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post 1618977751 10-10-2020, 11:06 AM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
IKR. Her pictures tended to be like active hiking pics and whatnot taken a bit far away so I think being the redpilled man I am I just assumed she would look worse.
GJDM. Well at least she actually hikes. Almost every girl says she hikes on dating apps, but then sit and watch Netflix all day.
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Originally Posted By newbuck⏩
Lol. Not sure why you and female actually think it’s an uncommon thing.
Women and men talk to their friends about their first dates and honestly why is it a big deal?
From the female perspective you are just a random she met off an app.

Also not sure why some brahs don’t go in for a kiss srs. If you are escalating and have chemistry it should be a natural conclusion or result.
Although there are many men ITT who think a woman is lower quality if she puts out sooner so I guess I see why some might wait.
Where did I say it was uncommon? I’m confused. I’m just stating yeah, it’s disrespectful to talk about intimate things with your friends. Plus why would you want your friends picturing your partner in a certain way?

BRB tell my friends my man has a huge dink and they all try to imagine it.

^ like wtf. Maybe it’s okay for some but I personally dislike that. Ofc other things are fine to talk about but sexual, or even personal things should be off limits.
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Okay, so i came to a conclusion that i need to work on my text game. I want to give ons vibe but not come as desperate or boring. Can you guys post examples of conversations that actually lead girls to come over to you. I had an impression that anyone her can pull girls to their crib at least after 1 date or without date at all.
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Originally Posted By randomuser12345⏩
Okay, so i came to a conclusion that i need to work on my text game. I want to give ons vibe but not come as desperate or boring. Can you guys post examples of conversations that actually lead girls to come over to you. I had an impression that anyone her can pull girls to their crib at least after 1 date or without date at all.
most times the women suggested coming to my place.
if they didn't suggest it I would just meet them out, if we ended up making out in the car and I got them into some state of undress, 2nd date was usually at my place.
we didn't always have sex but we still had some fun.

only other time women have come to my place for first date was when they flaked on me or would disappear for a week or so then text me again like it never happened.
trying to play games.

at that point I made it clear their only chance to see me was at my place.
post 1619001671 10-10-2020, 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted By brightbrah⏩
Honestly, spade had the GOAT conversation screenshots in the original sloth thread but most/all are gone. They were good reading for me when I'd never talked to a girl in my life

of course, he is now on his permanent honeymoon on an island somewhere
Ye, if you want ONS pickup lines and chat, I'd say go reference the old Tinder threads.

Spade will be back in a few months when it blows up. 2 narcissists = a good time for a while, then a bad time.

Although to clarify, I do hope that doesn't happen!
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post 1619002801 10-10-2020, 05:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Talk about how to date went? Sure. But none of their business how many positions I threw her in and how talented she is in the sack.

You think that’s fine? I’m genuinely curious if there’s no line for people here, it’s bright for me.
Yeah I've never talked details about fukking girls with friends and vice versa. Seems cringe and low class to me. "Yeah and then I licked her vag and she sucked my knob" OK that's amazing m8, I know what sex is thanks anyway.
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What kind of messages do you send to people on hinge. Seems like I never know what to say and I'm sure there are 100+ Chad's messaging the same girl a day.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin⏩
What kind of messages do you send to people on hinge. Seems like I never know what to say and I'm sure there are 100+ Chad's messaging the same girl a day.
What's your goal?
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
What's your goal?
To find decent women to possibly go on dates. I would rather meet people in person but covid is making that difficult.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin⏩
To find decent women to possibly go on dates. I would rather meet people in person but covid is making that difficult.
So LTR?

In my case the convo varies wildly. I'll even state my position on stuff that will lose certain women, and that's okay with me.

If my goal was to simply get laid, I wouldn't be as forthright/forward on positions that could have women drop off.
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post 1619010201 10-10-2020, 06:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
So LTR?

In my case the convo varies wildly. I'll even state my position on stuff that will lose certain women, and that's okay with me.

If my goal was to simply get laid, I wouldn't be as forthright/forward on positions that could have women drop off.
Yeah LTR. Seems like I never get a response. I got a bunch of matches early and haven't had any really since.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin⏩
Yeah LTR. Seems like I never get a response. I got a bunch of matches early and haven't had any really since.
Pretty standard unless top tier Chad. The algorithm pushes you to the front of the queue when you first sign up. The truth is not as many women are seeing you now.

Even the paid options don’t seem to shift the needle much. The best strategy is to re-create account. I know some apps like CMB have email vs FB signup etc.
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Had a date with this Colombian chick last night. Met her when I went to a bar to watch the finals last week and she said hi when I walked in lol, and we kinda went from there. Speaks 3 languages, English is her third but she speaks it well. Very traditional Colombian girl strong family/morals it seems like. Date went well/10. She's funny, very busy though (2 jobs, student, and teaches Spanish and French) I was surprised she agreed to go out kinda last minute. No kiss (I think this is more covid than anything) but she for sure wants to go out again and we've been talking alot the next day. Good week/10.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin⏩
What kind of messages do you send to people on hinge. Seems like I never know what to say and I'm sure there are 100+ Chad's messaging the same girl a day.
No 2nd date with the chick from the other day? As for what kind of messages, I always liked it when it was clear they read my bio and said something referencing it.
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Originally Posted By mcboo2⏩
Had a date with this Colombian chick last night. Met her when I went to a bar to watch the finals last week and she said hi when I walked in lol, and we kinda went from there. Speaks 3 languages, English is her third but she speaks it well. Very traditional Colombian girl strong family/morals it seems like. Date went well/10. She's funny, very busy though (2 jobs, student, and teaches Spanish and French) I was surprised she agreed to go out kinda last minute. No kiss (I think this is more covid than anything) but she for sure wants to go out again and we've been talking alot the next day. Good week/10.
Have a date with a Colombian au-pair tomorrow, gonna steal her off you
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
No 2nd date with the chick from the other day? As for what kind of messages, I always liked it when it was clear they read my bio and said something referencing it.
Already planned a second date for Thursday. I want to keep my options open and not get hooked on one chick like I usually do. I have no trouble getting the second date but I usually screw it up somehow.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin⏩
Already planned a second date for Thursday. I want to keep my options open and not get hooked on one chick like I usually do. I have no trouble getting the second date but I usually screw it up somehow.
Oh nice. Good luck!
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Oh nice. Good luck!
Thanks. The other day was my first date since losing my hair and honestly I feel good now. That destroyed my self confidence at first but I've learned to live with it and even if it never comes back I'm ready to move on with my life. I focused so much on what people thought of me that I missed out on a lot.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin⏩
Thanks. The other day was my first date since losing my hair and honestly I feel good now. That destroyed my self confidence at first but I've learned to live with it and even if it never comes back I'm ready to move on with my life. I focused so much on what people thought of me that I missed out on a lot.
That's great that you got over that hump. Plenty of women don't have any issue with a guy being bald.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin⏩
Thanks. The other day was my first date since losing my hair and honestly I feel good now. That destroyed my self confidence at first but I've learned to live with it and even if it never comes back I'm ready to move on with my life. I focused so much on what people thought of me that I missed out on a lot.
Look how many guys are bald and do great with women.

I guess it's different than being very short, because that's our entire life experience. It's not like you go from being average height to being short.

So I can see how losing hair can be a bit of an acute shift.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Look how many guys are bald and do great with women.

I guess it's different than being very short, because that's our entire life experience. It's not like you go from being average height to being short.

So I can see how losing hair can be a bit of an acute shift.
I mean it wasn't just me losing my hair and that was it. It was me losing every single strand of hair on my head and body in weeks and not knowing what the hell was wrong with me. The good news is most is slowly but surely coming back.
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If I see ONE more profile of a chick with the fuking stupid Snapchat/Instagram/WhereverTheFukItsFrom Fruit under their eyes, I’m going to lose it.

Why do ALL women seem to be slaves to the same fuking idiotic trends?

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Originally Posted By kovalchuk71⏩
If I see ONE more profile of a chick with the fuking stupid Snapchat/Instagram/WhereverTheFukItsFrom Fruit under their eyes, I’m going to lose it.

Why do ALL women seem to be slaves to the same fuking idiotic trends?

/rant
Lol Wat? Fruit under eyes?
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Lol Wat? Fruit under eyes?
Or Butterflies. Or whatever other dumb chit.

Example:

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Have a date with a Colombian au-pair tomorrow, gonna steal her off you
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Look how many guys are bald and do great with women.

I guess it's different than being very short, because that's our entire life experience. It's not like you go from being average height to being short.

So I can see how losing hair can be a bit of an acute shift.
How short are you Luci? I just found out I'm an inch shorter than I thought I was when I had a physical a week, either that, im shrinking, or my posture is terrible because I haven't been able to lift for last 3 months really.
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Originally Posted By kovalchuk71⏩
Or Butterflies. Or whatever other dumb chit.

Example:
Oh, I see. Yeah, using filtered pics on online dating is just dumb.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Oh, I see. Yeah, using filtered pics on online dating is just dumb.
Yep. And these aren’t even college-aged women. These women are in their mid-twenties.

This is why I constantly delete dating apps. I need someone with an IQ that’s greater than room temperature.
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Originally Posted By kovalchuk71⏩
Yep. And these aren’t even college-aged women. These women are in their mid-twenties.

This is why I constantly delete dating apps. I need someone with an IQ that’s greater than room temperature.
Dating apps suck for sure!
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Dating apps suck for sure!
You can message me anytime Legz
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Originally Posted By kovalchuk71⏩
Yep. And these aren’t even college-aged women. These women are in their mid-twenties.

This is why I constantly delete dating apps. I need someone with an IQ that’s greater than room temperature.
Is it really all that bad in NC tho? I was considering moving down there (probably Charlotte)- I was under the impression that there were lots of transplants, therefore the single scene would be lit.
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