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post 1583997681 07-16-2019, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted By ChangeOfStyle
Honestly might be the fact that she forgot her wallet or maybe she did it on purpose, none of us know and everyone is pretty much just assuming at this point but the fact that they were on a date and the bloke still didn't help her out with her meal even though she was still going to pay him back is honestly all kinds of fuked up. People putting the stranger down for paying for her meal might be ''alpha'' - but helping someone out in time of need is better then your so called 'alpha' status. Props to the bloke for showing a random act of kindness.
This^
Especially since she was going to pay him back via venmo/cashApp.
post 1583997951 07-16-2019, 10:00 AM
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Anyone whose dated knows this truth


“I pay for some meals, he pays for some, we take turns” = he pays for 80% of the ****
post 1583998241 07-16-2019, 10:04 AM
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She didn't forget. LOL at anyone who believes otherwise.
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post 1583998381 07-16-2019, 10:07 AM
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Originally Posted By CanuckGame
Just lmfao at the white knight who paid for her meal.
no white knight if he smashed.
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post 1583998821 07-16-2019, 10:14 AM
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You pay for each other within reason. Of course typical societal standards are that the man should pay for everything, but its been shifting. In my relationships I usually cover a lot of the dates, and every so often my gf's would pay for a date or a night out. It eventually got to the point where we'd see who could get their card out the quickest to pay.
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post 1583999271 07-16-2019, 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted By AWSbruh
Real Alphas never pay for a meal for females. I learned when I use to date a girl that only went out with me for free meals
sounds like you are the beta male who can't properly distinguish people who are users vs people who are actual quality.

nothing beta at all about helping out someone in need who will pay it back one way or another.

hell i'd pay for someone's meal who I just met if a buddy brought them around the group and they needed it. And if they never found a way to repay it, I wouldn't do it again but I'd certainly give them the benefit of the doubt and the chance to earn some respect.
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post 1583999441 07-16-2019, 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted By rustywite
If it’s a real gf I’m paying 90% of the time. If she pulls out her wallet I will tell her put that away. You guys are soooo fukkin cringe that you think it’s beta to buy your GIRLFRIEND chipotle. If she’s a good girl she will find ways to pay you back in feminine ways. Or will bring home the food next time and surprise you. Holy **** I feel like none of you have ever been in a good relationship.

There a sluts out there who don’t deserve kindness, but there are also women out there who will surprise you when you’re working a midnight shift at work by bringing you lunch and giving you a blowjob in the car. Now if she isn’t making you happy and taking care of your needs, dump her and find one who will, don’t go through life so bitter you won’t spend 10 bucks on your girl a couple times a week.
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post 1584000071 07-16-2019, 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted By philpeter123
these ****in weird nerds on here can't be saved. they are equal to the people on the extreme side of politics. there is no hope for these virgins.... Why the **** would you even be in a relationship with that person in the first place?
"These virgins" you're speaking of constitute a majority of the misc.

Anyways, you're a retard if you're supporting this in any way. How would you bros like it if you were out, forgot your wallet, and your girlfriend wouldn't spot you cash, even though she had the money?

You're also a retard if you're turning this into some political liberals vs conservatives, millenials vs gen X bull****. Politics has nothing to do with this and the dude in the OP did not do what he did because he is a millenial. Just another excuse for old, cranky incels to be mad at.
post 1584000211 07-16-2019, 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted By 612MC
White knight..? She paid him back. Called being a decent person.
No that’s bending over backwards for a chick when you wouldn’t do the same for a guy
post 1584000361 07-16-2019, 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted By sammywatkins
No that’s bending over backwards for a chick when you wouldn’t do the same for a guy
I think you're wrong. I think most dudes would absolutely pay for a dude who's gf was being a bitch after he forgot his wallet.
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post 1584000871 07-16-2019, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash
Yo... I'm gonna be honest with you, my SO has held me down on numerous occasions when I've done this...

Once I got off a bus that I was sitting on for 8 hours and left my wallet on there. She covered me for the whole weekend we were up at foxwood.

I am legit the most forgetful person on the planet.
Lmao

Yeah, that's what I'm talking about - if it's a legit relationship, you're both in it, all good. Some sloot? Nah.
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post 1584001801 07-16-2019, 11:05 AM
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Absolute savage, shoulda told the hoe to eat his meat
post 1584001961 07-16-2019, 11:09 AM
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post 1584002191 07-16-2019, 11:14 AM
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sounds like she thinks shes a girlfriend and he thinks shes a friend

unfortunate
post 1584003211 07-16-2019, 11:34 AM
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It’s one thing to not pay for random chicks but if you can’t even provide for your gf then you’re a loser lmao.
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Originally Posted By TorstenOsten
Making men and women the same is a great mistake. We won't see anything short term, but long term this could ruin society because men will feel like their lives are useless.
Not to say that we should not respect women, we are born from a woman after all. But the bible does even say woman was made from man and man not from woman and they should not have authority over man, but with a mother it is different of course because you are suppose to honor your mother and father.
post 1584003631 07-16-2019, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted By MEDITATE
tbh, it was too much of him , you dont have to be that much of a low life , i mean she forgot her wallet, pay for her , not the end of the world .

Usually if i invite a girl out , ill be paying for her, but when she asks to go out ,we go on a split
Lmao this, what a dick
post 1584003711 07-16-2019, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By BigB2019
Not to say that we should not respect women, we are born from a woman after all. But the bible does even say woman was made from man and man not from woman and they should not have authority over man, but with a mother it is different of course because you are suppose to honor your mother and father.
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post 1584004511 07-16-2019, 11:54 AM
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If I saw someone in a tight spot over a $6 burrito I'd probably help them out depending on my mood that day. I definitely wouldn't leave someone hanging I made plans with though that's for sure.

strong autist assuming this even happened
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Originally Posted By Brozart
Whether she forgot it or she "forgot" it, I wouldn't be impressed. What kinda fukn retard forgets their wallet?

Obviously if we'd been dating for a while or whatever it'd be cool
I’ve known plenty of girls who make a point of saying they only take their ID to the club. They never pay for anything.

This situation (to the extent it happened) probably has a backstory
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