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post 1560520781 09-05-2018, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****
The truth is that they act like they do because you aren't worth their time other than a quick smash and dash. If you were hot and had an awesome personality then the story would be different.
I see what you're saying but I think they're going overboard in the ill treatment. And they repeatedly apologise some time after, saying I didn't deserve the treatment and that I'm one of the better women they've met etc. Why not just get laid and be chill about it?

Why become resentful? Then say mean ****/be mean. Heck guy 2 had even started posting stuff about loose women on his social media.

I mean I may be wrong but if I were a guy I'd just get laid and not degrade, insult etc. Especially if I know the chick is not a degenerate, and is always nice to me.
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post 1560565501 09-05-2018, 07:21 PM
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Legit pissed now, my exfwb is posting social media about depression and autism awareness, like wtf, he's really going pretend like he's a decent person? Fuming.
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post 1560565991 09-05-2018, 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283
I see what you're saying but I think they're going overboard in the ill treatment. And they repeatedly apologise some time after, saying I didn't deserve the treatment and that I'm one of the better women they've met etc. Why not just get laid and be chill about it?

Why become resentful? Then say mean ****/be mean. Heck guy 2 had even started posting stuff about loose women on his social media.

I mean I may be wrong but if I were a guy I'd just get laid and not degrade, insult etc. Especially if I know the chick is not a degenerate, and is always nice to me.
And you keep taking them back and allow them to get what they want and rinse and repeat. You can’t blame anyone but yourself. It’s time to take a step back, and evaluate yourself & change
post 1560566671 09-05-2018, 07:38 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
And you keep taking them back and allow them to get what they want and rinse and repeat. You can’t blame anyone but yourself. It’s time to take a step back, and evaluate yourself & change
No actually I don't take them back. I just tell them I forgive them but we should keep on our separate paths. I wish them well and that's it, if they apologise again I more or less say the same thing.
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post 1560566861 09-05-2018, 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283
No actually I don't take them back. I just tell them I forgive them but we should keep on our separate paths. I wish them well and that's it, if they apologise again I more or less say the same thing.
Well if you’re done with these people, I don’t see the problem
post 1560567511 09-05-2018, 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
Well if you’re done with these people, I don’t see the problem
It gets tiring to be doing the same thing over and over.
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post 1560567841 09-05-2018, 07:58 PM
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if youre a woman, you can get sex any time you want so what is the big deal?
just find someone else
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post 1560569901 09-05-2018, 08:33 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283
I don't know guy 1 is a good looking guy, good job, well endowed, well educated and spoken, excellent dresser can't really see him as the desperate type. Well maybe he's a sex addict.

But you're right perhaps I'll try those sites.
Anyone can be desperate. No matter how good the person looks, is set in life, etc. Sex is something that can be a HUGE weakness for some. Specially if they haven’t gotten it in awhile. I hope you try those websites OP and maybe stop having fwbs for awhile. Work on your mental state and grow.
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post 1560570041 09-05-2018, 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
if youre a woman, you can get sex any time you want so what is the big deal?
just find someone else
I'm just tired of the pattern and a bit hurt to be honest. And pissed, after he spent a month wearing me down, telling me he won't judge and that he's different from the others, how he's a mature guy and then he pulls this crap. I haven't even healed yet physically and he does this.
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post 1560570161 09-05-2018, 08:36 PM
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You did this thread a few months ago

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post 1560570531 09-05-2018, 08:42 PM
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post 1560574871 09-05-2018, 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo
Anyone can be desperate. No matter how good the person looks, is set in life, etc. Sex is something that can be a HUGE weakness for some. Specially if they haven’t gotten it in awhile. I hope you try those websites OP and maybe stop having fwbs for awhile. Work on your mental state and grow.
I will try those sites but I think I'll stay away from men for a while. At least then I'd be guaranteed a piece of mind. Thanks for the supportand I will focus on my mental and emotional wellbeing.
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