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post 1587169051 09-03-2019, 07:58 AM
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OP she probably will hit you up if you leave her alone. since she is one of these bored sloots on IG she'll start to wonder why you aren't chasing her. and she might start to think about the time you spent together.

if you message her randomly again it is over for sure.

if she does message never seem overly needed. make her do the work. post here first because you'll fk it up again.
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post 1587169371 09-03-2019, 08:07 AM
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Tour is long over, you went way too hard in 2-3 weeks it sounds like. Took away the mystery of getting to know you and hang out with you, plus you didn't light up the lamp boyo. No Contact from here on out is best case scenario for you.
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post 1587169791 09-03-2019, 08:17 AM
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This would actually make me pissed lmao that sucks dude.
post 1587170051 09-03-2019, 08:23 AM
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Glad I don't have to mess around with those games anymore. Would be chicks giving me their # and I'd text and they would play those stupid fuking games and I'd ignore. Them when I'd see in person they would be like why aren't you texting anymore, and I'd tell them straight up and I'd lost interest.
post 1587171311 09-03-2019, 08:48 AM
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post 1587171731 09-03-2019, 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
and you didn't bang her? she probably thought you were gay with no confidence..

like how can a guy with a body like that not be fking me either on the 1st date or at least the 2nd...
She didn’t wanna put out, but eventually we were alone one night and got her to get handsy with me lol
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post 1587172871 09-03-2019, 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted By GhenghisPWN⏩
Because a lot of men are stupid when it comes to women and will try to have a logic debate about why that particular girl should like him. It’s easier to just hope you get the hint and avoid confrontation from her perspective.
This is the answer you’re looking for op.
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post 1587173021 09-03-2019, 09:23 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Why can't they just say it though? Ignoring a person is just blatantly disrespectful.
Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Like seriously brahs, I get fuming at the fact women don't have the god damn common courtesy to be straight up in communicating.
Originally Posted By wagtail⏩
The fact this seems to be frustrating you quite badly indicates that you are the one with the problem here, sunshine.
This. Not every guy that a woman rejects directly would handle it well enough to just post it on a forum.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Has 6 years of miscing taught you nothing??
If anything, this is exactly how 6 years of being on the misc would go.


U need to get on u pupose. This wouldn't bother you as much if u was on yo popuse and weren't so available waiting for her text to come through.
You probably climbing roofs with your phone out in the sky hoping to get signal for a text back.
Stay active, keep busy, I'll get to you when I get to you mode.

You're beating yourself up over things that you can't control. You don't know why or what happened with her and it doesn't matter, move on and FTHTS
post 1587173241 09-03-2019, 09:26 AM
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Eye for an eye. Leave them on read at some point
post 1587173571 09-03-2019, 09:32 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
I have a very laid back personalityand am fun to be around. People enjoy my company, but when it comes to attracting girls that I'm attracted to it just never works out. I can never get them interested in me.
I think the bolded is your problem. You're being laid back when in a normal scenario, but likely coming off as incredibly needy and putting girls off. If a girl likes you because you're laid back, she doesn't want that to change because you're talking.

Sounds like you suffer from Golden Retriever Syndrome. You're fun, friendly and cute. Problem is, women don't wanna have to constantly validate or **** the golden retriever, so they become uninterested.

Be less attentive for the girls you're currently attracting. If you want a girl who's more clingy, give off signs that you're a very attentive person. Those girls will flock to you in those cases and those who don't want that will avoid you like herpes.

EDIT: Get some time consuming interests, make some goals and work towards them. Like others here have said, women hate a guy that has 0 going on
post 1587174291 09-03-2019, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
She didn’t wanna put out, but eventually we were alone one night and got her to get handsy with me lol
How many times have you hung with her? How have you at least not gotten her into yours or her bed??

Do you have trouble closing? Do you feel like this girl is better than you maybe? They can sniff it out. They want assertiveness and guys that have done it before.
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How quickly are you responding to their texts OP?
You gotta accept the game and play it accordingly. Don't give them your attention too easily via text. Make sure they're committing to in-person meet ups.

They're either:

a) low interest and only want you as a backup option
b) think texting is a legitimate activity and way to get to know someone (yellow flag)
c) think it's okay to leave someone in limbo/disrespectful of their time (yellow/red flag)
d) combination of all 3

If you want a straight answer more than you want to hookup, just politely say you're more interested in getting to know her in person than having an ongoing text dialogue with no concrete plans to meetup and that you'd appreciate if she could not leave you in limbo so you could plan your week accordingly.
There's a chance this turns her off (if her interest is mediocre) but if you leave on decent terms and don't burn a bridge, there's also a good chance that she gains respect for you not playing her text games like other thirsty dudes do and ends up reaching out to you after a while of NC. If she doesn't reach out to you, at least you're no longer wasting your time.
post 1587175231 09-03-2019, 09:55 AM
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Either:

She's not into you anymore, you we're just in her back pocket, just wanted attention.

Or

She's into you and is playing hard to get, it is very important that in both situations you do not text her back. I don't care what the circumstances are you should never have to double text someone especially if what you said was worthy of response. This chick that's super into me came over the other night and we banged, the next day she texted me something and I texted her back and no response almost a day later now, No fux given, she wants me to text her again to feel wanted but I aint going to.

EDIT: One more thing, focus your time into those who are willing to invest into you as well, dependable people. A lot of girls are wishy washy but that's their own game they play. As a dude I'm sure you want to be straight up, there are girls like that out there who will text you back and not play games..those are the one's you should invest your time into.
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post 1587176451 09-03-2019, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
This particular girl I'm talking about showed very strong interest in me at first and things were super great, came super close to hooking up even. But now she's being like this ^^^
Either she isn’t interested for some other reason, or you’ve put her off by being too keen too soon, e.g trying to meet up way before she’s got to that point of feeling comfortable enough.
Remember the guy that gave up? Neither does anybody else.
post 1587176581 09-03-2019, 10:21 AM
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Who the hell cares if she ignores texts. The fact is she ignores texts so it's a good opportunity to move on and find a new girl.
post 1587177101 09-03-2019, 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted By ayyy⏩
you spent 2-3weekstogether and only gotcloseto hooking up












































son.....
thread ended here, good lawd OP
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post 1587177611 09-03-2019, 10:38 AM
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lol fukin beta just ignore the bish. jesus christ how are you dudes this fukin beta. just move the fuk on holy sht
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Some people are chit when it comes to text OP. Time to move on.
post 1587235541 09-04-2019, 07:19 AM
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
lol fukin beta just ignore the bish. jesus christ how are you dudes this fukin beta. just move the fuk on holy sht
judging by your post history I would've thought you'd be pretty experienced at answering your own question
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
the truth hurts so bad
Why should it hurt? It's just a woman.. There are literally billions of them. Lol @ being hurt by a woman not being interested in you... Oh my poor ego, everyone must like me otherwise I must not have any value...
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Srs question, does OP do anything except whine about women like a bitch?

YOU STUPID FUKING CUCK SHUT UP ALREADY.
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
This particular girl I'm talking about showed very strong interest in me at first and things were super great, came super close to hooking up even. But now she's being like this ^^^
Well close doesnt count, she probably dislikes you now that you havent phucked her.
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
lol fukin beta just ignore the bish. jesus christ how are you dudes this fukin beta. just move the fuk on holy sht
This new generation coming through will be a bunch of incels in skinny ripped jeans and this texting bull**** is going to **** them up even more because they invest way to much to early. ****s ****ing sad. Too many of these brothers watching disney **** . Never get hyped on one girl.
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Like seriously family, friends, even damn co-workers (male/female) I always get timely responses. I understand people are busy and lead their own lives but they always find the time to respond in a timely fashion and let me know if they're not available or busy. But whenever I get to try to know a girl or try to spend time with one I've met they always leave me on read and it's just infuriating especially when I know they're not busy. Posting an instagram story not even 5 seconds ago saying "Ask me questions, I'm bored" like a basic bish.

Like seriously brahs, I get fuming at the fact women don't have the god damn common courtesy to be straight up in communicating.
If a chick is posting on instagram saying "Ask me question, I'm bored" then that's not the kind of girl you want, like at all.

Girls think they want attention, but they probably don't. If she says jump, don't. Read a book called the rational male, or at least look it up. Would never date a chick who used instagram. Think about it, how interesting can a girl be who uses instagram as a validation tool. She's probably got an avoidant attachment disorder too lmao
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
lol fukin beta just ignore the bish. jesus christ how are you dudes this fukin beta. just move the fuk on holy sht
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Originally Posted By GreekyBeth⏩
This is the answer you’re looking for op.
So whats the longest you'd wait before texting a guy you actually like back
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if she actually liked you she would text back. /thread
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If she was interested she would text back in a timely manner
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Originally Posted By Fuqdatass⏩
Srs question, does OP do anything except whine about women like a bitch?

YOU STUPID FUKING CUCK SHUT UP ALREADY.
If you knew my history with women you wouldn't blame me
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