Could you/Would you EVER take back a cheater?

08-10-2017, 06:45 AM

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#91

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Originally Posted By irollurmom⏩

It's not that there wouldn't be a chance for forgiveness, but I just wouldn't ever trust her again. Once you lose trust, the relationship is over.

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Just to add, there's so many people out there, and everyone will have the capacity to be compatible with many people, so why would you stay with a cheater.

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08-10-2017, 06:45 AM

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#92

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well mistakes happen sometimes,so yeah i would forgive them

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08-10-2017, 06:54 AM

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#93

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I don't think I could. I may be able to understand why they did it but the level of betrayal would be too much to recover from.

Cheating isn't just an 'ooh I slipped up' any more than sloots saying 'ooh it just happened' when they get fuked by chad. Much like the guy says inOzarks, someone who cheats systematically makes repeated conscious decisions to do so as the cheating relationship progresses: seeing someone again, flirting, going on a date, kissing, fuking etc. then lying about it later.

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08-10-2017, 06:56 AM

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#94

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only if we had kids.

08-10-2017, 07:03 AM

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#95

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Never

Other things I would never do is:
Date a single mom
Have children out of wedlock
Let my GF have guy friends

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08-10-2017, 07:14 AM

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#96

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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩

You're still a young dipchit. I'm talking about a spouse who can ruin you and basically start your life over from 0.

You're a dip**** if you put yourself in that position

08-10-2017, 07:20 AM

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#97

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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩

For conversation sake, pretend your girl of at least 5 years (maybe a kid or two) got hammered and slept with a dude. She confesses and immediately begs for forgiveness. Is there ANY case to take her back or is it 100% out the door no matter what?

Done it. Regretted it. Never again.

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08-10-2017, 07:23 AM

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#98

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No.

If he did that to me, he'd never hear or see from me again. I'd be like Houdini and disappear.

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08-10-2017, 07:30 AM

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#99

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Would you fkng take back the thrash you throw in the garbage?

08-10-2017, 07:38 AM

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#100

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No thanks Jeff, unless you like tasting another man's cawk from your girl's mouth.

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08-10-2017, 07:42 AM

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#101

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1 way and one way only.

If I have kids with her, have been with her for a long time and truly love her and she goes and cheats I will take her back on one condition.

She must remain faithful from that day forward and I get to smash sloots whenever I want. If she isnt willing to do that, Im out.

She already ruined the trust and the only way I will put up with that is if I get to screw around while maintaining my family for the kids.

08-10-2017, 07:43 AM

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#102

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Reading the first page was enough to ensure me that the misc was too many beta men.

If she even texted a guy too much I'd have a problem with it.

08-10-2017, 07:46 AM

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#103

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She can never be anything more than a friend with benefits at that point, but more than likely I'd just go NC because it's easy to find other girls

08-10-2017, 07:48 AM

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#104

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0.0% chance. How the hell could you trust someone after that?

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08-10-2017, 07:50 AM

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#105

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Never take them back. Ever.

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08-10-2017, 07:54 AM

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#106

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Originally Posted By GMiscer⏩

Yes
Guys who won't just don't have the confidence to get past it and move on
When I was courting my wife she "slipped up" and slept with her exoncebut I forgave her and now it's all good

got bad news for you brah

08-10-2017, 07:56 AM

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#107

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This is one of the hypotheticals where I have a true zero tolerance policy: I am married, but let's imagine I also had 8 kids, 4 of whom have special needs, perhaps I lose my job and my wife and I are going through financial struggle (more stress). Think worst case scenario. If even at this low point she cheated on me I would instantly seek divorce.

Others in this thread have said "maybe not if I have kids" - what trauma do you think you'll cause your kids by cohabiting with a person you no longer trust?

In short, there is absolutely no reason to stay with someone after you've been cheated on, because that person has violated something fundamental in your relationship together: trust. Irregardless of the extenuating circumstances.

08-10-2017, 02:09 PM

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#108

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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩

got bad news for you brah

Lol, he posted about going to see some religious marriage counsellor too.

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08-10-2017, 03:09 PM

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#109

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unmarried and no kids? shes gone instantly

married and kids? dont know what i would do. too hard to know how i would react. wouldnt want my kids to have to suffer because the mom is a slot but i would want that slot to pay somehow.

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08-10-2017, 03:26 PM

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#110

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Originally Posted By ~Hades~⏩

unmarried and no kids? shes gone instantly

married and kids? dont know what i would do. too hard to know how i would react. wouldnt want my kids to have to suffer because the mom is a slot but i would want that slot to pay somehow.

either way your life is going to be 100% **** at that point.

08-10-2017, 03:31 PM

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#111

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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩

either way your life is going to be 100% **** at that point.

agreed

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08-10-2017, 03:36 PM

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#112

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Doubt it, wife knows if she cheated I would be gone in an instant, I would expect the same if I cheated (which I wouldn't).

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08-10-2017, 03:40 PM

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#113

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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩

got bad news for you brah

You know you're quoting gmiscer, right?

08-10-2017, 03:42 PM

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#114

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Originally Posted By mukeofdanlets⏩

I've done it before. Won't do it again. Ever.

Same, and of course she turned around and did it again with the same guy. For all I know he wasn't the only one.

Originally Posted By irollurmom⏩

It's not that there wouldn't be a chance for forgiveness, but I just wouldn't ever trust her again.Once you lose trust, the relationship is over.

Dead on.

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08-10-2017, 03:46 PM

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#115

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Originally Posted By Maatkarah⏩

Ha, that ol double standard. No thanks.

It's alright, someone already set me straight itt and it was a MAN

I just would not for the life of me see how any honorable man who is not a cuck could forgive a woman that cheated on him. If the man had any amount of pride and dignity. My wife if she had, I'd want to get violent (and that'd be the only time I could ever get violent with a woman/SO) but if we had kids I'd restrain myself and divorce and do all I could to take everything, including any sort of custody of the kids away from her.

Any man who cheats doesn't deserve a second chance either no, ok fine. I just don't see how any man, as a real man, could stay with a woman who does that.