time to jelq and give her the d boundaries be damned

Chad move by O.P going N/C on her.

Sounds like she got the G/F after she wanted to be adventure buddies and bailed on the plans.

Im being wishy washy. half the thread is saying good job and the other half is saying I goofed and should still hang out to either meet her friends or smash her anyways.

Dude, it depends on your goals. If YOU'RE fine with being friends with her, okay. If you're expecting to be "more" through friendship, abandon the thought now.

Do it, use her to meet her friends or other women. Best part about it, is she will get jelly that you're not giving HER any attention. Make the attention about EVERY other woman there is. She will get jelly, some night get hammered and try to **** you. Deny her, friend zone her, tell her yeah she had a chance but you guys are better off friends. That will really make her salty.DO NOT EXPECT that.

bros pls. so much confliction. I haven't texted her. I actually saw her drive by at work in the parking lot while I walking. she didn't stop and say hello lol.

final bump for opinions.

Tell her bitch I aint got time for your fuking adventures

I hope you're not really 31 OP

that adventure deff would've led to sex in a discreet location that her bf won't know about

should I text her and tell her she caught me off guard and that we can hang out still? will rep srs replies on recharge

You couldn’t even close the first one you little *******, go back to pr0nhub

srs advice if you still want to pursue it, but it’s probably too late anyway.

First, don’t for the love of god text, “You caught me off guard” This isn’t a 90s Hugh grant chick flick. That mindset is what’s causing you problems in the first place.

Do you think Chad ever gets caught off guard by girls having feels for him?

Nah, he assumes they always do, and therefore is the one who controls the situation. You said initially “nah” let her believe this was you intentionally not being interested because you had better things going on in that moment.

If you reply, reply in the way that conveys the message

“oh look! I have a time limited slot open in my awesome life for you right now, let’s smash!”

Just remember, the only time you should be “caught off guard” as man in dating is when you drag a club sloot home after your 12th tequila, only to find out she has a pen0r right before you smash.

One last thing, if you do end up getting this girl, listen to the others itt and do not have a serious relationship with her!

Literally this has never happened to me

if there was truly attraction then you're potentially an option

smarmy af if true tho