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05-22-2013, 06:23 PM
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Doing everything OP listed. Feeling proud right now except I am still a FA virgin.
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05-22-2013, 06:25 PM
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This is the same with me. I'm early 20s too, but damn what I'd give to start over…

Happy 50th for this year OP, and thanks for the advice!
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05-22-2013, 06:25 PM
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OP what's your opinion on love in regards to when do you know to go for it or give up
Dude I might get slammed for this, but…. and this only relates to the guys who want love

You will come across THE ONE in your life. If you haven't yet, just wait, you will. If she is, no one will come close to her in your mind, and I'm not talking about thinking you are in love with a porn star.

You will rate every other female by her (looks, attitude, personality, interaction with you, etc…). No one but her will measure up. If you can't say that about anyone, you prob haven't met her yet. When you do meet her, don't screw it up. Be real, go after her, respect her, and let her love on you too.

Can you imagine sharing good times with her when you aren't having sex? Then she might be the ONE. If not, its just your bonar talking. That's why I said, slim down on the things you concentrate on.

Don't be so busy keeping yourself busy with things that don't matter, that you miss her. Trust yourself. You will know. This is what I really believe.
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05-22-2013, 06:28 PM
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OP, how do you feel about this?
Its too long.
Life is not that complicated.
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05-22-2013, 06:31 PM
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OP what is devotion though? Most of my friends don't really have hobbies, so I am unsure how much time and energy I should be spending on mine. Curious as to what you think.

And great advice, thanks for making us think about this stuff. Happy belated birthday!
I would limit myself to about 4 things: school, work (if applicable), important hobby, and some relationships (gf or buddies). Remember that people who don't have any drive to do anything are going to be the biggest drain on your time.
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05-22-2013, 06:32 PM
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Doing everything OP listed. Feeling proud right now except I am still a FA virgin.
Virginity loss is (at the same time) overrated and undervalued.
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05-22-2013, 06:35 PM
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quit reading after "Dont spend so much money on liquor. I could have bought a brand new SUV by now"

I can agree with not spending money on liq due to how its bad for it, but so you can buy some fuking SUV is dumb as chit. Id much rather spend my money towards having a good time then driving around some "nice" suv.

Unless it pertains to a hobby of yours, save your money and dont blow it on cool cars. Spend it on experiences
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05-22-2013, 06:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur⏩
Its too long.
Life is not that complicated.
I read all of it and the one that I need to get better at is the live paragraph. I've always been afraid of doing things, putting myself out there, and so on.

The one I'm struggling with is the ONE and love. I just got out of a serious year and a half relationship with a really good girl. In some ways there were some views we differed on that perhaps meant we weren't supposed to be together. But I took her for granted and didn't pay enough attention to my words and actions.
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05-22-2013, 06:39 PM
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quit reading after "Don’t spend so much money on liquor. I could have bought a brand new SUV by now"

I can agree with not spending money on liq due to how its bad for it, but so you can buy some fuking SUV is dumb as chit. Id much rather spend my money towards having a good time then driving around some "nice" suv.

Unless it pertains to a hobby of yours, save your money and dont blow it on cool cars. Spend it on experiences
Not sayin I would have bought SUV, was trying to draw some context on value. That is all. May want to go back and read OP. But you don't have to of course.
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05-22-2013, 06:40 PM
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Unless all you end up with is a Chevy Astro cargo van with 210,000 miles on it.
Then that alchy doesn't look so tasty. But that's just me.
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05-22-2013, 06:40 PM
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I read all of it and the one that I need to get better at is the live paragraph. I've always been afraid of doing things, putting myself out there, and so on.

The one I'm struggling with is the ONE and love. I just got out of a serious year and a half relationship with a really good girl. In some ways there were some views we differed on that perhaps meant we weren't supposed to be together. But I took her for granted and didn't pay enough attention to my words and actions.
Bummer man. Sorry. Time to re-evaluate?
Its not beta to try to change yourself because you know something needs changing.
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05-22-2013, 06:41 PM
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Will blow my brains out way before 50.
Ill take the recreational drugs over the SUV
because I won't make 25 without some form
of happiness albeit synthetic.
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05-22-2013, 06:42 PM
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Will blow my brains out way before 50.
Ill take the recreational drugs over the SUV
because I won't make 25 without some form
of happiness albeit synthetic.
Sorry to hear that brah. Hope you change your mind and decide to make it.
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05-22-2013, 06:46 PM
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Ahhh 1994…

Yeah, I was going to wear a condom, but I figured, "Hey, when am I going to be in Haiti again?"

I don't know the guy, but I've got two kidneys and he needs one, so I figured..

Now that I have kids, I feel a lot better having a gun in the house.

I thought about it, and even though it's over, I'm going to tell my wife about the afffair.
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05-22-2013, 06:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur⏩
Dude I might get slammed for this, but…. and this only relates to the guys who want love

You will come across THE ONE in your life. If you haven't yet, just wait, you will. If she is, no one will come close to her in your mind, and I'm not talking about thinking you are in love with a porn star.

You will rate every other female by her (looks, attitude, personality, interaction with you, etc…). No one but her will measure up. If you can't say that about anyone, you prob haven't met her yet. When you do meet her, don't screw it up. Be real, go after her, respect her, and let her love on you too.

Can you imagine sharing good times with her when you aren't having sex? Then she might be the ONE. If not, its just your bonar talking. That's why I said, slim down on the things you concentrate on.

Don't be so busy keeping yourself busy with things that don't matter, that you miss her. Trust yourself. You will know. This is what I really believe.
Help a brah out. I was with a girl for about a year, she ended up breaking it off bc she didn't know what she wanted (code for she wanted other guys). Things were great while we were together and i honestly didn't get over her until recently. When i moved away for school i drunk called her and she basically blew me off (obv something im not proud of).

It seems like she was the main one showing all the affection when we dated and i was in controll of the relationship and now im trying to show some affection but she's not having it.

Is it love or oneitis?
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05-22-2013, 07:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur⏩
Dude I might get slammed for this, but…. and this only relates to the guys who want love

You will come across THE ONE in your life. If you haven't yet, just wait, you will. If she is, no one will come close to her in your mind, and I'm not talking about thinking you are in love with a porn star.

You will rate every other female by her (looks, attitude, personality, interaction with you, etc…). No one but her will measure up. If you can't say that about anyone, you prob haven't met her yet. When you do meet her, don't screw it up. Be real, go after her, respect her, and let her love on you too.

Can you imagine sharing good times with her when you aren't having sex? Then she might be the ONE. If not, its just your bonar talking. That's why I said, slim down on the things you concentrate on.

Don't be so busy keeping yourself busy with things that don't matter, that you miss her. Trust yourself. You will know. This is what I really believe.
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05-22-2013, 07:08 PM
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How do you deal with people who put you down?
How do you feel about stressing at high school for grades vs enjoying my time in highs chool before college.
Any tips with girls.
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05-22-2013, 07:11 PM
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Help a brah out. I was with a girl for about a year, she ended up breaking it off bc she didn't know what she wanted (code for she wanted other guys). Things were great while we were together and i honestly didn't get over her until recently. When i moved away for school i drunk called her and she basically blew me off (obv something im not proud of).

It seems like she was the main one showing all the affection when we dated and i was in controll of the relationship and now im trying to show some affection but she's not having it.

Is it love or oneitis?
Prob oneitis.
Love is mutually respectful. If there is either one of you taking advantage, being controlling, or not able to be transparent, its not love. There is no fear in love.
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05-22-2013, 07:12 PM
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ok I'm going to be a young whippersnapper and take issue with
devote oneself to a few things rather than going from one random hobby to the next and do what you love as a career.

Well, I for one do not know what I truly love to do, only that I like to do many things. I do hear that same advice a lot but I'm not sure it should apply until you are older. Here I am at 28 still searching for something I am passionate about doing. Also, many young people now are pressured into majoring in a single field they think they kindof like, just so they can get a job and make a living.

I feel like it's only when you are at least financially stable you can find out what you really want to do.
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05-22-2013, 07:15 PM
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How do you deal with people who put you down?
How do you feel about stressing at high school for grades vs enjoying my time in highs chool before college.
Any tips with girls.
I used to get mad, but now I feel sorry for people who put me down; they're just doing it to make themselves seem something, I don't know, cool or big.

I think all grades are important, it sets a stage for how you approach the next level. Having a good time (temporary feels) is overrated. I'm not saying never do it, I'm saying its way overdone.

It depends on your goals for girls- sleep with as many as possible, or want to find The ONE? Not enough info.
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05-22-2013, 07:17 PM
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ok I'm going to be a young whippersnapper and take issue with
devote oneself to a few things rather than going from one random hobby to the next and do what you love as a career.

Well, I for one do not know what I truly love to do, only that I like to do many things. I do hear that same advice a lot but I'm not sure it should apply until you are older. Here I am at 28 still searching for something I am passionate about doing. Also, many young people now are pressured into majoring in a single field they think they kindof like, just so they can get a job and make a living.

I feel like it's only when you are at least financially stable you can find out what you really want to do.
That's fine. When you do find that thing, and you find extraneous garbage keeping you from it, then you will be at that point where a decision needs to be made. If nothing hits you like that, keep looking.
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05-22-2013, 07:20 PM
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you make many good points, but at least one is totally invalid.

work is not meant to be loved - this is a diseased notion. work is meant to bring in money; if you are spending many hours working, you better be making money, which you use during your freetime to enjoy the thigns you love, wehter its spending time with a family in a nice clean place, traveling the world, picking up a hobby (doing something you love).

Never, ever make the goal of your job to be done because you like it. Have a job, make money, have a plan B to invest that money, this way you wont have to waste so much of your life working.
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05-22-2013, 07:23 PM
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05-22-2013, 07:23 PM
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Good advice man. We need more elders guiding us young miscers.
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05-22-2013, 07:23 PM
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My dad turned 50 today.

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05-22-2013, 07:24 PM
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I used to get mad, but now I feel sorry for people who put me down; they're just doing it to make themselves seem something, I don't know, cool or big.

I think all grades are important, it sets a stage for how you approach the next level. Having a good time (temporary feels) is overrated. I'm not saying never do it, I'm saying its way overdone.

It depends on your goals for girls- sleep with as many as possible, or want to find The ONE? Not enough info.
Sleep with as many as possible while in high school/college
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you make many good points, but at least one is totally invalid.

work is not meant to be loved - this is a diseased notion. work is meant to bring in money; if you are spending many hours working, you better be making money, which you use during your freetime to enjoy the thigns you love, wehter its spending time with a family in a nice clean place, traveling the world, picking up a hobby (doing something you love).

Never, ever make the goal of your job to be done because you like it. Have a job, make money, have a plan B to invest that money, this way you wont have to waste so much of your life working.

And you are welcome to take issue with that. Remember I said 50 yo me talking to 20 yo me. If it has no validity for you, I'm ok with that.
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05-22-2013, 07:27 PM
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Sleep with as many as possible while in high school/college
No sir, no sir. No bags full.
You cannot leave a trail of hurt behind you and expect there will be no payment for it later.
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05-22-2013, 07:37 PM
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With all the positive feedback on this thread, I have to say you have all revitalized my faith in MISC.

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No offense but surely you have more inquisitive info to give than that. Should be common sense by 30.

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