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Thread: Do any of your GFs/Wives turn you down for sex more often than you'd like?

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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
I've had more blowjobs in one month of being single than the year before with a gf srs lol
So you've had ONE bj. Better than zero I suppose.
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Thats true, it feels pretty ****

With my ex she’d turn me down and it was so confusing, i knew i could pull 8+/10s easily (was never tempted to actually do it) but she just didn’t give a f. Messed me up a bit tbh, but im over it now

Feels kinda bad admitting to this, but always best to be honest
I'm sorry to hear that. I think people don't realize how crucial sexual compatibility is in a relationship. Of course sex isn't everything, but it's a whole lot more essential than most females realize. Next time find you a girl who will suck the soul out of your cock for dessert.
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
I'm sorry to hear that. I think people don't realize how crucial sexual compatibility is in a relationship. Of course sex isn't everything, but it's a whole lot more essential than most females realize. Next time find you a girl who will suck the soul out of your cock for dessert.
Most of the girls ive dated have been like that tbh

I always felt like i should set aside sex because i liked her as a person and didnt want to be shallow, but looking back theres no reason not to have both
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
I'm sorry to hear that. I think people don't realize how crucial sexual compatibility is in a relationship. Of course sex isn't everything, but it's a whole lot more essential than most females realize. Next time find you a girl who will suck the soul out of your cock for dessert.


I'm always in the mood.
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You got some chubby ass finger's bro.

I bet they'd feel pretty good up in my ass.
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<Married 20 years.. Use to have an alarm clock when I was single but now I just wake up to blow jobs every morning at 7:00Am she sets her phone alarm so only she wakes up(its too quiet for me) then treats me to a few rounds of fukn. EVERY Single morning haha.
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Cliffs on thread: If you enjoy sex, don't get married.


Unless you're getting married to rabbit.
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Thats true, it feels pretty ****

With my ex she’d turn me down and it was so confusing, i knew i could pull 8+/10s easily (was never tempted to actually do it) but she just didn’t give a f. Messed me up a bit tbh, but im over it now

Feels kinda bad admitting to this, but always best to be honest
In reality your lucky if your having sex more than twice a month in marriage. UNLESS you are on your A game like 24/7 movies dinners, balls, and pimpin.. Otherwise goodluck 60% of Women honestly dont like phucking more than a few times a month. And they just want to have an amazing round of sex like 2-3 times a month.
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Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
Cliffs on thread: If you enjoy sex, don't get married.


Unless you're getting married to rabbit.
Or you could just learn to communicate & make sure your gf or whatever understand's how important It's for you to get your needs satisfied.

If sex's important for you and your gf/wife can't or won't satisfy you then there's always someone out there who can / will, so then just move on to the next 1.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
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Just lmao at kids being a cockblock. Got 3. Feed em a meal. Tell them to watch tv/hop on pc for a while. "Dont bother us unless your hair is on fire"
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Get turned down regularly, but still smash 3-4x a week. Been in a LTR for about 5 yrs now. Suppose I just have high test and she doesn’t vibe with it.

Things seem to get boring too. She won’t let me PIITB (it’s on the bucket list), and won’t deepthroat that cawk so idk what to do really... anyone got any suggestions?

Also she doesn’t drink or smoke so can’t get mindless w/her.

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Originally Posted By PegLegGregx⏩
Just lmao at kids being a cockblock.Got 3. Feed em a meal. Tell them to watch tv/hop on pc for a while. "Dont bother us unless your hair is on fire"



I'll have a guess.., the 3 kid's were all kidnapped by you and your boyfriend?
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my gf recently moved into my place it didn't make sense for her to pay rent on her separate place when i was already paying rent on mine. we get along pretty good but my sex drive is a lot higher than hers. This means that a lot of times she is not in the mood for sex when i need it. To make the complications more complicated, she has forbid me from watching porn and fapping as she thinks it's a form of cheating. but i am a man and i have needs. so usually a few times a week i'll go into the guest bedroom closet with my phone and jerk off. i have about 7 min to pop my O before she starts wondering where i am.
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Originally Posted By AreolaBorealis⏩
my gf recently moved into my place it didn't make sense for her to pay rent on her separate place when i was already paying rent on mine. we get along pretty good but my sex drive is a lot higher than hers. This means that a lot of times she is not in the mood for sex when i need it. To make the complications more complicated, she has forbid me from watching porn and fapping as she thinks it's a form of cheating. but i am a man and i have needs. so usually a few times a week i'll go into the guest bedroom closet with my phone and jerk off. i have about 7 min to pop my O before she starts wondering where i am.
\LMAO why not just use the shower like any normal beta?
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Originally Posted By JustJackedJoe⏩
Get turned down regularly, but still smash 3-4x a week. Been in a LTR for about 5 yrs now. Suppose I just have high test and she doesn’t vibe with it.

Things seem to get boring too. She won’t let me PIITB (it’s on the bucket list), and won’t deepthroat that cawk so idk what to do really... anyone got any suggestions?

Also she doesn’t drink or smoke so can’t get mindless w/her.

Help me brahs
3-4x a week is gold.. Im telling you that most women literally want to have sex 1 time a week at best... The rest is just a chore.
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Originally Posted By PegLegGregx⏩
Just lmao at kids being a cockblock. Got 3. Feed em a meal. Tell them to watch tv/hop on pc for a while. "Dont bother us unless your hair is on fire"
I said babies. They don't understand English *******. Brb, telling toddler to go watch tv. Brb, house on fire.
Originally Posted By sharkmeat1⏩
3-4x a week is gold.. Im telling you that most women literally want to have sex 1 time a week at best... The rest is just a chore.
What planet are you from and why do the women there hate sex?
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Can’t remember the last time my wife turned me down, the older they get, the more their libido increases
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Originally Posted By AreolaBorealis⏩
my gf recently moved into my place it didn't make sense for her to pay rent on her separate place when i was already paying rent on mine. we get along pretty good but my sex drive is a lot higher than hers. This means that a lot of times she is not in the mood for sex when i need it. To make the complications more complicated, she has forbid me from watching porn and fapping as she thinks it's a form of cheating. but i am a man and i have needs. so usually a few times a week i'll go into the guest bedroom closet with my phone and jerk off. i have about 7 min to pop my O before she starts wondering where i am.
brb does not let you bang but says you can't watch porn & jerk off, Sounds like a bish tbh.



Talk to your gf & make her understand that if she does not satisfy your needs, There's always someone who will.
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Originally Posted By Andresthetic1⏩
You got some chubby ass finger's bro.

I bet they'd feel pretty good up in my ass.


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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Thats true, it feels pretty ****

With my ex she’d turn me down and it was so confusing, i knew i could pull 8+/10s easily (was never tempted to actually do it) but she just didn’t give a f. Messed me up a bit tbh, but im over it now

Feels kinda bad admitting to this, but always best to be honest
Know the feel, started happening to me more and more frequently a bit before the 2 years together mark. We'd go from daily to less than once a week over 3 months, which is completely incompatible with me.

Redraider hits the nail on the head - not ever trying to get in the mood is a huge red flag
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
My experience.

Pre-engagement (~1.5 years):
Rejection rate less than 5%.
Had some long-distance situations so often daily/multiple times a day during that time. 4-5x weekly otherwise.
Warmup BJ's started at 100% but went down to probably 40%. BJ's to completion weekly went down to monthly. Not really complaining at those rates though.
She initiated it just as much as me as well.


Post engagement (~3.5 years):
Shortly after getting engaged we were still doing long distance and when I came to visit her (most weekends), she would no longer sleep at my parents (where we had privacy two-floors below where my parents slept) and instead insisted on sleeping at her parents (where she lived - no privacy in her bedroom). At one point we had gone 6 weeks w/o sex. I came up to visit that weekend and my parents were gone so she agreed to sleep at my parents where we'd have full privacy. Except Friday night she changed her mind and slept at her parents so her mom could cook breakfast for her in the morning. Sat night came and she was willing, but disinterested. I questioned her as I thought she'd be craving it after 6 weeks. Her response?
"Not really. Sex is something we do for you."

It was never the same despite my efforts to try to communicate and understand what she enjoyed/didn't enjoy in the bedroom. She simply said "that's life - things change when you get married."

I had 1 BJ to completion after that, and it was a "negotiated reward" for spending 20-25 hours writing university papers for her. 2 warmup BJ's. We only had sex 4 times on our 20 day honeymoon. Another trip to Mexico we only had sex once in a week. We went 5+ weeks w/o sex multiple times. My desire went out the window too knowing she didn't really want to have sex anymore and it was just a form of currency in our relationship.

She self-pitied herself because she was very inexperienced before me and felt as though she "missed out" by not having more sex before she met me.

We are now getting divorced and to be honest, the horrible sex life was not even one of the main reasons...
Oh man, This is worst case scenario, hope that doesn't happen to me.

Good luck man
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Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
Cliffs on thread: If you enjoy sex, don't get married.


Unless you're getting married to rabbit.
LMAO or Red

Or someone who you can talk to about sex
Originally Posted By 5x10⏩
Can’t remember the last time my wife turned me down, the older they get, the more their libido increases
Can confirm, am ancient
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update to my previous posts:

wife wasn't thrilled with my choice of words when I texted her that I "wanted to wear her like a gas mask"



still doesn't mean it's not happening, but she'd prefer I refer to the act in a way that isn't so "that"
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Originally Posted By sharkmeat1⏩
3-4x a week is gold.. Im telling you that most women literally want to have sex 1 time a week at best... The rest is just a chore.
i have married buddies who, granted have 4 year olds running around...try once a month boyo. that's them bringing it up.
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Originally Posted By Brahristotle⏩
Redraider hits the nail on the head - not ever trying to get in the mood is a huge red flag
^^this.

Even after what would seem like a good session, if I tried to get in the mood the next day, I'd typically get a "What are you doing??? We JUST had it yesterday?"

Ummm yeah that's the point. It was good - so why wouldn't we do it again?

I joked that the government must've passed a law when we got engaged that having sex on consecutive days was illegal.

So glad that's not my life anymore.
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tfw no gf
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
^^this.

Even after what would seem like a good session, if I tried to get in the mood the next day, I'd typically get a "What are you doing??? We JUST had it yesterday?"

Ummm yeah that's the point. It was good - so why wouldn't we do it again?

I joked that the government must've passed a law when we got engaged that having sex on consecutive days was illegal.

So glad that's not my life anymore.
Did you both have a “good time”?
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Did you both have a “good time”?
I get what you're saying, but IMO it's up to both parties to make sure they each have their own version of a good time. If she isn't she needs to communicate so she can get off too.
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