Work on your mind, body and career. In the end the power will all shift to you. It will hurt but you need to not give in to any form of attention like "Happy Bday" etc. She spat you out and used all sort of cliche code, don't give her further victory by thinking or contacting her. Time will heal.

Strong this

Feels good not giving a fuk anymore

Same story.
You did good.

Pics?

Be your own person, your own man. Own chit. It should be "she's coming to pick up her stuff" But no, it's the other way around.


Of course idk your situation but I can tell you that it gets way better. You will meet a better chick in the future bro. SRS. Always happens(:

Conan already addressed the subject at hand.

And you believed her? Your still not listening to the misc huh?

It sucks but learn your lesson.

Be strong, happened to me last year, I'm in a much better place now, just focus on yourself and start smashing other girls, time will heal everything.
I have more time for my hobbies, to meet new people, to travel. Single life is not that bad, you just have to learn to not depend on others to be happy.

Farrrk been off the misc for a while, but having some relationship issues aswell atm and after reading this thread im gunna go NC

We all gunna make it brahs

Meaning?

IN this together bro

you've given her too much power over your happiness. hopefully in time you will realize that happiness should come from within and be self-sustaining.

there's clearly another dude, dude.

I don’t deny it. Asked straight up and she said why is that the only thing I care about and am focusing on. I asked and she said she went to drinks with her male friend who just got married and met new people there but there isn’t another guy. Clearly she wants to upgrade me and after 3 years I’m shocked but that’s life. Just annoying still saying I love you and she doesn’t want to pretend I don’t exist anymore... Gave her my all and she took a dump on it.

Yeah, I had a LDR that ended on my second deployment. Night patrols and thinking about her getting railed by another dude will turn your heart black quickly.

Not posting bro. Sorry

He's right. would rep irl

"Gave me the full workaround where this isn't easy and wants to see other people and she's been angry the last year."

She already had a particular guy(s) in sight a few months ago.

ffs please upload a pic man

This.


She already found the guy she wants to date now. Fortunately for you it usually doesn’t work out for the girl and they almost always come back.

DO NOT TAKE HER BACK. If you do she will 100% leave again anyways and you will he left with less dignity. Just continue NC.

Plenty of other dudes out there for you.

Someone already said that line lol

Nah bruh. Never trust no ho.
My 2nd wife left me on some shiit. The story is as followed. I was at work and I knew some shiit with my girl has been weird lately. She hasnt really been affectionate and she ain't putting down anymore. I was fuking confused. Every Tuesday, this bitch makes some bomb ass wings with some Franks red hot and some homemade ranch. It was our thing. I come home and this bitch didn't make the god damn wings. Now I know this ho is tricking. I hit up my homie P to do some surveillance. He down as fcuk. 9:26 p.m. that homie P calls and say that he just saw this bitch at 7/11 buying some Pringles and an Arnold Palmer. Suspect as fcuk. I asked what flavor chips? He said original. Bitch straight playing bro. Everyone knows hos only eat salt and vinegar. I told him to follow and let me know where they at.
He hits me and they at motel 7 on 22nd and King. She goes into room 72 and P and I wait a minute so we can catch her in the act. We end up going to the front desk and ask for a spare key because we locked out. Since we black and front desk girl was white, she gave it assuming I was this nigah Lavant. shiitss trash. Go to the room with P and we bust in to see my bitch gobbling cock like she bobbin for apples. This homie Lavant and her making eye contact with me but she ain't stop bobbin. Disrespectful.
I start yelling at her and she say bich like fuk you and your Tuesday wing ass bitch. That hurt because I thought that was an us thing even tho I just ate the wings and never cooked them. That homie Lavant lightweight swole and he get up and ask who the fcuk am I. I let him know i fuks with that busted bich. You fcking my Bitch so move on it then.
He wasnt havin none of that. He tell me he gonna fix my broken ass and then take my girl to penetration station. This niiigga clever as fcuk. We square up and this homie butt ass naked. He beats my fcuking ass. I don't think I even got a lick in. Homie stomped my face. My homie P cut to the hut because he wasn't having none of that shiit
I'm straight leaking on the ground broken as fcuk. My girl laughing as he ready to smash. He fcuk my girl with me bloodied on the floor. Lightweight not even mad tho because he actually was better at sex tho. When they finished after an hour, he threw me a towel and lectured me on why all this happened. Lavant a straight up cat tho. After it was all said and done, we talked sports and he sold me a rainbow vacuum. shiit don't work for 500$ but how you gonna say no to someone who just beat your ass in his bare ass and then fcuked your girls ass. Nah best investment I've made.
We divorced two years later because I just got tired of having Lavant around my house not doing shiit. They got to keep the house but at least I got my pride fam.

lol i arrived too late

Lollll

She found someone else. Did u take her virginity?

Feels bro.

I agree with this 100%

What are your thoughts on that turning into future booty call??

Had similar situation after LTR, went NC... like 5 months later was contacted by her and seen her for a booty call probably 10-15 times in last 6 months... acceptable behavior??

If she wants to get back together , say no.

Trust me on this

lol

4 pages and no pics

ok then