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01-19-2017, 12:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
Ectobrah is a bitter man on a dry spell, this is all he posts now or how tinder girls won't give him their time or want to snap before smashing (god forbid someone doesn't want to go over a potential pyschos house immediately). I try to stay away from other peoples personal business unless I'm asked for advice and would never cheat. I personally would try to fix the issues and if I can't I move on. I also haven't been married so no idea what that side of the world is if kids are involved and issues aren't going away or being fixed.Really easy to spot the people who have cheated/condone cheating in here, lol.
Why so offended? Its not like we want to be pals with you either.
You don't get out much, do you?
Why so offended? Its not like we want to be pals with you either.

You don't get out much, do you?
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01-19-2017, 01:01 AM
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Originally Posted By webcam⏩
You're what is called a cuckqueanPeople do things on purpose and deeply regret them after. That's still considred a mistake.
I'm in a serious relationship now too. I used to think that cheating was unforgivable too until I met my s/o. Knowing him he'd never cheat, but if somewhere down the road he somehow did and really regretted it, I'd definitely try to take some time apart then rebuild. Call it lack of self respect but leaving somebody who is your other half in every way that you'll never find somebody else like + throwing away all the time you spent together after one mistake that they regret and won't do again is harder and makes less sense to me than giving them a second chance.
I'm in a serious relationship now too. I used to think that cheating was unforgivable too until I met my s/o. Knowing him he'd never cheat, but if somewhere down the road he somehow did and really regretted it, I'd definitely try to take some time apart then rebuild. Call it lack of self respect but leaving somebody who is your other half in every way that you'll never find somebody else like + throwing away all the time you spent together after one mistake that they regret and won't do again is harder and makes less sense to me than giving them a second chance.
01-19-2017, 01:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
Sounds like its getting lonely up on that high horseI've already distanced myself from one of my younger brothers for being a dip hit who has made some terrible decisions in the past, of course he's family so I'm not going to completely ignore him at family gatherings, but he's not allowed in or near my house for the foreseeable future.
Also, you are quite mistaken... There is nothing emotional about my reaction, let alone offense. It's the logical decision to make, if someone you surround yourself with, reveals themselves to be someone who doesn't pride themselves on keeping their word, or integrity. If you are willing to toss out your word, over something as trivial as sex, then you are certainly not someone I can trust to keep your word for much of anything else.
Also, you are quite mistaken... There is nothing emotional about my reaction, let alone offense. It's the logical decision to make, if someone you surround yourself with, reveals themselves to be someone who doesn't pride themselves on keeping their word, or integrity. If you are willing to toss out your word, over something as trivial as sex, then you are certainly not someone I can trust to keep your word for much of anything else.
01-19-2017, 01:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
Well I just don't think we will ever see eye to eye on this one. I just don't see cheating as making someone an automatic no friend zone... but hey I guess we can be friends since I haven't cheated and I personally don't plan on doing it.I've already distanced myself from one of my younger brothers for being a dip hit who has made some terrible decisions in the past, of course he's family so I'm not going to completely ignore him at family gatherings, but he's not allowed in or near my house for the foreseeable future.
Also, you are quite mistaken... There is nothing emotional about my reaction, let alone offense. It's the logical decision to make, if someone you surround yourself with, reveals themselves to be someone who doesn't pride themselves on keeping their word, or integrity. If you are willing to toss out your word, over something as trivial as sex, then you are certainly not someone I can trust to keep your word for much of anything else.
Also, you are quite mistaken... There is nothing emotional about my reaction, let alone offense. It's the logical decision to make, if someone you surround yourself with, reveals themselves to be someone who doesn't pride themselves on keeping their word, or integrity. If you are willing to toss out your word, over something as trivial as sex, then you are certainly not someone I can trust to keep your word for much of anything else.
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01-19-2017, 01:11 AM
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If I don't like or give a fuk about the bitch, I couldn't care less. I just couldn't imagine going up to the gf and saying "hey Becky, me and Chad had a 3some with a club hoe last night". Or I caught your bf Chad fukin another girl".
I'd feel like a pussy ass, snitchin cuck
I'd feel like a pussy ass, snitchin cuck
01-19-2017, 01:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
I'm not surprised by the southern origins. My ex is from Texas and she talked a mean game of conservative and traditional values but when her gold was put to the fire she darkened.Texas, current industry IT, past human intelligence collection, and infantry. Yes.
How should I know?
How should I know?
Is this sanctimonious idealism born out of getting cheated on?
01-19-2017, 01:24 AM
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
fixed, you are welcome.low self steem, stupid, igranot women who get themselves a true alpha mate dont give a rats ass deep down if he cheats as long as she still gets his attention
01-19-2017, 01:32 AM
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Being a man is about honor, integrity, strength. OP has none.
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Lol at fuken retards ITT.
Some of you probably grew up without father figures or some chit because of of the bro code crap you're spewing is garbage.
If you think someone who is willing to cheat his significant other for a nut wouldnt sell you out when it benefits him is delusional. Lol at your bro code.
Integrity is the thing that gives birth to trust, and from trusts comes lasting friendships. I'd hate to be friend with someone who is willing to stab his wife/gf in the back.
Some of you probably grew up without father figures or some chit because of of the bro code crap you're spewing is garbage.
If you think someone who is willing to cheat his significant other for a nut wouldnt sell you out when it benefits him is delusional. Lol at your bro code.
Integrity is the thing that gives birth to trust, and from trusts comes lasting friendships. I'd hate to be friend with someone who is willing to stab his wife/gf in the back.
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01-19-2017, 01:41 AM
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It depends on the circumstances, but in general - in my opinion - you should tell HIM to tell HER.
Lol at all the bish made miscers who would tell the wife, and those who wouldn't tell at all.
Lol at all the bish made miscers who would tell the wife, and those who wouldn't tell at all.
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01-19-2017, 01:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
So you dropped a girl that you didn't care for. Big whoop.I didn't grow up here, and I've only been cheated on once, probably around 12 years ago or so, in a very superficial relationship. Then again, I didn't have any issues ending a relationship on the spot if red flags popped up.
Had a chick back in high school I dated for a few months. Told her how disgusting it is to kiss a smoker, and I'd dump her if she smoked in front of me(I knew she had in the past). One day she lit up a cig while we were on our way to a date. I turned around, dropped her off, and dumped her on the spot. Was really unfortunate too, because her mother had offered me their oil fortune if I'd marry their daughter. What can you do.
Had a chick back in high school I dated for a few months. Told her how disgusting it is to kiss a smoker, and I'd dump her if she smoked in front of me(I knew she had in the past). One day she lit up a cig while we were on our way to a date. I turned around, dropped her off, and dumped her on the spot. Was really unfortunate too, because her mother had offered me their oil fortune if I'd marry their daughter. What can you do.

Being principled is when you're truly tempted, when your 2+ year relationship is a damage to your identity as a man and your word to yourself. Try being principled in the face of true loss.
You're in no position to judge anyone to be "unworthy" of your friendship or company because they have not acted fairly in your eyes.
Give your brother a chance you fukwit, the only people you can truly ever rely on are your family, unless if that family member is you apparently.
01-19-2017, 01:53 AM
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Originally Posted By WPIALwrestler⏩
Sorry op, I'm not friends with pieces of shyt like you are I guess.Are you guys actually nuts? I'm not saying I support cheating but god damn.. would you really throw one of your boys under the bus for a slip up?
Are you forgetting where your loyalty lies. It should be with your friends, you kno, the people that care about you..
Are you forgetting where your loyalty lies. It should be with your friends, you kno, the people that care about you..
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01-19-2017, 01:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
You sound fun to hang out with. Who made you the person to jump into the middle of anyone's relationship? What if you saw your buddy get too much change back at McDonald's and not give it back? Would you tell on him and cut him off?I agree with this. However, depending on the circumstances, such as kids, about to get married, about to make a big move with the guy, if he won't I will.
01-19-2017, 02:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
I can taste the better-than-thou virtue signaling through my screen.Please tell me more about the circumstance involving my family member and the amount of/quality of his screw ups..... Lol
You obviously claim moral superiority in many arenas of your life. I hope for your sake that you are actually doing yourself the favor of living up to it because the lord knows you're not doing those around you any.
01-19-2017, 02:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
So how much evidence do you need before you tattle? How sure do you have to be before you try to ruin a relationship?Completely the same thing... Lmao. Teen misc - - - >
01-19-2017, 02:06 AM
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
This is actually very true.Women who get themselves a true alpha mate dont give a rats ass deep down if he cheats as long as she still gets his attention
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01-19-2017, 02:10 AM
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
My crystal ball tells me your direct kinship and, in particular, your eldership necessitate your forgiveness and protection of your younger brother in the face of anything.I'm still waiting for your crystal ball to inform you as to the past actions of my younger brother.
But sure, be a man of "principle" and hard-ass. Then go to church on Sundays and pat yourself on the back.
Your signature spoke of so much more potential but you're turning out to be oh so typically selfish.
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01-19-2017, 02:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
You didn't answer the first question thoughYou mean, the relationship my "friend" decided to ruin by sleeping with someone other than the person he gave his word to stay faithful to? Well, if you read the post you quoted, I'd only inform the person myself, if that person was about to make a major life decision involving said friend. Otherwise I'd let um know what a piece of chit move they just pulled, just to get their rocks off, and remove them from my circle.
Obviously I'm not going to act on rumors, but if I see the cheating in action/pictures of it going down, or they inform me of their "habits", and refuse to stop.
Obviously I'm not going to act on rumors, but if I see the cheating in action/pictures of it going down, or they inform me of their "habits", and refuse to stop.
nvm, you edited
Here's my own edit... I bet your "buddies" don't talk to you much about anything besides the weather
01-19-2017, 02:23 AM
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Originally Posted By webcam⏩
I hear what you're saying but someone who is your "other half in every way" wouldn't disrespect or devalue you to the point where s/he'd forget and fukk someone else. And if they would, in a serious committed relationship, wouldn't your opinion of them change so that they aren'tPeople do things on purpose and deeply regret them after. That's still considred a mistake.
I'm in a serious relationship now too. I used to think that cheating was unforgivable too until I met my s/o. Knowing him he'd never cheat, but if somewhere down the road he somehow did and really regretted it, I'd definitely try to take some time apart then rebuild. Call it lack of self respect but leaving somebody who is your other half in every way that you'll never find somebody else like + throwing away all the time you spent together after one mistake that they regret and won't do again is harder and makes less sense to me than giving them a second chance.
I'm in a serious relationship now too. I used to think that cheating was unforgivable too until I met my s/o. Knowing him he'd never cheat, but if somewhere down the road he somehow did and really regretted it, I'd definitely try to take some time apart then rebuild. Call it lack of self respect but leaving somebody who is your other half in every way that you'll never find somebody else like + throwing away all the time you spent together after one mistake that they regret and won't do again is harder and makes less sense to me than giving them a second chance.
01-19-2017, 02:40 AM
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DGAF if its my best friend, my cousin, my father if i find out that they are cheating, i'll aware their significant one and cut them out of my life.
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
Lmao strong this.Lol, why don't you continue to speculate more on the actions of someone you don't know. For all you know he could have murdered my mother, or sold his children into slavery.
My buddies are men of their word, and hold themselves to a better standard than your average miscer. If they tell someone they are going to do something, they do it, and if they promise somebody that they won't do something, they will not do it. Mind blowing concept, I'm sure.
My buddies are men of their word, and hold themselves to a better standard than your average miscer. If they tell someone they are going to do something, they do it, and if they promise somebody that they won't do something, they will not do it. Mind blowing concept, I'm sure.
The fact that the misc are so quick to defend a "brah" that cheat on their partner blows my mind
Actually it doesnt, it's the misc
Switch the OP into a female who cheats on a guy, and watch everyone label her as a sloot etc and rip into her. Strong double standards
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01-19-2017, 03:15 AM
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Originally Posted By SheenRam⏩
Lay down and rot you filthy basement dwelling virigin beta *******, inferior subhuman scum.I'd honestly kick the chit out of you if you ever snitched on me...even if you were my cousin or whatever. Mind your own business dikhead
Be a decent human being once in your pathetic life
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01-19-2017, 03:18 AM
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Originally Posted By webcam⏩
spoken like a true femaleCertainly not, but there are a lot of other places out there to go to. People arent as disposable. I think that if the couple really cares about eachother with time and effort it can be the same again if the person who cheated really regrets it and the other person is good at letting things go.
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Originally Posted By lced⏩
This. Strong judgment and elitism.das not it mane
there is far more to the content of a man's character than whether or not he cheats. everyone makes mistakes brahs
brb if i find out my friend has a drinking problem he's cut out of my circle of friends immediately... u fkn wot m8?
how about be a real friend and try to nourish their growth towards being a better person instead of just deserting your mate at the first sign of imperfection
there is far more to the content of a man's character than whether or not he cheats. everyone makes mistakes brahs
brb if i find out my friend has a drinking problem he's cut out of my circle of friends immediately... u fkn wot m8?
how about be a real friend and try to nourish their growth towards being a better person instead of just deserting your mate at the first sign of imperfection
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Can't be bothered getting into this argument, negged.
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Agree
Men don't tell on other men no matter what they do, snitching is a betch thing to do
don't encourage it but don't be a little ******* either
Men don't tell on other men no matter what they do, snitching is a betch thing to do
don't encourage it but don't be a little ******* either
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Originally Posted By WPIALwrestler⏩
LOL'd at "the people that care about you". Isn't he supposed to care about his significant other? If he cared enough, he wouldn't be porking some sloot!Are you guys actually nuts? I'm not saying I support cheating but god damn.. would you really throw one of your boys under the bus for a slip up?
Are you forgetting where your loyalty lies. It should be with your friends, you kno, the people that care about you..
Are you forgetting where your loyalty lies. It should be with your friends, you kno, the people that care about you..
You're a dumb kunt! Now I'd make you have a face full of my ****ing ******* if I didn't know you loved it, blood cloth!
01-19-2017, 04:16 AM
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
reppedWomen who get themselves a true alpha mate dont give a rats ass deep down if he cheats as long as she still gets his attention
01-19-2017, 05:03 AM
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- Find out
- Talk to my friend about it. Advise him/her to come clean to their partner but don't get involved because even though I abhor cheating, no one's perfect. It might be a one off, hope he/she never does it again
- Watch him/her like a hawk
- If he/she does it again or makes a habit of it, aware the partner and go NC on friend because they cannot be trusted.
- Talk to my friend about it. Advise him/her to come clean to their partner but don't get involved because even though I abhor cheating, no one's perfect. It might be a one off, hope he/she never does it again
- Watch him/her like a hawk
- If he/she does it again or makes a habit of it, aware the partner and go NC on friend because they cannot be trusted.
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