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post 1555132151 07-01-2018, 02:00 AM
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Originally Posted By MichaelDuong⏩
I don’t see the problem srs

You fukt a dude for fun

Told him to go find another girl to fuk

Then got pissed because he went to fuk other girl and not talk to you

Don’t encourage him in the first place if you didn’t want his attention elsewhere. You may have feelings and emotional attachments to him but it means nothing from his perspective. You were just one of his side pieces.

Find another FWB.
I told him to date someone else. The main issue is the ghosting. I mean I was a supportive friend to him. After his breakup with his ex, I was a shoulder to cry on (not literally, though he did cry though). Now I feel like I wasted my time supporting this guy.

I should have left him at the mercy of his exes, one of which kept asking him to do favours for her and for years had made him feel like he was bad at sex I might add. The other wanted him to tell everyone they were back together while she stayed with her husband.

And now he's with a chick who had dropped him because her cousin didn't think he was a good match and who also for months gave him short sentence answers followed by lengthy calls when he was starting to lose interest.
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post 1555132201 07-01-2018, 02:01 AM
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Originally Posted By DrunkenMoron⏩
Agreed but don't just stop there.

Also write a separate email, maybe call his parents for council.

Show up at his work etc..

Really let him know you care.
This.

But maybe that’s not enough, maybe you should call his phone a good couple hundred times just make sure he’s sure he doesn’t want to answer.

And by the sounds of it you probably haven’t texted him enough times in a row.

Did you try sitting outside his house waiting for him?

Maybe if you go meet this girl and start dressing like her he’ll see he really wanted you and will come back...
post 1555132311 07-01-2018, 02:05 AM
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Originally Posted By stillbored⏩
This.

But maybe that’s not enough, maybe you should call his phone a good couple hundred times just make sure he’s sure he doesn’t want to answer.

And by the sounds of it you probably haven’t texted him enough times in a row.

Did you try sitting outside his house waiting for him?

Maybe if you go meet this girl and start dressing like her he’ll see he really wanted you and will come back...
Nah I'm done with him. Sent him a message about how I felt about the issue and that I was done.
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post 1555133221 07-01-2018, 02:41 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Nah I'm done with him. Sent him a message about how I felt about the issue and that I was done.
You need to follow up though. Else you won’t ever know for sure.

You should send a follow up text.

I recommend “pls respond”
post 1555134351 07-01-2018, 03:39 AM
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the sloot logic is strong
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Originally Posted By MichaelDuong⏩
Female logic or lack thereof?
I know you're new; we used to say that a lot around here. Female logic is not actual logic, usually it's them justifying themselves emotionally
fukn Brozart
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post 1555134861 07-01-2018, 04:04 AM
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Originally Posted By janglingjack⏩
This is the degenerate OP:


USMC 0311
*Ice Hockey/Lacrosse Crew*
*fukkin zeezbrah when pickin up chicks but do one thing to fuk it up/cant sustain after that night crew*
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post 1555135261 07-01-2018, 04:24 AM
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Lmao this autist
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Originally Posted By janglingjack⏩
This is the degenerate OP:



mmmmmmhmm, i'd love to be your fwb op, would lick that pucci on command for you beautiful

forget this bitchass
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-man hands
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Who was daddy issues for 100, Alex?

He’s probably letting out a huge sigh of relief after he read your “I sure told him “ text. You were a fan, stop thinking you deserved anything more than what you got.
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post 1555143541 07-01-2018, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Thanks red and you're right. I wished him well, told him why I'm done and blocked him.
Good for you.
Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I had deleted the photos soon after posting but someone saved then and reposted them on here.

I had posted them at the time because I was pissed I kept being called a man even by the female miscers.

I probably am still being called a man anyway so that accomplished nothing.
Stop talking about it and responding and people will soon forget. The misc is like an elementary school playground - ignore the *******s, and if they don't get a response out of you, they'll eventually stop.
Originally Posted By jay283⏩
It's just I never thought he'd be the type to ghost. He and I talk multiple times a week. He n I told each other a lot about our past. He told me in detail about his past relationships, problems with his mom, friendship issues, emotional stuff.

I mean he could have at least said he wanted to call it quits. The disrespect.

It's not like on would have freaked if he moved on to someone else. I would be happy for him. To me it just shows a level of immaturity.
Yep, and that stinks. You will likely never know what prompted his ghosting, but you do have all the information that you need to write the story of the end of this relationship. Here, I wrote a rough draft for you:

"Fuk buddy has been a part of my life and we had a lot of fun together. When our relationship started progressing, we learned it probably wouldn't work out. We seemed to both be having doubts about the relationship anyway, especially when he thought we were not sexually compatible. The final straw was when I encouraged him to seek out another relationship and he later completely ghosted me in a disrepsectful and confusing manner,so I ended it."

There ya go. Who cares who ended it, if that ^^^ allows you to mentally move on. You've now had 24 hours to be sad and down about this thing that you could not control. Go forth, think about the future (not the past) and evaluate if this relationship dynamic will work for you again in the future.
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post 1555144211 07-01-2018, 08:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Globally⏩
What’s the background on tential’s teen star GIF collection he/she uses for every post. srs question.

Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Your pic is quite alluring I might add. Lifting your arms accentuates your curves.

If I was trying hard I would have worn a corset. Besides I was wearing a sports bra in the pic..that not so sexy and the underwear is not that cute either.
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Girl don’t ..i was aiming to get a straight on body shot, I’m wearing jeans and a top ..not covering my bare tits in a pair of lace panties ..there is nothing alluring about that shot
Lol at how sloots will tear each other down for anything, no matter how minuscule.
post 1555144351 07-01-2018, 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
I know you're new; we used to say that a lot around here. Female logic is not actual logic, usually it's them justifying themselves emotionally
It's quite an amazing trick though. Amazing coping mechanism.
post 1555144451 07-01-2018, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted By tential⏩





Lol at how sloots will tear each other down for anything, no matter how minuscule.
Legit laughed, almost as much when France shat on Messi
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post 1555144681 07-01-2018, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Shut it tommo
can't! don't tell me what to do!
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post 1555145391 07-01-2018, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
It's just I never thought he'd be the type to ghost. He and I talk multiple times a week. He n I told each other a lot about our past. He told me in detail about his past relationships, problems with his mom, friendship issues, emotional stuff.

I mean he could have at least said he wanted to call it quits. The disrespect.
Well there you have it. OP became emotionally attached to a fukbuddy, thought they were in a relationship (of sorts) and is treating this the same way women usually treat a breakup whereshehas to be the one to move on first, not him. Goes to show women can't handle fukbuddy situations like they think they can.
Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Stop talking about it and responding and people will soon forget. The misc is like an elementary school playground - ignore the *******s, and if they don't get a response out of you, they'll eventually stop.
Alright it looks like redraider is officially broken, spending too much time on the misc and letting it get to her. Time for a break, imo. She used to be more dismissive about misc bullchit.
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
Alright it looks like redraider is officially broken, spending too much time on the misc and letting it get to her. Time for a break, imo. She used to be more dismissive about misc bullchit.
Dismisses your sexist bullchit.

There ya go.
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Dismisses your sexist bullchit.

There ya go.
Definitely hard to find men who fall victim to that behavior. You'll always find more women getting emotionally attached post-sex than men. If that's misogynistic then whatever.
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Originally Posted By Fatkidwholifts⏩
-tell him to hangout with some girl
-he hangs out with girl
-“pissed off at the disrespect”

Neato
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
Well there you have it. OP became emotionally attached to a fukbuddy, thought they were in a relationship (of sorts) and is treating this the same way women usually treat a breakup whereshehas to be the one to move on first, not him. Goes to show women can't handle fukbuddy situations like they think they can.



Alright it looks like redraider is officially broken, spending too much time on the misc and letting it get to her. Time for a break, imo. She used to be more dismissive about misc bullchit.
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Look for a relationship, there's nothing for a woman in a FWB relationship. I never had one, I'd feel so used and disgusted with the guy and myself. Get over him and look for someone that genuinely likes you and it's not only looking for sex.

Idk who started this fwb trend but it's sooooo fuked up for women, you're basically having sex with a guy until he finds what he likes, then you move to another fwb ? What the fuk dude, no, sex should be performed if you have feelings for someone or for something in exchange. Having sex without gaining something out of it, even if it's a psychological need is BS.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
Look for a relationship, there's nothing for a woman in a FWB relationship. I never had one, I'd feel so used and disgusted with the guy and myself. Get over him and look for someone that genuinely likes you and it's not only looking for sex.

Idk who started this fwb trend but it's sooooo fuked up for women, you're basically having sex with a guy until he finds what he likes, then you move to another fwb ? What the fuk dude, no, sex should be performed if you have feelings for someone or for something in exchange. Having sex without gaining something out of it, even if it's a psychological need is BS.
and yet I've had women ask me to be their FWB when I wanted something more (then stop cause they were getting feels). Interesting
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
Definitely hard to find men who fall victim to that behavior. You'll always find more women getting emotionally attached post-sex than men. If that's misogynistic then whatever.
Smack this
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
and yet I've had women ask me to be their FWB when I wanted something more (then stop cause they were getting feels). Interesting
Don't take me as a point of reference, I'm pretty abnormal for a 22 yo.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
Look for a relationship, there's nothing for a woman in a FWB relationship. I never had one, I'd feel so used and disgusted with the guy and myself. Get over him and look for someone that genuinely likes you and it's not only looking for sex.

Idk who started this fwb trend but it's sooooo fuked up for women, you're basically having sex with a guy until he finds what he likes, then you move to another fwb ? What the fuk dude, no, sex should be performed if you have feelings for someone or for something in exchange. Having sex without gaining something out of it, even if it's a psychological need is BS.
I agree. I've had a long term FWB for the past 3+ years that was with the benefit 1.5 years of it and the past 1.5+ without. It's been more of a friend situation the entire time as we text much more than we've ever seen each other. I would never try to have another FWB as I learned I am just not cut out for it. I don't want sex without feelings and emotions. With him I had that partially because it's been long term.
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
Definitely hard to find men who fall victim to that behavior. You'll always find more women getting emotionally attached post-sex than men. If that's misogynistic then whatever.
Oh, you are correct there, I wasn't arguing that. I was referring to your officially broke down/take a break/meltdown comments that are peculiarly always aimed towards women. It's condescending, inaccurate, and unwelcome. I'm noticing a pattern of miscers going on about "Wow, don't you have any sense of humor?!" for having the audacity to respond seriously to threads.

Let's be real, no chit Jay is a troll. You're trying to tell me someone with the same posting style as two other well-known trolls, who posts openly about STI's and fuk buddies is trolling!? Tell me more! It's still truths that some of y'all need to hear, and in my mind doesn't make it any less relevant.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Rabbit, it's not like really wanted to b an fwb but I needed some type of distraction. I didn't want sit at home crying n **** over the last guy I had feelings for.
Why not guys have to do it all the time, sounds like sex is the answer to everything for you.
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
and yet I've had women ask me to be their FWB when I wanted something more (then stop cause they were getting feels). Interesting
The first time this happened to me was hilarious. Tried to date some girl, she only wanted FWB, we argued. Then I get home, getting lit, and I'm just like wtf... what was I thinking. No idea why a woman wouldn't take a relationship over FWB, but smashed that ho.

All woman who have been down for FWB though have been very subpar in some way.
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