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post 1604073961 05-03-2020, 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Current year, boyos. It's time to lay roots down, find a nice loyal woman, and settle in for a long life of monogamy.



these women are probably making 6/7K A WEEK while most of you ITT are unemployed lol. See what hating gets you? Nowhere lol.
post 1604074011 05-03-2020, 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted By iHateDeadlifts
marriages are pointless now cus women realize they don't need to be financially supported by a man anymore lol. Why do you think your old Granny Jane married your grandpa 80 years ago?
The Funny this is most woman do look for a man to fully support them. Most of the woman in my office would quit in a heartbeat if their husbands earned enough money for them to say home and be a house wife.

Added bit -- when woman divorce they move 'up' They don't move on and marry the nice guy that gives them attention, they marry the rich guy who is more financial stable.

This isn't something to cry and whine about, it is what it is.

When men divorce it's usually to marry someone younger, more attractive or because the other lady gives more sex which men confuse as attraction
post 1604078991 05-04-2020, 12:19 AM
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Originally Posted By iHateDeadlifts
these women are probably making 6/7K A WEEK while most of you ITT are unemployed lol. See what hating gets you? Nowhere lol.
How much do you spend on onlyfans?
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Originally Posted By vsportsguy
There should be a length associated with the contract: like a mortgage. Like 3, 5, or 10 year contracts. Then you can go get it renewed if you want at the end.
The problem there would be children. Something's got to change though.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Can confirm am divorced and don’t want to remarry.

Unless it’s Brad Pitt or similar.

I only see two benefits to marriage:

1) if you want kids and a nuclear family

or

2) financial reasons if your partner is wealthy
lol straight from the horses mouth

mystery why men don't want to get married isn't it?
post 1604080321 05-04-2020, 01:06 AM
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I could not imagine getting married at this point. Almost seems like a pipe dream.
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post 1604081291 05-04-2020, 01:40 AM
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women don't get married because they love you they get married to show of to their friends and society or they settle so they "don't miss out" lol

imagine your married friends saying to you "oh dont worry hunny one day it will be your turn and you will get married" - approaching 30.. just RIP, marry's the next beta to show interest, recipe for disaster.

Blue pill Timothy thinks he met his soul mate lmao.

don't get it twisted

once their friends start getting divorced they are out.

as always there are exceptions to the rule but for the most people I would say this is the raw truth srs.
post 1604081371 05-04-2020, 01:44 AM
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Originally Posted By savageoldman
women don't get married because they love you they get married to show of to their friends and society or they settle so they "don't miss out" lol

imagine your married friends saying to you "oh dont worry hunny one day it will be your turn and you will get married" - approaching 30.. just RIP, marry's the next beta to show interest, recipe for disaster.

Blue pill Timothy thinks he met his soul mate lmao.

don't get it twisted

once their friends start getting divorced they are out.

as always there are exceptions to the rule but for the most people I would say this is the raw truth srs.
Truly savage. Didn't you get married 2 or 3 times, though?
post 1604081551 05-04-2020, 01:52 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
We can't ever control women's sexuality again. Those days are over. Time to move on.
Lol who says we can't go back? If men say enough, it's enough.

I'll go even further, it is inevitable we'll go back.
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Originally Posted By ****inator
Lol who says we can't go back? If men say enough, it's enough.

I'll go even further, it is inevitable we'll go back.
You are living in a dream world, son. These are opinions you can't even say out loud or your entire life will get rekt.
post 1604081771 05-04-2020, 02:04 AM
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Originally Posted By ****inator
Lol who says we can't go back? If men say enough, it's enough.

I'll go even further, it is inevitable we'll go back.
Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
You are living in a dream world, son. These are opinions you can't even say out loud or your entire life will get rekt.
But in essence he is sort of correct.

If the higher ups supported it and someone jumped into the crocodile infested river first it could all change back. Sure, it would be anarchy for a while, even years of chaos making people wanting to abandon, but if men were concerted they could take it all back and there would be no-one to stop them. I am not talking about make women subservient, I am talking about taking it back and making everyone accountable for what they have to offer. No special treatment and no reward for continued degenerate behavior.

We've given one side too much media support and OVERPOWER while men every year have become more submissive, effeminate and weaker. So the gap is increasing from both sides.
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I never saw any great benefits to getting married. I saw how my dad and his wife fought all the time and it turned me off from marriage. I think a lot of people grew up seeing their married parents fight and it ultimately ended up in a trainwreck divorce so they figure its just not worth it going through the same thing. Even if I found a woman I thought was worth marrying I still wouldn't take the gamble
if you ain't got no money, this is about to be a real short conversation, you dig?
post 1604081881 05-04-2020, 02:07 AM
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Originally Posted By EoR
But in essence he is sort of correct.

If the higher ups supported it and someone jumped into the crocodile infested river first it could all change back. Sure, it would be anarchy for a while, even years of chaos making people wanting to abandon, but if men were concerted they could take it all back and there would be no-one to stop them. I am not talking about make women subservient, I am talking about taking it back and making everyone accountable for what they have to offer. No special treatment and no reward for continued degenerate behavior.

We've given one side too much media support and OVERPOWER while men every year have become more submissive, effeminate and weaker. So the gap is increasing from both sides.
This doesn't work from a game theory perspective. If even a single prominent guy tried to push women back 50 years,MILLIONSof WK's would come pouring out of the woodwork to try to get some good boy points along with a crumb of poosy.
post 1604082281 05-04-2020, 02:22 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
You are living in a dream world, son. These are opinions you can't even say out loud or your entire life will get rekt.
You're not looking far enough. Of course traditionalism/more conservative society is not for tomorrow but everyone can see things can't go on like this.

Far left, cultural liberal societies are doomed to fail. Let's take western europe, we can already see a traditional culture will take over, Islam. Also right wing parties are on the rise there too.

Extreme cultural liberalism like we have in the west is not sustainable.
post 1604082421 05-04-2020, 02:29 AM
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Originally Posted By ****inator
You're not looking far enough. Of course traditionalism/more conservative society is not for tomorrow but everyone can see things can't go on like this.

Far left, cultural liberal societies are doomed to fail. Let's take western europe, we can already see a traditional culture will take over, Islam. Also right wing parties are on the rise there too.

Extreme cultural liberalism like we have in the west is not sustainable.
It's not sustainable in what has been the prevalent vision for our society, but that vision is changing. Technology is speeding up our transition to ultra liberalism, but it's been happening for 100+ years already. Every recent generation has been far more degenerate than the one before.

Organized religion will be completely gone within a few more generations and the penalty for any right wing thoughts will be severe (loss of income, ostracized from social groups, no sloot will let you bang, etc.). There will always be small groups of right wing thoughts like misc, but only if users can remain anonymous and it'll never be mainstream again.
post 1604082651 05-04-2020, 02:44 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
It's not sustainable in what has been the prevalent vision for our society, but that vision is changing. Technology is speeding up our transition to ultra liberalism, but it's been happening for 100+ years already. Every recent generation has been far more degenerate than the one before.

Organized religion will be completely gone within a few more generations and the penalty for any right wing thoughts will be severe (loss of income, ostracized from social groups, no sloot will let you bang, etc.). There will always be small groups of right wing thoughts like misc, but only if users can remain anonymous and it'll never be mainstream again.
Liberals hardly have children. It's conservative/traditional people who still have children, these cultures will dominate in the future unless they will become "liberal" too. (and then another more conservative culture will take over again)

So you're saying disruptive new technologies will doom us to stay liberal? I strongly doubt that, you over estimate the power of silicon valley. And the culture these tech companies are promoting is destructive to anyone that follows them, like I said liberals don't have enough children. Even the people liberals import have conservative values.

If you're talking about AI, VR, automation,... I don't see how those will doom us to stay liberal though. Or are you scared about twitter mobs,... that will pressure your employer to fire you if you dare to support traditional points of view?

Anyway, the group that will produce the most offspring will win in the long term.
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Nothing needs to change. This is good news. Most likely the people not getting married shouldn’t be getting married in the first place. Marriage isn’t for everyone and this is coming from someone who is happily married.
post 1604083591 05-04-2020, 03:27 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Truly savage. Didn't you get married 2 or 3 times, though?
twice

got wrecked both times

first one should of lasted a life time but I ****ed it up

second one was just a joke
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I don't believe these stats what the hell. I thought like at least half of people get married?
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Originally Posted By savageoldman
twice

got wrecked both times

first one should of lasted a life time but I ****ed it up

second one was just a joke
How did you fck up your first marriage?
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if they want marriages to go up, maybe change the laws so that men don't get screwed in the divorce, even if the woman cheats and ends it herself.
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Yeah, but that was the idea behind community property anyway; that assets that were built together should be shared if the parties split.
Yeah shared equally if the wife contributes equally. Which in many cases is not the case.
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Originally Posted By blissful88
Unless you *******s stop beta simping(giving money and attention) and start slut shaming again, marriage will continue to decline in the west.

Start being men again.
or slut shame and let marriage continue to decline, on some GTA 5 option C chit.
Originally Posted By NLnemesis
Lol miscers being bitter insecure beta's as always
Im getting maried and living the goat life good luck with your ldar program in your moms basement
good luck with your beta mindset of marrying the girl because you think she'll stay with you forever if you do and having less access to blowjobs and anal sex as the years go by, along with her waistline being on par with Orion's belt everytime you guys go out to dinner?

We're better than this.
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why would any man in this day and age wanna getting married?

we are living in the sloot era where the divorce rate is like 50% and getting worse

i can literally get better odds gambling LOL
LOL brb putting 200 bucks on black but if i lose half of what I OWN doesn't go to the casino, and i don't have to keep paying the casino to afford their lifestyle, aka alimony.


Marriage is such a fcuking bad joke, The Joker doesn't even mention it on TV much lol. And the fcuking bs, delusional ass part is that they're not addressing the elephant in the room, which is that it's a bad gamble for men and they need to Redesign the stipulations of marriage. But instead of saying "Hey 50 percent is fcuking a lot, how about we just let the guy leave with his chit and the woman leave with his chit" as a rule of marriage moreso than a prenup, it's the same tune that will play every year.

"marriage is on the decline, aka Men aren't looking for commitment, aka it's men's fault."

Fcuk it tho let it burn.
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Originally Posted By AgentSkyhawk
good luck with your beta mindset of marrying the girl because you think she'll stay with you forever if you do and having less access to blowjobs and anal sex as the years go by, along with her waistline being on par with Orion's belt everytime you guys go out to dinner?
Shutting this down.

The extreme negativity, mysogany, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.

The reality here is: OP found a woman he loves and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick...

The insane amount of comments degrading women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.

OP has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.


OP. I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found a winner.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Only possible if you take economic power back from women. Men were able to control women and to limit women’s sexual and dating options because women could not work and had to rely on men to survive.

Once women were able to work they started having more sexual and dating freedom. Because being able to provide for themselves gives them the option of being selective with men.
It should be possible for women to have a job and also marry the guy they love and stay loyal, but they rather play the field.
Sloots gonna sloot.

I wonder how those ''yasss girl, you go girl, female empowerment, brave'' women feel like when they're still single and all dried up at age 50.
I bet they'd join the misc and brag about football players as a way of coping lmao.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Only possible if you take economic power back from women. Men were able to control women and to limit women’s sexual and dating options because women could not work and had to rely on men to survive.

Once women were able to work they started having more sexual and dating freedom. Because being able to provide for themselves gives them the option of being selective with men.
i think that has a lot less to do with it than birth control.

women have always had options, but the risk of pregnancy is what makes them more timid and selective. cause that means who she fuks with might make her pregnant

but now she can fuk the bad boy at the restaurant, the pool boy when time is right,etc. - give into those temptations and deal with it later. pop the pill and it's like that decision never mattered

suddenly her pool is massive, suddenly she can use it
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Dont quote Mrabz boyos, he wants to get banned.
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Originally Posted By EmmaW4tson
Dont quote Mrabz boyos, he wants to get banned.
i've been banned for just posting in a thread of this nature, not quoting anything


"you can't bump a bannable thread"

i guess it depends on the mod and the day , cuz it sure as sh didn't happen today to anyone else
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people finally smartening up
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