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Thread: How to handle (like an adult) dude from gym making my wife uncomfortable SRS

post 1657562173 03-08-2022, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky⏩
it is 100% the woman's responsibility to shut down horny guys. the guy shouldn't even be intervening. if he does, then he is insecure and starting confrontations to look like a tough guy.
No. It is whatever my wife and I agree on.
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post 1657562273 03-08-2022, 11:59 AM
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She is 100% loving the attention and only spinning it to OP in case someone sees them canoodling when he’s not around and tells him
post 1657562323 03-08-2022, 11:59 AM
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she already banged him brah
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post 1657562413 03-08-2022, 12:00 PM
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I agree it's on her to tell him off. She's let it go too far, thinking nothing of it and that he was just being friendly, but now he's just being overbearing/blind to the fact that she doesn't give a chit.

She's told him she married, and she asks how his wife/kids are doing every time they talk to which he blows off quickly. I really see no harm in him just talking to her, but now he's just not even picking up on her being short/uninvolved when he talks and not realizing that only he makes the effort.

We took 10 days off from the gym and the first day back....yesterday is when he asked for her IG. Said he was all awkward and mumbling and she couldn't hear him so she aggressively ripped off her head phones and loudly said "What are you saying?!" The dude has no awareness, she wears over the ear headphones and he still goes up to her. She said he just stood next to her for like 20 seconds while she was finishing a set before he just started talking right next to her. Said last time she was in Kroger, she saw him and went down a different isle to avoid him and before she got to the end, he was coming around in front of her.

The dude is weasley, he's a scrawny guy, maybe 5'10 who's on his phone most of the time in the gym and does all bodyweight chit. He talks to other girls/people in the gym but clearly only my wife when I'm not there, probably does it to other girls I just don't notice.

I've even told her, maybe he's just in sales and has that type of personality and she just says "yea but he's just creepy and I'm awkward and I don't like it."

At first I was like, hey good for you, gettin hit on and chit and I literally didn't and still don't really care or feel threatened by it, but she's been too nice and is now legit uncomfortable.
post 1657562723 03-08-2022, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
I agree it's on her to tell him off. She's let it go too far, thinking nothing of it and that he was just being friendly, but now he's just being overbearing/blind to the fact that she doesn't give a chit.

She's told him she married, and she asks how his wife/kids are doing every time they talk to which he blows off quickly. I really see no harm in him just talking to her, but now he's just not even picking up on her being short/uninvolved when he talks and not realizing that only he makes the effort.

We took 10 days off from the gym and the first day back....yesterday is when he asked for her IG. Said he was all awkward and mumbling and she couldn't hear him so she aggressively ripped off her head phones and loudly said "What are you saying?!"

The dude is weasley, he's a scrawny guy, maybe 5'10 who's on his phone most of the time in the gym and does all bodyweight chit. He talks to other girls/people in the gym but clearly only my wife when I'm not there, probably does it to other girls I just don't notice.

I've even told her, maybe he's just in sales and has that type of personality and she just says "yea but he's just creepy and I'm awkward and I don't like it."

At first I was like, hey good for you, gettin hit on and chit and I literally didn't and still don't really care or feel threatened by it, but she's been too nice and is now legit uncomfortable.
Hey bro, some assertiveness training would probably suit you well.

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post 1657562853 03-08-2022, 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky⏩
anything is possible, but i think it's unlikely he would sabotage his job to get laid. salespeople regularly follow-up with people who show interest in their products, this is standard stuff in the industry.

it's an overreaction to get angry and tell the guy to fukk off for doing his job.
Nah you would be surprised. I know a miscer or two in the past said they used their job as salespeople for gym memberships to try and get in with women. Another miscer said he had some saleswoman for a gym come to his house once for a consultation which included his penis in her mouth. It does happen very often; nobody really values a sales job for a fitness center well enough to give a fuk about sabotaging it, I'd say
post 1657562903 03-08-2022, 12:08 PM
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Maybe there's a bigger problem that he knows when she's at the grocery store.
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post 1657562983 03-08-2022, 12:09 PM
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post 1657563073 03-08-2022, 12:10 PM
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post 1657563093 03-08-2022, 12:10 PM
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Originally Posted By jamalfudge⏩
Maybe there's a bigger problem that he knows when she's at the grocery store.
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post 1657563303 03-08-2022, 12:13 PM
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Originally Posted By jamalfudge⏩
Maybe there's a bigger problem that he knows when she's at the grocery store.
Gym and Kroger are in the same Plaza.....literally a 45 second walk from door to door. He usually sees her on the days she hits up Kroger after the gym. Most of the time we go together, but on the days we don't he magically appears. The time's we've seen him there he acts like we don't even exist.

I've even given him the "hey we work out at the same gym but I don't know you, but I see you 3x/week" nod and he doesn't even look at me.
post 1657563443 03-08-2022, 12:15 PM
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post 1657563663 03-08-2022, 12:18 PM
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Is there anything more infuriating than trying to explain to a hot girl that every guy that talks to her is looking to fuk? Had to have these conversations with a few FWB. "He is my friend!" "He just wanted coffee" "SO what we snap chat every few hours every day, he has a cute dog!". If chicks above 6/10 had to swap the amount of sexual attention with a 6/10 guy they would probably all be on anti depressants and rope sales would go to the moon. Now when you find one that understands the game and exploits it while also being loyal to you, now that's a good time with some brootal red pill lessons.

After this all works out make an effort to mog him at the gym any way you can. He will be too ashamed to call you out for it, enjoy that time.
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post 1657563703 03-08-2022, 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
Gym and Kroger are in the same Plaza.....literally a 45 second walk from door to door. He usually sees her on the days she hits up Kroger after the gym. Most of the time we go together, but on the days we don't he magically appears. The time's we've seen him there he acts like we don't even exist.

I've even given him the "hey we work out at the same gym but I don't know you, but I see you 3x/week" nod and he doesn't even look at me.
Your wife is being stalked and/or fukked by Gymbro. Do something about it or enjoy sloppy seconds for the rest of your life.
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post 1657563753 03-08-2022, 12:19 PM
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Is there another gym close by?
post 1657563833 03-08-2022, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted By YUL⏩
Do you or your wife wear black wedding rings or have clothing with pineapples on it?
Nope.
Originally Posted By brappbrah⏩
One or both of the men in this story are manlets
Again...He's probably 5'10 160.

I'm 6'6" 255.
post 1657563903 03-08-2022, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
I'm 6'6" 255.
This makes it worse. 6'6" 255 and you are letting a 5'10" manlet disrespect you.
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post 1657563983 03-08-2022, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
Again...He's probably 5'10 160.

I'm 6'6" 255.
Yall go to the gym together. Walk by the guy, have your wife give you a big kiss right in front of him, then walk over and pat him on the head and say "thats life, son".
post 1657564013 03-08-2022, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Retoaded⏩
Is there another gym close by?
Planet Fitness and there's another one being built on the other side of town.....a big name came in and bought out the other 2 gyms, closed them down and are building a HUGE one.
post 1657564043 03-08-2022, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
Again...He's probably 5'10 160.

I'm 6'6" 255.
You're a big guy that probably grew up too nice to appear "normal" and fit in with regular people. It's time to own up to that size when it's needed, bud.
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post 1657564153 03-08-2022, 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
Nope.



Again...He's probably 5'10 160.

I'm 6'6" 255.
You’re scared to confront someone literally half your size? He’ll probably switch gyms if you told him to quit talking to your wife
post 1657564313 03-08-2022, 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Retoaded⏩
Yall go to the gym together. Walk by the guy, have your wife give you a big kiss right in front of him, then walk over and pat him on the head and say "thats life, son".
Greeted with a kiss every time I walk in after her.....might just make direct eye contact with him next time as I kiss her, give her a little ass grab too then wink at him.
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-dude makes wife uncomfortable
-"I didn't know what to do so I gave him my IG"

bruh.

Divorce now.
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Originally Posted By AshWar⏩
You’re scared to confront someone literally half your size? He’ll probably switch gyms if you told him to quit talking to your wife
If I was his size, i'd get about 2-3 feet from the guys face, say "STOP". Problem solved.
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I’d say take it as a compliment if your wife hadn’t mentioned discomfort.
Any felonies will make me lose my job so I’d start giving him the head nod and say what up bro in passing.
Does he approach her if you’re in separate area? Introduce yourself “yeah I saw you added her on IG, y’all friends? I’m OP, nice to meet you.”
Have they had friendly conversation? Maybe she’s the only person he knows there. With that being said, he shouldn’t have asked for her IG if he knew she had you but I wouldn’t turn it into anything unless he is standoffish toward you

If it doesn’t go smooth I’d just approach him later and say “I see y’all talking sometimes and she mentioned that you requested her on IG- I just thought it would be a good time to introduce myself. Do you come here often?”
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I understand not wanting to be confrontational but there are ways to shoot someone down without being rude. All she really had to do was say she's married and then not make eye contact with him. She could also say she's in a hurry to finish her workout and blow him off that way. In response to someone asking for an ig/social media I'd say I'm sorry, I'm married and I don't give that out. Basically she should bring up the I'm married/my husband stuff often and not give him the time of day. I'm sure that would deter him.
This!!

Whats so hard about that?

Op what she needs to do is first not accept the request and she does not need to give an explanation. SHE needs to start doing what above poster said!

Now if this guy still is making her feel uncomfortable or wont leave her alone thats when you step in as THE HUSBAND.

I honestly believe your wife just didnt know what to do in an awkward situation like that. She probably was nervous. If he continues you have every right to press charges. Dont go to assaulting him because hell be free and youll be in the slammer.
post 1657564673 03-08-2022, 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
Greeted with a kiss every time I walk in after her.....might just make direct eye contact with him next time as I kiss her, give her a little ass grab too then wink at him.
Why are you so scared/reluctant to verbally communicate with this guy DIRECTLY? Why all the passive aggressive games?
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How do you keep seeing this guy in Kroger, does he work there or something?
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Imagine wifing up a woman who has IG. It was already over before it started. Islam is right about wimmin. Also ur wife is prolly dressed up in tight spandex/sloot clothing in the gym. Also deez hoes ain't loyal. You'd be certain that she'll suck a dick here or there since it's 2022 and cheating is empowering and encouraged in media/hollywood.

srs

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