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03-10-2018, 07:03 PM
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03-10-2018, 07:11 PM
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Ken-O and peterplss made solid posts. Lol at people wondering why he said '' I have to think''. Because he is attracted to her physically and because she's new to him so he has the impression that she's also more interesting than his gf.
I bet that she finds him attractive, but nothing amazing, knows about his girlfriend freaking out when she's in the same place with him, made this entire chit for validation and to boost her ego. Does she really care if he has feelings for her ? Absolutely no.
Man up and leave the girl alone, she deserve better.
I bet that she finds him attractive, but nothing amazing, knows about his girlfriend freaking out when she's in the same place with him, made this entire chit for validation and to boost her ego. Does she really care if he has feelings for her ? Absolutely no.
Man up and leave the girl alone, she deserve better.
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03-10-2018, 07:17 PM
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Originally Posted By IPlayRugby⏩
She made her decision to kick you out in a fit of rage where she wasn't thinking rationally.Long story. Cliffs at end.
So I went out of town for a weekend and "gf" told me "Dont see Chloe" (mates ex and also powerlifting sloot who kept talking to me). She ends up being at the house im staying at because she was helping with a powerlifting comp the next day. I accidentally let it slip in conversation that her ex is moving to Europe to be with some chick.
Weekend turns to a piece of chit and I end up spending most the time with her having to comfort her and answer questions. She tells me her life story and acts flirty with me etc. Gets really emotional and keeps asking me to hang. I didnt tell "gf" cause I didnt wanna start an argument while I was out of town.
Powerlifting sloot ends up txting me and asking me if I had feelings for her and I reply "I had to think about it, but na dont think so".
I get back home to "gf" and as I was sleeping she thought something was up cause I hardly talked to her all weekend and she goes through my phone. Sees all txts and kicks me out at 2am. Doesnt trust me and broke up with me. Shes saying its as bad as cheating if not worse cause emotions are in play.
Ive been a fukkin mess since then (Monday) and I cant cope brahs. Im srs struggling so much and dont know what i can do to win her back. Ive blocked powerlifting sloots number and instagram ("Gf" asked me to) and trying to do things to get her back but she said she doesnt think she can and wants to be alone for weeks.
What do I fukkin do brahs, I dont know and ive vented to various people (including her cousin) and I keep breaking down.
Cliffs:
Go out of town
Let bad news slip and have to comfort mates ex
Asks if I have feels and I say "I had to think about it, but na dont think so"
Breaks up with me for cheating emotionally
Need ideas to win her back
So I went out of town for a weekend and "gf" told me "Dont see Chloe" (mates ex and also powerlifting sloot who kept talking to me). She ends up being at the house im staying at because she was helping with a powerlifting comp the next day. I accidentally let it slip in conversation that her ex is moving to Europe to be with some chick.
Weekend turns to a piece of chit and I end up spending most the time with her having to comfort her and answer questions. She tells me her life story and acts flirty with me etc. Gets really emotional and keeps asking me to hang. I didnt tell "gf" cause I didnt wanna start an argument while I was out of town.
Powerlifting sloot ends up txting me and asking me if I had feelings for her and I reply "I had to think about it, but na dont think so".
I get back home to "gf" and as I was sleeping she thought something was up cause I hardly talked to her all weekend and she goes through my phone. Sees all txts and kicks me out at 2am. Doesnt trust me and broke up with me. Shes saying its as bad as cheating if not worse cause emotions are in play.
Ive been a fukkin mess since then (Monday) and I cant cope brahs. Im srs struggling so much and dont know what i can do to win her back. Ive blocked powerlifting sloots number and instagram ("Gf" asked me to) and trying to do things to get her back but she said she doesnt think she can and wants to be alone for weeks.
What do I fukkin do brahs, I dont know and ive vented to various people (including her cousin) and I keep breaking down.
Cliffs:
Go out of town
Let bad news slip and have to comfort mates ex
Asks if I have feels and I say "I had to think about it, but na dont think so"
Breaks up with me for cheating emotionally
Need ideas to win her back
I would let her cool down for a few days before trying to contact her (At least a week) unless she contacts you first.
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03-10-2018, 07:31 PM
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Lol at telling her you had to think about it. Even if you did have feelings for her you should have decided how you wanted to deal with that before texting her back. Either you tell her and dump your gf or you say no. You can't just throw it out there to her that you had to think about it just so she knows. It says 2 things: 1/ you want her to know in case things don't work out with you and your gf 2/ you're an attention whore who likes knowing that there are girls out there that like you and you don't want to cut that feeling off. It's an incredibly weak and unmasculine way to act and akin to how flakey low quality females act. Stop being a cry baby and grow up, learn from your dumbass ways and move on.
Telling her that is manipulative bish girl behaviour.
Telling her that is manipulative bish girl behaviour.
03-10-2018, 07:44 PM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
lmfao, so we are supposed to just get cucked if we can help it? I admire your strong but naive moral compass.Didn't read the entire thread yet.
OP if she doesn't trust you to the point that she is going through your phone (boundary violation) then your relationship was already messed up.
Srs. Old lady here. Very first serious BF cheated on me openly so everyone knew but me... Still have never gone through an SO's email/phone.
OP if she doesn't trust you to the point that she is going through your phone (boundary violation) then your relationship was already messed up.
Srs. Old lady here. Very first serious BF cheated on me openly so everyone knew but me... Still have never gone through an SO's email/phone.
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03-10-2018, 07:47 PM
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Lesson learned. Delete potentially harmful messages if you know someone is going to see them.
She is not mad about you talking to the powerlifting sloot. She was planning on leaving anyway and is using this as an excuse to blame you for her choices.
She is not mad about you talking to the powerlifting sloot. She was planning on leaving anyway and is using this as an excuse to blame you for her choices.
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03-10-2018, 07:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Joseph1990⏩
Nah... not even WKing but having to check your SO's phone is messed up. If you need to check your gf's phone you have serious insecurity mental problems to address, not a matter of being a cuck or not.lmfao, so we are supposed to just get cucked if we can help it? I admire your strong but naive moral compass.
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03-10-2018, 07:51 PM
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Originally Posted By sdoo⏩
Strong jumping to strong conclusions via weak evidence. I'm giving OP's ex the benefit of the doubt that she had reason to believe he was being a sloot because I have strong evidence from the horse's mouth that she was right. I'm not advising everyone spy on their SO behind their back, I'm saying if you truly have reason to believe something is up, investigating is the logical course of action. Afterwards if you have invaded their privacy and found nothing you should confess to this.Nah... not even WKing but having to check your SO's phone is messed up. If you need to check your gf's phone you have serious insecurity mental problems to address, not a matter of being a cuck or not.
Originally Posted By crupiea⏩
That's the lesson learned here? Really?Lessonlearned.Deletepotentially harmfulmessagesif you know someone is going to see them.
She is not mad about you talking to the powerlifting sloot. She was planning on leaving anyway and is using this as an excuse to blame you for her choices.
She is not mad about you talking to the powerlifting sloot. She was planning on leaving anyway and is using this as an excuse to blame you for her choices.
Are you chitting me?
Originally Posted By WestAfrica⏩
This. You guys are ****ing idiots saying OP did nothing wrong. Gf says don’t see/hang out with chick. Chick appears. OP doesn’t tell gf chick is there. Chick cries, OP lies and then hangs with chick all weekend. OP tells girl he might like her. OP distant to gf all weekend. OP doesn’t delete texts. Girl akaCarmen San Diegocatches OP’s dumb ass lying and sees texts and boots his ass to the curb. GJGF.
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03-10-2018, 07:58 PM
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OP’s gf said don’t talk to the chick if he sees her there. Implying that OP has some prior contact with the chick that the gf wasn’t ok with.
Its like your gf going on a business trip with her team and you telling her not to hang out with her flirty coworker Timothy. Then she spends the whole weekend with Timop and Tim sends her a text asking if she likes him and she responds with “I’ll let you know.”
Its like your gf going on a business trip with her team and you telling her not to hang out with her flirty coworker Timothy. Then she spends the whole weekend with Timop and Tim sends her a text asking if she likes him and she responds with “I’ll let you know.”
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03-10-2018, 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted By AzzTuna⏩
Same thoughts here. What you hiding op?. Why did you have to think about whether you had feelings for this other sloot?Why the fukk would you say you have to think about it? Should’ve just said no bish.
I think we’re missing something here.
I think we’re missing something here.
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03-10-2018, 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted By IPlayRugby⏩
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, you dumb motherphucker who the phuck would reply that. Lol just LOL. ya dun phucked up homie. also lol at gf in quotation marks, lets be real boyo you deserved getting dumped.Long story. Cliffs at end.
So I went out of town for a weekend and "gf" told me "Dont see Chloe" (mates ex and also powerlifting sloot who kept talking to me). She ends up being at the house im staying at because she was helping with a powerlifting comp the next day. I accidentally let it slip in conversation that her ex is moving to Europe to be with some chick.
Weekend turns to a piece of chit and I end up spending most the time with her having to comfort her and answer questions. She tells me her life story and acts flirty with me etc. Gets really emotional and keeps asking me to hang. I didnt tell "gf" cause I didnt wanna start an argument while I was out of town.
Powerlifting sloot ends up txting me and asking me if I had feelings for her and I reply "I had to think about it, but na dont think so".
I get back home to "gf" and as I was sleeping she thought something was up cause I hardly talked to her all weekend and she goes through my phone. Sees all txts and kicks me out at 2am. Doesnt trust me and broke up with me. Shes saying its as bad as cheating if not worse cause emotions are in play.
Ive been a fukkin mess since then (Monday) and I cant cope brahs. Im srs struggling so much and dont know what i can do to win her back. Ive blocked powerlifting sloots number and instagram ("Gf" asked me to) and trying to do things to get her back but she said she doesnt think she can and wants to be alone for weeks.
What do I fukkin do brahs, I dont know and ive vented to various people (including her cousin) and I keep breaking down.
Cliffs:
Go out of town
Let bad news slip and have to comfort mates ex
Asks if I have feels and I say"I had to think about it, but na dont think so"
Breaks up with me for cheating emotionally
Need ideas to win her back
So I went out of town for a weekend and "gf" told me "Dont see Chloe" (mates ex and also powerlifting sloot who kept talking to me). She ends up being at the house im staying at because she was helping with a powerlifting comp the next day. I accidentally let it slip in conversation that her ex is moving to Europe to be with some chick.
Weekend turns to a piece of chit and I end up spending most the time with her having to comfort her and answer questions. She tells me her life story and acts flirty with me etc. Gets really emotional and keeps asking me to hang. I didnt tell "gf" cause I didnt wanna start an argument while I was out of town.
Powerlifting sloot ends up txting me and asking me if I had feelings for her and I reply "I had to think about it, but na dont think so".
I get back home to "gf" and as I was sleeping she thought something was up cause I hardly talked to her all weekend and she goes through my phone. Sees all txts and kicks me out at 2am. Doesnt trust me and broke up with me. Shes saying its as bad as cheating if not worse cause emotions are in play.
Ive been a fukkin mess since then (Monday) and I cant cope brahs. Im srs struggling so much and dont know what i can do to win her back. Ive blocked powerlifting sloots number and instagram ("Gf" asked me to) and trying to do things to get her back but she said she doesnt think she can and wants to be alone for weeks.
What do I fukkin do brahs, I dont know and ive vented to various people (including her cousin) and I keep breaking down.
Cliffs:
Go out of town
Let bad news slip and have to comfort mates ex
Asks if I have feels and I say"I had to think about it, but na dont think so"
Breaks up with me for cheating emotionally
Need ideas to win her back
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03-10-2018, 08:20 PM
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OP is the definition of a dirty sloot. Your GF is more of a man than you are, face it. She deserves better than some ******* that act's like a girl and even think's like a girl (I had to think about it -> what? that's something a 19 year old teenage sloot would say after cheating on her man with tyrone)
03-10-2018, 08:26 PM
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Originally Posted By IPlayRugby⏩
^^^^ This up here is what he's hiding. She kept him there, made him food,etc. Strong raised eyebrow on this one.Last day before I left I went and said bye but she ended up keeping me there for a while and made me food etc.
Originally Posted By yoxnick⏩
Same thoughts here.What you hiding op?.Why did you have to think about whether you had feelings for this other sloot?
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03-10-2018, 10:14 PM
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I do agree that it you have to Snoop the relationship is probably over, either because you have trust issues, or because it turns out you were right not to trust them.
In this case it was the latter. Surprised anyone can say op wasn't in the wrong here. Ridiculous.
In this case it was the latter. Surprised anyone can say op wasn't in the wrong here. Ridiculous.
03-10-2018, 10:25 PM
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Originally Posted By doughnutking⏩
Damn doighnutking dropping pure truth. Harsh but truefucn lol
You fuced up, son.
Your gf is right to kick out your sneaky beta ass.
I'm sure she will find a real man who won't feel the need to emotionally support other females at the weekend whilst lying to her.
Time to grow up you lil bitch. srs
You fuced up, son.
Your gf is right to kick out your sneaky beta ass.
I'm sure she will find a real man who won't feel the need to emotionally support other females at the weekend whilst lying to her.
Time to grow up you lil bitch. srs
Op I feel for you. Everyone fuks up though and rarely is stuff like this beyond fixing after only 1 offense. Just communicate your feelings to her, accept ownership of your actions and let her know you wanna earn her trust back. Good luck.
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