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post 1634222853 03-20-2021, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21
that is really sad to here considering most girls have **** jobs as well. like a secretary making $18/hr wants a fighter pilot lmao
>50% of med school entrants now are female. More women than men getting advanced degrees. Oh and women in 20s and 30s outearning men (soon to be 50s). You can google and verify the last one.

I'd argue that it's men who are doing poorly now.
Originally Posted By Dmoc23
That’s because with older women it isn’t so much about ‘love’ but more so the resources you can give them and how useful you are in maintaining a house and raising a family.

Hence, why we’re saying it’s better to build a relationship younger when the relationship is less transactional
A woman making 70k a year at age 40 or one making 60k a year at age 35 or even 50k at age 25 (with upward mobility) is not necessarily obsessed with finding a guy to provide for her. Again, it doesn't force physical attraction.
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post 1634223523 03-20-2021, 01:34 PM
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Your attitude is the problem.

28-30 I found were my easiest years to date girls in their early/mid 20s. Also my hairline was starting to go but I just buzzed it and forgot about it, didn't seem to be an issue with most girls and that was with mid-20s girls, even less of an issue if you go older.

Settled down at 30 with a girl who was 25.
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Originally Posted By wannabetoughguy
Misc is a sad place nowadays. Mid to late 20s you need to start pursuing ideal women who can help you raise a family. I'm married and get pussy more often then you so called bachelors. Handjobs and BJs when she's on the rag. Two beautiful kids.

That's what life is all about. Plant a tree and raise a family. Leave something in this world. Not miscing day in and out talking about your dick size, how unfair marriage is, feminism, how the future will be, how depressed you are, etc.

Misc is like modern day Japan nothing but a bunch of insecure porn addicts that aren't laying pipe and raising families. I'm sure your dads and grandads already had their partners or children by their late 20s and 30s... Why not you?

Miscing is comfort food for the forever alone and insecure. ****ing guys with 6 packs and pecs talking about how miserable they are, how unfair the world is, how women have so much privilege nowadays, on and on. I suggest miscers start acting like men and stop complaining. Go to family for advice not the miserable ****s on here.
This has nothing to do with having children.

Brb full year of chittin the diaper, sleepless nights, appointments with doctors and baby puking all over you
Brb having to drop your kid off at school every morning, even when you have a day off
Brb the amount of money a kid will cost you age 1-20 is the equivalent of 2 bentleys/ a nice house
Brb no more fwb, ONS or random hook-ups
Brb your kid chit himself again
Brb you play taxi during the weekend to drop your kid off to wherever the phuck he/ she has to be
Brb no more traveling without your kid/ deteriorating wife
Brb your wife comes home and complains about her idiot colleagues at work
Brb your kid comes home crying complaining about his/ her idiot friends who did something wrong
Brb this is your life now

Stop selling that chit to people just to justify why you settled down; there are 2 sides to every story.

I get it, this entire thread is filled with crybabies complaining about how the world is unfair and they deserve better.
But insinuating that having children and settling with a wife is the way to heaven is dead wrong.
Everyone has different ambitions and desires; some people want children and others don't.

Posters like eod8989 & imbored21 just pull others down to their level of worthlessness by promoting their conspiracy theory mindset.
Eradicate all this negative crap and maybe this forum wouldn't be so depressive.
Just imagine one of these 2 starts a family; that would just make things worse.
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post 1634253603 03-20-2021, 10:24 PM
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace
I always saw it as men being desired for their dominance and power, just the opposite of men desiring women for their submissiveness and weakness.

Older men who constantly push themselves will have more money, more charisma, more worldly knowledge, more wisdom, more self confidence, more physical strength, more resources, etc... in the old days it was the older men who were the most accomplished warriors, it wasn't the young 20 year olds.

Nothing has changed.

Older men who keep on pushing and continue to dominate year over year are a force to be reckoned with as compared to younger men. If you took age out of the equation and told a woman to choose purely on the man himself, I'm pretty sure a guy in his early 30s would MOG a younger guy.
Making low to mid 200s puts you in the top 1% if you're under 40 (in your 30s). The probability of that is very low (literally). If it wasn't the other 99% would also do it.
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post 1634254063 03-20-2021, 10:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Lowkick
This has nothing to do with having children.

Brb full year of chittin the diaper, sleepless nights, appointments with doctors and baby puking all over you
Brb having to drop your kid off at school every morning, even when you have a day off
Brb the amount of money a kid will cost you age 1-20 is the equivalent of 2 bentleys/ a nice house
Brb no more fwb, ONS or random hook-ups
Brb your kid chit himself again
Brb you play taxi during the weekend to drop your kid off to wherever the phuck he/ she has to be
Brb no more traveling without your kid/ deteriorating wife
Brb your wife comes home and complains about her idiot colleagues at work
Brb your kid comes home crying complaining about his/ her idiot friends who did something wrong
Brb this is your life now

Stop selling that chit to people just to justify why you settled down; there are 2 sides to every story.

I get it, this entire thread is filled with crybabies complaining about how the world is unfair and they deserve better.
But insinuating that having children and settling with a wife is the way to heaven is dead wrong.
Everyone has different ambitions and desires; some people want children and others don't.

Posters like eod8989 & imbored21 just pull others down to their level of worthlessness by promoting their conspiracy theory mindset.
Eradicate all this negative crap and maybe this forum wouldn't be so depressive.
Just imagine one of these 2 starts a family; that would just make things worse.
I never said it was the way to heaven, but wtf do you think we are put on this earth for bro? To ****ing misc all day and join each other in FA misery lol? No dude.

Lol at different ambitions and desires. Give me some examples. I settled down because I had enough women in my past and I met a keeper. How many ****ing ONS and FWBs does one need? I tapped like 15-20 women before my wife and I'm not yearning for more.

We got plenty of money too. New 4 bedroom home and two new cars. I have two cars to myself. My wife and I are a team. I enjoy supporting my family and taking my little girl to school... I drink and smoke basically whenever I want and get pu$$y more often than you so called bachelors. Not sharing that pu$$y either with other bros or using protection because I'm diking down some random single sloot.

No real man is going to see holding down a family as a burden lol. We're put here to reproduce brother not bitch, worry, and waste away our lives on the misc. 99% of the misc that says they don't want children aren't living the single life they are just butt hurt and insecure.
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post 1634267633 03-21-2021, 06:34 AM
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Originally Posted By wannabetoughguy
No real man is going to see holding down a family as a burden lol. We're put here to reproduce brother not bitch, worry, and waste away our lives on the misc. 99% of the misc that says they don't want children aren't living the single life they are just butt hurt and insecure.
No real man is going to depend on a woman for half his income and to revolve his life around. Those are the men who end up roping after she takes the house and cars and savings and 50 percent of your future earnings for the next 10 years while she turns your marital home into a revolving door for Chads and Tyrones. Good luck with your hope strategy ie hoping she never leaves you.
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post 1634267963 03-21-2021, 06:44 AM
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Originally Posted By wannabetoughguy
Misc is a sad place nowadays. Mid to late 20s you need to start pursuing ideal women who can help you raise a family. I'm married and get pussy more often then you so called bachelors. Handjobs and BJs when she's on the rag. Two beautiful kids.

That's what life is all about. Plant a tree and raise a family. Leave something in this world. Not miscing day in and out talking about your dick size, how unfair marriage is, feminism, how the future will be, how depressed you are, etc.

Misc is like modern day Japan nothing but a bunch of insecure porn addicts that aren't laying pipe and raising families. I'm sure your dads and grandads already had their partners or children by their late 20s and 30s... Why not you?

Miscing is comfort food for the forever alone and insecure. ****ing guys with 6 packs and pecs talking about how miserable they are, how unfair the world is, how women have so much privilege nowadays, on and on. I suggest miscers start acting like men and stop complaining. Go to family for advice not the miserable ****s on here.
How does it feel that your loyal wife is litetally ****ing chads in one nite stands while you give you’re time energy and attention span to her?

Meanwhile she gives her freak sex to chad within 20-30 mins of meeting

Lol pathetic ass beta provider, back to ur wage cage and go change them chit diapers!! Chads gotta job to do

I’m not even trolling or joking. Ur existance is beyond pathetic and your wife has 99.99999% cheated atleast once on you. If not 100%. I’d legit literally bet my life on it

You guliable ass beta bux providers are beyond blind to the game
post 1634268213 03-21-2021, 06:51 AM
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Imagine being proud to clean kids chit and play maid/beta bux providers while you give your time energy and attention span to a girl that’s smashing chads in one night stands

Imagine being proud of that. Lmfao.

Not only that but these dudes working insane hours to beta bux provide and do happy wife happy life. These dudes are as good as trannys. They’re basically castrated males

What runs thru these dudes minds? They’re obviously stuck in fairy tail Disney Delusion land lmao. Nothing will wake them up to reality. Oneitus is like a drug to these people

Not only all of the above but once a dude gets married 99% of the time he gets fat as fuk and ages 20 years from the stress of doing happy wife happy life
post 1634268963 03-21-2021, 07:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Wolfie2021
Another delusional victim of bodybuilding misc brainwashed view of women falsely convinced that every woman would cheat and take own big black dink given chance, or etc, tsk tsk. Humanity, Luckily not all humans are similar to you insectoid.

How stupid one must be to think every woman is the same and every woman will cheat of billions there and billions more to come. Flee little insect.
Every woman has the capacity to cheat. Sorry you think you found a special snowflake. There's only really 2 ways to live your life, protecting yourself or blindly playing the fool.
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post 1634274143 03-21-2021, 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972
No real man is going to depend on a woman for half his income and to revolve his life around. Those are the men who end up roping after she takes the house and cars and savings and 50 percent of your future earnings for the next 10 years while she turns your marital home into a revolving door for Chads and Tyrones. Good luck with your hope strategy ie hoping she never leaves you.
My monthly income is 3x hers. The only men you see roping themselves over marriage or cucking themselves are Anglos which I am not. Lol at hope strategy I'm a man and I lead the household.
Originally Posted By gesten
How does it feel that your loyal wife is litetally ****ing chads in one nite stands while you give you’re time energy and attention span to her?

Meanwhile she gives her freak sex to chad within 20-30 mins of meeting

Lol pathetic ass beta provider, back to ur wage cage and go change them chit diapers!! Chads gotta job to do

I’m not even trolling or joking. Ur existance is beyond pathetic and your wife has 99.99999% cheated atleast once on you. If not 100%. I’d legit literally bet my life on it

You guliable ass beta bux providers are beyond blind to the game
You're saying more about yourself then you are about me.
Originally Posted By gesten
Imagine being proud to clean kids chit and play maid/beta bux providers while you give your time energy and attention span to a girl that’s smashing chads in one night stands

Imagine being proud of that. Lmfao.

Not only that but these dudes working insane hours to beta bux provide and do happy wife happy life. These dudes are as good as trannys. They’re basically castrated males

What runs thru these dudes minds? They’re obviously stuck in fairy tail Disney Delusion land lmao. Nothing will wake them up to reality. Oneitus is like a drug to these people

Not only all of the above but once a dude gets married 99% of the time he gets fat as fuk and ages 20 years from the stress of doing happy wife happy life
Lol at you editing this gutter response. Your parents are hoping you can find a women and produce a family, but you're proving yourself to be a ***got.
Facts brother not making up **** like you. Levels in this life bud stay on the sidelines.
Originally Posted By Wolfie2021
You get "more" pussy which means you get the puss y from the woman your are married only or chasing randoms, It did not sounded convincing. Yea I agree misc is toxic and bs place, these people just talk. I am getting married this year ,Age 31. Covid messed up things ,could have been last year. As for finding "ideal" woman, you really have no choice or luck sometimes its not wise to settle in with just any woman at all. 5 years more or less you are better of to be patient than regretting later on.
Not wise to settle in with a women, but you're getting married this year? You make zero sense.

I get pussy more often no way around that.
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post 1634274443 03-21-2021, 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972
Every woman has the capacity to cheat. Sorry you think you found a special snowflake. There's only really 2 ways to live your life, protecting yourself or blindly playing the fool.
This is the same idiot that mentioned a hope strategy for marriage. Wtf is that? Shocking how big of a pussy you are muscle man. Believe it or not lol, it's possible to be married and have a strong enough bond that temptation won't destroy.

Some men worry about the worst that could happen and others live their life.
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post 1634275383 03-21-2021, 09:31 AM
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If you're smart and work hard in your 20s, you get to enjoy 30+

Complaining about your situation isn’t going to make it better. Find ways to constantly improve your situation while you’re still young
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Originally Posted By jackedup13
If you're smart and work hard in your 20s, you get to enjoy 30+

Complaining about your situation isn’t going to make it better. Find ways to constantly improve your situation while you’re still young
explain? how am i supposed to enjoy my 30s? money? i can already buy everything i want :/
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Originally Posted By imbored21
explain? how am i supposed to enjoy my 30s? money? i can already buy everything i want :/
You said in the op you want a loving life to spend the rest of your life with. Nobody is going to love you if you don't love yourself bud. I was at a low point two years before i met my wife, but in those two years I got better.

Misc is like crabs in a bucket. I can't stand people speaking ill of marriage that haven't been married themselves. Tune that **** out.
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post 1634277573 03-21-2021, 10:13 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
Sorry to hear that

This might seem ignorant, but may I ask why you won't have a child? Is it the stress of the treatment, finances, lack of external support, risk...
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Nope. Dating in 2021 is a lemon whose juice isn’t worth the squeeze

I’m open to it but don’t pursue it anymore and am content to spend the rest of my days as a bachelor
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Originally Posted By Ironface
Nope. Dating in 2021 is a lemon whose juice isn’t worth the squeeze

I’m open to it but don’t pursue it anymore and am content to spend the rest of my days as a bachelor
How so? Explain through your own experiences why dating is no longer worth it.
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post 1634288493 03-21-2021, 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironface
Nope. Dating in 2021 is a lemon whose juice isn’t worth the squeeze

I’m open to it but don’t pursue it anymore and am content to spend the rest of my days as a bachelor
youll be able to retire earlier on the bright side
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Nope not stressed at all.

Got girls when I barely had anything together throughout my 20's and making every single mistake in the book. I'm talking both with woman and with life in general.

Purposely shaved for a year and did not hamper my ability to pull at all.

I'm actually glad that I did not end up with whatever serious options I had then. I always had a feeling in my head that I would've been settling. I'm at my mental peak, my social peak, financially have my sh** together, and not too far from my physical peak. Saw a picture from me 10 years ago recently and the main difference is really increased facial hair with none of it graying out.

I love it to be honest. I feel a lot of dudes settle down way too early (although this varies per case), but that's really none of my business.
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