I don't think people itt fully understand or appreciate what OP is trying to convey.

Dont equate women and men's ghosting/NC behaviors, they are completely different.

Usually if a man ghosts/goes NC on a woman, he won't practice modern day voyeurism and orbit her activities, lifestyle, whereabouts etc on social media. He won't be a beta orbiter. He is no longer interested due to the fact he got what he wanted and wants to move on, or due to the fact the woman wouldn't give him what he wants so he moves on.

Women, on the other hand, will usually orbit men that they have gone NC on on social media to try to constantly reinforce and validate their decision. They have such low confidence, self esteem and self acceptance that they will never be fully sure of the decisions they make, and social media has created a system whereby they can analyze their decisions in real time.

Just now I have a girl that I had a short, sexual and personal relationship with go completely stone cold NC, yet she still follows every one of my social media posts. She started liking my posts and direct snapping me when she found out my new girls prettier than her and that I really don't give a fuk she ghosted.

When men get ghosted by or ghost a woman = it's over, they move on, MOST men don't beta orbit. MOST men have a cretain level of dignity.

When women ghost a man = they still orbit for that chance to monkey branch if they regret their decision due to confidence and validation issues. They see constant potential in men as providers, and they keep it in the back of their mind that maybe this man will be rich, famous, CEO, athlete, Chad one day etc and want them constantly available to DM any time for a new fling.

I'm not saying it's wrong, but it's the way it is now. Before social media if a woman ghosted on a man it was because he was legitimatly below her socially, physically, and economically and shed never think twice about it. Now legitimate potential mates get ghosted and to make matters worse, she voyeurs them just in case they become Chad CEO McQuarterback.

Lol what. This is common OP. I pulled so many numbers my last month at work. I'd say about 20 percent (if that) followed through. They just check your social media to see what you're up too.

I would rather a sloot go NC then have some sappy break up talk depending on how long you've known them. I had one chick say "I'm breaking up with you" in a Starbucks and everyone stared at us. Maybe she thought I was going to hit her or something so she did it in public. People in general are much flakier nowadays I've found. If I'm not interested in someone I will just go NC and they get the picture so I don't mind if a chick does it to me.

Lol. O.P.'s messing with those 3/10 BBW hoes. Move on bruh. She's found a bigger BBC to punish.

Do you constantly follow their social media after like a beta orbiter cucksattelite voyeurcel?

Didn't think so?!

Dating pretty much sucks nowadays, I think social media and texting has kind of ruined it all. There are solid gals out there, it's just a little bit tougher to find these days.

Ever consider you might be a douche bag m9?

stop validating this behaviour, if they do something like this i remove em off everything tbh

I definitely spy on exes on social media to confirm I made the right choice or if I should get back together with them. When they get knocked up, get fat, or are a loser, I let out a sigh of relief.

Apparently not.

I've had the same **** happen with girls I've smashed and girls I've hung out with but not sealed the deal all the way.

Pretty much every phase, and meeting these girls in different ways. Yet they still watch your stories or even like your IG pics.

How you gonna flake on me then like my IG pics?

I just deleted tinder, bumble, and almost every girl out of my phone. Went no contact on the girls hitting me up regular. Not worth it. One day I'm being called at 11:30 on a weekday, next day I don't exist. Im 21, just gonna take a break from dating. Call it cope or whatever. too much work at this point