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post 1543192211 02-08-2018, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR⏩
Pics?

The sexual tension between you and this girl is pretty obvious.
Agree. Bet the woman in the story is one of those hard ass chola/Latina biches who loves pretty little white girls like Michelle. Hoping she confronts Michelle in the women's locker room after she discovers Michelle ratted her out to the boss, then Latina chick asserts her dominance and she and Michelle give in to their lesbian desires.
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Fake, women don't cause drama in the workplace.
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
From the day I started our revenue has gone up like 30% consistently. He was able to hire more people, get more customers.. whatever but with growth comes other changes that need to take place, things I couldn’t get to because I still have to keep track of everything else.

He was literally able to hire this girl because of how much money I bring into the company. We have like 80 regularly weekly customers and 15 large projects going on at any given time. I’m the only one that does any administration work.

So I was an accountant, bill collector, personal assistant, data entry person, customer service dept, pretty much every job that takes place in an office was my job. Even with two people everything isn’t getting done and I was expected to personally get everything done. Yes I got overwhelmed and eventually froze up, which is why- when he hired this person he should have hired her as my assistant.

Also- these new procedures and things that need to be implemented are things that need to be created by me, and then get a team of 10 on board with all the changes, and then execute. All while doing the above.
So, when you became overwhelmed by doing your job alone (it does sound overwhelming tbf) you froze up and your boss reaponded by hiring someone to be your equal.

Now you have a new set of problems and, again, you are not addressing them proactively and are even considering backing down from your employment altogether rather than be an active and vocal part in fixing the problem.

Am I reading this right? Because it sounds like this problem will follow you to another job...
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
No, of course he’s not married. We were together 12 years ago, I worked from him from another state for a year. (Never anything unprofessional) but I moved here to work and just work. Anyways, he was my only friend here on top of being my boss- so we did spend time together(platonic) and then I guess because of our history, it turned into something else.

Edit- I don’t think I flirt with anyone on here.
Okay. I see.

So to sum everything up - the only reason why this chick is getting on your nerves so much is because you subconsciously see her as a threat to this very weird relationship you have with your boss. The truth is, this other chick sounds like a go-getter. She's there to progress. She's going to do some things better than you - not to mention that she brings an outside perspective to the way things have always been done at your workplace.

SHE is actually healthy for the company. All organizations should do this from time to time to better themselves.

Everything you wrote here is again a reflection of your personal insecurities, and really do not have anything to do with the chick performing better than you (probably).
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Originally Posted By MyGhettoFantasy⏩
So, when you became overwhelmed by doing your job alone (it does sound overwhelming tbf) you froze up and your boss reaponded by hiring someone to be your equal.

Now you have a new set of problems and, again, you are not addressing them proactively and are even considering backing down from your employment altogether rather than be an active and vocal part in fixing the problem.

Am I reading this right? Because it sounds like this problem will follow you to another job...
This is the problem, the things she is doing aren’t meant to be helpful. The other day I was sending out an email. It was phrased like this “ (boss) told (girl) and me that we could... “ girl I work with then told me that it should be “(girl) and (I)” I said no, this is correct the way I wrote it.. she insisted that I was wrong. For one she should have been focusing on her own ****, and for two you shouldn’t question someone that has been at a job much longer than you. I don’t feel like I need to explain common sense to her. I was going to ignore until she had her own workload.

I can’t think of an adjective to describe what she is doing but I’m sure she’s well aware of it. I want to say that she’s trying to assert dominance or something. I work very hard for the company and she would have to literally live in the office to come anywhere close to how much I do for the place I work.
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Rub your disgusting, unhygenic hands all over the office while she's lookin. Pick your ass and hand her things. Ya know...stuff u do on the reg anyway but make sure she sees it
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Fake, women (who aren't sleeping with the boss) don't cause drama in the workplace.
Fixed.

Some of us are pretty professional in the workplace and practice common sense.
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Originally Posted By MyGhettoFantasy⏩
So, when you became overwhelmed by doing your job alone (it does sound overwhelming tbf) you froze up and your boss reaponded by hiring someone to be your equal.

Now you have a new set of problems and, again, you are not addressing them proactively and are even considering backing down from your employment altogether rather than be an active and vocal part in fixing the problem.

Am I reading this right? Because it sounds like this problem will follow you to another job...
Na she's Fcking her boss and expected to not work hard. Then boss hires a woman to basically do all her work. This leads to girl stealing ops bosses attention. Which led to this jealousy.
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post 1543193611 02-08-2018, 10:31 AM
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I think you guys are going in a bit too dry...not to WK. She said she did a LOT of work, and has really put a ton of effort into this company. It's not the picture you guys are painting of her being lazy and phuckin the boss. I still think you need to switch jobs Michelle. That way you can keep your personal life separate from professional life.
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Okay. I see.

So to sum everything up - the only reason why this chick is getting on your nerves so much is because you subconsciously see her as a threat to this very weird relationship you have with your boss. The truth is, this other chick sounds like a go-getter. She's there to progress. She's going to do some things better than you - not to mention that she brings an outside perspective to the way things have always been done at your workplace.

SHE is actually healthy for the company. All organizations should do this from time to time to better themselves.

Everything you wrote here is again a reflection of your personal insecurities, and really do not have anything to do with the chick performing better than you (probably).
lol damn you read OP like a book and broke it down very simply. Michelle feels ownership towards her boss and secretly is still down to get with him but this new chick is threatening her fantasy and stealing her job and dare I say doing it better than her.
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
She keeps stepping on my toes and questioning things that I do

I complained to my boss and now I’m in a meeting with both of them where he is basically forcing a confrontation

Tempted to quit


Doubt you're tempted to quit for chit, You're just a drama queen & seek attention.

Should just settle chit with the other girl outside, But naah, you're too scared cause she'd beat ya pancake ass.
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I think you went about it the wrong way. The one time I had a conflict/hostile relationship with a coworker. I approached her individually and brought up that I noticed XYZ, I want us to have a better work relationship, that it is unproductive to go on without addressing this, and what can I do to make her more comfortable working with me. It diffused the situation bc I did not accuse her of being a bitch, instead it’s about both of us needing to change how we communicate to make life a little easier for everyone.

I think when it comes to repeated work conflict, this is one of the only ways to make it better. Most people don’t tend to keep on being nasty when you straight up nicely ask them how you can help them change the attitude. Going to your boss to complain about it isn’t the way to go.
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OP you sound like a pain in the ass.
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
I think you went about it the wrong way. The one time I had a conflict/hostile relationship with a coworker. I approached her individually and brought up that I noticed XYZ, I want us to have a better work relationship, that it is unproductive to go on without addressing this, and what can I do to make her more comfortable working with me. It diffused the situation bc I did not accuse her of being a bitch, instead it’s about both of us needing to change how we communicate to make life a little easier for everyone.

I think when it comes to repeated work conflict, this is one of the only ways to make it better. Most people don’t tend to keep on being nasty when you straight up nicely ask them how you can help them change the attitude. Going to your boss to complain about it isn’t the way to go.
That's a very mature way of dealing with it. Most sloots would just give each other the evil eye and backstab until one left. Your approach won't work on sociopaths though. Eventually, you will run into that one person who just wants to make your life a living hell.
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Let me get this straight. OP is sucking her boss' dink, boss hires another girl who could potentially be hotter/sexier, OP is mad about the whole situation. Sounds like emotions are running high in the workplace and it won't end well. I'd venture to guess that the boss wants to weasel his way into a 3 way relationship with you 2 ladies. Assuming he's an alpha male.
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Let me get this straight. OP is sucking her boss' dink, boss hires another girl who could potentially be hotter/sexier, OP is mad about the whole situation.
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
I think you went about it the wrong way. The one time I had a conflict/hostile relationship with a coworker. I approached her individually and brought up that I noticed XYZ, I want us to have a better work relationship, that it is unproductive to go on without addressing this, and what can I do to make her more comfortable working with me. It diffused the situation bc I did not accuse her of being a bitch, instead it’s about both of us needing to change how we communicate to make life a little easier for everyone.

I think when it comes to repeated work conflict, this is one of the only ways to make it better. Most people don’t tend to keep on being nasty when you straight up nicely ask them how you can help them change the attitude. Going to your boss to complain about it isn’t the way to go.
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
to further that - OP believes she single-handedly increased company revenue by 30% therein ironically sealing her own fate by granting the company enough resources to hire someone else more fit to do her job.
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
My boss is my boyfriend. We keep things very professional, obviously or else I wouldn’t be dealing with real work **** problems.
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
to further that - OP believes she single-handedly increased company revenue by 30% therein ironically sealing her own fate by granting the company enough resources to hire someone else more fit to do her job.
The numbers literally went up the same month that I started, I was the only person that worked in the office. Obviously everyone contributes to a company but the numbers went up because I was the one in the office.. you can literally see the changes in revenue from the day I started

I’m on call 24/7 - I have customers that call me and yell at me, text me at all hours. I help out on weekends with the physical work. My boss isn’t stupid- if I didn’t contribute to the company the way I do, he would fire me. Whatever our relationship is, it wouldn’t come before his ability to take care of him and his family.
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Originally Posted By halfbreedbrah⏩
You didn't privately confront her but went straight to the boss? If I was your boss I'd fire you for destroying team chemistry. Your a adult talk it out with her.
I told an old women that I didn't appreciate the way she talks to me and she didn't say a word to me for weeks after that. Some people can't handle any confrontation at all. Op probably did the right thing, as silly as that sounds
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
Whatever our relationship is, it wouldn’t come before his ability to take care of him and his family.
Is he married?
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Originally Posted By MustardTiger17⏩
I told an old women that I didn't appreciate the way she talks to me and she didn't say a word to me for weeks after that. Some people can't handle any confrontation at all. Op probably did the right thing, as silly as that sounds
Didn't talk to you? Sounds like it worked no extra drama.
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