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post 1471325421 11-15-2016, 08:47 PM
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Can you post a link to the reddit thread.
post 1471326741 11-15-2016, 09:00 PM
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Originally Posted By casiNo.⏩
Strong Norwood 5 on that kid. Inb4 he's 45
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." (John 3:16)

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post 1471328551 11-15-2016, 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted By PastorGaines⏩
IMO the biggest problem is guys overstating their worth. Bro you're fat, ugly, bald, bitter, and stupid. Your job as a frycook and your beat-up 1998 Corolla don't suddenly entitle you to an HBB.

Then again I haven't met a single woman who didn't overstate her appearance so it probably goes both ways. "I'm an attractive 25 yr old, why can't I find bf?????" when the sloot looks like Shrek.
This. Misc autists expecting hbbs to be banging down their cellar door LOL.
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post 1471328861 11-15-2016, 09:20 PM
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"I don't go to bars"

"Where are all the men at?"


actually being this dumb
post 1471329571 11-15-2016, 09:27 PM
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Originally Posted By hermes3893⏩
Can you post a link to the reddit thread.
https://www.reddit.com/r/toronto/com...comment_header
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post 1471329691 11-15-2016, 09:28 PM
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I've been rejected by women for weird reasons, like not being able to grow enough facial hair and being half an inch under 6 feet tall. Some of the insight in this thread has opened my eyes, you guys are legendary
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post 1471330141 11-15-2016, 09:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Walking around campus, I always see some 4'10-5'1 sloot walking around with her 6'5 boyfriend. It's so comical, because both short guys and tall girls hate seeing that.
That's because generally tall men and short women are desirable.

It sounds weird but shorter guys should often date taller women if they want to looks match.

On that note though I am doing good for the short ones, my girlfriend is 5'10 and I am 6'1
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post 1471330761 11-15-2016, 09:38 PM
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lmao. a chick can walk into a computer lab at my school and have half the guys in there be her servants if it pleases her.
the power shift from men to women in the dating scene is more tilted than ever
post 1471334061 11-15-2016, 10:12 PM
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Originally Posted By liftasaurus⏩
hangout at the bookstore for a few hours? wtf is this, seinfeld? the **** am i gonna do at a bookstore for a few hours? u go in to buy a book then walk out
post 1471335821 11-15-2016, 10:33 PM
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Girls in their early 20's have the world in their pocket, but they don't realize time is against them and it won't last forever and many waste it partying and slooting. Those who don't use this time to find someone hit late 20's and have at least as hard a time finding someone as guys do, probably worse. What guy wants to get serious with a 30 year old woman?

Guys in their late 20's who are good with women are cynical and simultaneously don't want a girl the same age as them, but also don't take younger girls as serious relationship material. Guys who aren't good with women at this age are delusional, have serious personal flaws working against them, and will marry the first person they can latch onto and it's a complete roll of the dice how it works out.

Serious relationships are easiest and imo work best when started while young (<early 20's) before getting cynical, but most people don't want to settle down so they age and then run into the above problems.
post 1471338951 11-15-2016, 11:06 PM
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There is nothing new in this thread that most of us redpilled brahs don't know. At the end of the day both genders are at fault here and another large reason for all this is increases in specific technologies that have allowed society to deter from specific biological gender roles too much. If you haven't learned already the optimal solution is to not be idealistic and adopt a nihilistic view of the world and think about how you can benefit the most from an individual perspective. Nihilism is true happiness and most probably realize that too late
post 1471356501 11-16-2016, 05:16 AM
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Originally Posted By Schism45⏩
Girls in their early 20's have the world in their pocket, but they don't realize time is against them and it won't last forever and many waste it partying and slooting. Those who don't use this time to find someone hit late 20's and have at least as hard a time finding someone as guys do, probably worse. What guy wants to get serious with a 30 year old woman?

Guys in their late 20's who are good with women are cynical and simultaneously don't want a girl the same age as them, but also don't take younger girls as serious relationship material. Guys who aren't good with women at this age are delusional, have serious personal flaws working against them, and will marry the first person they can latch onto and it's a complete roll of the dice how it works out.

Serious relationships are easiest and imo work best when started while young (<early 20's) before getting cynical, but most people don't want to settle down so they age and then run into the above problems.
Problem being that young people now are ridiculed for having a serious relationship or getting married young today. The norm a few decades ago was to get married around 18, work your ass off every day whilst your young virgin wife stays at home cooking, cleaning and looking after your kids.
post 1471359151 11-16-2016, 05:56 AM
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Originally Posted By JustJones⏩
lmao at thinking you actually gonna find a test filled male with a ****gy iced frappe sitting in a coffee shop or sitting in a library.

Same with yoga, pilates, baking class or any other high estrogen female hobby.

tbh no one really goes out anymore without their crew or gf/bf with them.

brb every female i know will not go out if the dont have a tag along. They would rather go out with someone they hate than go out alone.
Originally Posted By excess34⏩
how girls can expect there to be any single dudes in most of those places. "really having trouble finding single men in my yoga / pilates classes or at the independent theatre"

NO ****ING WAY?!?!

strong logic: i really want a man who has a career/takes good care of himself/is looking for a serious relationship/fits my criteria for physical attraction. SURELY i will find him sitting around doing **** all in a library/coffee shop/in my pilates classes
Was just going to comment on this lol. As ridiculous as FA miscers wondering why they can't meet any women when they only leave the house to go to the gym and work.
post 1471363191 11-16-2016, 06:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Schism45⏩
Girls in their early 20's have the world in their pocket, but they don't realize time is against them and it won't last forever and many waste it partying and slooting. Those who don't use this time to find someone hit late 20's and have at least as hard a time finding someone as guys do, probably worse. What guy wants to get serious with a 30 year old woman?

Guys in their late 20's who are good with women are cynical and simultaneously don't want a girl the same age as them, but also don't take younger girls as serious relationship material. Guys who aren't good with women at this age are delusional, have serious personal flaws working against them, and will marry the first person they can latch onto and it's a complete roll of the dice how it works out.

Serious relationships are easiest and imo work best when started while young (<early 20's) before getting cynical, but most people don't want to settle down so they age and then run into the above problems.
This is so much truth it almost hurts reading it. Guys who are in their late 20s to early 30s don't want to date women their age for obvious reasons. But girls in their early 20s are delusional about the short window they have being treated like princesses thinking it will last their entire lives. Relationships work when both parties are willing to make some sacrifices to make it work. You don't want to be that person who just ends up with whoever is left at age 40 because you waited around too long since you had too unrealistic of expectations.
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Originally Posted By casiNo.⏩
What the heck is this? Source?


Seriously, do you guys look around when you're outside? The world is filled with average couples. Yes, there are outliers like the very hot guy with the average looking girl and the very hot girl with the average looking guy - the latter is way more common by the way - but for the most part, most people are in average couples.

If you're a normal, average looking, person, male or female, you should have no problem finding someone. The millions of people who have are proof of this. If you can't, it's because your approach to dating is unrealistic/delusional.

All those women and men saying they can't find a mate are in that position simply because they themselves don't match the kind of mate they want. Of course there are exceptions but this is generally the case.

If you want to date a perfect mate, then improve yourself and be the kind of person they would want to date.

If some things are not within your power to change, deal with it and change your selection settings. That is life.
post 1471367081 11-16-2016, 07:25 AM
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
Clearly my selective criteria not the best as I'm with someone with a lot of issues, I would prefer to try and support him instead of cheating or finding another guy.

Finding another guy too hard basket.
a lot of girls choose to date guys with lots of issues because they are physically attracted to them. Also, women tend to love "projects". most men I know who are stable are not desired by women because stability goes with risk aversion, which is not a masculine trait and is sexually undesirable to women.

But, I'm speaking more of women in today's generation in their 20's living in the liberal/progressive culture (which is most women), so maybe it does not apply to you or your friends.
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I find it weird that women think it's hard to strike up a conversation with guys at the gym. It's probably the best place to strike up a conversation with a guy lol...unless you're fat and/or ugly.

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Originally Posted By Jax05⏩
I find it weird that women think it's hard to strike up a conversation with guys at the gym. It's probably the best place to strike up a conversation with a guy lol...unless you're fat and/or ugly.

brb chick approaches "hey babe, mirin your biceps"
The gym is just an awful place to do it. If anything wrong happens you're basically phucked and have to switch gyms.
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Originally Posted By liftersize⏩
That's because generally tall men and short women are desirable.

It sounds weird but shorter guys should often date taller women if they want to looks match.

On that note though I am doing good for the short ones, my girlfriend is 5'10 and I am 6'1
This is the most ass backwards **** ive ever read on here

Tall men choose short girls for several reasons

#1 they are 10x easier to land
#2 they will worship you because to them youre a scarce commodity
#3 not looking at the big picture long term (genetically superior offspring w someone tall vs genetic trash with petite midget genetics)
#4 women are like food some men like what they like just as some people hate sushi some love it
post 1471375301 11-16-2016, 08:46 AM
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Originally Posted By GravityLee⏩
This is the most ass backwards **** ive ever read on here

Tall men choose short girls for several reasons

#1 they are 10x easier to land
#2 they will worship you because to them youre a scarce commodity
#3 not looking at the big picture long term (genetically superior offspring w someone tall vs genetic trash with petite midget genetics)
#4 women are like food some men like what they like just as some people hate sushi some love it
Only 1 and 2 really.

Why place so much time and effort to please a normal height girk when an insecure short one will let you use her as a fleshlight and worship you for it?
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Originally Posted By Jax05⏩
I find it weird that women think it's hard to strike up a conversation with guys at the gym. It's probably the best place to strike up a conversation with a guy lol...unless you're fat and/or ugly.

brb chick approaches "hey babe, mirin your biceps"
Agreed. I've done it myself, it's easy for both genders because there's a lot of reasons to talk.
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Originally Posted By Better
WHERE ARE ALL THE MEN???, she asks.

Hahahah legit.
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