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post 1578228151 04-16-2019, 09:00 PM
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Relationship Expert here. The signs are very clear. She is definitely cheating on you. She is looking at anything to get upset with you about just so she can justify to herself that it is your fault that she is cheating on you. Relationship Expert Houstonmiscer out.
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post 1578229051 04-16-2019, 09:22 PM
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Hey OP, so you judging by a lot of your posts you say things like "why can't she be this or that?" The answer is because she isn't this or that. You have created two images, one of the person you are dating and one of who you want her to be. By your responses you don't really want to be with her, but you have developed a co dependent relationship where you think you "love" her. You don't love her, if you did you would accept everything she is. I don't think you are as beta as everyone is calling you, but I think you don't know what you want. Same thing happened to me in my first real relationship. Express to her how you feel which is "hey this part of the relationship isn't working for me, what can we do so that we will both be happier moving forward." If she turns it into not wanting to work as a team to make real relationship improvements, well then why would you want to be with someone who doesn't respect you enough to tackle life as a team? You don't need a partner for this life man. You can do all this **** yourself.
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post 1578230191 04-16-2019, 09:43 PM
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You know, I don't think I'm god's gift to woman but I've never had a single woman ever chastise me for a prolonged period of time. Very few have done it at all. I certainly get ghosted but none of my girlfriends have ever gone off on me. Don't tolerate it, don't even view it as an option. The best thing to do when they're acting that way is to laugh at them and ignore them. I haven't even really been in arguments with them either. Sometimes they would try and I would just change the subject or laugh, nothing ever came of it. They live moment to moment in their feelings. Nothing logical to do about it, and never take anything they say as the truth (especially when they talk about the future). I would always either turn it into a joke at their expense or change the subject. You'd imagine joking about how ridiculous they're being would piss them off, but if they're not a nutjob and you are legitimately laughing at them about their behavior they quickly switch to embarrassment.

I was in one relationship for two and a half years and never once did that woman think it would be appropriate to yell at me. She attempted to guilt trip me often by acting like an innocent victim but she knew it never worked, that was about the extent of it. They quickly learn how ridiculous you think their behavior is and whatever they're attempting to accomplish falls apart. Whenever they go off on their little rants you should never engage a woman or take them seriously. Nothing is as self-defeating as yelling back at an angry person, regardless of who they are.
post 1578230981 04-16-2019, 10:01 PM
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The problem with dudes is they want to find some sort of mythical dream girl. Yeah, those don't exist. You're better off just trying to find one who isn't a nightmare.

You're young, so I assume she's young as well. She's probably testing you to see how big of a leash you'll give her. The longer the leash gets the further away she'll go, naturally. I'm not gonna say break up with her or anything bease I remember my first girlfriend and being in love for the first time....****t is exhausting, and while your mind is telling you "get the fuk out" your heart and your dik are telling you to stay. But I'd start to detach and brace yourself for the inevitable ending. Stay safe bruh.
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post 1578232831 04-16-2019, 10:40 PM
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Fukkin lol she's cheating on you dawg, probably for the past few months minimum dead srs (srs)
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post 1578243721 04-17-2019, 04:48 AM
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Update: we planned on originally meeting at 6pm shen she had the outburst, anyways I texted her if shes free to meet me today at 6; hasn't responded yet should I double text or leave it?
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post 1578244171 04-17-2019, 04:57 AM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
Update: I ignored the correct responses because they were too abrasive for my sensitivities and would have led to an undesirable outcome. I will proceed with this doomed relationship because I'm worried about being single again when it took so long to even find one girl that likes me.
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post 1578244251 04-17-2019, 04:59 AM
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Sounds terrible OP

edit

leave it OP

i can't believe guys act like this?

lmao at double texting girls



*Every time when you're girl plays up it's just a ****ing test, just ignore it, be alpha, keep yourself busy and she come crawling back to you
lol at responding to her emotional outbursts. stop being a ****ing pussy
post 1578244301 04-17-2019, 05:01 AM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
It's a fuking rollercoaster with her,
She was sweet like an hour ago I got her a birthday card wrote sweet stuff ect, says that is the sweetest thing anyone has ever done. Then 2 hours later I'm like we should meet tomorrow she says "idk I'm done work at 6pm" I took that as her saying it's not a good time, so I tell her "ok no problem maybe another time"
She took this as me rejecting her and then rips me apart on text for the past hour. Says I'm this I'm that, I dont kiss her enough dont love her; dont meet her blah blah.
And the cycle repeats the next day.
Put her in her place, girls like it when men take control. Shes trying to manipulate you and push your buttons, this is when you're supposed to take control of the situation. There is often no logic in anger from a girlfriend.
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post 1578244591 04-17-2019, 05:06 AM
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She sounds crazy and you sound weak. In my experience, it's best to leave those toxic relationships sooner than later. You can never change people like her, and you will either end up leaving her or you will marry her because you're a cuck and she will make your life miserable with daily torture for the rest of your life.
Originally Posted By conorellis⏩
Put her in her place, girls like it when men take control. Shes trying to manipulate you and push your buttons, this is when you're supposed to take control of the situation. There is often no logic in anger from a girlfriend.
Or if you grow some balls, try this.
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post 1578244691 04-17-2019, 05:08 AM
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Originally Posted By conorellis⏩
Put her in her place, girls like it when men take control. Shes trying to manipulate you and push your buttons, this is when you're supposed to take control of the situation. There is often no logic in anger from a girlfriend.
Ok what do I do? Misc says all women complain and nag ect, do I just stop responding to her Haha. Usually when she complains and nags me I just play along maybe next time I'll just take 1 hour + to respond so she calmed down lmao.
Also the thing is , shes not like this when I'm with her, or when I call her, literally just text shes bitchy
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post 1578244801 04-17-2019, 05:11 AM
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Originally Posted By A-GAME⏩
She sounds crazy and you sound weak. In my experience, it's best to leave those toxic relationships sooner than later. You can never change people like her, and you will either end up leaving her or you will marry her because you're a cuck and she will make your life miserable with daily torture for the rest of your life.



Or if you grow some balls, try this.
How do I "put her in her place"
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post 1578244901 04-17-2019, 05:14 AM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
How do I "put her in her place"
Text her and say


'I'm busy at the moment, i'll talk to you later when you've calmed down'


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post 1578244951 04-17-2019, 05:15 AM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
How do I "put her in her place"
Dumping her might just do it.

If you have to ask how to put someone in their place, you won't be able to pull off whatever they advise.
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post 1578245001 04-17-2019, 05:16 AM
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holy **** what a toxic whore

Tell her to deepthroat you cawk or go **** herself and NC the bish
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
How do I "put her in her place"
I think you should go balls deep in a few dozen sloots before you ever decide to get into a relationship again srs
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
How do I "put her in her place"
Stop reacting and responding to her bullshyt. Tell her something once, then end the conversation and ignore her if she continues texting, calling etc. Basically tell her how you really feel instead of trying to manage the situation then coming here to tell the misc when you fail.
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post 1578245171 04-17-2019, 05:20 AM
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Originally Posted By A-GAME⏩
Stop reacting and responding to her bullshyt. Tell her something once, then end the conversation and ignore her if she continues texting, calling etc. Basically tell her how you really feel instead of trying to manage the situation then coming here to tell the misc when you fail.
This.

I was like you OP, and at the start it will feel weird, you will even feel bad you will be like WTF i love this girl why is she acting like this and i feel bad i don't want to hurt her feelings. But you have to act this way so she will respect you or the tour is over.
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you dun goofed the minute that you thought she was different to the rest and put her on a pedestal, saying she is sweet, non-sloot etc. This is false information. Learn your lesson and move on. Time to take a trip to North Carolina brah.
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Originally Posted By Coal
She toxic as fuk. It's not gonna last. Deep down you already know this. Start detaching process.
Get rid of toxic people or you will create a cycle where you tolerate emotional abuse and manipulation because you confuse it with love and the reverse process takes time and it's painful.
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
You don't 'put her in her place,' that is just as immature as she is being. You communicate like a rational, grown man. You tell her how her behavior was unacceptable, how it affected you, and then assess whether or not she's taking your feelings and the issue seriously. She won't take your feelings seriously, and then you break up.

And then you stop dating for a while and learn how to communicate properly in a relationship. Miscers are saying you are beta, which I won't really argue with, but that is not the crux of the issue. You both are operating like emotionally stunted 14 year old morons. Learn how to say what you need in a relationship and speak up when something bothers you.
I wish i had the balls to do this.
my life is so **** right now but i do have a gf and would die if she was to break up with me . fuarkkk

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Originally Posted By 300BLK⏩
I think you should go balls deep in a few dozen sloots before you ever decide to get into a relationship again srs
I'm still young I will work up to that number
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Same

My gf does this stuff too. Pretty sure its bipolar or something. Feel bad for men these days. We dont deserve this petty bipolar passive aggressive chit.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Same

My gf does this stuff too. Pretty sure its bipolar or something. Feel bad for men these days. We dont deserve this petty bipolar passive aggressive chit.
You have been trying to replace her for at least a year. Maybe she doesn't appreciate you stringing her along.

You also don't talk to people you consider beneath you. So you can't say anything about receiving bad vocal treatment from others.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
You have been trying to replace her for at least a year. Maybe she doesn't appreciate you stringing her along.
It ain't just me she even blamed me for her weight gain. I'm done dude I cant salvage this relationship.
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She texted me back shes done work at 6 30pm so cant meet me, she works super early and needs to be up at 5am.. should I text her trying to push her for meeting me or will I come across too desperate? I said that's "fine text me when you are free love you" she goes "everything is fine love you too"
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
It ain't just me she even blamed me for her weight gain. I'm done dude I cant salvage this relationship.
Just like OP. And just like OP you refuse to end it. You're both idiots and are going to have miserable lives full of soulless women until you're completely lacking in any optimism. Not that you have any left eod.

The choices are not just

A) Fix the relationship
B) Stay in it

And definitely not C) Stay in it for years until you find a new branch to clasp onto (should one ever come)
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Originally Posted By Coal
She toxic as fuk. It's not gonna last. Deep down you already know this. Start detaching process.
This. It’s done. Move on
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Shutting this down.

The extreme whiteknighting, cuckoldry and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.

The reality here is: OP found a woman he loved and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a complete failure. Sucks for him! Don't be such a positive ******* for the sake of beig a cuck...

The insane amount of comments asskissing women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.

OP has about the same amount of life experience as the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.


OP. I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found a psycho.
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Some of this will go away if you fuark her harder and act less soft.

Some of it isn't worth it.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
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