasting your time. If it's 3-4 dates in a week, then sure it could be too fast. But if there's 2 really attractive people who are lusting for each other, it's not going to take that long. It also depends what you want in a relationship, there are many variables.
We dated for 3 months or so and decided to be friends, but I admit that I wasn't 100% attracted to him. With the lust is different, felt that in my previous relationship but had sex after more than 10/grab a coffe after work/school dates and gym trainings (together), the relationship was pretty long and I felt that he genuinely liked me. How would you sleep with a guy before having an argument or contradiction ? You need to see if he would still be with you knowing that you're crazy. Also, this strategy works wonder if you want to get rid of Chads, they never wait that much or spend that much time/money if all they want is sex.
Originally Posted By gharamlifter⏩
did he pay for all 12? wat a Brad.

also, how do I find girls like this? i don't want to date and settle down with some Chad's leftovers...

a lot of chicks are slooting on the dl even tho they act like nuns.
I never had problems with guys paying things for me, I don't have a boyfriend and my house is full of flowers from the guys that I'm friends with, one send me "From your FRIENDly Valentine". Yes, they know where I live because I invite my friends over when I'm baking for them and they also give me rides from school.
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post 1544113501 02-17-2018, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted By 1hardgainer⏩
The one that is most worthy would be the one who would wait for you. That's one of the biggest problems with society today, people with loose morals slooting around and giving it up so easily. Despite what the world might believe, I believe that humans were designed to have just one partner. Ever notice how much more happy old timer couples are compared with today's generation that has multiple partners, FWB's, etc.?
I have some issues and I think this is why I am like that, my mother is an amazing woman who sacrificed for the family and my father wasn't really a model. I grew up really ambitious and fearless, but I have a hard time trusting males, this is why I am really reluctant about giving something so personal to someone. I just had a crying session yesterday in my teacher's office because I am a second year student and I want a career. Got asked why am I so inpatient with personal success, do I have a boyfriend ? Cried all my way home cause I realized how hard will it be for me to trust someone.
Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
Yeah cause multiple partners **** you up mentally. Q the misc meme about "how can the sloot love you if she's loved 20 other dudes dick.". Those old couples had less expectations and made the relationship workout despite all the hardships involved. It isn't like that today at all. People are looking for someone who has everything going for them, including looks so they can parade the dude all over social media.

A couple of my friends I know have had 2-3 relationships top and they are extremely happy with their life and partner. Maybe those people who married their high school sweetheart were better off after all.
My mother married her highschool sweetheart and I think it was a mistake. On the other hand, I agree that too many partners may f**k you up mentally.
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
New member. Been eyeing him for the past week, seen him eyeing me too. Already asked if he's a terrorist (in a joking way) and he says no. So when/if I see him Monday I'm gonna ask him on a date. Wish me luck
do it. i am only 17 but i can tell u that we kurdish/ middle eastern guys are really fun in general and we usually stand out from the crowd (no homo). so good luck
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
My mother married her highschool sweetheart and I think it was a mistake. On the other hand, I agree that too many partners may f**k you up mentally.
Honestly just do what feels comfortable for you as some others have said.

Personally if a girl wanted to **** after 1 date I wouldn't respect her at all but that's because I am looking for quality and I feel like it's worth it, IMO.
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Originally Posted By 7jasko7⏩
do it. i am only 17 but i can tell u that we kurdish/ middle eastern guys are really fun in general and we usually stand out from the crowd (no homo). so good luck
too late but thanks for posting
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well of course it's fine to wait longer. You should only do what you feel comfortable with and you can wait as long as you want and as long as the other person is willing to stick around.

12 dates seems really a lot though to make a decision, just curious what factors were you deciding on? And was it 12 real one on one romantic dates or do you just mean seeing him 12 times in social situations with other friends around etc.
No, we had no common friends so it was only the 2 of us dating, I wasn't really really attracted to him and I saw him more like a friend, but also really tried not to be shallow. In the end told him so he can find a better match,because it was selfish. We are still friends.
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
too late but thanks for posting
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post 1544116291 02-17-2018, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Ok yeah, if he was willing to wait 12 dates for you to decide plus willing to stay friends and stick around even after you rejected him, then he is probably super into you and would marry you and be loyal etc.

And if you're not attracted to him then maybe that's part of the reason that you could easily wait 12 dates without sex, because you didn't desire him sexually.
Yes, I agree with you, but also judging by my past, even when sexually attracted I still wait a lot more than what seems to be normal. I just find it hard to trust guys without seeing more and feeling safe, feeling that it actually leads somewhere . By the way, I don't see myself as being better than other women because I wait more, this is not a guarantee for finding love or being happy, I just found it a bit fast. But 10/10 not judging since my girlfriends are different types and I love them all
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Originally Posted By hai2dehfolks⏩
This is so true it hurts. Im gonna say the same thing in different words. Some guys are nice and will try to give you the benefit of the doubt and, bc you went to the effort of asking him out, wanted to try it. He realized, after the date, that he was right in the first place. Then didn't pursue. You offered him your vaheena, the second go around, and he shrugged and went for it....bc vajjrjeranna. A dude won't turn that down if you're basically sitting on his face. You're a good looking woman. He just wasn't interested in anything other than a warm wet hole.
Allow me to take OP through the brahs thought process step by step. For future reference for any females ITT as well.

*at gym*

"Hm, this chick came straight up to me and asked me out. Intredasting."

"Not that attracted, but she's right here in front of me and it would be awkward to say no....

*Plus, I may want to get in them sugarwalls anyway. Maybe she'll make it easy."

*gets home*

"She just texted. Not really interested, but am I doing anything on [date and time]...? *checks calendar* "

*Nope, free. And she had some cajones. I'm intrigued. Maybe this could actually be fun."

*on date*

"She's pretty cool. We're having a nice convo. Not really feeling the date for some reason though. Oh yeah, duh, I'm not attracted to her. Maybe I acquire sugarwalls anyway? Lets see."

*after date/smash*

"She likes me. And she's pretty cool. But if I keep talking to her, it'll be a situation because I see her at the gym all the time and I can't just ghost and go NC like I want to."

*after thinking about it for a few seconds*

"Nope. I gotta deal with post-smash feels and acting like I'm still interested at the gym if I keep getting the sugarwalls, and she's not hot enough to deal with that. And I don't want to smash that much anyway."

*to OP*

"Had a great time tonight. Talk to you later."

*goes home*

"Das it mane. Maybe she'll get the hint."

Meanwhile, on Misc....



Nothing you can do about it except wait for time to pass and move on. Apologies OP, I really admire the initiative you took and wish more girls had the balls to do it. You're a cool chick.
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Originally Posted By jackflag⏩
Allow me to take OP through the brahs thought process step by step. For future reference for any females ITT as well.

*at gym*

"Hm, this chick came straight up to me and asked me out. Intredasting."

"Not that attracted, but she's right here in front of me and it would be awkward to say no....

*Plus, I may want to get in them sugarwalls anyway. Maybe she'll make it easy."

*gets home*

"She just texted. Not really interested, but am I doing anything on [date and time]...? *checks calendar* "

*Nope, free. And she had some cajones. I'm intrigued. Maybe this could actually be fun."

*on date*

"She's pretty cool. We're having a nice convo. Not really feeling the date for some reason though. Oh yeah, duh, I'm not attracted to her. Maybe I acquire sugarwalls anyway? Lets see."

*after date/smash*

"She likes me. And she's pretty cool. But if I keep talking to her, it'll be a situation because I see her at the gym all the time and I can't just ghost and go NC like I want to."

*after thinking about it for a few seconds*

"Nope. I gotta deal with post-smash feels and acting like I'm still interested at the gym if I keep getting the sugarwalls, and she's not hot enough to deal with that. And I don't want to smash that much anyway."

*to OP*

"Had a great time tonight. Talk to you later."

*goes home*

"Das it mane. Maybe she'll get the hint."

Meanwhile, on Misc....



Nothing you can do about it except wait for time to pass and move on. Apologies OP, I really admire the initiative you took and wish more girls had the balls to do it. You're a cool chick.
Yeah thanks, I feel so much better now







Edit: that's probably quite accurate tho
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Yeah thanks, I feel so much better now

Edit: that's probably quite accurate tho
Not trying to spare your feelings. Misc brahs are brutal with each other, and you're no different just because you're a female. This whole thread has been bitter pills so far.

I'm honestly not trying to be mean. I wanted to lay out a mans thought process so everything that happened has context. I would actually really appreciate the chicks doing this in the 100000x threads guys post about being ghosted as well. The older I get the more I find understanding WHY things happen is actually better than having my feelings spared.

In the end, when it comes to guys, EVERYTHING IS ABOUT ATTRACTION. At least within the first few encounters.

If you get past a few dates, then other things come into play. But at first, whatever happens in your interaction quality/frequency will be 100% influenced by how attracted he is to you.

Unlike with you guys (the fairer sex), a womans personality, values, shared interests, career and aspirations, etc. all mean JACK CHIT if he doesn't want to babynames.com

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Originally Posted By jackflag⏩
Not trying to spare your feelings. Misc brahs are brutal with each other, and you're no different just because you're a female. This whole thread has been bitter pills so far.

I'm honestly not trying to be mean. I wanted to lay out a mans thought process so everything that happened has context. I would actually really appreciate the chicks doing this in the 100000x threads guys post about being ghosted as well. The older I get the more I find understanding WHY things happen is actually better than having my feelings spared.
I agree and appreciate it. Just feeling down cos I got negged IRL
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
I agree and appreciate it. Just feeling down cos I got negged IRL
Welcome to the world of guys. We deal with it all the time.

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lmao, that chad did a good job by negging a 5/10 IRL.

Thats how chads should be, only banging 9/10 and above so it leverages out for the rest of normal bros.
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YIM you just need to get on a new dick ASAP and you'll be fine
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
Having sex after the third date is STANDARD ? I am 22 and the last guy that I dated meet me for 12 or more times and still didn't got it , cause I wasn't sure about him being a boyfriend instead of a friend.

I don't have anything against casual sex or being attracted to someone and wanting to have sex, but giving it after the second date or the third date being Standard, wtf. I am legit a grandma living in a dope body. No wonder that I'm single if this is the standard, who tf would wait for me.
Misc is more educational than I thought.
you must not have any friends, tv or the internet if you think people are waiting 12 dates to have sex.
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Originally Posted By hai2dehfolks⏩
I agree. Definitely bc women are taught to behave differently in a romantic setting than men. She tried something new that was not the norm for her and thought it worked the same way as when a guy does it. It's easy to do if you've never pursued someone as a woman before. A rookie mistake, I guess. Lol.

And yes. At least she got laid. I might go pick up some pretty boy at the gym for a smash and dash.... Hnnnnngh.

Jk I'm just going the gym to do legs and gtfo. I got shรญt to do. Tata, luvs.
i dont think its about being taught in nature males pursue, we are part of the animal kingdom.
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Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
If I could drill that concept of openness into every girl I meet, my life would be a billion times easier. I am not even playing here. Being forthcoming is one of the most underrated ways to create long lasting relationships with not only your SO but your friends. But of course I attract the total opposite. They wanna play head games for whatever the hell reason they have brewing in their mind
they like the attention but dont want you what not to understand? if women were all honest they would get so little attention and if men were all honest we would get very little sex.
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
No I won't, I feel like I've been stabbed through the heart
Are you kidding me, grow a backbone. People get rejected all the time.
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Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
Then try younger less attractive ones? with dating it's about balance; you can only expect back what you're putting in. If you say you're an avg 40 y/o, then go for people in your lane.. if that makes sense. I don't know how to word that without coming across as a kunt, but you know what I mean

YIM.. don't sweat it, you'll bounce back
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
When are we going on a date?
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Originally Posted By umadbroski⏩
lmao, that chad did a good job by negging a 5/10 IRL.

Thats how chads should be, only banging 9/10 and above so it leverages out for the rest of normal bros.
except kladeesh smashed, then hit her with the "lets be friends" line
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
No I won't, I feel like I've been stabbed through the heart
It gets easier, by like the 10th rejection you should be pretty numb to it.

Welcome to being a guy breh. If it means anything, I'd guess the vast majority of males like it when they are asked out. It's flattering at the minimum. Guys don't really compliment each other as much as girls do, so for someone to actually act out on it as well is a huge ego boost.
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how old is this guy? in his 20s? if so, good luck lol
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Cos I'm stupid and yes I got rekt

Yes, at least now I know for sure and that is what I needed. I didn't respond to his text and will just try to act cool when I see him next.

I guess
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Anyway OP god dammit girl pull yourself together and stop beating yourself up! You did nothing wrong, you went with what felt right for you, HE just wasn't feeling it! Honestly chalk it up to an experience and you'll look back and shrug it off. He's out there still don't worry
Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
Not necessarily. If a guy likes a girl, whether she initiates or not, he'll pursue. IME anyway. There's really no need to over complicate things and yeah in an ideal world we'd all follow certain guidelines to make things easier but it doesn't work that way and it's fine. I think if you like someone, regardless of your gender, it's fine to make the first move. Because let's face it the other person mightn't (for a million reasons) and that can leave you wondering what if?
Yeah. That "if" is what I always worry about. I don't want to look back and wonder what would've happened had I gotten the balls to put myself on a dudes radar. Or just see what would happen if we'd spoken and hung out.

I'm not one for regret, so I don't like to put myself in that position to experience it.

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