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6-9 times per week with my rotation girls.

Couple times a month with hot young strippers.

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Pretty much daily. It's unusual when we don't fukk. Both 42yrs old and in great shape. Easily look 10-15 years younger than we are. Been together 18 years, married for almost 11. 7 yr old kid.
Relationship is great. Sex drive for both of us is super high. Marriage and sex life doesn't have to sucj, just don't marry a dumb sloot and make sure you are really compatible in most areas and have similar life goals before you tie the knot
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I’m sorry for you Op I truly am. You seem like a good dude.

That being said any dude getting married in today’s day royally fukd up. You guys wanna risk half your shyt and thinking you’ll be part or the 30% that stay wife’d up in a loving sex filled marriage for 50 years go for it.

To each their own.

But when it goes this way like OP don’t say we didn’t warn you.

And before anyone thinks I’m bashing OP I’m really not. I want him to salvage this. I want him to turn it around and be banging like rabbits again.

Unfortunately we know how this ends. And deep down OP knows as well.

Good luck brah
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~3 times per week.

Sometimes more and sometimes less, mostly because we both work full time and I have an odd schedule. I’m a shift worker so I’m not even home every night.

We also have young kids so it’s not always possible to have sex whenever we want to. We typically find a way to get it done, but sometimes it’s just not feasible.

We are both very cognizant of the fact that a marriage suffers when there’s not enough sex happening, so we’ll make sure to carve out time for it when our work schedules/kids get in the way.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Not sure if srs
Please don’t quote me bro.

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Made the mistake of marrying someone with a much lower sex drive than me. It's one of the reasons I'm divorced now.

Used to be I could have sex daily, if not twice a day, was horny as hell all the time. Now that I'm older the libido has definitely slowed down. Also, routine and stress gets in the way with things like kids. In my last LTR we had sex over 300 times in the first year (and didn't live together), but once we moved in things got stale and she got fatter so there was zero attraction from my end.

Now with my girlfriends if they spend the night we will go at it at least twice, one at night and once in the morning, but then I'm good for a couple of days if they aren't around. I'm too busy to worry about sex, especially when I know I can get it whenever I really want to. Have a couple of girls I can literally text and drive to their place for sex that evening.
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Originally Posted By wrastler163
used to plow multiple times a day at worst, 4 times per week...now averaging 2 times/week. And i'm going crazy wanting to plow everything in site. Is this normal?

Told her I think our sex live can be improved,and she ensures me everythings fine...
Strong response.
What the misc said ab marriage is true.

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Originally Posted By wrastler163
yeah and i guess according to this thread its normal, but for me it's still sad.

I miss the spontaneity of casual sex - no degen. Just wondering what's next. I wake up and know my girl isn't gonna jerk and suck me and make me pound her. I complain about not having sex and she casually reminds me its not as bad as i seem (i think its 1x/week and she informs me its 2x/week and thats normal)
Sheesh I’m 28, and if you’re 29 and married and this is how it’s going, you got a long road bro.

Feels bad for you OP. Srs
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Originally Posted By Adnim
I believe the gist of the process of how to fix this, is that you start subtly and slowly making yourself more attractive to women (go back to gym if you haven't been lifting, eat healthier, a new shirt or pair of pants here and there), but do not under any circumstances overtly suggest that you may cheat on her or leave her. You just act like everything is normal and fine in your marriage, while you are making yourself more attractive.
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Originally Posted By Peacening
A couple times per month srs

We aren't the most sexually compatible couple but killing it outside of that so it's kind of just a sacrifice I've made and I have no issues with it.
That sounds more like a business arrangement. That's too much jerking off for a marriage - unless your drive is low then I guess you have an ideal situation.
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Originally Posted By Adnim
This. Quite frankly, women only put out when they feel competition (aka dread losing you to a more attractive woman). Married brahs need to get some advice from Rollo Tomassi on this. If sex has decreased over the course of the relationship, it means you've slacked off in some way. The alpha you came across as at the beginning has slowly softened into a more beta male. (Of course, it's damn difficult to make a woman fear losing you when you've already put her name legally on everything you own. At a certain point, she knows she's set for life no matter what happens, so doesn't care about pleasing you anymore.) Please don't tell me you're "helping with the laundry and chores around the house". Watching a man do women's work dries them up quick af.

I believe the gist of the process of how to fix this, is that you start subtly and slowly making yourself more attractive to women (go back to gym if you haven't been lifting, eat healthier, a new shirt or pair of pants here and there), but do not under any circumstances overtly suggest that you may cheat on her or leave her. You just act like everything is normal and fine in your marriage, while you are making yourself more attractive.


When women decide to monkey branch up, this is exactly what they do. And the chump they're with thinks in his head, "gee she finally came around and is making herself look better for me!" In reality, she's making herself attractive for thenextman.
However, when a man starts making himself more attractive, the woman instinctively knows it isn't for her. She immediately suspects you're doing it for other women. So you can be very subtle about it.
Good luck if she's got you by the balls with alimony and child support.

Meanwhile she can sloot at any time and cash that check no strings attached. All you can do is simp it up and try to keep her happy so she doesn't steal half your chit and 75% of your future earnings.

Good luck with that mess.
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Originally Posted By wrastler163
yeah and i guess according to this thread its normal, but for me it's still sad.

I miss the spontaneity of casual sex - no degen. Just wondering what's next. I wake up and know my girl isn't gonna jerk and suck me and make me pound her. I complain about not having sex and she casually reminds me its not as bad as i seem (i think its 1x/week and she informs me its 2x/week and thats normal)
Brah, you're 29. I don't say this lightly but: Leave her. Ded fkn srs.

It's going to get worse as time goes on.

Dated a similar woman for 5 years and it became agonizing. She told me the same "it's not that bad. once a week is normal" bullchit. You end up hating them. srs. Leaving her was the best decision of my life. Do yourself a favor and nope nope nope out of there.
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Have a co-worker. (good looking dude) no homo. This guy brags to us about "getting head" or "getting laid"... He is married....Has been for 6 years. How pitiful..

Everytime he brags about his wife doing sexual acts on him, makes me never want to be married.

My ex and I used to wake up every night at a random time having sex... I never really knew or remembered how it started, but according to her, I would always start rubbing her clit in the middle of the night while I was asleep, and this in turn would wake her the fuk up and she would instantly climb on top, waking me up in the process and we would fuk until I came. This happened nearly every single night for 4 years. She would also wake me up to head 3x a week.

Sometimes we would fuk soo many times a day, that we didn't really have the energy to fuk anymore, so she would sit in front of me with her legs spread and rub her clit so I could jerk off while watching her.

We aren't together anymore, so no midnight random sex everynight, but we still fuk regularly.

I have no doubt that if we had ever gone through with the engagement, most of the above acts would have probably ended, or at the minimum, happened to a much lesser extent.

Fuk marriage man ded srs.
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Originally Posted By LexBrah
My Mrs changed birth control and it fukin rektd her libido and turned her into a complete kunt. Then she switched over to the copper coil (no hormones) and it was like a ****ing light switch after 3 months. Completely different person, WAY nicer, HUGELY increased libido. Everything was better.

But then she started getting like stomach pains cos of the coil, so went back on a different pill and it started going similar to before, so now we're just using rubbers. It's not so bad. Reminds me of being youthful again tbh.. Not sure wat to do long term tho. Will probs just pop out a kid or two and have a vasectomy or something.

And sex wise, when we first started dating was multiple times a day. Then it changed completely depending on what were upto in life / stresses etc. Usually like 4-5 x a week at least. Sometimes daily. Sometimes 1-2x a week.
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Originally Posted By wrastler163
yea, guess i could elaborate, wake up rock hard and have a burning desire to plow
That's too bad.

My friend's wife was saying he can do whatever he wants with her, even when she doesn't want it. Idk if that's changed since, probably not since they have 4 kids now.
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Same amount of time as before we were married which is 5/7 nights a week im sure
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Enjoy that 2 times per week because it'll soon be 2 times a month then.... it's really over for you boyo


My thoughts regarding relationships is that living together kills a lot of the love/lust. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" is the truth. I only see my girls once or maybe twice a week and when they come over, we suck and fuk like there's no tomorrow. Will never live with a female for this reason alone SRS.

Also, idk why any dude would date or marry girls who don't legit love sucking daddy's big cock. Unless you're a beta who doesn't want a lot of orgasms in your life.
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Originally Posted By wrastler163
used to plow multiple times a day at worst, 4 times per week...now averaging 2 times/week. And i'm going crazy wanting to plow everything in site. Is this normal?

Told her I think our sex live can be improved, and she ensures me everythings fine...
Eh you go through ups and downs through marriage. Schedules, work, kids, stress, hormones etc all these things affect your sex life.

Me and my wife have sex several times a week, sometimes everyday, sometimes a few times a month, it all varies.

Main thing is making sure each others needs are met and y’all are communicating. I know what she likes and she knows what I like.

Sometimes I don’t want sex I just wanna fuk her titties and she lets me. Sometimes she doesn’t wanna fuk but just wants to 69. Just communicate and be open and realize that things change constantly in a relationship.

Also if it’s getting bland go get some toys or lingerie for her, whatever will spice it up, have sex behind walmart in your car idk.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
In the other thread you said you would remarry if you found the right girl.

So if you did remarry would you be loyal?
The right girl is a pipe dream, a unicorn.

But I've never had a problem being monogamous with the wrong women in the past. I don't think I'd have any problem being monogamous if I actually did catch a unicorn one day. My standards are so high now though I don't think I'll ever need to worry about it.
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Once a week for me, wife would like it more but it has taken a backseat for me.
Guess the excitement wore off in my eyes and life took priority.
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Originally Posted By Tanerian
Been with my wife 15 years. We have sex like once a week when our 4yr old isn't a awful little cok block, at least on average. Sometimes we'll fuk like 3 times in a week, sometimes we'll go 3 weeks before we get around to it, but on average, still about once a week.

Plenty for me at this point in my life.
Kids definitely change things, but it's not all bad. My quantity of sex did not improve with kids, however, the quality greatly improved. Idk if it's just maturity or what but we are doing **** now we never did prior to having kids and it's hot as ****.
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Originally Posted By wrastler163
i try, she doesnt want it...granted we just had our 2nd child, but still its a rough reality
Weren't you the dude with the terrible mother in law too.

Are you LARPing a bad marriage on the misc?
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Originally Posted By lockdev
Brah, you're 29. I don't say this lightly but: Leave her. Ded fkn srs.

It's going to get worse as time goes on.

Dated a similar woman for 5 years and it became agonizing. She told me the same "it's not that bad. once a week is normal" bullchit. You end up hating them. srs. Leaving her was the best decision of my life. Do yourself a favor and nope nope nope out of there.
This is solid advice
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Originally Posted By Devin459
Have a co-worker. (good looking dude) no homo. This guy brags to us about "getting head" or "getting laid"... He is married....Has been for 6 years. How pitiful..

Everytime he brags about his wife doing sexual acts on him, makes me never want to be married.

My ex and I used to wake up every night at a random time having sex... I never really knew or remembered how it started, but according to her, I would always start rubbing her clit in the middle of the night while I was asleep, and this in turn would wake her the fuk up and she would instantly climb on top, waking me up in the process and we would fuk until I came. This happened nearly every single night for 4 years. She would also wake me up to head 3x a week.

Sometimes we would fuk soo many times a day, that we didn't really have the energy to fuk anymore, so she would sit in front of me with her legs spread and rub her clit so I could jerk off while watching her.

We aren't together anymore, so no midnight random sex everynight, but we still fuk regularly.

I have no doubt that if we had ever gone through with the engagement, most of the above acts would have probably ended, or at the minimum, happened to a much lesser extent.

Fuk marriage man ded srs.
Your co worker is an absolute ****ing loser. I met some
Of these clowns in my environment. They are ducking pathetic
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