In a marriage which is just a financial arrangement according to him as we have children last weekend and he said he finds me annoying.

He says he feels trapped due to finances, no sex or touching since 2005. He has dated women from my tennis club and school. Who cares what the setup is.

Once I started Bible study, I stopped with the young guys and I've been celibate. It hasn't been easy though. I take medication to reduce my sex drive.

So yes, because of this setup I was not looking for a long-term partner at the time because he would interfere with my time with children. I just wanted a long term FWB.

In my experience, older women who have no children are a little... batty. Whether they choose not to have children, or cannot have children due to fertility problems. On the flip side, in this day and age, it's hard to find a woman over the age of 20 WITHOUT any children. Srs. They seem to get knocked-up younger and younger.

As far as Tinder or any dating apps go, it's easier to get laid as a male if you have even a little bit of confidence, a witty online game, and at least a 5/10 face. In the past, you actually had to go up to a female face-to-face would be non-starter for like 80% of males. Now it takes so little effort to get a bite.

Agree, I think half the misc are delusional when it comes to their expectations of women/relationships. Strong double standards they hold then wonder why they cannot get a GF/Wife and women ghost them within 3 minutes into a date or text convo.

It's much worse when you see someone in their late teens with a 2-3 year old kid.

The short answer: she was borderline.

It really came down to her living a "double life".

In her "normal" life, she was a low-paid wage slave that had a few close friends and a stable boyfriend. She masked a lot of her anxiety/depression/fuarked up views on men to get what she wanted. I honestly didn't know about her problems until we moved in together, and that was after being together for a couple years.

In her "hidden" life, she was legit diagnosed with a mental illness(borderline personality disorder), and she was alcoholic that hid her problem. Had a lot of similar friends with drug/alcohol issues as well that I had never met(even after dating for 3 years). She ended up being very manipulative and often used sex as a weapon, both in relationships and out.

I feel bad for her new dude, because he was probably a kissless virgin before and thinks he married a hidden gem. Borderline women are master manipulators, and she's going to end up ripping this guy's heart out.

now imagine if there was a whole thread on a female dominated forum dedicated to laughing and chitting on at FA virgin males trying to get into the dating game...

y'all are a bunch of hypocrites

Inb4 you're parents get divorced

Sure, that's why it helps to have different viewpoints on here. If everyone looked like zyzz, living in Ohio, then it would be boring.

sounds like we have the same ex.

What always bottles my mind is girls that are even 27+ know that the older they get the more they are going to have to "settle" for subpar men yet they still refuse to change in order to be more desirable before its really too late. Also how many of them accept that they'll just be alone forever because they don't understand why a guy with a good head on his shoulders won't want to be with them when their hobbies are drinking regularly/getting drunk every weekend and watching TV the rest of their free time. I know too many girls that are between 27-30 that complain that they can't find a guy to settle down with but when I tell them maybe they should stop drinking/partying so much, workout and get a hobby they refuse to accept that as a solution. They always say something like "take me as I am or not at all" marilyn monroe bull sht. Good luck being alone the rest of your life then.

Happy Birthday, you arent in the 35+ demo yet, so you have a few years left to figure it out.

I matched with a 35 y/o 5/10 and asked if she would have a cup of coffee/tea/drinks, and she replied she would love to, but she was very busy at work (career woman..) so I'd have to wait 2-3 weeks before her schedule cleared up, if that was ok..

LOL and this joke of a person has 7k reps

white knights eh...

strong stable environment you're fostering for those children

she's not interested

As said, if you truly believed it then you would not have to keep saying it. Commonly acknowledged psychological reinforcement right there.

Read this piece:

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/...ladies/308654/

Post modernist third wave feminism has convinced women that they can ignore their biological urges and requirements. They can really, but it comes at great cost to the mind...thats what we're talking about in this thread. Older women who no longer have the options they once did having to convince themselves desperately that this is not the case. However, their desperation will often manifest itself in their easiness to bed and their aggressive pronouncements of their "requirements".

Quite frankly, "many" is simply not true. I like to peg it at about 10% and a lot of scientists say its probably even less. Its almost like telling people that most people are happy with being blind. Its simply not the case, sex and procreation is THE primary function of every mammalian species. If you're really going to sit here and tell me that things have suddenly changed in the last 50-60 years then u may want to start investing in some biology courses ASAP.

It keeps coming up because its a natural expectation. Even so, you did not have to participate in these kind of threads. And yet u do. No one is holding a gun to your head.

As said, this is the problem a lot of men have with older women. Its their stubborn inability to change and disengage bad habits and the expectations that men should cater towards that. It should be no surprise that after 35 womens dating options fall off a cliff whereas 35 year old men are much more likely to be partnered up.

This thread should be stickied for posterity.

In all her posts ITT deadliftbrah19 perfectly sums up the "beast" (in her words) that is technology and why there is no going back.

Just the fact that young, athletic 8+ men would waste their time and energy (some even going on dates with her) on a 40+ woman is sick and abhorring.

I just got on Tinder for the first time 2 1/2 months ago. Before that I had no faith in the thing because of what miscers were saying.

Smashed ~ 6 sloots ages 21-29. All msg'd me first. All came directly to my place. The 30+ ones on there are delusional kunts.

Would rather masturbate to yoga challenges on youtube than go on a forced "coffee date" with some dried up 30+ prune. But apparently there are hordes of Chads who just love going for the fallen-to-the-ground-and-rotting fruit with a bitchy attitude.

Or her interest level is very low. Makes sense, since I'm a 5/10, too and tinder women are almost ALWAYS dating up. Well, she can pursue or she can phuck off. Not like she's a catch at 35 freaking years old.. (She will have plenty of thirsty WK's regardless)

LMAO I should write this in my tinder bio.

What does her interest level have to do with you being a "5/10"??? Can you miscers stop with the self deprecating bullchit. Interest levels can be low for all kinds of reasons. Even for "Chads".

Its the easy pussy tbh, thats it.
Older women are easy and have rank attitudes but they know exactly what its about and cannot afford to beat around the bush. Thats enough for a lot of horny dudes

Um, I'm talking about Tinder here... It's ALL about the pics really.
Sure, she could be very busy, and probably she is.

i have a feeling single dads are more admired by women than single mothers by men.

OP is talking sht today, but will end up marrying one of those bishes tomorrow

This. I've always heard, although Tinder may be different, that being a dad who shows off your providerness with a kid is a slam-dunk.

Granted, you're going to get a bunch of single moms who want you to provider for their kids, but still. I suspect you could use the kid as a prop to rawdog and NC, where with the woman's profile, it's more like a confession in her last picture.

There's also the ones that put 23-25 as their age and they're clearly over 30...

This. You can hardly blame women when you have literally thousands of men throwing e-dink at them. Us brahs would do exactly the same thing in the reverse situation, there would be no incentive to settle down unless you really found someone completely different from the rest.

If she meets people daily why hasn't she met anyone yet?

7/10 at 35 is like model quality brah......
x2 brah why are u trolling tinder like some bored sloth at work?

Dating game is fuked up in USA. SO many loser guys will settle for the worst just to have companionship

Online dating is phucked period, you see these wildabeast manbearpigs put up requirements like:" no men under 6ft, drive your own car, be athletic, have your own place, and I don't respond to hi"

Wtf bish you're lucky if I even fart in your direction, god it makes me sick.

No she definitely has something wrong with her or she wouldn't be living with her parents at that age. Sorry she rejected you btw but you actually dodged a bullet

I think any girl that is on tinder for longer then a few weeks is fuked up unless she is looking for marriage and is picky.