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post 1537166911 12-11-2017, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Currently in the middle of a 2-day fight over me wanting to spend a few hundred dollars on my parents for Christmas. I make about 66% of our takehome income and I can’t stop getting chit for a few Christmas gifts.

Best part is how many times I’ve been called selfish and materialistic for wanting to give decent gifts to my family.

Srs, livid right now.
Good on you man

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post 1537167081 12-11-2017, 09:14 AM
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post 1537167201 12-11-2017, 09:15 AM
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post 1537167621 12-11-2017, 09:19 AM
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I have no idea how catbrah manages to even fund his own existence given his tragically poor decision making and intelligence.
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post 1537167841 12-11-2017, 09:21 AM
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For xmas ask her to get you a painting of the Last Supper, only instead of humans they're all kitties.

Should smooth things over.
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post 1537168971 12-11-2017, 09:35 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Well in all fairness you haven't even known her a year.
Lol...time to end it.
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post 1537169271 12-11-2017, 09:38 AM
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If true that sucks, but I wonder if we are missing part of the story like perhaps you are constantly trying to spend money while she's trying to save for the baby on the way.

Either way, that's what you her for getting married and having a baby with someone you barely know. Everyone warned you.
post 1537170051 12-11-2017, 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted By JUSA⏩
Sounds like the 5-7 year slump. Although in relationships where you don't properly vet the girl, this can happen almost immediately after marriage. If it's the former, deal with it. If it's the later, you may need to rethink your marriage.

A lot of time women will pick fights like this but the underlying reason is elsewhere. Meaning, she's only slightly annoyed by this but there is something much bigger that she's really upset about. Since women suck at communication, it's up to you as the man to be more mature and intelligent and think long and hard about what the real issue is.

In the meantime, let her rant about this non-issue. Don't get upset - she wants that. Women are terrible communicators but they are master trolls and that is what she is doing here, she is instigating a fight with you, hoping you react to her bull**** and then she can attack you over you raising your voice or "controlling behavior" or whatever other ridiculous bull**** she interprets from your angry reaction to her stupid mentality.

The thing of it is, this idiotic behavior is common for 99% of all women (and I only say 99% thinking there might be a 1% out there who aren't stupid like this but if there are I haven't met them). Anyway, so this kind of **** is what you put up with when you deal with all women.

My advice, ignore it. If she whines, make a cold logic driven response devoid of any anger, emotion or anything like that and continue on your merry way. Don't let her troll you, then think about what she might really be upset about and try to address the real underlying problem.

Make sure you are banging your wife 3/week, I've noticed when I get stressed or whatever and I'm not plowing the field on a regular basis (plus I'm an older guy), but if you neglect that aspect of your marriage, they find reasons to get upset about nothing - such as you buying presents for your ****ing parents.
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post 1537170521 12-11-2017, 09:50 AM
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post 1537170831 12-11-2017, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
The reality if you desire to be truly married is that the money you make is not yours. The money she makes is not hers.

The money each of you make is the Family's money. To be used to achieve the needs and goals of the entire family.

What is your housing situation? Emergency fund? Debt structure (hopefully zero).

If all those things aren't in tip top shape then you have no business spending tons on Christmas and she's right.

When was the last time the two of you sat down and had a financial committee meeting?
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post 1537171751 12-11-2017, 10:04 AM
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hopefully she pushes you over the edge and you light your hair on fire
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post 1537172041 12-11-2017, 10:07 AM
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Lol

Cuz no one on the misc ever warned you even once that you were in no way ready for marriage at a mere 8 months in, amirite?
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post 1537172111 12-11-2017, 10:07 AM
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post 1537172861 12-11-2017, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted By A-GAME⏩
Light your head of fire you cat anus licking *******
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post 1537173061 12-11-2017, 10:18 AM
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she's probably upset because you won't light your hair on fire you stupid *******
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post 1537173111 12-11-2017, 10:18 AM
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Hey Bro,

Holidays bring out the best and worst in us as people. A lot of it is the pressure, along with higher financial stress load. Fighting with someone you love is always painful, but remember why you entered into this marriage in the first place. Similar to your wife, I do NOT spend much on Christmas gifts, but my wife however does. I would try to leverage a compromise on a total Christmas budget.

That way its a joint decision, and you are not pushing your views entirely on her, and vice versa. Brother I wish you all the best as you go through this process. I just got married, so I am sure I will be joining you soon enough



Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Currently in the middle of a 2-day fight over me wanting to spend a few hundred dollars on my parents for Christmas. I make about 66% of our takehome income and I can’t stop getting chit for a few Christmas gifts.

Best part is how many times I’ve been called selfish and materialistic for wanting to give decent gifts to my family.

Srs, livid right now.
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Light your hair on fire
post 1537174441 12-11-2017, 10:33 AM
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Maybe she knows you’re not a man of your word since you haven’t set your hair on fire yet you *******
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Chestnuts roasting on catbrah's hair...jack frost nippin at your dink...
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post 1537175481 12-11-2017, 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted By KurtMussell⏩
For xmas ask her to get you a painting of the Last Supper, only instead of humans they're all kitties.

Should smooth things over.
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How did you not see this bs when you were dating?
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Literally no one here cares or likes you


Hope you get AIDS and the hospice staff lights your hair on fire
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Why does everyone want this closet homo to light his hair on fire?
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Originally Posted By FrankGrimesJr⏩
Why does everyone want this closet homo to light his hair on fire?
He had a post saying if Trump won he'd LITERALLY light his hair on fire. He did, he didn't.
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Four years ago, every conservative did the whole "the polls are skewed and oversample dems, and Romney has larger crowds!" dance too. And in the end, he actually did worse than the polls showed.

If trump wins, I'll literally set my hair on fire and video it for misc. it's not happening.

If somehow it did, I'll give all the Trump people all the credit in the world for being right about be media and polling.
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Originally Posted By KurtMussell⏩
Chestnuts roasting on catbrah's hair...jack frost nippin at your dink...
Got any marshmallows brah?
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Originally Posted By umop3pisdn⏩
Wait I thought you lived alone with a bunch of cats?
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I think you should tell her you want to try for a baby, having a kid together could help reignite the spark that has left your marriage.


Sometimes you've got to do whatever you have to to keep the flame alive. Otherwise you'll just be pulling your hair out from the stress, instead of re-kindling the fire of your passion.





Either that or do something really crazy. Next time she's btching at you, just say,

"You want to get nuts? LETS GET NUTS!"

and then light your hair on fire. That'll show her who's the man in the relationship.
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