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10-23-2020, 10:26 AM

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You shouldn't do anything you aren't comfortable with. You've also not been dating that long. This is a tough one. You both have to be on the same page about game changers like this. It's normal to feel a bit of fear and doubt, but if you're certain you really don't want children at this point in your life or ever, you need to communicate that. As difficult as it may be, you also don't want to be stringing her along either. If she has her heart set on having children and is not willing to budge, it might be unfair to keep her around and prevent her from experiencing that in life. As cliche as it sounds, we only have one life to live after all.

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10-23-2020, 12:54 PM

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Congrats on her being level headed about it dude! Went way better than our talk last night lol.

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10-24-2020, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted By Krackerjacked⏩

Congrats on her being level headed about it dude! Went way better than our talk last night lol.

How did the convo go, and how old is she?

Yeah, talking to females is an art where you have to consider approach, tonality, context and everything (I tend to come off as crass to her otherwise).

Originally Posted By Krackerjacked⏩

Similar boat to you but a bit older and was considering making a similar thread so thanks opie. Reps incoming off recharge.
I’m 30 and my wife is pro kids, I was a manwhore from my early 20s until I met her in my late 20s and settled down. Because of that and manlet genes having a kid always scared the ever living chit out of me. Hell an ex hit me up awhile after we stopped seeing each other with pics of a kid claiming it was mine (she’s fukked up) and I felt legitimately nauseous immediately, coworker asked why I was so pale and chit.
Anyway I’m on the maybe someday but still cool with never having kids train and have been thinking about it a lot lately. Problem is I hear many claiming having a kid is the best thing ever, meanwhile those same people will complain about never sleeping and needing a vacation from their kids. My stepmom mentioned chit like that in front of me and I’ll never forget it.

I’d lean towards those saying if you’re unsure definitely wait. You hold the cards in this scenario for sure, don’t get trapped living a life you don’t want to.

gf is a biologist and said height is pretty much entirely dependent of your environment during upbringing (mostly how much nutritious food you get during it). So "manlet genes" is nothing to worry about, and the more decades you go back in time, the shorter everyone was. Step mother sounds like a kunt and I definitely wouldn't let her input affect it.

I do believe people who say its the best thing as you get an entire new "dimension" in life that about 25% of males don't get to experience.

Otherwise I think the scare for a lot of us is about letting go of our identities, egos, feeling of freedom and "youth" as you kind of acknowledge your death and mortality in a way by getting a child. By not having a kid we see grow older by the day its easier to pretend the time doesn't pass lol

10-24-2020, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted By DSTEE⏩

Any input, either from those who have been there, or skipped it, any regrets?

I'm just not feeling it. She said it in bed and I got instantly nauseous. Fun time over.

Both are 26, been together for a year and a half (knew her since high school but we never had any contact). She did say she wanted to get a kid at 27 when we started dating. I got put off and thought meh, but life comes at you fast

My way of thinking is having a kid probably sucks as you get cucked with less freedom and a more passive role in life. Not having descendants at 50 probably sucks too. Am I wrong or do you just have to choose your suck?

dont do it, especially if you dont want to.