Fuark man. Just had another fight with Fiance. Life going nowhere

03-16-2017, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩

Lol @ 'life going nowhere'. Yeah because one woman dictates he direction your life should go.

What is wrong with you people.

People literally staking their lives on how someone else's life and decisions contributes to it.

I say it over and over...Never make a person the source of your happiness (including a family member, wife or kid)....

03-16-2017, 11:24 AM

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if you think its bad now, wait until she starts working.

tbh, she's very childish and you should kick her to the curb. if she doesnt understand whats important now and how to prioritize, theres a good chance she wont when you are married.

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03-16-2017, 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted By VSVP99⏩

Take her family out of the equation. Seems like their status/wealth is messing with the situation. Would you be with her if they were poor/regular?

Let's just say they are very passive aggressive in nature.
They eventually wanted me to join their ventures down the line which I pretty much declined and since then I have had not been able to blend in with them.

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03-16-2017, 11:40 AM

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Wtf op if you learn anything on the misc it is to not get married smh...

03-16-2017, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted By mrcarter1990⏩

Let's just say they are very passive aggressive in nature.
They eventually wanted me to join their ventures down the line which I pretty much declined and since then I have had not been able to blend in with them.

Sounds like they are a package deal. Tough spot you've gotten into.

Her family offers a set lifestyle, so they do deserve priority imo. I'd think it be:

a) work 30hrs/week max for her family and guaranteed have it made

or

b) work 60hrs/week for your own dream and maybe have it made after 20 years.

Her and her family would prefer you choose a. Whereas you'd prefer the glory/adventure of b.

priorities differ.

03-16-2017, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted By mrcarter1990⏩

She is trying to get a job but haven't been successful so far. Fuarkin been like 2-3 months. Also her family is also kinda very well off. So she practically has never kinda worked apart from like crappy McDonald's jobs here and there when in school.
She is good at academics but that doesn't Kinda pay the rent.
Also, the thing that pisses me off is that any event/party/etc etc in her family should be considered with utmost priority. With fuarking 2 jobs last thing I want to do is spend half my day off at her parents place.

shes in school to become a dentist? as in shes in graduate school to get a doctorate degree? if so thats not just sitting around and not doing chit. that takes alot of time

i dont know about you, but im in grad school and I dont have time for CHIT other than study and work. And honestly, I wouldnt be working if I had a choice and could just study as my profession deals with making critical decisions that effect my patients outcome. She should def be focusing on school esp if youre already a RN. (assuming since you have BSN in your sig). It also seems like youre not willing to meet halfway and just always want to chill after work, which is understandable, but sometimes you have to make sacrifices for your significant other also. And calm your chit down, stop being a pussy and just handle things reasonable and like a fuking man and not a fuking child resorting to alcohol and raging like a 5 year old child, even if your fiance is being stupid af.

03-16-2017, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted By mrcarter1990⏩

Let's just say they are very passive aggressive in nature.
They eventually wanted me to join their ventures down the line which I pretty much declined and since then I have had not been able to blend in with them.

She is going to cheat on you while you're a work with a classmate that has a car, mark my words. It might not be tomorrow, nor next month, but two years is a long time.

03-16-2017, 12:59 PM

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end it now or lose half of everything you own later. pretty easy choice.

03-16-2017, 01:08 PM

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I don't understand this. If your "mate" doesn't work, she is to have the house kept and provide free sex whenever YOU desire it. This arrangement should be like a dream if you're into being exclusive.

Somehow the complete opposite is happening. How on Earth does she have the right to complain about anything? She should be bouncing like a puppy at the door when you get home. lol.

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03-16-2017, 01:10 PM

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sounds like the perfect gal to marry

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03-16-2017, 01:12 PM

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you phucked up when you decided to use logic when talking to your fiance.

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03-16-2017, 01:16 PM

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03-16-2017, 01:22 PM

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I dont see this ending well the arguments are only going to get worse people are unhappy and then people get divorce, if I were you OP I would get out before signing any marriage papers and losing half my chit.

03-16-2017, 01:23 PM

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03-16-2017, 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted By mrcarter1990⏩

She is studying dentistry. Looking for a job in her field.
Every Fukien Tom dik and Harry is eligible to work as entry level dentist jobs. So her chances are slime. Also she doesn't really have a car right now. Long story.
Yea so basically study at home and watch TV.

So which is it, is she staying at home all day, looking for a job in her field, or still in school? Shes not doing all 3. If shes still in school shes not staying home all day or looking for a job. IF shes looking for a job shes not still in school. Somethings not adding up here. In the states Dentists are extremely in demand you can find a job anywhere. I cant imagine Australia is much different. Does she has a DDS? Did she graduate??

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03-16-2017, 01:29 PM

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that poon is getting parted by tyrone harder than Moses did the Red Sea

she's just lookin for **** to breakup with you or drive you crazy enough to breakup with her

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03-16-2017, 01:35 PM

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lazy bitches get no love from me. end it.

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03-16-2017, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted By RazorM3⏩

Try to make her understand how much you work and spend time with her when you can

Yeah I'm sure she'll see the light and come right around. Good advice. /s

03-16-2017, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted By mrcarter1990⏩

She is studying dentistry. Looking for a job in her field.
Every Fukien Tom dik and Harry is eligible to work as entry level dentist jobs. So her chances are slime. Also she doesn't really have a car right now. Long story.
Yea so basically study at home and watch TV.

You're making excuses for her bro. Tell her she has to contribute and get a part time job in any industry. Even if it's just 10 hours a week. She is going stir crazy just sitting at home.

03-16-2017, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted By RazorM3⏩

Try to make her understand how much you work and spend time with her when you can

**** this. Dump her ass. You work 2 jobs she works 0 and she's complaining you don't spend time with her? You guys are not compatible. GTFO

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03-16-2017, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted By gottk2x⏩

you proposed to your stay at home gf...that's on you

03-16-2017, 01:45 PM

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03-16-2017, 01:45 PM

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03-16-2017, 01:49 PM

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03-16-2017, 02:02 PM

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Next thing you know shes bringing home a Chad while your working one of your two jobs.

You come home early one day to find them banging.

She feels sorry for it for a while, but then after a while she will shift the blame on you, and how it's your fault you made her feel lonely.

Tours over boyo.

03-16-2017, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted By mrcarter1990⏩

Things were different before man.
It's just when she moved in and things have gone downhill.
Just tried talking to her but yea went nowhere.
Fuark man. Sounds bad. But there has been times when I have thought about kicking her out of the house and breaking the engagement.

Honestly dude, if you have thought about this stuff already you may be making a long, painful, and costly mistake. Things like this don't tend to get better with time. If you aren't 110% sure, then you are making the wrong choice.