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Originally Posted By axiom15⏩
I legit had to read thread title multiple times before enteringAnyone else read thread title as
GFs Dad wants to break up with me
GFs Dad wants to break up with me
Originally Posted By IfeHearted⏩
I've asked this before and people here called me retarded. I don't get it either.From someone that only drinks sparingly and has never blacked out, I've never been able to fathom how someone gets to a point where they don't understand/know what they're doing. I've always been able to think rationally regardless of how many beers deep I am and understand the consequences of my actions. Someone help a brother understand? Is it just like a light switch, where you've got your **** together, and then the next sip just flips the switch and there's no going back or what?
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Originally Posted By TheScapeGOAT⏩
You're 25 years old. Grow the fuk up srs. Who the fuk is still 25 and gets completely fuking wasted at their GF's family's BBQ no less knowing that this type of chit would happen. Even then that is one thing but it is another to start pissing in a bonfire in front of your GFs parents. This isn't just a mistake. It's just stupidity beyond fuking words. You already fuked up beyond repair. It actually pisses me off and triggers me that people like this are allowed to exist and are born on this earth SRS.Dun goofed hard. My GFs family threw a summer BBQ party at their house. They were serving all kinds of alcohol and I tend to keep going once I start. I blacked out at some point during the party and came to in my bed the next day. My GF left a note that said "call me." When I got her on the phone she told me that I got so drunk that I started pissing on the bonfire and horrified all her parents guests. I tried calling her father but he just told me to end it with his daughter and if I ever go to house he will knock me out and start pissing on me.
I'm still with my GF but I'm worried. I don't know what will happen. Surely he can't stay mad for ever? I'm thinking about letting some time pass and then ask him to grab a beer for a formal apology.
I'm still with my GF but I'm worried. I don't know what will happen. Surely he can't stay mad for ever? I'm thinking about letting some time pass and then ask him to grab a beer for a formal apology.
If I were her dad I would do the same chit and I'd probably shoot you if you got anywhere near her. Because who knows what other stupid chit you will do, like IDK? Get wasted to the point where you actually get your GF killed? Start abusing her? Her dad is just trying to protect her daughter from your ****tardery. You're a snowflake if you think he isn't justified in what he said to you.
At this point I think this is beyond repair, I hope you learned a valuable lesson and that this is the point where you actually start getting your chit together. Better start sucking his dink if you have any hope of salvaging this; show that you're fuking sorry and you should be.
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06-24-2017, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted By sooby⏩
Bro you are acting like I am a monster. I said I fukked up and will apologize for this and get it together. If my relationship ends from this, so be it. But come on. Abusing her? Wtf man. You've never made a poor decision in your life? When I'm off recharge I'm going to neg you back so hard.You're 25 years old. Grow the fuk up srs. Who the fuk is still 25 and gets completely fuking wasted at their GF's family's BBQ no less knowing that this type of chit would happen. Even then that is one thing but it is another to start pissing in a bonfire in front of your GFs parents. This isn't just a mistake. It's just stupidity beyond fuking words. You already fuked up beyond repair. It actually pisses me off and triggers me that people like this are allowed to exist and are born on this earth SRS.
If I were her dad I would do the same chit and I'd probably shoot you if you got anywhere near her. Because who knows what other stupid chit you will do, like IDK? Get wasted to the point where you actually get your GF killed? Start abusing her? Her dad is just trying to protect her daughter from your ****tardery. You're a snowflake if you think he isn't justified in what he said to you.
At this point I think this is beyond repair, I hope you learned a valuable lesson and that this is the point where you actually start getting your chit together. Better start sucking his dink if you have any hope of salvaging this; show that you're fuking sorry and you should be.
And also negged.
If I were her dad I would do the same chit and I'd probably shoot you if you got anywhere near her. Because who knows what other stupid chit you will do, like IDK? Get wasted to the point where you actually get your GF killed? Start abusing her? Her dad is just trying to protect her daughter from your ****tardery. You're a snowflake if you think he isn't justified in what he said to you.
At this point I think this is beyond repair, I hope you learned a valuable lesson and that this is the point where you actually start getting your chit together. Better start sucking his dink if you have any hope of salvaging this; show that you're fuking sorry and you should be.
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Originally Posted By TheScapeGOAT⏩
if you piss in a fuking bonfire at a family dinner anything is possible at this point and it's better not have your daughter deal with anybody like that.Bro you are acting like I am a monster. I said I fukked up and will apologize for this and get it together. If my relationship ends from this, so be it. But come on. Abusing her? Wtf man. You've never made a poor decision in your life? When I'm off recharge I'm going to neg you back so hard.
and sure I've made poor decisions; but not out of pure and sheer fuking irresponsibility and negligence mixed in with level 10 fuktardery. Literally NOBODY does THAT.
the fact that you think that you can just simply apologize for this chit nonchalantly over time like nothing happened just says it all. Procreating might be a terrible idea just saying.
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Just be grateful they didn't report you to the Coppers for pulling out your dink. Better to lose your girlfriend than be a sex offender for life and automatically become a lifetime loser with no way out lol.
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
Honestly you need to calm down. You are totally out of line and showing your true colors as well. Id rather be someone that pees on bonfires than tells people to kill themselves over the internet. Just stop with berating the guy you are being an ass.Not sure if serious.
You obviously don't care about her because you completely embarrassed her in front of her family. You don't do things like that to people you care about. Obviously you're a selfish piece of **** so you don't understand that. Yeah I'd probably kill myself if I was a failure as a man and had nothing going for me. Unlike you, I have standards I hold myself to. You wouldn't understand that either because you're a failure at life...and an alcoholic. Here's to hoping you fall in the bonfire the next time you're peeing on it. Cheers *******!
You obviously don't care about her because you completely embarrassed her in front of her family. You don't do things like that to people you care about. Obviously you're a selfish piece of **** so you don't understand that. Yeah I'd probably kill myself if I was a failure as a man and had nothing going for me. Unlike you, I have standards I hold myself to. You wouldn't understand that either because you're a failure at life...and an alcoholic. Here's to hoping you fall in the bonfire the next time you're peeing on it. Cheers *******!
To the OP, what happened was bad, but I think we have all been there. If you explain to her Dad that you have a problem with alcohol and regret what happened and apologize that is all you can do. We all make mistakes and you can do pretty embarrassing stuff when you black out. Own up to your mistake, apologize, and don't let it happen again. If you do this and the father still hates you then I believe there is more than just this incident which makes him dislike you.
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SRS Response.
OP, if not trolling (if you are... great thread lol), but in the off chance this is a legit thread and you genuinely looking for a valid response then:
• Your an alcoholic... get to AA and therapy before you completely destroy or lose your life.
• Break up with girlfriend in a very polite manner and apologize in person to the family, admitting you were completely wrong and are going to get help.... then never contact the family again.
Real talk mate, if this is your life with alcohol in your 20's.... things aren't going to go good for you in life SRS. Your condition will ruin every good thing you have and relationship you care about if not treated SRS
OP, if not trolling (if you are... great thread lol), but in the off chance this is a legit thread and you genuinely looking for a valid response then:
• Your an alcoholic... get to AA and therapy before you completely destroy or lose your life.
• Break up with girlfriend in a very polite manner and apologize in person to the family, admitting you were completely wrong and are going to get help.... then never contact the family again.
Real talk mate, if this is your life with alcohol in your 20's.... things aren't going to go good for you in life SRS. Your condition will ruin every good thing you have and relationship you care about if not treated SRS
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So when you are not holding parking spots for your friends like some douche you are getting sloshed and embarrassing the **** out of your gf and her family?
Dad is right, brah.
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ask to meet with the dad and he'll think its to apologize..
turn it around and ask for the daughters hand in marriage.
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turn it around and ask for the daughters hand in marriage.
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Originally Posted By TheScapeGOAT⏩
Root beer, maybe.Dun goofed hard. My GFs family threw a summer BBQ party at their house. They were serving all kinds of alcohol and I tend to keep going once I start. I blacked out at some point during the party and came to in my bed the next day. My GF left a note that said "call me." When I got her on the phone she told me that I got so drunk that I started pissing on the bonfire and horrified all her parents guests. I tried calling her father but he just told me to end it with his daughter and if I ever go to house he will knock me out and start pissing on me.
I'm still with my GF but I'm worried. I don't know what will happen. Surely he can't stay mad for ever? I'm thinking about letting some time pass and thenask him to grab a beer for a formal apology.
I'm still with my GF but I'm worried. I don't know what will happen. Surely he can't stay mad for ever? I'm thinking about letting some time pass and thenask him to grab a beer for a formal apology.
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Originally Posted By TajTebwee⏩
What, gotten drunk at a family BBQ, whipped our cocks out and pissed on the fire? No we haven't all been there FFS.Honestly you need to calm down. You are totally out of line and showing your true colors as well. Id rather be someone that pees on bonfires than tells people to kill themselves over the internet. Just stop with berating the guy you are being an ass.
To the OP, what happened was bad, butI think we have all been there. If you explain to her Dad that you have a problem with alcohol and regret what happened and apologize that is all you can do. We all make mistakes and you can do pretty embarrassing stuff when you black out. Own up to your mistake, apologize, and don't let it happen again. If you do this and the father still hates you then I believe there is more than just this incident which makes him dislike you.
To the OP, what happened was bad, butI think we have all been there. If you explain to her Dad that you have a problem with alcohol and regret what happened and apologize that is all you can do. We all make mistakes and you can do pretty embarrassing stuff when you black out. Own up to your mistake, apologize, and don't let it happen again. If you do this and the father still hates you then I believe there is more than just this incident which makes him dislike you.
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Two rules I live by:
a) Never drink around my family
b) Never drink around family of friends or GF.
Not even one beer. I've had my own "situations", the last one was at 29 and it was at my GF's best friend's place so no family. My GF didn't know I could get that bad at the time so she encouraged my keeping up with her friends (I'm a lightweight due to only having a beer a month on avg).
OP as a man you have to swallow your pride, go to the parents house and not only apologise but admit you have a problem that needs dealing with and you want to be a good partner more than a frat boy. That's if you even care about the relationship, you seem to only care about being absolved of all responsibility and convincing the misc that they (parents) are in the wrong.
a) Never drink around my family
b) Never drink around family of friends or GF.
Not even one beer. I've had my own "situations", the last one was at 29 and it was at my GF's best friend's place so no family. My GF didn't know I could get that bad at the time so she encouraged my keeping up with her friends (I'm a lightweight due to only having a beer a month on avg).
OP as a man you have to swallow your pride, go to the parents house and not only apologise but admit you have a problem that needs dealing with and you want to be a good partner more than a frat boy. That's if you even care about the relationship, you seem to only care about being absolved of all responsibility and convincing the misc that they (parents) are in the wrong.
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Originally Posted By TajTebwee⏩
real men dont suffer fools. the OP is a fool, no matter how much alcohol i drink i always stay away from the lines of lunacy. One thing is being drunk and saying really stupid chit, another is pulling your fukkin dik out infront of your gf's families guests. you dont recover from that- you move on.Honestly you need to calm down. You are totally out of line and showing your true colors as well. Id rather be someone that pees on bonfires than tells people to kill themselves over the internet. Just stop with berating the guy you are being an ass.
To the OP, what happened was bad, but I think we have all been there. If you explain to her Dad that you have a problem with alcohol and regret what happened and apologize that is all you can do. We all make mistakes and you can do pretty embarrassing stuff when you black out. Own up to your mistake, apologize, and don't let it happen again. If you do this and the father still hates you then I believe there is more than just this incident which makes him dislike you.
To the OP, what happened was bad, but I think we have all been there. If you explain to her Dad that you have a problem with alcohol and regret what happened and apologize that is all you can do. We all make mistakes and you can do pretty embarrassing stuff when you black out. Own up to your mistake, apologize, and don't let it happen again. If you do this and the father still hates you then I believe there is more than just this incident which makes him dislike you.
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Originally Posted By TheScapeGOAT⏩
Try to not black out and make a dickhead of yourself might be a starting point OP, u *******Dun goofed hard. My GFs family threw a summer BBQ party at their house. They were serving all kinds of alcohol and I tend to keep going once I start. I blacked out at some point during the party and came to in my bed the next day. My GF left a note that said "call me." When I got her on the phone she told me that I got so drunk that I started pissing on the bonfire and horrified all her parents guests. I tried calling her father but he just told me to end it with his daughter and if I ever go to house he will knock me out and start pissing on me.
I'm still with my GF but I'm worried. I don't know what will happen. Surely he can't stay mad for ever? I'm thinking about letting some time pass and then ask him to grab a beer for a formal apology.
I'm still with my GF but I'm worried. I don't know what will happen. Surely he can't stay mad for ever? I'm thinking about letting some time pass and then ask him to grab a beer for a formal apology.
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Those of you who are genuinely asking how can one black out, it does happen like turning on a switch. Especially if it's from drink mixing (having beer, vodka and rum in one night for example). You can be dancing at 9pm and then suddenly wake up or be in a bathroom wondering how you got there, and be informed that you were partying for another 2-3 hours and then disappeared to said bathroom or everyone went home.
It gets to the point where you limit yourself to x beers and y shots, or remove one element all together, or eliminate and limit.
We're completely not there, the body and mind is on autopilot and sometimes we can even be the life of the party when it happens, while as sober we're relatively boring. Then blacking out has an appeal. Until instead of being the life of the party your autopilot does something stupid or your body can't hold in the toxic solution anymore. Then you realise that being that drunk can have negative repercussions, and you won't be so eager to do it again - if you have integrity anyway.
It gets to the point where you limit yourself to x beers and y shots, or remove one element all together, or eliminate and limit.
We're completely not there, the body and mind is on autopilot and sometimes we can even be the life of the party when it happens, while as sober we're relatively boring. Then blacking out has an appeal. Until instead of being the life of the party your autopilot does something stupid or your body can't hold in the toxic solution anymore. Then you realise that being that drunk can have negative repercussions, and you won't be so eager to do it again - if you have integrity anyway.
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Originally Posted By Mr
You know what I meant. We all have gotten too drunk and done or said something that we later regret.What, gotten drunk at a family BBQ, whipped our cocks out and pissed on the fire? No we haven't all been there FFS.
Originally Posted By BullittEV⏩
First of all this thread is not about you or how you handle yourself when you drink. That is not relevant. Secondly you sound drunk right now.real men dont suffer fools. the OP is a fool, no matter how much alcohol i drink i always stay away from the lines of lunacy. One thing is being drunk and saying really stupid chit, another is pulling your fukkin dik out infront of your gf's families guests. you dont recover from that- you move on.
While we are on the topic I am actually going to take this discussion a step further. If the OP's story is true, his gf's family was actively providing liquor to their guests. While this does not excuse OP for getting too intoxicated, it does in my opinion make the father's anger towards him less reasonable. Generally, if you provide hard alcohol to people the idea is for people to drink, get buzzed or drunk, and loosen up. While OP was unable to handle his ****, he was only drinking what was offered to him by the very people who later got angry with him for getting too drunk. Had this been a sober party and OP brought a flask of whiskey then it would be more understandable for the parents to be furious with him.
My point being: don't hand a man a joint and get angry with him when he gets high. Or in this case, don't hand a man a vodka drink and get angry with him when he gets drunk. While OP proceeded to take it a step further and make an ass out of himself is obviously not a good look, it could also be brushed off and forgivable if that person apologizes for their actions and promises to take necessary steps to not let something like that to happen again.
Everyone in this thread blasting OP and condemning him for this need to take a look in the mirror. We all have our faults and we all make mistakes and to tell someone that they are a horrible person for getting drunk and pissing in a fire, to me it's pathetic. Even if you were at the party and witnessed this a normal reaction isn't to condemn, it's to simply take that person and get them where they need to be because they've clearly had too much to drink. Like I said in a past post, I'd take a person who can't handle their liquor and pees in a fire over people who judge others and say horrible things to strangers on the internet any day.
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Originally Posted By TajTebwee⏩
I appreciate your forgiving and tolerant attitude. But how drunk do you have to be to whip out your cock in front of GF's family and relieve himself? There were ladies besides his girlfriend there, may have even been young children. No offense to the dude because I don't know him, but he must have some serious screws loose.I've heard getting drunk brings out the real person inside. Would you give him a pass if he took his pants down and took a dump in front of everybody or tried to pull GF's or a family members top down? It may be natural to pee outside, but it definitely ain't normal to pee in from of a crowd of people outside Lol.You know what I meant. We all have gotten too drunk and done or said something that we later regret.
First of all this thread is not about you or how you handle yourself when you drink. That is not relevant. Secondly you sound drunk right now.
While we are on the topic I am actually going to take this discussion a step further. If the OP's story is true, his gf's family was actively providing liquor to their guests. While this does not excuse OP for getting too intoxicated, it does in my opinion make the father's anger towards him less reasonable. Generally, if you provide hard alcohol to people the idea is for people to drink, get buzzed or drunk, and loosen up. While OP was unable to handle his ****, he was only drinking what was offered to him by the very people who later got angry with him for getting too drunk. Had this been a sober party and OP brought a flask of whiskey then it would be more understandable for the parents to be furious with him.
My point being: don't hand a man a joint and get angry with him when he gets high. Or in this case, don't hand a man a vodka drink and get angry with him when he gets drunk. While OP proceeded to take it a step further and make an ass out of himself is obviously not a good look, it could also be brushed off and forgivable if that person apologizes for their actions and promises to take necessary steps to not let something like that to happen again.
Everyone in this thread blasting OP and condemning him for this need to take a look in the mirror. We all have our faults and we all make mistakes and to tell someone that they are a horrible person for getting drunk and pissing in a fire, to me it's pathetic. Even if you were at the party and witnessed this a normal reaction isn't to condemn, it's to simply take that person and get them where they need to be because they've clearly had too much to drink. Like I said in a past post, I'd take a person who can't handle their liquor and pees in a fire over people who judge others and say horrible things to strangers on the internet any day.
First of all this thread is not about you or how you handle yourself when you drink. That is not relevant. Secondly you sound drunk right now.
While we are on the topic I am actually going to take this discussion a step further. If the OP's story is true, his gf's family was actively providing liquor to their guests. While this does not excuse OP for getting too intoxicated, it does in my opinion make the father's anger towards him less reasonable. Generally, if you provide hard alcohol to people the idea is for people to drink, get buzzed or drunk, and loosen up. While OP was unable to handle his ****, he was only drinking what was offered to him by the very people who later got angry with him for getting too drunk. Had this been a sober party and OP brought a flask of whiskey then it would be more understandable for the parents to be furious with him.
My point being: don't hand a man a joint and get angry with him when he gets high. Or in this case, don't hand a man a vodka drink and get angry with him when he gets drunk. While OP proceeded to take it a step further and make an ass out of himself is obviously not a good look, it could also be brushed off and forgivable if that person apologizes for their actions and promises to take necessary steps to not let something like that to happen again.
Everyone in this thread blasting OP and condemning him for this need to take a look in the mirror. We all have our faults and we all make mistakes and to tell someone that they are a horrible person for getting drunk and pissing in a fire, to me it's pathetic. Even if you were at the party and witnessed this a normal reaction isn't to condemn, it's to simply take that person and get them where they need to be because they've clearly had too much to drink. Like I said in a past post, I'd take a person who can't handle their liquor and pees in a fire over people who judge others and say horrible things to strangers on the internet any day.
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I don't think I'm an alcoholic. I don't look to alcohol as a way of solving my problems. If you told me I could never drink again, id be bummed but id move on without trouble.
It's just I love drinking and was having a good time with the other drinkers. We were dancing and singing.
It's just I love drinking and was having a good time with the other drinkers. We were dancing and singing.
06-26-2017, 12:37 PM
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06-26-2017, 12:50 PM
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just lol at these self-righteous *******s overreacting like OP got drunk and ran over a kid or something. OP, obviously you fukked up big time. Considering that you already apologized to her dad, this is now between you and your girl, not you and her dad. If she wants to keep you around after how much you embarassed her, then worry about dealing with her dad.
And fukkin lol at her goofy dad, threatening to knock you out and pee on you. All you did was pee on a fire. Yeah, you're a moron for it, but that uptight boomer should learn how to accept an apology.
And fukkin lol at her goofy dad, threatening to knock you out and pee on you. All you did was pee on a fire. Yeah, you're a moron for it, but that uptight boomer should learn how to accept an apology.
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
If you're being serious, the only REAL answer is to throw yourself in the fire next time and do humanity a big favor. The fact that this chick sees anything worthwhile in you means she probably sucks too. You're obviously a zero and going nowhere in life. If you're actually 25 then it's even more embarrassing. Please don't ever have children because your low IQ doesn't need to get passed on.
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06-26-2017, 12:55 PM
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06-26-2017, 12:58 PM
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Is her dads name R kelly?
lol but for real op.
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lol but for real op.
invest in rain coat stock now.
06-26-2017, 01:00 PM
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dont worry brah I got obliterated saturday at a wedding, drank way too much bourbon and blacked out before the sun went down. Woke up in my bed now knowing how tf I got home. apparently I almost got in a fight with the grooms dad bc I was all over his daughter/grooms sister and he grabbed me and told me I had to leave. I guess I didnt fuk up too bad she added me on fb the next day and weve been messaging and were going to hang out...
anyways give it a few weeks and let him cool off, then go over to his house and shake his hand and apologize, be a man about it, say you fuked up but thats not the type of person you are and that you just lost control, and that you hope he accepts your apology. If he doesnt well youve done all about you can do
anyways give it a few weeks and let him cool off, then go over to his house and shake his hand and apologize, be a man about it, say you fuked up but thats not the type of person you are and that you just lost control, and that you hope he accepts your apology. If he doesnt well youve done all about you can do
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06-26-2017, 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
Come on man, lose the holier than thou attitude. You don't know anything about this guy, just because he was a giant retard one night doesn't mean he's a zero at life for the other 364 days. We've all been giant retards when we've had too much to drink, if you haven't or don't have any friends that have then you are insulated from the rest of the world. Life isn't that serious man, OP just needs to learn from this and learn to grow up in future.In on potential troll thread.
If you're being serious, the only REAL answer is to throw yourself in the fire next time and do humanity a big favor. The fact that this chick sees anything worthwhile in you means she probably sucks too. You're obviously a zero and going nowhere in life. If you're actually 25 then it's even more embarrassing. Please don't ever have children because your low IQ doesn't need to get passed on.
If you're being serious, the only REAL answer is to throw yourself in the fire next time and do humanity a big favor. The fact that this chick sees anything worthwhile in you means she probably sucks too. You're obviously a zero and going nowhere in life. If you're actually 25 then it's even more embarrassing. Please don't ever have children because your low IQ doesn't need to get passed on.
06-26-2017, 01:16 PM
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You're gf just wants to break up with you and bang other dudes and is using your behavior as thescapegoat
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