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Thread: might have gotten a random hook-up pregnant...How do abortions work? (serious)

post 1475671771 12-19-2016, 09:20 AM
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Fellow Texas brah here and recent college grad.

Just curious..what college do you go to?

Also...DNA test. Best piece of advice.

After reading this whole thread it truly seems like she's probably seeing someone else and not telling you about it. I've done the nasty raw with so many girls and none have ever gotten pregnant. The fact that you wore a condom and didn't know if it tore open says a lot. I've had condoms tear before and once they get the smallest tear in them they open up a lot to the point where it's obvious if it tore or not.
post 1475672221 12-19-2016, 09:24 AM
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GJ using a condom, its not 100% but a very good chance its not yours if it didnt break. I am sure she was getting dicked down from someone else. If the condom broke, trust me you would know, it would feel a bit to good and that would alert you ot something isnt right. Oh and do not fall for her one bit... She is gonna do anything she can to convince you that the kid is yours and try to talk you getting out of a test. Women will do anything they can to not take responsibility for this kind of thing.
post 1475672621 12-19-2016, 09:28 AM
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OP, get a DNA test, and then man up and either be a father or get the baby put up for adoption.

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post 1475672881 12-19-2016, 09:29 AM
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Are all college sophomores this dumb?

You are on here freaking out about ruining your life but can't figure out how abortions work in Texas?

The only silver lining here is that you're getting the abortion to stop the spread of your genes.
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post 1475673221 12-19-2016, 09:32 AM
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If you used a condom what are you worried about?

She's probably mass texting every guy that nailed her the same story trying to find a beta provider.
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post 1475673281 12-19-2016, 09:33 AM
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You got me pregnant bro. Pay no attention that its the holiday season and people are hustling to make a few extra bucks and send me $500 to get an abortion.
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post 1475673971 12-19-2016, 09:37 AM
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op ive been in your situation many times and its honest to god the worst feeling. If shes actually pregnant the earliest you can get a paternity test is about week 8 of pregnancy, that being said youre cutting it close. The farther along the pregnancy is the more expensive and hard to find a doctor willing to do it. Its somewhat of a trade off if youd like to just throw 600 bucks at it and abort reguardless if it is yours or not asap OR wait until you get a test then potentially have to abort later in the pregnancy at a higher cost.


personally id throw the money to abort reguardless but ive never let it get past the plan b pill stage. I have gone through enough anxiety to plan all this out for future situations though haha best of luck man
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post 1475674141 12-19-2016, 09:38 AM
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Sounds like it's time to grow up and face the consequences of your actions if the rubber really broke.
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post 1475687211 12-19-2016, 11:15 AM
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Don't get an abortion, Jesus will be mad at you (srs). He is forgiving though so if you don't go through with it don't forget to ask for forgiveness!
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post 1475689441 12-19-2016, 11:29 AM
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Originally Posted By lntense⏩
An abortion is where they suck the fetus out.

You would know if the condom broke, they rarely break. I've never actually even heard of a case of that. And you pull out when you cum even with a condom on.

First instead of waiting, make her get tested. If she's pregnant schedule the abortion, if you have to "roadtrip" out of state with her and pay for it do so.

Second, paternity test to make sure it's yours. If you used a condom and pulled out then there's a 98% chance it's not even your fuking kid. It's a FWB so shes fuking other people..

Third don't take no for an answer, this is yours and her future at stake. You're both obviously not ready and barely know one another. Don't bring a kid into that chit.
I've had condoms break a couple times.

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your getting had. When the condom breaks it's very obvious. You would know if it broke even if you weren't paying attention. It is that obvious.

There's basically no chance it's your kid and I would put money on it if the condom didn't break (which it didn't)
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Originally Posted By yoozthekid⏩
op ive been in your situation many times and its honest to god the worst feeling. If shes actually pregnant the earliest you can get a paternity test is about week 8 of pregnancy, that being said youre cutting it close. The farther along the pregnancy is the more expensive and hard to find a doctor willing to do it. Its somewhat of a trade off if youd like to just throw 600 bucks at it and abort reguardless if it is yours or not asap OR wait until you get a test then potentially have to abort later in the pregnancy at a higher cost.


personally id throw the money to abort reguardless but ive never let it get past the plan b pill stage. I have gone through enough anxiety to plan all this out for future situations though haha best of luck man
Why do people say abortions are $600? Abortions at Planned Parenthood are free!!!!!, knocked up my gf and she got a free abortion 2 years ago...
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enjoy your blessings. Congrats op!
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This thread is disgusting. Be a man and raise the child you created.

Oh you didn't know babies come from sex?

Grow the f@#% up.
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Just drive her to another state for an abortion. She should get a medical abortion, not chemical (pill). With the pill she will go through heavy bleeding like a period, horrible cramps, and will randomly void whatever is in her uterus at any moment (including the zygot/fetus/whatever). It also may not work and she'll need to get the typical abortion anyway.

Don't be a piece of ****. Be supportive. You'll never have ANY CLUE how traumatic this can and will forever be for her. I don't care if you are 19. You fuked and got a girl pregnant as if you were an adult. Now act like one.
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If she doesnt take the abortion take her to a hot tub and keep her in it as long as possible srs.
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If she's truly pregnant then it's not yours. She can get free DNA testing courtesy of Maury. Just tell us when it is going to air so we can tune in.

Between being promiscuous, living in a college dorm situation, and you having worn a condom you're good srs
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thank you for the solid replies from the last 2 pages. Read all of them. Right now, she's at the Doctors and she told me she's feeling scared. I'm feeling a little whoozy too because I can't believe I'm dealing with this chit. I had a stressfull 2 weeks of finals and then I find out about this. FUARRRK.


to all you people saying I was irresponsible, Iused a condom.We had sex in my car like 2 blocks from her dorm. It was super dark so I couldn't even see my condom even if it had broken. It's never happen to me before so I don't know how it even supposed to feel like.Does the whole condom tear ( like from the entier base/shaft)? Or does a little hole at the tip tear?




I really wish for the first time some other guys were phucking my FWB.

So my plans are.......if she is pregnant...


- tell her to go to Planned Parenthood ( will have to convince her + think logically; I don't know if she really wants to baby because she's only 19 in college)

-get Abortion pills if we still have time

- if no time for Abortion pills, she will have to get the "Abortion" abortion.


If she wants to keep the baby (FMLLLLL), I will still try to convince her. If she has the baby, my last hail marry is to get a Paternity Test to see if I was the guy who knocked her up.


Any other suggestions/advice? anything would be apprcieated
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If a condom breaks it's obvious. The whole thing tears and just the ring at the bottom is left.
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Originally Posted By iHateDeadlifts⏩
I did use a condom. On contrary, I think girls who are on Birth Control that are not in a serious relationship are trashy af. Why would you need to be in BC letting random guys raw-dog you? STD's are rampant. Would rather have a kid than find out I have AIDS or something like that.


anyways, she's 19. I have plenty of female friends in college rn that are not on BC. Single and Taken. I guess most people just have that " It' can't happen to me " attitude. ya feel?
May I ask why do you have Psalm 23:4 in your signature if you are asking about abortion?

Unfortunately the reality of banging random sloots is the chance of pregnancy and STDs, both of which can happen even with condoms.

I doubt it's yours though as the odds are slim. Still, it's a good lesson to learn about being promiscuous.
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Originally Posted By iHateDeadlifts⏩
I wish this is actually the case. She's a very promiscuous girl , basically she was the one always snapchatting me to hang ( rejected her 90% of the time). She also lives in the Dorms of a big Texas university. So fuarkkkk I hope.

she told me yesterday" you're the only guy I've had sex with this semester"
yeah... bullchit . If she's a promiscuous girl that's a load of **** , she just hopes it was you .
Originally Posted By iHateDeadlifts⏩
Honestly I've banged at least 10 different chicks with the same brand of condoms and I still don't know "how to tell" if a condom breaks. I know this sound stupid but I have no idea if it broke or not . Also, I don't even cum inside even WITH a condom on. I'm still bewildered right now. Could it be precum or idk? fuk. I don't know.

we had sex in the dark in my car so I wouldn't even been able to see if it was or not.
soooo.....wtf is the problem then? straight up not your problem.


plan C , gety abortion pills , slip in her drink , go nc
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Originally Posted By iHateDeadlifts⏩
I'm 19. I don't know what the phuck I want in life or who I am. All I know is I ain't having no kid. I've had some of my bro's in High-school say they've gotten abortions with their gf's before. But I just don't have the courage to tell anyone about this. Hope u understand bro
Doesn't want babies
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Pick one. You used a condom, is she on birth control? I agree that the chances of it being yours is about 1 in how many ever other dicks she is taking on the regular
You would be surprised just how much time I have to waste.
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She went to the Doctor like 2 hours ago and I asked her what happend. She basically said her real Doctor wasn't there so she got some random Doctor/Nurse to help her out and all he did was ask her to do simple exercises; didn't say anything about being pregnant/not pregnant.


Now, I'm pissed as phuck because I need to know ASAP. She's giving me a bunch of random excuses why she hasn't tried the Pregnancy tests yet. I'm legit asked her to get the test like 30 times already these past 2 days. It literally phucking takes like 30 minutes to drive to CVS, buy 2 different packages and try them in the restroom.


I texted her she's being phucking irresponsible & stupid for not taking this situation seriously. She sent me like a 3-paragraph text telling me how sick she's been feeling and how she needs to go for a jog and take a nap. I'm fukin fuming right now about how non-chalanty she's taking this situation.
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probably 3 pages of people telling you this but Imma say it again

she's fcking other dudes raw and is suckering you into fronting the bill
You're gonna carry that weight.
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