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02-16-2021, 02:02 AM
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Originally Posted By CptClean⏩
I will die alone if I don't get a 10/10I don't think most guys want 10's, most guys I know would be happy with pretty much anything at this point and mostly everyone I know completely simps once they get into a relationship.
The problem is everyone jumps so hard headfirst into relationships they set a standard that can not possibly be kept up and as it dies down so does the relationship. I always tell my friends to chill tf out when they first start seeing a girl and blow everything off to be with her and make all these grand gestures because it sets an unsustainable standard. All of the sudden when you want to go out with the boys for a few nights or not buy her something she wants it's a big deal because all she knows from you is this wild commitment. I see it happen in 9/10 relationships.
I set the bar as low as possible off the start so it's either easier to get out if you aren't feeling it or easy to go beyond what you've been doing if you are.
The problem is everyone jumps so hard headfirst into relationships they set a standard that can not possibly be kept up and as it dies down so does the relationship. I always tell my friends to chill tf out when they first start seeing a girl and blow everything off to be with her and make all these grand gestures because it sets an unsustainable standard. All of the sudden when you want to go out with the boys for a few nights or not buy her something she wants it's a big deal because all she knows from you is this wild commitment. I see it happen in 9/10 relationships.
I set the bar as low as possible off the start so it's either easier to get out if you aren't feeling it or easy to go beyond what you've been doing if you are.
02-16-2021, 02:07 AM
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Originally Posted By CptClean⏩
She's had an on again off again bf the entire time. Would probably dump him if I wanted but not going to do that unless I know I'd be serious about it.My problem would be thinking "what's wrong with her that she's just been hanging around for 4 years and not figured something else out"
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02-16-2021, 02:19 AM
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Originally Posted By AgRyan⏩
I feel like I am getting way more conscious of people's time/lives as I get older, I'm 100% straight up with every girl I meet that I am gone constantly for work and it's not going to work if they expect to see me regularly. It's actually kind of cool though because they pretty much all say they're fine with it we have a fun fling and then I leave and it fizzles out with no hard feelings because I was up front about it to begin with.She's had an on again off again bf the entire time. Would probably dump him if I wanted but not going to do that unless I know I'd be serious about it.
Originally Posted By Toker095⏩
I feel somewhat the same just because I dated a dime pro cheerleader for so long I would feel like a fukking loser if I end up with something lesser. Have definitely broke it off with really nice girls attractive girls that did nothing wrong because I feel like they don't match up favorably.I will die alone if I don't get a 10/10
I'm out at sea like 6-9 months a year though so pretty much just have to accept that I'm going to get cheated on if I settle down again so might as well be getting fukked around on by a dime
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02-16-2021, 02:25 AM
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I can imagine it sucks ass for most brahs. Just have to be alpha and get in decent shape so it's much easier. If you act like a beta they'll run away so you have become a brah that doesn't give a fuk about them. Their brains work in strange ways boyo. Of course, being ugly negs everything I just said so...
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Originally Posted By CptClean⏩
Definitely easier to be honest when you get older. I mean it's not just the girl's time that's getting wasted if you're "playing the game" and not being honest about things. Haven't used the work excuse to not be seen much though which is good, I'm still introverted and having to see a girl more than 2 times a week is a bit much for the beginning stages when they want to constantly see you and gotta entertain them before settling in.I feel like I am getting way more conscious of people's time/lives as I get older, I'm 100% straight up with every girl I meet that I am gone constantly for work and it's not going to work if they expect to see me regularly. It's actually kind of cool though because they pretty much all say they're fine with it we have a fun fling and then I leave and it fizzles out with no hard feelings because I was up front about it to begin with.
I feel somewhat the same just because I dated a dime pro cheerleader for so long I would feel like a fukking loser if I end up with something lesser. Have definitely broke it off with really nice girls attractive girls that did nothing wrong because I feel like they don't match up favorably.
I'm out at sea like 6-9 months a year though so pretty much just have to accept that I'm going to get cheated on if I settle down again so might as well be getting fukked around on by a dime
I feel somewhat the same just because I dated a dime pro cheerleader for so long I would feel like a fukking loser if I end up with something lesser. Have definitely broke it off with really nice girls attractive girls that did nothing wrong because I feel like they don't match up favorably.
I'm out at sea like 6-9 months a year though so pretty much just have to accept that I'm going to get cheated on if I settle down again so might as well be getting fukked around on by a dime
Also, dated a pro cheerleader as well for quite awhile and definitely was 10/10 and super cool too. Settling down with less would feel like somehow losing the game or something... but also long term gotta realize personality > *. Eventually I became sick of the 10/10's chit, we fuked so much it was just the same old same old, eyes start to wonder, etc. It happens no matter what. Finding that person to grow old with is hard.
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02-16-2021, 02:36 AM
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Originally Posted By AgRyan⏩
Yeah I would go through periods of time where I was totally bored of fukking her but at least the desire always came back. Would absolutely love to get 1 more round in now still all these years later. This girl was a 10/10 in personality etc. as well but we started dating at 17 took each others virginities there's just too much world to experience to settle down with your first GF for life. Definitely still question my decision to this day though, pretty damn nice going down on a pussy that hasn't had any other dudes loads in it and you only get 1 shot at that.Definitely easier to be honest when you get older. I mean it's not just the girl's time that's getting wasted if you're "playing the game" and not being honest about things. Haven't used the work excuse to not be seen much though which is good, I'm still introverted and having to see a girl more than 2 times a week is a bit much for the beginning stages when they want to constantly see you and gotta entertain them before settling in.
Also, dated a pro cheerleader as well for quite awhile and definitely was 10/10 and super cool too. Settling down with less would feel like somehow losing the game or something... but also long term gotta realize personality > *. Eventually I became sick of the 10/10's chit, we fuked so much it was just the same old same old, eyes start to wonder, etc. It happens no matter what. Finding that person to grow old with is hard.
Also, dated a pro cheerleader as well for quite awhile and definitely was 10/10 and super cool too. Settling down with less would feel like somehow losing the game or something... but also long term gotta realize personality > *. Eventually I became sick of the 10/10's chit, we fuked so much it was just the same old same old, eyes start to wonder, etc. It happens no matter what. Finding that person to grow old with is hard.
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02-16-2021, 02:42 AM
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women are completely ruined my guy
02-16-2021, 03:11 AM
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dont you guys feel like a bit of a cuck marrying a girl that got used as a fleshlight by chad?
02-16-2021, 03:14 AM
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If you're happy, what's the problem? I think the things to consider are when you feel unhappy or lonely. How often does that happen? And the things that are lacking, can you get them from other people in your life? Do you feel you are lacking in intimacy in any way?
02-16-2021, 03:39 AM
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Originally Posted By Darksidi⏩
I have mental health issues that are affecting my happiness - it’s not the lack of a woman in my life.If you're happy, what's the problem? I think the things to consider are when you feel unhappy or lonely. How often does that happen? And the things that are lacking, can you get them from other people in your life? Do you feel you are lacking in intimacy in any way?
Don’t get me wrong - I’d love to have a koalatea woman around to have sex with and do stuff together. But I’d also be pretty happy spending the rest of my days as a bachelor.
The other thing is alot of women want marriage and kids etc. I could get married but given the amount of men who get financially raped 12 inches up the ass with divorce settlements etc (2/3 marriages end in divorce) I’d be hesitant. As for kids, I don’t believe I have the mental faculties to be a good father so it’s not really an option for me
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02-16-2021, 04:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Ironface⏩
If you think so, then you have brain and relationship experience. I'm sure you will keep everything under you control. Just worry less about it and everything will come into your life by itself.I have mental health issues that are affecting my happiness - it’s not the lack of a woman in my life.
Don’t get me wrong - I’d love to have a koalatea woman around to have sex with and do stuff together. But I’d also be pretty happy spending the rest of my days as a bachelor.
The other thing is alot of women want marriage and kids etc. I could get married but given the amount of men who get financially raped 12 inches up the ass with divorce settlements etc (2/3 marriages end in divorce) I’d be hesitant. As for kids, I don’t believe I have the mental faculties to be a good father so it’s not really an option for me
Don’t get me wrong - I’d love to have a koalatea woman around to have sex with and do stuff together. But I’d also be pretty happy spending the rest of my days as a bachelor.
The other thing is alot of women want marriage and kids etc. I could get married but given the amount of men who get financially raped 12 inches up the ass with divorce settlements etc (2/3 marriages end in divorce) I’d be hesitant. As for kids, I don’t believe I have the mental faculties to be a good father so it’s not really an option for me
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02-16-2021, 04:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Darksidi⏩
Thanks brah, would rep but you’re in banned campIf you think so, then you have brain and relationship experience. I'm sure you will keep everything under you control. Just worry less about it and everything will come into your life by itself.
We are not immortals and we all make mistakes sometimes.
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02-16-2021, 04:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Ironface⏩
One of the problems with men today is that they care way too much about crap that doesn't matter. Like that their life will be over if their relationship ends. It's a complete scarcity mentality.When I was younger (before the age of 15) I thought the man’s role in dating was to seek out a woman and it was the woman’s job to hope to be picked and feel lucky if a guy picks her.
In reality it’s the complete opposite. Men put themselves out there like in a job interview and hope some woman will like him enough to go out with him. Most of the time (unless they’re Chad) they get turned down, cheated on, dumped etc and left to lick their wounds.
This hardly ever seems to happen to women. Most divorces are initiated by women and most breakups are initiated by women. Most of the time, they just get “bored”.
So many ways in which the world is different to how I thought it was when I was younger
In reality it’s the complete opposite. Men put themselves out there like in a job interview and hope some woman will like him enough to go out with him. Most of the time (unless they’re Chad) they get turned down, cheated on, dumped etc and left to lick their wounds.
This hardly ever seems to happen to women. Most divorces are initiated by women and most breakups are initiated by women. Most of the time, they just get “bored”.
So many ways in which the world is different to how I thought it was when I was younger
It's because they strive so much to attain a girl that they can have regular sex with and find attractive enough/appealing enough to keep around, not realizing that they don't need that - at all - to be happy. Because for some reason lots of men today have zero idea how to behave in order to attract women in the first place.
Study stoicism and start not caring about women. Still put yourself out there, but assume that women are going to be flakes, idiots and useless. It's way more fun when you really don't care that much and you'll find the less energy you invest in it, the easier it comes. Seriously. It becomes a game after a while, and since you're the one in charge it is fun to play.
02-16-2021, 05:23 AM
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Originally Posted By amenhotepv⏩
no pump and dump case but having a difficult time recognizing my flaws. i´m trying to make a list, maybe i can fix myself.Just what I said about looking at the male influences and role models to watch out for all these guys trying to do the whole pump and dump thing. Other than that, nobody's perfect and nobody is going to live up to someone else's expectations all of the time so I'd look at it from the perspective of making sure you can accept and live with the other persons flaws which also requires you both to be open and honest with each other about your flaws
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02-16-2021, 05:40 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Just pretending this isnt an Indian troll account for a second for the benefit of everyone reading.Can confirm it’s terrible being middle aged and single srs.
Starting to think it’s maybe better to just stay in a bad marriage vs getting divorced and being single.
Starting to think it’s maybe better to just stay in a bad marriage vs getting divorced and being single.
- only goes after young kids who are 6'3" and up who only have big penises and are blonde with blue eyes, no life experience yet have their pick of younger options.
- gets used by said guys who all go into this knowing it's never going to be anything more than temporary fun
- complains about being single, lonely and how difficult it is to connect with someone.
Fake account aside, this is the mentality of many women out there. Dating has gone to chit because most people think they deserve much better than they do, so they fuk around and wait for that unicorn to come.
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Originally Posted By Coal
are you married ? also, do you legit think that nobody deserves better than they have ?Just pretending this isnt an Indian troll account for a second for the benefit of everyone reading.
- only goes after young kids who are 6'3" and up who only have big penises and are blonde with blue eyes, no life experience yet have their pick of younger options.
- gets used by said guys who all go into this knowing it's never going to be anything more than temporary fun
- complains about being single, lonely and how difficult it is to connect with someone.
Fake account aside, this is the mentality of many women out there. Dating has gone to chit because most people think they deserve much better than they do, so they fuk around and wait for that unicorn to come.
- only goes after young kids who are 6'3" and up who only have big penises and are blonde with blue eyes, no life experience yet have their pick of younger options.
- gets used by said guys who all go into this knowing it's never going to be anything more than temporary fun
- complains about being single, lonely and how difficult it is to connect with someone.
Fake account aside, this is the mentality of many women out there. Dating has gone to chit because most people think they deserve much better than they do, so they fuk around and wait for that unicorn to come.
so many times it is about how someone makes you feel, not about how much they earn, how educated they are, how successful or how fit
also stop judging SS, she had a marriage that ended and she is demotivated to date seriously, it´s not easy to get over someone you loved since you were young. I think she will give up on looking at the physical appearance if she would find a man to love her
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02-16-2021, 06:11 AM
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lol @ this thread. 50 year old single women talking about their ideal man like their ship didn't sail decades ago.
02-16-2021, 06:18 AM
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Originally Posted By Ironface⏩
Just lol if you don't think your mindset has anything to do with your success in a job interviewYou are literally insane if you believe this. It doesn’t matter what your “mindset” is - reality is reality.
Do you go into jobs looking to see what it can do for you? Of course. You still need to impress the other party. And more often than not, it’s the employer (in this case, girl) that turns the employee (guy) down, not the other way around.
Do you go into jobs looking to see what it can do for you? Of course. You still need to impress the other party. And more often than not, it’s the employer (in this case, girl) that turns the employee (guy) down, not the other way around.
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02-16-2021, 06:22 AM
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Originally Posted By amenhotepv⏩
Sure it does. But only to an extent.Just lol if you don't think your mindset has anything to do with your success in a job interview
You could have the best mindset in the world and still get turned down
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02-16-2021, 06:25 AM
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That's not what I said. I said the problem out there is people have limitations and instead of fixing them or accepting them and being the type of people they see themselves with, they just stay trash and expect a great person to want to be with them anyway.are you married ? also, do you legit think that nobody deserves better than they have ?
so many times it is about how someone makes you feel, not about how much they earn, how educated they are, how successful or how fit
Except we're talking to a person who comments in every thread that they can only go after 6'3" Chads, blonde hair blue eyes, athlete, penis over 7" but ideally closer to 8". Oh and don't forget they're kids in high school/college.also stop judging SS, she had a marriage that ended and she is demotivated to date seriously, it´s not easy to get over someone you loved since you were young. I think she will give up on looking at the physical appearance if she would find a man to love her
Dude shut the fuk up. Welcome to life. Everyone has been though pain and suffering. Everyone has lost someone. That does not make you above criticism for your statements. I judge this person by the things they say and actions they supposedly do. Just because you're divorced doesn't give you free pass to make stupid decisions and then come and complain in a forum that no good guys want you. Ladies constantly either go for trash bags or men way out of their league and then complain there's no good guys out there.▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ஜ۩۞۩ஜ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬
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Originally Posted By Ironface⏩
I've ****ed up job interviews I was qualified for by being too high when I interviewed. I'm pretty sure it was all mindsetSure it does. But only to an extent.
You could have the best mindset in the world and still get turned down
You could have the best mindset in the world and still get turned down
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02-16-2021, 07:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Coal
I agree with your first statement - you need to better yourself so you can have some standards, being loved by a great partner will not happen simply because you exist. I agree that you need to work on your goals, aspirations, skills, emotional intelligence and appearance so someone who has those values would want to form a couple with you. Correct.That's not what I said. I said the problem out there is people have limitations and instead of fixing them or accepting them and being the type of people they see themselves with, they just stay trash and expect a great person to want to be with them anyway.
Except we're talking to a person who comments in every thread that they can only go after 6'3" Chads, blonde hair blue eyes, athlete, penis over 7" but ideally closer to 8". Oh and don't forget they're kids in high school/college.
Dude shut the fuk up. Welcome to life. Everyone has been though pain and suffering. Everyone has lost someone. That does not make you above criticism for your statements. I judge this person by the things they say and actions they supposedly do. Just because you're divorced doesn't give you free pass to make stupid decisions and then come and complain in a forum that no good guys want you. Ladies constantly either go for trash bags or men way out of their league and then complain there's no good guys out there.
Except we're talking to a person who comments in every thread that they can only go after 6'3" Chads, blonde hair blue eyes, athlete, penis over 7" but ideally closer to 8". Oh and don't forget they're kids in high school/college.
Dude shut the fuk up. Welcome to life. Everyone has been though pain and suffering. Everyone has lost someone. That does not make you above criticism for your statements. I judge this person by the things they say and actions they supposedly do. Just because you're divorced doesn't give you free pass to make stupid decisions and then come and complain in a forum that no good guys want you. Ladies constantly either go for trash bags or men way out of their league and then complain there's no good guys out there.
However, SS goes after college Chads because she no longer believes in love for HERSELF. I never saw her saying that true love does not exist or that good men are nowhere to be found. She only believes that she will not find love for herself given her current situation.
She´s a good person, from what she wrotes here she is kind and she tries to enjoy life as much as possible, she is not really looking to find a marriage partner, she said it herself. So this is the way she enjoys her life, do not invalidate her way of seeing things. Often I see sadness in her post, everybody has pain in his/her life but we get over it differently. Maybe this is making her happy, young attractive chads. She never says it is going to last and she never says that good men are no longer existing for a good marriage or long term relationship.
She just doesn´t want marriage or romantic ltr at the moment, just fun and companionship. At least this is what I understood.
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Being in a happy relationshing > Being single > Being in an unhappy relationship.
Also it's like 1/5 couples will experience some sort of cheating, personally I would never cheat and I'd expect my partner to do the same. I'd rather them tell me than go behind my back. Once a girl cheats, it doesn't matter, I'm out, no questions asked or second chances, done, finito.
Can't live you whole life scared of what could happen, you're just letting life pass you by. I used to get super anxious around women for some reason. 6'3" decently built handsome guy was afraid of women, but it's just how I was. I used to like lose sleep over the thought of getting rejected until one day I just cold approached someone, and got rejected, and it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be, and then I just kept seeing how much further I could go, til the point where I wasn't even worried about getting rejected anymore lol. It builds confidence which then in turn boosts your chances at finding a partner.
I've dated many girls, and the point where one would cheat on you is when you get complacent with the relationship and take them for granted.
Also it's like 1/5 couples will experience some sort of cheating, personally I would never cheat and I'd expect my partner to do the same. I'd rather them tell me than go behind my back. Once a girl cheats, it doesn't matter, I'm out, no questions asked or second chances, done, finito.
Can't live you whole life scared of what could happen, you're just letting life pass you by. I used to get super anxious around women for some reason. 6'3" decently built handsome guy was afraid of women, but it's just how I was. I used to like lose sleep over the thought of getting rejected until one day I just cold approached someone, and got rejected, and it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be, and then I just kept seeing how much further I could go, til the point where I wasn't even worried about getting rejected anymore lol. It builds confidence which then in turn boosts your chances at finding a partner.
I've dated many girls, and the point where one would cheat on you is when you get complacent with the relationship and take them for granted.
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Originally Posted By DoYouEvenNEM⏩
This retarded EvoPsych is still being spouted everywhere and makes no sense. Women werent the selective gender, men were. If women picked the best genes over 90% of the people today would not be the degenerates they are today. Truth is that genetics are extremely complex, even Chad men, Royals, Aristocrats bred children who were decadent, both physically and mentally. What's ****ing people up is dating, in the past women had an interconnected network of knowing who to pair who with, complimentary temperaments and so on, but because the structure of society is so atomized by design to favor a hyper capitalist system coupled with the technological advancements that we have yet to see the effects that play on one's psyche, it becomes hard to connect with a partner.Yet we still have 'tards, obese phuks, etc etc.
So obviously women can't be trusted to do eugenics.
So obviously women can't be trusted to do eugenics.
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