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post 1576381761 03-22-2019, 06:52 AM
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Probably the best way.

Plant the seed.
Over time, keep watering it.

Then fuk the seed.
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post 1576382401 03-22-2019, 07:01 AM
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So you made a thread to tell us that you... spoke to a girl?

Great job bro, riveting tale
post 1576382461 03-22-2019, 07:02 AM
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You've been creeping on her for months before making a move? C'mon son. The best you will get out of this approach is a potential spot you fuking twink.
post 1576383801 03-22-2019, 07:23 AM
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Originally Posted By extendlol
aware me on the pickup method of cold approaching someone first time and asking them out while not looking like a pickup artist / being transparent as **** lol
literally just walk up say
I think you’re attractive and I want to do x with you, can I get your number?
You don’t need to introduce yourself or talk at all and if they find you attractive they’ll be down.
post 1576384601 03-22-2019, 07:37 AM
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I actively avoid hitting on girls at my gym, but somehow they always find me on instagram, probably because my gym has an IG and tags people sometimes.

"hey missed you today" "there was nothing good to look at"

..to a girl ive never talked to
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post 1576384741 03-22-2019, 07:39 AM
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I thought you nutted on her
post 1576385491 03-22-2019, 07:52 AM
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Next time ask her if she likes daggers
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post 1576385771 03-22-2019, 07:56 AM
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In the future keep in mind you can get a good read on chicks from body language alone. When you were talking how was she standing? Body half turned away leaning towards another direction? Then she wanted nothing to do with you. Touching her hair a lot? Maybe you got a chance
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post 1576386071 03-22-2019, 08:00 AM
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Originally Posted By MiscMathematician
if you dont ask her out at first approach you never will

congrats on the new bff
hows your crazy Asian wife?
post 1576386421 03-22-2019, 08:05 AM
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damn, wish I had the courage to talk to my gym crush. always hnghhh when doing deadlifts or something with tight sweats or leggings on. or dem little shirts where you can see the side of their torso a little bit. Nothing hotter than when they're putting in work with the same intensity that I am. Sometimes ill catch some stares from the gym mirrors so I know I'm not trippin when I say I think the feeling are reciprocated.






















you know what, fuk it, i'm gonna talk to him today if I see him.


wait wut
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post 1576387011 03-22-2019, 08:13 AM
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good job op, just gotta get more friendlier from here on out. Once you get closer, ask her if she ever want to hangout outside the gym. Best way to take it from there. On a side note, I've tried every way possible on how to ask girls out at the gym and this is the best way.
post 1576391261 03-22-2019, 09:13 AM
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Can’t reply cause of phone but will definitely ask her out next time I see her and will provide updates of peace and prosperity
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post 1576391361 03-22-2019, 09:14 AM
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"oh haha thank you, jeff."

DEAD.

IMHO, if she never gave any signals towards you, then you are just wasting your time by inviting her out.
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post 1576392021 03-22-2019, 09:24 AM
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No thanks Jeff.

Srs though I've wanted to approach gym chicks in the past but there's always a mental block. No e-brag but I feel like I could have some success here and there but the hardest part is the approach in that environment.
post 1576392211 03-22-2019, 09:26 AM
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Next time you see her in there wait until she is all sweaty at the end of one of her sets and approach her, hands on hips with a towel on your bonrar.
post 1576392791 03-22-2019, 09:35 AM
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Originally Posted By extendlol
aware me on the pickup method of cold approaching someone first time and asking them out while not looking like a pickup artist / being transparent as **** lol
Your problem is that you think this is bad. Obviously if you're interrupting a girl with no good reason its because you want to smash. She knows this, you know this, everybody else knows this. But if you're worried about "oh I'll look like a ****boy/pua/(whatever other dumb meme word)", you're being a ****ing pussy. What you're doing isnt "shooting your shot", it's flattering her in the most beta way possible. Women respect you when you have balls, even if they weren't interested. No woman has ever had a negative reaction from a confident man who isn't afraid of what he wants. Usually it's from creepy chit like what you're doing, thinking you can just sneak into a woman's pants, afraid to pull the trigger because she might say no.
post 1576393871 03-22-2019, 09:51 AM
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Originally Posted By CXVII
Next time ask her if she likes daggers
lol
post 1576396121 03-22-2019, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted By extendlol
Can’t reply cause of phone but will definitely ask her out next time I see her and will provide updates of peace and prosperity
In for updates
Originally Posted By Aesthetical
Probably the best way.

Plant the seed.
Over time, keep watering it.

Then fuk the seed.
This guy knows^
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post 1576397661 03-22-2019, 10:41 AM
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just lol @ approaching
if chick wants me she has to approach me, dunno why guys give so much power to women with the whole approach thing
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post 1576398151 03-22-2019, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted By MisterJustice
just lol @ approaching
if chick wants me she has to approach me, dunno why guys give so much power to women with the whole approach thing
this.
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post 1576398331 03-22-2019, 10:50 AM
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this is why i dont ask girls out at the gym, awkward af if they shoot u down.
post 1576398621 03-22-2019, 10:53 AM
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Originally Posted By Caeculus
Congrats on harassing a girl at the gym making it awkward for her every time she sees you in the future. She's probably looking for another gym right now. Thanks a lot for creeping out another woman and making it harder for the rest of us normal people. The gym isn't the time or place for that sheit. Have some respect for others. Nobody wants to be bothered by homeless people begging and harassing when they're just trying to go about their business. Same thing with women at the gym. I swear this autistic "pick up artist" sheit made everything harder for normal people around 2012-2013 after the thousands of social retards were let loose and started harassing random women that showed no interest and are so socially retarded they can't understand how they're making women feel when they harass them.
Shut the fuk up. What are people supposed to do? Only ask out girls on match.com or let girls approach them?

There is nothing wrong with what he did. It’s not harassment he just introduced himself.
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lmao this whole thread is full of awkward.

awe fuk bye

GL OP, but just reading that made me uncomfortable
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Originally Posted By DBoyDaRealest
Shut the fuk up. What are people supposed to do? Only ask out girls on match.com or let girls approach them?

There is nothing wrong with what he did. It’s not harassment he just introduced himself.
If you need someone to explain why the gym is not a place to be doing this you're socially retarded.

The gym isn't the bar, a grocery store, coffee shop, college library, concert, the beach, etc. it's the gym where you have a small group of people. people usually go at set times. You're harassing people that just want to work out. Now that you've harassed a girl and she rejected you she has to worry about every time she is going in the future that you'll be there to harass her even worse because the type of guy to be so socially retarded that they choose the gym as an appropriate place to "pick up" women are the same type of guy that freaks out when rejected. Now she has to change her schedule or find a new gym because of a creep like you. Now you're known as "that guy" at the gym as well. DONT HARASS WOMEN AT THE GYM! DONT HARASS WOMEN AT WORK! Why does this need to be explained to people ? There are an endless amount of places where it is more acceptable or appropriate to meet a woman. Don't do it at the gym. Or at work unless it is sheitty retail or a restaurant job that can be replaced.
post 1576407221 03-22-2019, 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Caeculus
If you need someone to explain why the gym is not a place to be doing this you're socially retarded.

The gym isn't the bar, a grocery store, coffee shop, college library, concert, the beach, etc. it's the gym where you have a small group of people. people usually go at set times. You're harassing people that just want to work out. Now that you've harassed a girl and she rejected you she has to worry about every time she is going in the future that you'll be there to harass her even worse because the type of guy to be so socially retarded that they choose the gym as an appropriate place to "pick up" women are the same type of guy that freaks out when rejected. Now she has to change her schedule or find a new gym because of a creep like you. Now you're known as "that guy" at the gym as well. DONT HARASS WOMEN AT THE GYM! DONT HARASS WOMEN AT WORK! Why does this need to be explained to people ? There are an endless amount of places where it is more acceptable or appropriate to meet a woman. Don't do it at the gym. Or at work unless it is sheitty retail or a restaurant job that can be replaced.
She hasn't rejected him.
post 1576407321 03-22-2019, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted By maverickTT1
She hasn't rejected him.
**he is too socially retarded to realize he has been rejected and continues his delusional beliefs she is interested and is going to continue to harass her when he sees her next
post 1576407461 03-22-2019, 12:52 PM
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Originally Posted By optimus1
Exactly. I'm a 7.5/10 and have banged well over a hundred girls. It is easy if you are relatively attractive, confident, and know the right setting. If you are hitting on a chick at the gym or in a retail checkout somewhere you are ALWAYS going to come across as a desperate loser. There are so many ****ing appropriate places to meet girls to **** in 2019 that if you're doing it at the gym, you literally are telling them that you are a total failure at picking up girls in EVERY other more reasonable setting and even failing online which is pathetic.
Originally Posted By Chezdon
GJ. Can be tricky in a place like that. I did it twice before, both times got numbers. One flaked one I went out with. I'd advise pushing for a number straight away because the second encounter could be quite awkward. GL.
Originally Posted By maverickTT1
She hasn't rejected him.
trust me she did already
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Originally Posted By HouseOfISRAEL
trust me she did already
Unless OP is a 10/10, which avi indicates is not the case, she is never talking to him again unless he force approaches, and may be changing her gym schedule to avoid him. Gym approach ALWAYS reeks of desperation. Not a good look.
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post 1576410871 03-22-2019, 01:41 PM
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LOLing reading this thread when 90% of people responding have never cold approached a chick, ever. I guarantee that.

OP has more balls than 90% if this website. GJDM. Srs.
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Don’t initiate any further unless you get signs of interest.

If you do, ask if she likes fitness.
Then reply good because im gonna b fitness D in that A
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