Just LOL at people who have casual sex. 40% of girls have herpes. 95% of girls let chad bang them without a condom. 80% of girls bang chads. Do the math. It is risky AF. There is already one user here who got several STDs and showed the pictures, they are disgusting. Why would you have casual sex and make your risk so much higher? Just get a partner, the sex will be better and safer. Just LOL at people who use tinder.

Bro if it were up to me I'd FF> through all the BS straight to wifey but I can't find one I can tolerate.

For the most part once they get past a certain looks threshold they all think they're superstars.

Until then it's casual sex for me

Finding one to tolerate...you and me both my man.

Ya but I can't even get relationship sex brah so wat do

I agree, but I think that may largely be due being older/lower libido/being desensitized/etc.

Even if a girl is legit hot its hard for me to get all that aroused without a connection or some shyt. I live near TJ so can go bang some 8-9/10 latinas anytime I want for a reasonable fee and I can tell you-imo its not all that great and the times I have done it I havent been able to get that aroused and regretted spending the money. 18 year old me might feel a lot different though.

Im pretty much just good with my girl, though I wouldnt lose sleep if our relationship ever ended.

Same.
Only had two semi-srs relationships.
One lasted a month, other lasted two days.


Sloot life is the life for me

Finding a girl who is down for casual sex is probably way easier than finding a girl you actually love.So in reality this isn't either/or, you can look for a relationship and then maybe have casual sex inbetween.

Sometimes it's nice to bust a nut. Or just get something new. Or you meet someone and you just can't help but think how that pussy must feel..

But I agree, the sex I had with the last girl i was in a relationship with > All of the recent casual sex

Well, one that's single anyways

But misc love raw dogging the thrill of spreading genetics raw is too strong

Agreed.

Banging randoms all the time is a recipe for STDs and poverty sex

Without exception, sex gets better as you get to practice w/ an individual sloot and you get more sexual chemistry together

I'd rather bang one sloot 5x than bang 5 different sloots once.

Dude get out of my mind lol.

How much you enjoy casual sex depends highly on the individual. For me, fuking some drunk skank while I'm drunk as fuk myself were all good times. And I've had fantastic sex with completely average looking girls. But guys like me are the minority. I've never felt any kind of "emptiness" or "awkwardness" from any of this. If what you described sound disgusting to you, you, like many of the other posters on this thread, will likely discover that casual sex is not for you.

But despite what some of the posters here have said, it has little to do with maturity unless you're talking about people who are simply too young to have experienced both. Some people are just wired differently.

This is true. But there are also moments where you realize you fuked up dating your previous girl because the random lays sex is just that much better.

wtf homie he let her sleep over..lmao i woulda had her gone same night..like right after unless we had like 5 rounds during the night waking up to **** mid sleep as it normally goes. i literally have kicked biches out if they act up . mid driving on side of the road if they run their mouth enough. they still come crawling back to my cawk. u guys doing it wrong. come spend a week or 2 with me

edit:

i agree though OP relationship sex is better but it sounds like you haven't had casual that much..it can be GREAT. but not after u meet a girl you love..then it leaves you feeling empty and stuff UNLESS you have other loves in your life like another girl or great friendships and other solid foundations. i agree strange makes me depressed. n feel like less hope in finding a wifey, which is what i really want. but having girls come back to you whenever you want after months or years of no contact for instant sex is pretty clutch sometimes. even if it is the equivalent to using drugs..whjich is only short term happiness bad in the long term. for instance i have like 3 different 7+ i could hit up right now, 1 skinny blonde, 1 jamaican ex stripper with DD n titties pierced but dtf 6x a night when she comes says no1 can give it to her like me, another is some girl i fcked like years ago she still down WHENEVER even tho i done nothing but blow her off and **** her friends...and so many more that i have hung out with that i know want it, buy got BF or arent from around here, just no interest in pursuing those, or girls who i only made out with (even DIMES) a few times or took on my motorcycle but i know i could ****, they message back flirty and **** but its just like ..who the fck wants to put in effort for that these days. we are old men....wish my love never did the **** she did but i cant blame her from her past. and no matter how hard i try i cant get over it even if i wanna. so ****s toxic

meanwhile im in my room numbing myself the day before my birthday alone cuz i know the girl i love and loves me is fcked in the head and she begging me to come over but i know i shouldnt . its a ****ty bday this one bois. ii dont want any of these fcking hoes man im so sick of it OP IS RIGHT.. man. to bad they are ALL HOES EVEN WHEN U LOVE EACHOTHER . soo u might aswell keep fcking hoes and not beleive in your feelings of love. i only loved 1 girl out of so fcking many..but maybe it is an illusion im thinking no soul mate


double edit: u guys who are virgins still and so sad. i remmber how it felt i was 13 or so and never really did anything other than kiss girls or had them rub me and i got my first BJ .. bros.. i used to be anxious like you too back when i was 12 or 13! its nothing compared to the deep depression that can come from exposing yourself to the emotions that love bring, especially when u were emotionless pretty much your whole life..alot of good ones but too many bad ones. id rather be a virgin man dead srs

my suggestion to you virgins: focus on your life stop thinking about sex so much it so meaningless. soon you will find wifey who will be ok with you learning, or you can find some GFs to work on it pretty easy no matter how bad u are within a year with the right friends. then u learn from them..just focus on your life. and relationships with the soul friendships FIRST. dont worry about fcking the girl.. man i wish i had deeper friendships i can fck girls so easy but it kinda makes me unable to form good friendships with them TBH. u can turn a nice healthy friendship into something more if you wanted and it was on both sides (or just keep it a friendship, which is still A GREAT LIFE FOUNDATION--BETTER THAN RANDOM SEX)

I will teach my kids to form llong standing friendships and hold on to them no matter how many times they move, i think with social media it will be a lot easier

edit: for the unaware, you feel good the whole time up till you fck the girl, then as soon as you do you are like FCKKK WANT HER GONEE SHE SUXX... dont get that in your life. just like drugs. the "feel good" comes from the ego boost and the instant release in your brain from the sex... then you snap back to reality and it sucks bros.

trying to exlpain i hope i helped a few.

wheres the pics?

Any guy in their 20s and 30s not obsessed with his own pursuits and worries about women and sex are headed towards a life of mediocrity

for some people that's an ideal life, i guess

Real ****.

Fukin hate casual sex.

Sword_ is a good looking brah so this isn't about him but I find it kind of sad and gross that any chick is easy enough that at 4 a.m. she's down to get piped two hours later with a dude she's never met.

and she isn't even getting paid for it.

It does have the appeal of something a bit edgy, and a new partner always has an excitement but in general the OP is spot on. I dont think ive ever smashed a girl for the first time sober, so the sex sucks anyway

agree, i like to get to know the girl a bit first before i smash

LOL at all the fear mongering in here over the media based STD rates (to keep us from reproducing)

LOL at thinking that sex Is better with one special girl because the chemicals in your brain tell you so. Those aren't your holes, you are just borrowing them.

LOL at not following your basic male biological instinct to spread your seed as much as possible, but im not saying you should knock sloots up.(It's speculated that a 3rd of the world's population is descended from Ghengis Khan. He wasnt focusing on one special sloot.)

Stopped reading after the first page because I didn't want my test levels affected so I hope i covered everything.

ok but what about if you know the girl , she calls you guys friends, you really cant stand her other than her banging body and fcking the sht out of her whenever u ask.

its not the same as love when you "know a girl a bit before i smash" that still counts as randoms. randoms arent just bar sluts. they are bar sluts u fck again and again too. girls u dont love u kno. like every other girl than your "soul mate" if u ever felt u even had 1

You covered nothing and sound like you literally didn't even read the op, dummy

Test levels aren't everything brah, you should have a developed mind and also be in tune with emotions. lol @ denying your humanity. some1 needs that near death trip like i had dmt brings. nothing wrong with having emotions man. open up. haha keep worry about test so much soon you will be on the cycle and be going thru more negative emotions than any1 would wanna experience while i stay jacked barely lifting and eating what i want...;')

edit: tbh i dont think i was every even capable of love before my near death trip or dmt whatever u wanna call it. i laughed @ dudes who loved girls that checked me out behind their back or right in front of them, believing love was never real just a chemical in the brain. after that i opened up. accepted emotions, then i think i became capable of love and the ONS and random hookups just made me super depressed.

op directed it as a girl u just met, not one u know tho
for me knowing the girl before even if were just fk buddies, just makes it more enjoyable because we both know what we like and can be more personal

It's not for the sex but for my ego

Yep reminds me of the troll from back in the day
'get out ho it's 6am'

I think op may be right, I lack experience, but there is something about busting in a new young tight glowing sloot while looking in their eyes. The novelty of it......


Human instinct. Most guys wanna do the same. I been on fap for 6 days so far and was pulling my hair out from horniness