^^^ unclruckus had a good one few pages back, something like "name, I feel where growing apart.." or somw chit like that.
EDIT: I read that wrong. Thought you meant to restart. Last few pages boys been opening with something food related and getting hits, someone mentioned "Pizza with pineapple or nah" <--------try thatI think if I just delete the tinder plus (unicorn) account I can then restore purchse on the (solo) account without having to reset that one. Thats what I did in reverse to get plus on the account Its on now. The problem is its full of cute bi-girls I matched and I have a crazy match rate with that account I dont want to start all over with a fresh account.

Spoofed to Calle 13.

Arranged to meet with a match, but she's away for a whole week.

Moving on to other matches, but would probably still be up for meeting when she's back.

I have her number, guess no contact wouldn't be appropriate, but the idea of making conversation for the next week or so doesn't appeal. That amount of time would surely make the interaction stale

Thoughts?

what's up with the whole ELO score thing? does deleting your profile and re-creating accounts often really wreck your ELO score? even if you go into ******** and remove the tinder app from there?

i'd imagine it'd be pretty easy for them to keep a record of your device ID, or itunes/google account.

"Quieres hacer un trío?"

Yea but for younger girls who are still going to bars and clubs regularly they get hit on every night

Everyone is speculating, tinder hasn't said for sure.

Sometimes when I've reset I basically get no matches, sometimes I get a lot. One thing I started doing now is I have my regular ******** account, and a 2nd one just for tinder. When I reset I switch back and forth between the 2. Since then all my resets have been helpful.

But its hard to tell for sure, since matches are down anyway from a couple years ago. When I was first on tinder if I reset first day I'd get like 30 matches selective swiping, when a typical day was less than 5. Nothing like that now

Resetting shouldn't effect ELO score beyond the first x amount of swipes, if it does at all.

Because you have a certain market value, that's what ELO score aims to find. It's not going to keep your market value lower just because you reset. Unless they're doing some government subsidy bullchit for less attractive but high paying users (then it technically isn't an ELO score)

Here's what's going on:

Boost has destroyed the tinder algorithm. The card que for girls is just too expansive to the point you're not even seen. TBH I'm still getting really nice matches, just fewer of them. And further, I'm in some very rural parts of the country right now, and just for about 5 matches in as many swipes. (There isn't a que of cards for girls to go through before they hit mine)

Not spade level Colombian 10/10 hbb, but they're still nice:

Ppl probably scared to catch a sexual harassment case. Generally speaking, gone are the days of cold approaching outside bar type environments.

Speaking about environments - there are some really fine girls around these camps. They come and go, and they're busy and picky, but if you have a climbing buddy... these girls are hnnnggggg. And they all do their squats, or some variation of. Two groups have asked me in a roundabout way to go climbing with them, one group of two girls and one was fire. Another couple that I'd been talking to, but we partied instead and had a good time that way.

Speaking about activities - don't get a dog until you're settled down. They get old. Mine is a massive burden like you have no idea, but I love him to death through thick and thin cause that's how it is.

This camping deal isn't too bad as long as you can find a comfortable spot. Thought it'd be free, but $15 - $30/night is still cheaper than $40 - 60 at a hotel.

I desperately need new Tinder pictures. The quest begins. Trip to Seoul this month.

An ELO system for an application like Tinder can be implemented in basically one way (assuming they don't give bias to plus members or manipulate it conditionally, but I'm sure they do as they want to make money)

Let's say their system is a rating scale of 0-1000.

a 10/10 woman will be in the 900s. No one would be a perfect 1000.

That's how these rankings work. It's how they work in professional sports, it's how they work in video games, in mathematics, in Chess, etc.

The assumption (especially among computer programmers like myself, I've helped co-develop third party tinder applications) is that Tinder gives you either no ELO (zero) or a baseline ELO rating right off the bat. Baseline seems to be more logical given the way the app 'feels' as a first time user.

Let's assume for a second that they give you a rating of 500 to start.

You swipe right 50% of the time, and you are a good looking dude so you get swiped right on 25% of the time. You message all of your matches. Your ELO is bumped up 100 points. Your ELO 'reach' has shifted up 100 points as well. Now you might appear for women 400-800 as opposed to 300-700. You are sorted higher in the stack than a brand new account. You are appearing sooner and that means you actually make your way into the stack for more attractive women. A highly rated woman is, by the very nature of the ELO system, a selective swiper who is swiped right on often... so the likelihood of your brand new account being seen by a 900 rated woman is extremely low compared to Chad's chances who has a 700 rating.

At least when I was working on the app (mid/late 2015), it was pretty obvious to us that Tinder would not show you everyone in your area. Our bots would see different sets of people almost every time we started them up (same area, same radius, etc). At that time Tinder had been mostly silent on their rating system because it had just replaced their "recently active" system, which simply showed you based on how recently you used the app. So we came to the conclusion that it must be an elo score system, with a pretty heavy reach (so you still see a lot of women, but not all).

With the introduction of boost, and by deriving how it works from their own marketing verbage, we can assume that it grows your ELO reach. You see more women, you are seen by more women. It's also safe to assume it gives you an arbitrary boost to your ELO score which means you are sorted higher in the stack for every girl who gets you in their stack.. you also might see different/more attractive women than normal. No way to reliably confirm this, but they want boosts to be purchased so let's just say it makes sense.

American Psycho is right when he said Boost has ruined their algorithm. Ugly mfers are being placed higher than your non-boosted account. So if 100 dudes with a baseline of 500 use boost, all 100 of them are going to appear before you do if you have a brand new account and don't use boost. At least for higher rated women. It's probably safe to assume that Tinder randomizes your stack to some degree. Otherwise all the Chads would appear until you end up in Dave territory. This means that women will probably swipe less often, retention is lower (hence lower match rates for everyone unless using boost), among many other things I'm not even considering right now

The whole rating system makes no sense if they allow you to just delete/recreate immediately and then allow you to be shown to a higher tier of women. It ruins the point. It also makes no sense for an app that logs you in via oauth (fb) for them to clear all the data they have on you. They sell that ****, they keep that ****, you agree to it when you log in.

This is all we know for sure about not being trash in their rating system
[ul]

Don't right swipe everyone (swipe:swiped ratio impacts your rating)

Have a bio, have ******** interests, have friends on FB (This is old data, no idea if it still matters)

Boost will bump your score temporarily

Be active with your matches. Be active in general. Message them even if you wouldn't bang. Don't unmatch right away

Be right swiped more often... (Out of your control, but still)

[/ul]
It's reasonable to assume that deleting/recreating penalizes you somehow. If it didn't the entire "baseline" rating range would be worthless to men and women alike. We don't know exactly how the penalty would work, but it's silly to think that the devs making 180k a year over at Tinder haven't used their brain hard enough to account for the scenario of deleting/recreating account to see better potentials. It would also be a nightmare if bots could deactivate and reactivate and not be rated poorly. I'm not going to beat that horse to death anymore, but I'm putting it out there for consideration.

[b]Cliffs[/b][ul][li] New account = baseline rating[/li]
[li] Unsure if recreating gives you baseline, old rating, or low rating[/li]
[li] Swiping selectively and being swiped more raises your rating[/li]
[li] Boost is like becoming a higher rated user temporarily[/li]
[li] Everyone uses boost so women are probably leaving the app in droves now that Melvins appear at the top of their stack[/li]
[li] Tinder is dead RIP[/li]
[/ul]

Currently "dating" girl who barely fuken texts me and we haven't hung out since 8 days ago srs.

Apparently she works a lot and is always tired yada yada. She has crazy hours. Which I can understand. I have a schedule too.

But this is like too much distance. We've had 3 dates already and they were great. We've "known" each other prior to dating. She was on old Tinder match and i just kept her around and rekindled something.

Since before we met she was always flaky like this so it's nothing new. She isn't active at all on social media. I stalk her snapscore and it only goes up 1 or 2 points a day (no psycho), she goes hours at a time without logging into FB messenger (no psycho). And her twitter is pretty inactive too (no psycho), she hasn't posted a pic on IG in like 2 months (no psycho)

She texts almost every night, but that convo dies quickly until the next day/night. She is apologetic for her being like this due to work and life etc.

I mean part of me is like fuk this chick I can't go 8 days with no fukin action noimsayin, but another part is telling me to brave it out cause I like her and this is just how she is, and my misc side is telling me she's getting dicked down by Chad.

We already agreed to be exclusive.

Any brahs have experience with a distant chick like this? My last girl was the opposite and I kind of got annoyed at times but I'd rather trade this distance for a girl who texts me all the time and replies quickly, but who isn't crazy like my ex.

This is karma fuark.

wat do?????

Happy to see all you guys still slaying

Just seen this brahs:

New dating app The League !

We know your time is valuable, so tell us your preferences and we’ll handle the scouting–and the vetting–for you.

So you want to date someone who shares your education level and ambition? And maybe, just maybe, you’d like them to be in your same neighborhood, attractive enough to at least look good in black-and-white photos, with a height that meets your way-too-restrictive height preferences. Perhaps you also want them to share your religion as well. While your mother may call you picky, we call you self-aware. It’s about to be happy hour, so go get ’em. #singleisin #neversettle


This app:
-You are put on a waitlist to get in
-Waitlist is like 10000+ in some cities
-Approval rate is around 30%


How is this app different than bumble/tinder?
-Girls can filter men by:
1.) Height (manlets need not apply)
2.) Education (non-ivy league need not apply)
3.) Ethnicity (non-white need not apply)
-Connects with your linkedln (tradies, peasents, non-ceos need not apply)
-You only see 3 profiles a day

Do you think this will put women on an even higher pedastol ? Will it affect you tinder numbers ?

That's interdasting. I send connection requests to hbb's all the time on linkedin lol. I should change my profile pic its like 5yrs old and I look like a nerd. Might check this out.

honestly bro I've been in this scenario multiple times and while she may (keyword) not be fukkin chads most likely just isnt feeling you as much as youre feeling her, or she might like you but just care a lot less about the whole situation and still think its kinda casual even with an exclusive talk. id just keep with it but try to detach yourself a bit as she also may just be getting turned off by too much interest being shown as well, date girls on the side but dont actually fuk em to chill a bit?

8 days isnt too bad though, id give it two weeks without seeing her and youll know thats an issue

also the league has definitely been talked about in here before and its apparently trash

I'm trying not to look needy. I haven't texted her in over a day. And I haven't double texted her either. If she leaves me on delivered it stays like that.

But yeah I currently have noting brewing so I might as well just be on standby and look around. I figured she would have ended things within these 8 days. She's just weird. All I know is I'm better looking than her ex so fuk it.

We all just gonna ignore this post? This is the first time I've see an explanation like this that actually makes sense, especially the baseline rating 500 with a search rating range between xxx-xxx, etc. It probably does work in a similar way to that, good educated thinking bruh.

So best way to completely reset tinder is make a new fb, login to tinder, get awesome pics and profit.

The only way to FOR SURE have a clean slate with Tinder is new FB and new number. Not sure if you need one or the other. There's no official statement saying that they punish you for recreating your account, but for an ELO system to work it would make more sense than the alternative (letting you go from 200 -> 500 after one little move)

You are. Get a rough draft up for us to critique. I'm sure it'll be outstanding.

Full psycho.

She probably thinks you are desperate as fuk

Hngggg u must smash

Is she saying yes to a 3 some but with her man and my girl (this is my girls account) or is she saying yes if her man can come too?



Now how do I say "we want you to come without your man to our hotel and have drinks with us, then we can have fun ok?"

Just gonna troll her for a bit see how far I can take it.

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I'm totally missing out without plus on my solo account. Might also be the fukboi bio. Gonna change it up see if I can match something bangable.

Meanwhile on my bumble unicorn account. I rarely log in so matches expire all the time. This one was cute, but not cute enough Id pay to rematch.

Rate this bella/10

Haven't smashed yet, but I downloaded a bunch of diff apps (Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel, Happn). Been having good luck w/ CMB so far, getting consistent matches w/ cute girls every day.