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post 1560221991 09-01-2018, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
What about this theory though. Many guys are still at least somewhat sexually attracted to unattractive girls, especially if they're not fat. So if an unattractive guy dates an equally unattractive girl, he is sleeping with someone who he is at least somewhat sexually attracted to (because she still has bobs and vagene regardless of how else she looks).

Whereas most girls are not sexually attracted to most guys, so if girls date someone equally unattractive they might have to sleep with someone they're not sexually attracted to, just for the sake of having a relationship.
Second part is kind of true but there are tons of guys like myself who aren't attracted to big girls. Slim fit body is all I'm attracted to. Like prime Jennifer Aniston.

I know a lot of guys will fuk anything that isnt obese though
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post 1560222231 09-01-2018, 10:03 AM
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post 1560222581 09-01-2018, 10:08 AM
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post 1560223161 09-01-2018, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted By dyelrbc⏩
Maybe it just sucks to be unattractive in general. I always thought of myself as attractive, was athletic, a "good guy", did well in school and all that, someone desirable to the opposite sex. Was never turned down in my younger years for a date.

Fast forward: Got married, got fat, got divorced.

Went to online dating thinking it would be easy mode because of my earlier success. What a brutal revelation that was. Going out to bars and just being turned down, lowering standards, repeating. Drinking more to deal with being unattractive and feeling sorry for myself.

Started lifting, lost a bunch of weight, tinder still isn't great but it's better and it's easy mode in a bar now.

Perhaps ideally you would be judged more on the content of your character than your looks, but it is what it is, so use it to your advantage.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Chad has it better than Stacy, because there are more Stacies than Chads and Stacies all want a relationship with Chad while Chad can play the field and juggle multiple Stacies.
Agree.
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This.

Just LOL @ anyone who thinks even the ugliest women can't find a man for a relationship! They are only unhappy because they can't get a 9+/10 guy to commit,even though they could easily get a 3/10 guy on their level!
Yeah, because that 3/10 guy hasn't been exposed to lots of porn and become deluded that any female below a 5 or 6 is beneath him.

And lol at miscers still chiming in "but they can get laid".
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Yeah, because that 3/10 guy hasn't been exposed to lots of porn and become deluded that any female below a 5 or 6 is beneath him.

And lol at miscers still chiming in "but they can get laid".
And that's the main point to all of this. Everyone, ugly men AND ugly women, all want someone who is at least a notch or two above them in market value. Ugly women look for a relationship with a better looking guy, ugly men look for sex with a better looking woman.
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they're not happy because they want brad pitts of the world and have to settle for average joe blow.

I've been rejected by too many fat and ugly women to feel bad for them
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
What about this theory though. Many guys are still at least somewhat sexually attracted to unattractive girls, especially if they're not fat. So if an unattractive guy dates an equally unattractive girl, he is sleeping with someone who he is at least somewhat sexually attracted to (because she still has bobs and vagene regardless of how else she looks).

Whereas most girls are not sexually attracted to most guys, so if girls date someone equally unattractive they might have to sleep with someone they're not sexually attracted to, just for the sake of having a relationship.
implying men haven't phucked things that they are not attracted to.


and few chads can live off their good looks. Most Stacies can some way or another. (not saying that a Chad has a lower SMV than a stacy)

It's also easier becoming a stacy, just don't stuff your face.
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post 1560476401 09-04-2018, 06:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
What about this theory though. Many guys are still at least somewhat sexually attracted to unattractive girls, especially if they're not fat. So if an unattractive guy dates an equally unattractive girl, he is sleeping with someone who he is at least somewhat sexually attracted to (because she still has bobs and vagene regardless of how else she looks).

Whereas most girls are not sexually attracted to most guys, so if girls date someone equally unattractive they might have to sleep with someone they're not sexually attracted to, just for the sake of having a relationship.
This is spot and exactly why there's so many incels nowadays. Their female equivalents would rather be alone. So its bulls*it when people blame incels for their own problems. If the girls on your level or below if its possible dont want you, there is nothing you can do.

That's been my case my entire life.

inb4 just become a millionaire
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Originally Posted By TrickHenry⏩
implying men haven't phucked things that they are not attracted to.
Men are hardwired to want and enjoys sex much more liberally than women. A man fuking even a less attractive chick is still very worth it to him, but a woman would generally rather slit her throat than bang an undesirable. thats where the "not if you were the last man on earth" thing comes from.

If given no choice, a man would fuk just about any woman. not the other way around
post 1560476891 09-04-2018, 06:41 PM
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Just using common sense and the way society is headed just lol if you think it's easier being an ugly man.





But also this
Originally Posted By EoR⏩
Bohoo let's debate who is the biggest victim
post 1560477531 09-04-2018, 06:48 PM
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Below average women are a god send for men like us on the miscs.

The above average women has 100% of men fighting for them, then it goes down by appearance point.

And lets be real. Any man above a 5/10 would put effort AT ALL into someone less than 4 or 3.

What's sad is most of these women aren't too terrible looking, but exceptionally chubby. Something that can be fixed in a few months of help at the gym. Then you reap the point differential.

Right now I'm sitting at a 6/10 kind of guy. I put on a TON of weight and haven't focused on myself.

On POF and Tinder and ****, I still get messaged first by lots of 3/10, 4/10 and 5/10. It's so easy to get them texting and talking, and then fooking.

You slowly start up with them, then when you're balancing 3 or 4 of these girls and making yourself better you start looking at the 6's the 7's and the 8's.

And because you KNOW you can get poosy, your going to be more confident and much better in those situation.
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post 1560478651 09-04-2018, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
This is spot and exactly why there's so many incels nowadays. Their female equivalents would rather be alone. So its bulls*it when people blame incels for their own problems. If the girls on your level or below if its possible dont want you, there is nothing you can do.

That's been my case my entire life.

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Agreed man since women are always the choosers AND have high standards in 2018 dating is so much harder unless you are a top tier male
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