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Are average men really checking out of the dating game?
02-03-2018, 09:54 AM
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A lot of girls are also on online dating sites for validation they want to hear how pretty they are but have no intention to put on their make up, dress and meet with you unless your super chad i suppose
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02-03-2018, 10:09 AM
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Originally Posted By BeigeJumang⏩
lollmao what "system"? do you mean your primary biological role as an organism? to reproduce and pass your genes on? and then ensure that your genetic offspring have the opportunity to do the same? yeah f*ck that man that's stupid as hell
neat thing about being human is that most of us are capable of controlling our "biological roles"
regardless, reproducing is not a moral authority, nor an etiquette manual, nor a roadmap to happiness.
plus, for most men, there's no actual instinctual drive toward reproducing and raising children, only toward having sex
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02-03-2018, 10:11 AM
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lol the word is full of 30 year old virgins
and i dont understand....if u havent banged before age 18 how are you not going ape chit lol
and i dont understand....if u havent banged before age 18 how are you not going ape chit lol
02-03-2018, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted By RightKindaGuy⏩
why do you think you have an instinctual drive to have sex? if you mean that men don't want to commit to a partner because they're instinctively wired to pass their seed onto as many partners as possible, well you would be right - however, it is scientifically proven that offspring are most successful under the nuclear family unit i.e two partners committed to each other to raise the offspring together.lol
plus, for most men, there's no actual instinctual drive toward reproducing and raising children, only toward having sex
plus, for most men, there's no actual instinctual drive toward reproducing and raising children, only toward having sex
you're right that you don't have a moral obligation to reproduce - that is entirely your decision. but i am just letting you know that you're technically a biological failure if you don't pass on your genes.
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02-03-2018, 10:27 AM
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Originally Posted By DeusExTerra⏩
Lol.You either die a virgin, or you live long enough to see youself become a Chad
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02-03-2018, 10:35 AM
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My advice to average males these days would be find someone while you’re young and sloots are still naive in high school/ college and hold onto the first one that agrees to get in a relationship with you. Dating game switches to hard mode once you’re forced to spend 40 hours a week at a job and lose a lot of your social connections you had at school
02-03-2018, 10:45 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
lol you are talking as if you are left out of the Chad group. How much lack of self awareness can you have to think you aren't part of that group?80/20 rule though
Chad’s are usually seeing 3-5 girls so theres enough to go around
Chad’s are usually seeing 3-5 girls so theres enough to go around
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02-03-2018, 10:47 AM
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you know why this generation is fuked?. If you go out somewhere and flirt with a girl, you will be charged with sexual harassment.
we have phuckin guys that are 5 or 6/10 and expect a 10/10 ig model just lol.......same thing with girls.
if u aint 8+ on face scale, then you have to have something to offer guys. (money, personality, physique, big social circle, exciting career/social life etc.) WHY? because those things portray that he actually has ambition in his life not the 9/10 chad that reeks of entitlement because he was born w a pretty face
those factors are more important than facial aethetics,, thats why u see average looking guys w very pretty girls.
we have phuckin guys that are 5 or 6/10 and expect a 10/10 ig model just lol.......same thing with girls.
if u aint 8+ on face scale, then you have to have something to offer guys. (money, personality, physique, big social circle, exciting career/social life etc.) WHY? because those things portray that he actually has ambition in his life not the 9/10 chad that reeks of entitlement because he was born w a pretty face
those factors are more important than facial aethetics,, thats why u see average looking guys w very pretty girls.
02-03-2018, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian⏩
It's because any male that displays masculinity now days has like a 74% chance to get their life ruined because of it so more and more men are being taught from a young age to be soiboys so if this keeps up in a generation or two it will be almost exclusively gender less soiboys and the women will be completely fuked because despite what they say, nobody wants a fukin soyboi. He's not talking about women hurting themselves by not banging soybois, he's saying the women are trying to turn everyone into a soyboi so they can be the superior gender, but it's gonna come back to bite them in the angus in a generation or two.How does self-pitying men who rot at home poop-socking games every weekend while heading towards an early (obesity related) grave hurt women in the long run? Sounds to me that these pathetic specimens of masculinity are the ones hurting in the long run, not women - who, at a first glance, would simply be choosing mates from a higher quality pool.
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02-03-2018, 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Trillical⏩
imagine that a sloot can give consent and fk the night before, and then take the consent back the next day because you don't call her back and get you arrested for rape. sloots gonna slootThe average man are checking out because we are all being labeled as "rapist." Everyday, another male get accused of false rape allegations.
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02-03-2018, 11:20 AM
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I know busted women in their 40's and 50's who are still getting plowed by 9/10 Chads on the reg. They aren't getting marriage, but their bills are paid and they have Chad sexors on command. I think that is propelling the MGTOW movement more than anything. If a 6/10 dude could get a 4/10 wife, they would happily settle.
02-03-2018, 11:24 AM
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The top 20% of men get prime pussy. Those are the very good looking guys, athletes, financially successful, those who have a particular skillset, etc.
The middle of the pack, 60% of men, get the remainders once the girls are done with the cock carousel.
The bottom 20% shoots up a school or goes mental due to zero female connection.
The middle of the pack, 60% of men, get the remainders once the girls are done with the cock carousel.
The bottom 20% shoots up a school or goes mental due to zero female connection.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I ain't finna hit on girls at the gym cause then if we start dating it would be weird seeing them there all the time. Gym is a place to not give two f's, wear dirty clothes, and curl in the squat rack (wait wut), not hit on girls.This is how it appears when i look around. Men looking like boys. Cope on their faces. Men settling.
Also noticed that at my job and the gym none of the guys talk to girls. All that test and nobody making moves. I just don't think men operated like this 25-35 years ago.
Also noticed that at my job and the gym none of the guys talk to girls. All that test and nobody making moves. I just don't think men operated like this 25-35 years ago.
Although I do agree, most guys wuss out when it comes to talking to girls in any situation.
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02-03-2018, 11:27 AM
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Maybe online dating, irl most guys struggle with women, like 90% of them, if not more, go out sometime. Most guys aren't "ladies men". Even chads do, it's just chads have a better starting point because they can attract many females with their looks. They can still say the wrong things, they're not going to fuk every (good looking) girl they meet. You still even see weird, lame, and awkward dudes with girls, because they put themselves out there and finally found one.
I didn't even know some guys were utterly hopeless until I joined the misc, like what are you guys doing? You feel like you're that much of a freak that you're not even putting the necessary effort? I got health issues and still pulled hoes. As long as you got some game, and a dick that works, there's always going to be some horny slut waiting at a bar or somewhere who wants to ride it.
I didn't even know some guys were utterly hopeless until I joined the misc, like what are you guys doing? You feel like you're that much of a freak that you're not even putting the necessary effort? I got health issues and still pulled hoes. As long as you got some game, and a dick that works, there's always going to be some horny slut waiting at a bar or somewhere who wants to ride it.
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02-03-2018, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted By ZT89⏩
Luckily VR porn and life like sex dolls should help the the bottom feeding 80 percentcelsThe top 20% of men get prime pussy. Those are the very good looking guys, athletes, financially successful, those who have a particular skillset, etc.
The middle of the pack, 60% of men, get the remainders once the girls are done with the cock carousel.
The bottom 20% shoots up a school or goes mental due to zero female connection.
The middle of the pack, 60% of men, get the remainders once the girls are done with the cock carousel.
The bottom 20% shoots up a school or goes mental due to zero female connection.
02-03-2018, 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted By AshWar⏩
no homo but you are not 5/10. I am a 5/10. You are about 7.35069/10Strong negativity. I’m a 5/10 Indian guy and I do just fine. Not having a ****ing loser mentality helps you know
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Unless you're getting some serious signals fuk approaching at the gym. All it takes is one girl to say she's uncomfortable and your membership is pulled. It's like hitting on chicks at work, way too risky.This is how it appears when i look around. Men looking like boys. Cope on their faces. Men settling.
Also noticed that at my job and the gym none of the guys talk to girls. All that test and nobody making moves. I just don't think men operated like this 25-35 years ago.
Also noticed that at my job and the gym none of the guys talk to girls. All that test and nobody making moves. I just don't think men operated like this 25-35 years ago.
02-03-2018, 12:00 PM
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Maybe some of them.but altimately most average dudes who arent total cucks will still try and in most cases still do just fine. Theres way more women then there are chads and most women dont go long without a relationship.
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Originally Posted By CoolKnees⏩
I checked out of the clubbing/bar scene in 2016. The cold-approach was ridiculuous as fuk. Lots of sloots stuck on their phones which defeats the whole purpose of going out. Also the timothys gotta be mighty desperate to stick with a used up sloot later on in life but then again, no one wants to be alone unless they have purpose. I play lots of video games in my spare time so I'm not alone since I have purpose.Can confirm. I'm checked out.
In other news... just bought myself a Nintendo Switch!
In other news... just bought myself a Nintendo Switch!
Anyways that's great. I wanna get a Switch myself but fuk paying $300 for a game console that doesn't come with a game. I'll try on Black Friday but I gotta deal with the big-ass backlog on my PS4 games.
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Originally Posted By Razgreeze⏩
to be honest, I use pron every now and then to suppress my urges. When that happens, then there goes the desire to waste time and energy cold-approaching a random girl in the street or at the bar/club at night.This is the effect that a generation of internet pornography has.
On one side we got average men checking outta the dating game. On the other side we got girls who having kids at a younger age than me
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
this post so gawd damn bad I had to come back from the dead (left the misc 4 years ago) to reply to itThis is cope
The issue some of you are having is putting yourself in a female perspective. Women do not want the same things as men. So start there. You think "man, wouldn't it be great if I had an endless supply of girls that wanted to f*ck like women have with guys". So you assume women aren't unhappy and they have what they want.
That's wrong. Most women deep down want to be settled with someone. Yes they want to have lots of options to pull from and make that decision, but ultimately they want someone they can be serious with and connect emotionally. The primary relationship goal for women is emotional. For men it's physical.
The reason women are just as unhappy is there's no longer any emotional connection or it's a lot harder to find. The value of sex has diminished substantially in creating that emotional connection. It's done so often it's no longer a big deal to any side.
LOL at women have everything they want. Women might have everything YOU want, but they aren't even close to having what they want. That's the difference you're struggling with. Remove what you want and think about what it is they actually want. If you're a beta FA you'll have no clue what I'm talking about because you probably don't even interact with females enough to get what I'm telling you in this post
The issue some of you are having is putting yourself in a female perspective. Women do not want the same things as men. So start there. You think "man, wouldn't it be great if I had an endless supply of girls that wanted to f*ck like women have with guys". So you assume women aren't unhappy and they have what they want.
That's wrong. Most women deep down want to be settled with someone. Yes they want to have lots of options to pull from and make that decision, but ultimately they want someone they can be serious with and connect emotionally. The primary relationship goal for women is emotional. For men it's physical.
The reason women are just as unhappy is there's no longer any emotional connection or it's a lot harder to find. The value of sex has diminished substantially in creating that emotional connection. It's done so often it's no longer a big deal to any side.
LOL at women have everything they want. Women might have everything YOU want, but they aren't even close to having what they want. That's the difference you're struggling with. Remove what you want and think about what it is they actually want. If you're a beta FA you'll have no clue what I'm talking about because you probably don't even interact with females enough to get what I'm telling you in this post
"LOL at women have everything they want. Women might have everything YOU want, but they aren't even close to having what they want. "
this is where you fuked up royally.. the average female, actually WAY above average, is DELUSIONAL
you're right, they're not gonna find a 6 foot 6 guy making 6 figures with a 6 pack. It's THEIR fault and I can't BELIEVE you're sticking up for them like this.
the fact you can't see how delusional these chicks are, and that you're defending them makes me wonder about who raised you
the average female these days is beyond delusional. I was just having a chat with a mate earlier about this cause we were talking about the japan depopulation ( extinction soon ) and how it's trending this way.
you got 5/10's messaging fuking athletes on twitter and sh*t actually believing they have a chance.
hell have you ever seen the reaction a girl has when she actually gets shot down? I've see flat out psychotic reactions from them, it's like they actually believe they walk on water to the point that it's insane. The guy earlier that said that almost of these chicks have emotional disorders is spot the fuk on. They are so fuking delusional, so ****ing up their own @sses, so ****ing NUTS that it's just stupid. They're flat out DANGEROUS is the biggest problem and by that i mean the damn work place. You can't even begin to think about making a move on a chick where you work, which back in the 50s is often times HOW YOU MET SOMEONE IN THE FIRST PLACE.
so now you got chicks that wanna fuk, and are seeing men that refuse to make a move because they like having the lights on at their house and gas in the car. It's a complete and total MINDFUK that is going on out there in the modern "dating" world. I once had a conversation with a girl almost 7 years ago that told me about her trip to greece. She said some creep approached her at the bar. I said what was creepy about him she said that she was sitting there having a drink and he asked her if he could buy her another one... and that was SEVEN YEARS AGO, that's SEVEN years of feminism and #metoo type sh*t that has gotten FAR worse.
that was legit her response to a NORMAL COURTSHIP in human beings. This guy it turns out wasn't even bad looking either, she's just FUKED UP in her head.
last chick I was with turned out to be a raging alcoholic willing to start a fight in public.
i'm done.
also LOL @ the brah's that think being good looking solves this. You guys think that it's 80/20
no it was 80/20 a LONG TIME ago, it is far far worse now. I've never been called anything less than a high 8 and that only one chick that said high 8 and she said that was on a bad day. I had 350 contacts as a 16 year old back in like 03 or something, half of them were chicks and I don't think I even asked for ANY of them. I got attention non stop and I didn't even want it was the sad part, I was so busy loving the game of basketball and I should have went and dated some of these chicks... back when they were real, before text messaging destroyed courtship OH HE MESSAGED YOU TWICE BEFORE YOU TEXTED HIM? OMG NEEDY! if everyone would STOP communicating through text and just CALL I believe it would fix SO MUCH of what is going on in society.
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its true. i left the dating scene a very long time ago, and now im planning on going back to my home country
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It's really ****ing brutal out there. I do so much to try be attractive, I work out, I put effort into my looks, get some nice clothes, read and improve my mind but no girl so much as looks at me. It just makes doing things seem pointless. It's not the be all and end all but it's nice to feel valued especially when you put effort into your looks. When you are constantly met with ambivalence it hurts and you start to become bitter and ask what the **** is wrong with you. I try to ignore it and I have reached a somewhat of a happy place of resigned acceptance but it's not ideal. The day I had to think so much about it|why girls don't like me, am I not attractive, what about my looks is undesirable) was the day it ended for me. I knew from my teens I wasn't the kinda guy girls liked even though I wasn't ugly.
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Gave up on women by the time I was ~12. I've always known I'd end up alone... Never even questioned it. Time and time again, I've been proven right.
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